Depression: It’s our fault.

As you all know my marriage has come to an end and the Number One contributing factor in this happening is that dirty fuckin word Depression.
In the almost 4 years I’ve been writing this stuff out the number of people who come to me suffering from one form of depression or another has risen exponentially.
I’m talking it was one in 1000 before, but now it’s more like one in 3.

Depression is a pandemic sweeping across the world and we have no one to blame but ourselves.
Why? Because we now live in a world where emotions are bad and being lazy and no longer self motivated to do anything ourselves, we run to Doctors and Governments to do something about it.

No one allows themselves to cry any more, or be angry or hurt.
People, we were given emotions for a reason. They are our release valve. They dump all the toxins in our emotions and psyche and heal us.
But with Fluoride and Artificial Sweeteners, Sugar, Antibiotic filled meats and dairy, the low fat bullshit stripping our brains of the healthy fats we need to coat it and now the medications we take in bucket loads willingly, we have depression when the smallest thing happens.
I bet you no one will have depression when the Cleansing hits and we are all having to fight for tins in the Supermarket lol

Get off your asses and take your Blob Damn life back.
We have an entire Universe full of Conscious love and light out there desperate to teach us the ways of the Universe.
All our loved ones throughout the course of our Evolutionary creation are begging us to listen to what they have to say and what do we do?
We eat cake and watch the Fucking Kardashians.

Also this ‘Labels’ bull shit and the Moral Brigade, these pain in the ass ‘Black Lives matter’ trouble makers and ‘Feminists’ etc…the governments orchestrate these little pockets of sub division so we will run to them to fix it.
Well guess what people? You get the Government you deserve.

They’re coming, and they are bringing tanks and Thought Police. So now you can’t be angry that some cops are out of control because your a Terrorist and if you say anything bad your a Terrorist and threat to the nation you live in.
Even though freedom of speech and expression are in the front of all great nations Declarations or Constitutions.

Remember when we were kids, things were so much less complicated when shit happened.
They are allowed to cry and have tantrums but when your an adult you suddenly need to focus on working and going to University and pay taxes that aren’t even legal.
We hand ourselves over to the Matrix and then wonder why we are unhappy and our souls are crying out for us to be FREE!!!!

People, please, I beg you, STOP allowing yourself the right to have a fuckin emotion. Life is shit sometimes. Its supposed to teach you the lessons YOU asked for before you came here to be you.

We are incredible Vessels of love and light and only a few of us (Empaths) understand this needs to just cry or be worried or whatever.

We have ALL had to rise above shit that when it’s over we have unclenched our butts and breathed a sigh of relief. But life’s issues aren’t the hurdles we think they are. They are stepping stones not hurdles. We place each stone there ourselves.
WE are the masters of our destiny, no God or Deity. US, we are one consciousness. We are ALL one. We are symbiotic and connected by the light in the Universe. This is why we don’t know what is beyond the edge of space because we haven’t finished creating it yet. I’ve seen it. I know how t works. I can step outside all time and see the light and why and how it works because my brian (yes I know I said Brian, watch the animated movie Igor, I LOVE that movie, it is so sweet and I feel like I’m the monster) releases its own DMT it seems without the need for the drug. We all can but mine is just obvious lol

We are ALL supposed to be like me. The way I deal with stress, the way I understand the Universe, the way I leave all the big stuff to fate, my gift is nothing if we are all like it and if everyone was more like me in terms of this gift stuff depression wouldn’t exist.
Anyone can be like me if the want is there to put in the years of dedication and training.

This year should of been the worst of my life. So much has changed. My heart has been broken more times this year than any other in my life and you know how bad my life has been.
Yet I’m the happiest I have EVER been in my entirety of life here as Debbie.
Since I gave over to the fear and allowed myself to focus on following my compass, get it. What I am, what I need to be, what I need to do etc…..to be happy. I found pure light.

And boy am I getting happy. I see only light now. I’m surrounding by spirits hundreds deep, I have the most incredible job. Oh My Blob, my readings I actually enjoy them now because I’m helping those who want direction not answers. So it spreads positivity and hope. Where as before I was always worried I was letting people down. My fear of letting people down made me nervous.

I’m teaching thee most incredibly loyal, gifted, loving students. They all tell me how they followed their gut to find me. (They followed their compass) and of my senior students I can honestly say I have found my family.
Even when I’ve had to go Dark to teach certain lessons these last few days they ALL understand why it had to be done and never judged me and in fact by having their support and permission it illuminated many truths and brought certain people to the light who should never have found it in the first place.

My sons are so clever and funny. They are bat shit crazy like their parents but they are individuals and happy even with all this going on with Mr Ex.
But they embrace my crazy and now my 7 year old is in to Physics. Even has theories of his own we like to discuss.

Mr Ex and I? We are the best of friends and will continue to love and support each other through out all of time. All divorces should be like ours. I’m taking nothing but what is mine, and he will help me with the boys without lawyers getting involved. No drama, just healing.

Everything in life has an opposite, for balance. Without perfect balance nothing can evolve. Left/Right, Up/Down, Light/Dark, Yes/No, Good smells/Bad smells, Love/Hate, Day/Night, Sleep/Wake, Run/Walk, Laugh/Cry etc…..you name it, it will have an opposite. So you have to know that when your depressed because your marriage is over, the good times WILL come. It has to. It’s Universal law of balance. But what is happening with us on earth is there are so many of you suffering from some form of emotional or Spirit blockage that we are now tipping the balance the wrong way. We either go up the ladder to light which is evolution and all knowledge, all time, all creation, everything, or we tip it the other way to dark and de evoling or nothingness. Which everything in the Universe including the dark are trying to avoid.
Nothing wants to go down the wrong part of the Black Hole. I call it The Tornado Effect.

By us not doing anything about our situations we head further and further into the black hole (metaphoric black hole of life I mean this time not the actual black hole like I meant last time).

So how to beat depression?
Honestly? Grow up. Embrace the suck, admit your dramas, get off our medication, stop trying to pass the responsibility for your bad decisions onto other people, own your problems, take responsibility and get off processed garbage. Sugar and Fluoride, MSG, SLF, Sweeteners, all that shit is killing our brains, turn off your Blob Damn TVS and read a book, go for a walk, stop being fed the lies that your not good enough. Do what makes you happy and fuck every body else. You will give love and support where you earn it. Give respect where you get it, love with all of your heart, do what you love and love what you do. Stop working jobs you hate and follow your dream. It’s better to try and be happy than fail at being happy?
Know that you chose this life for the very lessons your running away from. So face them head on.
You ask for this life. The reason your so miserable is your Third self or Highest Self knows it is here to have the Human Experience and by you fighting your compass trying to point north your denying yourself the experience you sent yourself down here to learn.

If you are living a life where you wish you were doing something else then your pointing your dial away from North. Over time that wears heavy on the dial. Now imagine your intuition is the dial and the decisions you make the magnetic force pulling that dial to North. So like a magnets polarity pushing when your put two magnets against each other, your pushing your Soul away from where it was set to be all along.

So everything you do, every thought, every action, every decision, every plan has it’s opposite response. So if you make a positive decision, a positive plan, do something there is also the alternative to it out there. The potential of what could be if you make the wrong decision.
Your gut, your intuition is your compass and no one listens to it but me lol
I’m the only idiot brave enough to listen to every gut feeling and thought BUT I’ve lost 200lbs and found the love of loves because of it. I have an incredible career now and a book coming out and I’m fighting the fight to get to New England (well that area). I’m happier than I’ve ever been and at 43 I now have a 25yr old in love with me hahahahaha (I KNOOOOW RIIIIIGHT?) lol
Bless him the silly boy lol

But I did ALL the things my compass told me to do and my life has changed so dramatically I now welcome the bad shit that happens because the Universal law of Balance dictates that what turns to shit also turns to roses 🙂
That’s why you enjoy the positives in life because it can change in an instant but it’s AAAALLLL based on what you do with what happens next that decides what happens next.

See life as you standing on a pair of skis. One ski is Light, Positive, Evolution of your Spiritual Self, the Other Ski Dark, Negative and De Evolving on a Spiritual level.
Our job while having the human experience is to balance just right on those skis, not too dark, not too light just going at the right speed to have our journey. But soon enough you get the balance just right so your skis go so fast that before you know it your traveling at the speed of what??????? Anyone?………LIGHT!!!
Good Students. I know the 4 that had their hands up immediately already from here lol (see…..Time Traveller lol)
Get it now?
Sort your shit out and watch how fast you get to the light and evolve?
My light is blinding now I’m going so fast.
Many of my students have just gotten on the slopes so I can’t wait till they catch up and they will because my experiences mean I can show them how to avoid the hard stuff. I have the cheats to life lol no having to go through the shit I went through to know what I know.
Some still have the fear but honestly if your that miserable in your life, surely trying to be happy is worth giving it a go because if it doesn’t work you haven’t lost anything and you can say ‘See I told me so’ lol
Nothing found nothing lost right?

You owe this to yourself and your Ancestors to try. Otherwise you’ll be back down for sure.
We are those kinds of nerdy Spirits lol it’s ALL about the Lesson of the Human experience.
That’s why we do it. But we control what happens, when and how. Fight or Flee.
I used to think everything was predestined but it isn’t. We choose it all. Everything, even when we die.

I chose to fight and I’ve been fighting like a bastard these last 12 months Oh My Blob.

Oh and the reason I am anti Black Lives Matter is because I think ALL lives matter. I’d like to see the people protest the Asian Slaves in the textile and sex industry etc….the African Diamond slaves, The Eastern European Orphans, (All Orphans tbh), First Nations, Aboriginals, LGBT, Men, Hispanics, Muslims,Palestinians, Homeless, Gypsies Animals, Women, The Elderly, Black people, Irish, Gingers, Nerds, Handicap, Mentally challenged, even ugly Spiders the Devils Minions, ALL lives matter, I could be here all day,trees, plants, even dark side, all victims in some way, and we allow it to not matter. We all have good and bad versions. Your going to get good Priets and bad ones, Good Teachers and Bad ones, Good Judges and DAs and bad ones, good black/White/Hispanic/Catholic/Muslim/Gay/Straight/Handicapped you get my drift, I could go on and on. But you know what I mean. If you don’t agree that ALL lives matter then your to blame for the state of all of this in this world. Your either a part of the solution or a part of the problem because that’s the balance lol See how it works? lol
See….I told you I wasn’t crazy lol The dead people in my head taught this stuff. Lol
Wait till I do my book called The Science of the Paranormal.

So we are all to blame for this shit. We got what we deserved.
We are living our collective Spiritual Karma.

A handful of people tell us who to hate and we obey. Even though deep down we know it’s wrong.
Immigration…….we ALL come from Immigrants. We ALL came from somewhere. No one will be 100% pure anything.

The trouble isn’t letting someone in from a different country but letting everyone in without checking the moral fibre of the person you let in.
If your there to work and make a life for yourself then come on in. Your going to stimulate the economy, and build infrastructure. If your there for benefits and have nowhere to go then maybe you don’t come in, especially if you can’t read or write.
BUT…..what we should be doing is helping these countries so these poor souls aren’t having to leave in the first place. And we do that by getting rid of Bankers, Government, Sovereignty, Big Business, Pointless Celebrity, Military, Pharmaceutical companies etc….
If we all lived the same way there wouldn’t be any of this shit.

I’d of worked in every country but now if it wasn’t for immigration.
Bastards. Who are we to say no you can’t come my soil? It’s not even OUR soil, it’s Earths and she belongs to ALL of us in the Universe.

We are ALL responsible for each other, when we have the SJWs and Politically Correct, and Moral Brigade getting offended by every little thing we de evolve ourselves faster than war.
War is tragic and brutal and over with eventually. Take your emotions and freedoms and rights of expression away etc…and it poisons us slowly over centuries.

This is why we are on the dark side of the Black Hole and Brethren aren’t.
We are heading towards that black holes corner pocket faster than we can maintain the balance and we all know what happens when a house gets sucked into the wrong part of the Tornado.

So you choose. Life is choice. Be the change you want to see because know one can fix what is wrong in you because only your compass knows where it’s north is.
Deny it and you deny yourself.
So don’t blame anyone else if you don’t listen to yourself. The answer is in you and has been all along.

The question is how much do you want to be happy and live the life your soul asked for?

I was taught this by the dead. I share it with you to show you that the dead are NOTHING to fear. Nor the Dark Side as just these very last days I had to work WITH the Dark Side to resolve a problem surrounding a Student of mine.

You HAVE to know the Dark to know the Light. It is the balance of life.
Don’t be afraid. I’m trying to show you how, if you just listen and trust your instincts your compass finds it’s way to where it is meant to be every time.

The bad stuff happens because it is meant to, but with bad comes good. With good comes bad. You just have to find the balance.
But as I say The Fear of the Paranormal is never as bad as the reality of it and I’m living proof.
Now I just have to be heard a little louder which is why I need to get to America. I know the course of my true destiny lies there.
My compass is set and I can’t fight the magnets pulling me in and to be honest I don’t want to stop it.
Knowing this path is taking me faster to the light and the happier I become the closer I get to it.
So I won’t jump off any time soon.
Light is soooo right. I can’t even begin to tell you.
But I’m gonna try.
I’ve been crossing over so many Spirits I think maybe it might be my thing lol My main purpose, my true gift. I just can relate to them. They trust me to do the right thing.
But more about that later.

We are deigned to self govern
So when we bottle stuff like shaking a bottle of coke eventually it’s going to explode and erupt. It’s the same with emotion.
I admire people that withdraw and mope
or like me I go off and cry
crying is my release
it’s just in how you choose to deal with it comes the hard part
finding the balance
so get angry and punch a pillow but don’t go out and punch a cow or small child
hahaha

Listen to music that you know can change your vibration, go for a walk, hug a tree, bake a cake, play golf, paint, fish (catch and release or for dinner not for sport or the blood lust), whatever it is you have to do to bring calm to your light. Stop stopping yourself from feeling. Put your anger towards something that gets that kenetic energy out of you. Just put it into the right action. Make good choices when wanting to be angry not bad ones. YOU set the balance. YOU. No one else knows your balance but you. No one IS you but you so no one can understand what YOUR balance is.
And this is what I’m teaching you all, this is what my students are doing. Skiing lessons 🙂
And I’m the Ski Instructor called Sven, but it’s a Military grade Ski Slope so I’m the Drill Instructor as well and I’m sorry but my Teacher was right and I apologize to you now Pauline, can you hear me up there? lol I’m so sorry lol You were right you little tiny person. I am tougher than you. You said I’d be a tough teacher and I laughed at you. I told you I’d bake cakes and tuck them in at night lol
I’m hard Mama, Oh My Blob, I’m like Satan with big tits lol
I’m the Satan of the Paranormal Sciences hahaha bloody typical lol
My poor students lol they are tough man, I’ve not had to drop a student in months and boy have I thrown some shit at them lol
It’s an honor to serve with these men’s and women. We are going to war together to change history forever and I couldn’t ask for a better regiment to serve with.
Our galactic brethren are with us, fighting the good fight and the light is starting to shine.
Soon enough if I can do this right, before I die there will be a few hundred thousand less people afraid of death and what happens after and then we can see death as a celebration because they get to go back to the light if they lived the right life while here.
So get it right. Please listen to what I’m saying in these posts. What I want you all to do is try it. Try the way I’m saying to be. Just for a month or a year listen to what I’m saying. It works. I promise you. You wait till you see my weight loss. Once I’m down to my goal weight you wait till you see the change it made all because I listened to the voices in my head lol The dead.
If I’m wrong……well then I just won’t play anymore lol Your on our own. I’m done lol I quit lol

Love and Light
Mama
xoxox

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Over the past few months I have been learning, studying and developing a variety of new techniques which I have begun encompassing into a new form of reading.
The main aspect of this new technique is giving the client guidance on how they can achieve their goals and find balance unlike a traditional reading which is just predictive.
This will offer guidance from Spirit in regards to things like career, love, money, mental health etc….
I believe I am the first to offer this kind of reading.

In the course of doing so Spirit will show you the future and you can have with the predictions being far more accurate than me trying to pull them out of the ether.
You will learn more about your journey this way as there will be no fear on my part of getting the connection with Spirit wrong.

The sooner people realize Spirit are conscious energy and not physical beings to describe in detail the better the connection will be.
You will be able to learn so much from them if you just listen to the messages rather than look for evidence they are there.

If your having life issues, depression, worried about anything or just want to connect to Spirit and the Universe please come book a reading and let me show you how to follow your compass to perfect balance and peace in your life.

You get 5 questions $50 £35 but your readings will be done either digitally or written in great detail via email. I also do phone calls as well. Even international ones.
You will NOT be disappointed. I will work my ass off helping guide you with all the knowledge of the Universe behind me.

My students and I are on an incredible journey together and one day soon I’ll have more of me to go around but I want to spread Spirits hot sticky love all over the globe and show people how a reading should be done.
Spirit can change your life. You never need to be unhappy, lost or disconnected again if you listen to Spirit.

Email me at debbiedakiwi@gmail.com if your interested.

I am Psychic Therapy or Spiritual Counseling if you will.

I look forward to walking your journey with you.

Love and Light
Debbie

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In Memory of Kriss Donald

Last week my family and I went on a holiday. It was my sons birthday and my husband suggested we take this time to have a wee break away as we hadn’t had a break in 10 years or as a family.

We usually stay at The Premier Inn because they are affordable and clean and in all the locations we want to stay at.

But for some reason when I went to look up The Premier Inn it took me to Booking.com

I decided to give it a look see and found a lovely looking Lodge in Glasgow that was over £100 cheaper than the Premier Inn and you got breakfast for free. So naturally we booked.

We arrived last Monday and the room was gorgeous and we were happy to get our holiday underway. Our first night however was for me a nightmare. I just could NOT get to sleep for love nor money because I kept getting woken up by a young boy asking for his Dad.

Every time I dozed off I kept hearing ‘Dad…..Dad where are you Dad?’ etc….at the foot of my bed. The bed was thee nicest most comfy bed I’ve ever slept in so I should of been out like a light.

I told Mr Ex about this the next day and was dreading bed that night because I wouldn’t last a week walking around Scotland on an hours sleep. But luckily for me I slept like a baby. My husband however wasn’t so lucky. He got woken up umpteen times by a young boy interrupting his dreams asking for help.

He explained that while he never saw the boys face but he was covered in blood. He said his face and body were blacked out but he knew he had died in a horrendous way and he was asking for help.

It ALWAYS ALWAYS happens that just seconds before my husband has a dream of significant importance to ME I wake up. I know the signs of his impending distress and so I’m able to stroke his head and shoooooosssshhhh him out of the bad dream. He was so upset. It made us want to see if we could find any deaths related to the Hotel. We were on a really busy motorway intersection where every few minutes someone was tooting their horn for one reason or another and the Hotel didn’t look more than 5 years old so we thought maybe someone had died in a car accident or been hit by a car trying to cross the road or something. And then I found him.

I knew he had brown hair, was quite tall but was about 16-19, not older than 20, but no younger than 15. He had a boys voice but you could tell he was becoming a man still.

I found him…….Kriss Donald. And because of him I am now no longer a fan of Ghost Hunts and Investigations.

The next morning as we tiredly walked to the restaurant part of the Hotel so we could have breakfast I saw three employees standing at the bar talking and for some reason just had to mention the room being ‘active’.

The look on their faces will stay with me forever. They were too scared to say anything so I gave them reassurance by saying ‘Look don’t worry about me being scared. This is my job, this is what I do, I work with Spirit and my family all see Spirits, so don’t worry about scaring us’

I told them everything. Maureen the Housekeeper said ‘What room are you in?’ I told her and her face went white. She said to the other two girls ‘I told you someone was touching me in that room. I told you something was going on’ and the other two just seemed shocked.

I told them I had been doing some research and found Kriss Donald to which one of the girls said ‘Yes I remember that incident. It was devastating as they were booked to stay here but left.’ Let me explain to your about Kriss.

In 2004 Kriss Donald then 15 was Kidnapped from Glasgow by some Pakistani men in a revenge racist attack. Kriss was innocent and was chosen at random.

He was driven 200 miles between Dundee and Glasgow and they took him to Strathclyde Innkeepers Lodge where they were staying in rooms 19 and 20  but for some reason they never stayed. Instead they took this terrified young man away from the Hotel and as quoted by Wikipedia

There, they held his arms and stabbed him 13 times. He sustained internal injuries to three arteries, one of his lungs, his liver and a kidney. He was doused in petrol and set on fire as he bled to death.[11]

The five men convicted of the abduction and murder were convicted of racially aggravated offenses. After the murder, some of Donald’s attackers fled the United Kingdom to Pakistan.

The issue of the killing quickly became politicized because of the racial element. After the murder there were reportedly ‘racial tensions’ in the area sufficient to lead to police intervention.[3].

You can read more here.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Kriss_Donald

This poor baby was alive when they burned him and this is why my husband couldn’t make out a face because all he kept seeing is Black.

The Lovely staff and my family and I were all taken aback by the sadness and in that moment I knew I had to send him over. So I decided to send him over.

I told them if I had access to a bell I would send him over by the end of the day to which I was offered the Bars ‘Last Call’ bell.

I sat trying to have my cereal but I could feel Kriss. I knew he knew I could help him and he was waiting for me to help him and it just made me unable to concentrate or eat my cereal so I went and got the bell and went back to my room.

He was hesitant at first but I talked to him with love and compassion. I wasn’t even sure if it would work because I always use a candle as well but I couldn’t use one because of the Fire Alarms and it was only 8.30am, people would still be in bed.

So I put protection on the Lodge and talked Kriss into crossing over. He wasn’t sure at first but I asked my parents to help him, I assured him he was in safe hands and that God was waiting for him. I told him more importantly that no one would hurt him and he was safe and as soon as he crossed over he would be able to see his Mum and Dad whenever he wanted. I felt him. I knew the ‘opening’ was too my right, the light was bright and I could feel Spirits to my right. I sat at the door of it. When I said about seeing his Mum and Dad I asked him to touch me so I knew he was there. He had been touching people on their backs so I was expecting to feel something on my back but he didn’t. He grabbed my hand. I’m getting emotional just thinking about it.

He held on so tight and then he must have seen his Granddad because he ran. I felt him so strongly it made me sit back like a jolt as the energy of him running past me pushed me back a bit and then the ‘door’ closed. I sat for a further 5 minutes protecting the room and making sure he had gone for sure.

I asked Maureen to double check the room after we left and she said both rooms felt different. I contacted her yesterday to double check and she said she is no longer afraid to go into those rooms so Kriss has definitely crossed over.

The sadness that came over us was so great though and it gave me time to think about my life. My gift, Spirit, all of it and I’ve come to realize something.

Spirit aren’t entertainment. They aren’t something we should be profiting from, or watching like a movie. They were once living breathing souls who were loved by people. As a Mother of two boys I can’t even begin to imagine the Nightmare his Mother and Father went through when he went missing and worse when he was found.

Obviously Kriss’s last memories before he was killed was of being taken to that Lodge in 2004. That was only 11 years ago. He should be 26 now and he’s not. Who are we to charge money to see if we can get him to perform like a Trained Seal?

I’m going to make it my life’s purpose to cross over any Spirit I come to contact with. I’m going to purchase a bell for my Purse and any time I feel Spirit I am crossing them over.

No one who investigates these haunted (I hate that word I prefer active) places can’t even be bothered to put a life to the Spirit.

Kriss and billions of other Spirits have names and lived lives. They don’t deserve to be treated like this. Kriss has parents and family who still to this day mourn for him and I knew if I told everyone about this place I’d be inundated with requests for people wanting to go there with their digital recorders and cameras trying to catch a glimpse of this poor terrified young man who wanted his Dad. The last thing he remembered before he was so brutally killed was that Lodge. It was his last hope of safety and people were going to exploit him and I had to stop it.

I stupidly put a tweet up at 3.13am when it happened that it had happened and immediately got contacted by a Company that specializes in Haunted Hotel holidays and it made me feel sick. I couldn’t stand the thought of people wanting to stay in that room in the hopes they would feel that poor baby begging for help. It made me realize, this is what Most Haunted, Ghost Hunters, Ghost Adventures are all about. The exploitation of lost and lonely souls and often these ‘Investigators’ do more harm than good.

EVPs are creating negative energy in the places of investigations which are then being left in those buildings and the Spirits left behind are having to deal with even more bull shit. But it’s Bull shit WE put there. We are basically turning up to these locations, setting up camp, having some fun then pissing off and leaving all of our rubbish for Spirit to have to deal with. And it has to stop.

Kriss could be your nephew, your brother, your boyfriend, your son. These Spirits could be and WILL one day be your loved ones and instead of helping them cross over and finally be at peace we are buying expensive equipment and storming in like big fat doughnut eating idiots in our moody trench coats and black tops with the name of our company across the back and we create nothing but noise for these poor souls.

People getting all dramatic about a scratch or a growl and thus creating negative energy that was never there before and not one of them crosses these souls over and not one of then protects the building after they leave and I for one am done so from now on I’m going to cross over every Spirit I come across.

Why is is acceptable to do this? Ghost Hunting to me is now the equivalent to someone going to a zoo, paying to get in and seeing starved and abused animals and taking photos of it, eating in front of it and then walking off.

It’s not right. We need to put faces and families to these souls so we can send them where they belong. Which is back to the safety of Spirit and the greater consciousness.

But for the record I’m not talking about those who contact me asking for help to figure out what’s going on. I’m only talking about these people who make money from and gain attention either publicly or locally for investigating the dead without doing the right thing.

99.9% of these people don’t do it right anyway and I can’t sit back any more.

Meeting that poor boy made me put a name and a family to a very real situation. I can go to his grave. He isn’t a website, he isn’t a story or fable in a book, he is a real person, who lived a real life and died a real death. Why is it okay to shove a camera in his face?

The Council said the last phase of my training would involve me sitting back and paying attention. Well……I get it now. I’ve paid attention to many many things and I’ve had any ‘Aha’ moments but this is the biggest one so far.

 

I’ve come to realize that I have the power to set these souls free and that’s what I’m going to do.

We stayed in that room for another 3 nights after I released Kriss and we had no further incidents.

My Ex is not Psychic. He has over the 16 years of us being together become opened to Spirit and has had many experiences because of it. I say he’s Intuitive by Osmosis lol

You have to think to yourself, how desperate does a Spirit have to be that he would go to those lengths to get help? Knowing what I know about Spirit and energy, it takes a LOT of energy for them to come through the way he did.

Therefore isn’t it our responsibility to make sure they get the help they need? Would you do that to a child in the real world? If someone came up to you in the real world asking you for help would you help or would you get your cameras out and try to record them? Scarily I think we all know the answer to that.

Please people……..start respecting them not just for what they are now but for who they were before. Someone loves them, someone may even be grieving for them.

Do the right thing.

My dream is to have a show where I go to haunted locations and do a releasing. Then instead of people chasing them with digital cameras and video cameras they will go after them with a bell and a whole lot of love instead.

My life has changed forever because of Kriss Donald and from this day forth everything I do and every Spirit I cross over will be in Memory of and in honour of him.

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Finding a good Psychic or Medium?

Since I started working full time again having spent a couple of years having babies etc…one thing that seems to be a recurring theme with my clients is they have never had anyone like me before. I just recently have had a couple of people come to me with stories of pure horror about being charged incredible amounts of money for non existent practices. One lady was taken for $150,000 because she was told her husbands Spirit was being haunted by Evil Spirits. I literally cried when I read this. It broke my heart and so I have decided after talking to yet another frightened and easily lead woman looking for answers, I had to write about it.

So how do you know you have found a good Psychic or Medium?

Obviously we aren’t going to be 100% right 100% of the time, but they should definitely have the ability to pick up on YOU and read for you. It is unfair to ask us such questions like ‘What did he have in his pocket when he died?’ because putting that sort of pressure on someone can make them make stuff up and if they get it wrong it makes everyone involved looked dumb.

If they know what was in his pocket they will offer the information.

Ask your questions but don’t give anything away. No personal details. I saw a sight for Theresa Caputo where you actually have to put in all your details including why you want a reading and who you want to hear from. Now this was connected to one of her sites but I don’t know if it is an official site but if it is true then this woman is a fraud. If it isn’t true she needs to get this taken down as it is detrimental to her reputation.

Also, while we all have to charge a fee, the fee should always be wavered or discounted for those who are in dire need of the help but can’t afford it. How can we tell? Because Spirit will tell me ‘Don’t charge this person’ or ‘Find a price they can afford’.

I’ve done readings for people who have paid in barter ie they cut mine and my boys hair for a reading. I’ve had clients without PayPal pay by Amazon Voucher, and a lot have paid in installments. I have done the reading then given then a bit each payment. But NO ONE should be charging more than the average person can afford. I don’t care how good they are.

If you charge per hour or more than £100 $120 for a good reading then your basically saying ‘I only read for people who can afford me’. It makes you look like a narcissist and money driven. Why do the rich get to grieve or get guidance more than the poor? The fee should be for everyone not just the well to do or connected. A good Psychic or Medium will know when to do it for free or at a discount.

The one thing they should NEVER do for you is charge you more. If your reading is a set price for a set amount, anything else they offer should be included in that reading in that time frame. So if you go there for a 45 minute session at say $50 and they say you need to do a cleansing or release a trapped Spirit, they should be showing you there and then how to do it or offering their services for free. ALL Path Walkers and Whiter Lighters should do these services for free. No exceptions.

If I had a show, corporate sponsorship and was making enough that my husband could stay home and look after and educate our boys I wouldn’t ever change my prices. I think what I charge is more than fair.

Your Psychic or Medium shouldn’t be looking at their clock or ringing the till in your presence unless other wise stipulated. My clients know, when they come for a reading, they get their reading via email within 2 days and then after that any questions they ask are all covered in the initial fee and because many of them have a story to tell and just want someone to listen, I do.

They know I have other clients to read for but most of my clients never have to wait more than 2-3 days to a reply to an email after the reading. I have regular clients who come back every month for top ups, I have some who are still discussing something from a reading 7 months after the reading. And I don’t charge. There are so many lonely, confused, sad, desperate people out there. My role in their life is to help them any way I can. There always comes a time when they don’t need me anymore and to me that is a proud day.

They should NEVER predict death unless it is to serve as a warning. When someone dies is between them and their maker. It has no business being in a reading where someone is looking for guidance. If the Psychic or Medium is wrong they can destroy a persons life. No Psychic or Medium should ever put themselves in a situation where they make themselves responsible for causing harm or emotional distress to anyone let alone someone who pays for a reading.

I’ve had readings where, it seemed like everything just went wrong. I felt so bad I spent weeks making amends to the person I was reading for. Not because I had gotten information wrong but the person who got the reading was reading wrong what I was saying. A good Psychic or Medium should always take responsibility for you walking away happy and fully understanding your reading.

They are essentially Doctors for your Soul and no Doctor worth their degree is going to let a patient walk away from them bleeding. As they have a Hippocratic Oath so should a person like me. If you know my blog you will know I talk about my Code of Conduct. I simply couldn’t live with myself if I let someone walk away from me with more questions than answers.

Never compare Psychics and Mediums against each other. I’m talking about the genuine here when I say this but don’t judge us based on the last reading you had. We all have our different ways of doing readings. We all have different symbols for the same thing, we all have different ways of reading out signs and symbols. Don’t compare especially in front of the Psychic or Medium unless your concerned about the way they conducted their reading because it can be quite not offensive but off putting to be told ‘Well my last psychic knew this about me and that about me but your doing all future stuff’. It can make you nervous and give you performance anxiety and we need to be relaxed and as comfortable with you as you are of us.

You will NEVER EVER be asked by a genuinely gifted person to perform any sort of ritual other than light a candle and other innocuous practices. No cracking eggs, ripping up money, burying jewels etc….it should never be that complicated. You are going in for a reading, you pay, you leave. If there is negative energy your going to know about it before them so for them to randomly come out and say your possessed or have bad Spirits attached is nonsense and they are getting ready to fleece you.

They should never be putting any suggestion into your mind that you need to be cleansed and freed and released from anything negative. It is fraudulent and just wrong. Please trust your instincts. You might not see or talk to the dead but your Intuition is a psychic gift and we ALL have it.

If it doesn’t feel right from the start, don’t do it. If your being asked to do anything that isn’t normal for a reading, before agreeing and paying for anything, get a second opinion. Come to me. I will help you. And never, ever, in a billion million years offer up any part of your body or body of any living breathing being. No hair, no nails, no blood, semen, spit, cat fur, rat, chicken, NOTHING!!! I cannot stress that enough. Some will want to cut your hair, RUN!!! If you offer a part of yourself to them you are essentially offering them your soul. They will own you. They will use you to their own ends and control you and it won’t be pretty.

A Psychic reading should consist of you going in, paying your fee, sitting down, asking your question to the cards or Psychic and then listening. After that you should ALWAYS be asked ‘Do you understand?’ or ‘Do you have any questions?’ They are there for YOU, not the other way around.

Without you they can’t do what they do to make a living. So you make sure you leave there happy with what you paid. If your not happy you have every right to ask for your money back or in the least get a free reading. They are on YOUR dime so don’t let them make YOU work for it. No answering questions that are leading, no rushing questions, no doing anything your not comfortable with. Your paying them.

They are providing a service. Without you they wouldn’t be open for business. In the same breathe, your Psychic isn’t Blob, they won’t know every single little thing about you, they will only see the images they are given and you have to remember we more often than not have to decipher images, symbols and sounds in our head. Spirit communicate using our energy, we use yours to read. It’s like two magnets opposing each other, bouncing off each other so we have to read what we catch in between bounces. So don’t expect them to know what you ate for dinner, what you do for a job, or what your cats names are (yes they are real examples)

A Mediums reading should be you going in, and letting the Medium see who is wanting to show themselves. They should never ask you ‘Who do you want to communicate with?’ or any leading questions. ‘How they died?’, etc….it should be clean and simple. ‘Mum says She is sorry she never got to see you get married but she was there in Spirit’ etc….never anything dark or twisted like ‘The man who abused you as a child has come through and he still watches you’ type of thing.

If it gets like that, take your money back and leave. But at the same time, please……understand it can be highly exhausting and stressful on our bodies and energies to do these things for you so don’t expect us to know every single person you have ever known on the other side. I only ever bring through someone for a client if they want to come forward.

I’ve done 15 readings in a row where a loved one has come through clear as crystal. Then 5 where it just purely psychic reading. I don’t advertise myself as a Medium. I don’t like to. It gives people connotations of me being something I’m not which is ‘Like every other Medium’ and I am anything but.

My sister, she is the Medium. I am Intuitive Clairvoyant. But I can do Mediumship if the Spirit wants to come through. My clients know this. They come to me for readings about their future and things that will guide and help them and if Dad or friend comes through it’s a bonus. It’s all charged the same regardless. But that being said, you shouldn’t be doing all the work and letting then ask a lot of questions.

You should simply say ‘yes’ or ‘No’ or if they say something like ‘Can you tell me why I keep seeing a boat covered in blood?’ then you can answer but don’t give anything away. You can say ‘Someone I knew passed away that way’ not anything like ‘Oh my Dad that’s my dad, is he okay, was he murdered, did he see my son being born? is he okay with Mums new man? because in that excitement they have just given away 4 things the medium can then turn in to things to add to the reading that makes me look better than they are.

If you don’t know who the person is. Be honest. Just say ‘I can’t think at this time, maybe it will come to me later’ or ask ‘I’m not sure, can you give me some more to go on please?’ It can often be the case your so expecting to hear from Dad or sister you forget about the Uncle that died when you were little. That’s normal. If you knew them, or of them you’ll remember them eventually or once you ask around. I always say to my clients ‘Can you ask your parents or …XYZ as they will know if it was someone who was alive before you were born’ so don’t discard it as the Medium being rubbish.

Always go in with an open mind. You are about to have your entire Spirit (soul) connected to those on the other side. many wonderful things can and have come out during a session. Plus the better you feel, the more open you are and the easier you are to read. So while they are the ones giving you the service, you can help by having an open mind and healthy attitude.

Don’t go in there giving them the 3rd degree about how good they are. If they are charging reasonable rates and they weren’t good then you haven’t really lost anything but time and you know never to go back. Plus, you can or choose not to pass their name on to friends and family.

Referrals are really crucial for some one like because it means the client thought you were so good they want other people to see how good you are. Although some of my clients have been telling me out and out ‘I’m not referring you because I’m not sharing you’ or ‘Your my secret’ was one I got told today lol But it works both ways, if you don’t do a good job your reputation can be ruined by bad referrals. This is why it is in their best interest to give you good service. If they haven’t done a good job, let them try and make it up to you. If they don’t offer, then give them a bad referral. As long as your expectations haven’t been too high you shouldn’t walk away unhappy if they were referred to you. They can get away with making good money for being a bad Medium or Psychic for so long before all the people who want readings won’t come back so this is when the referrals should kick in. If they are bad, they get no referrals, they go under.

You should never be judged. It doesn’t matter what your religious, sexual or racial background is, Spirit don’t judge. Neither should anyone else.

You should always be allowed to record your reading. Whether it be writing it down or using a digital recorder it is your right to want to make a note of the reading. When I do private readings (where they come to my home) I use a digital recorder and email it or burn it to disc free of charge of course.

Your Psychic or Medium should know their stuff. Whether it be a Theological question or a Physics question, a question about death or the ways a Spirit can communicate they should know the answer or at least have an idea of how it all works. You should be able to ask questions about how and why and the should be able to answer adequately. If they answer with an ‘I don’t know’ or ‘Science isn’t my thing’ then they can’t claim to be Spiritual or a person of Spirit because Science is a HUGE part of what we are. Any Psychic or Medium worth a salt will want to understand how and why they are what they are.

If they tell you things you don’t understand, tell them. When I do a reading I sit at my laptop with their email in front of me and I tune in to the vibration they sent out when asking their question/s. I then begin to answer the question/s and type it all out as I see it. They will get the question answered then whatever else I see after that. I type it as I see it or if I’m busy I write it all down as I see it and type it out later.

But when you get your reading from me, it is written as I see it. I forget sometimes you can’t see what I can so when I describe things it makes sense to me but not to them. But I end every reading with a note saying this. Any Psychic should. My clients know if they don’t understand something or need clarification, just ask. I’m happy to answer any questions. As any Psychic or Medium should.

Remember. We are there to help YOU!!! if your not feeling like your being helped, your not being looked after by a proper gifted person. Someone like me, for example will help people to the detriment to themselves. That is our lot in life. We serve others, while Spirit serves us. That’s the deal.

And I think lastly, your Psychic or Medium if they are genuine, understands about being humble to the craft. They understand the importance of appearance and skill. No Psychic or Medium should be walking around in designer clothes, long manicured nails, diamonds and fur coats. That sort of ostentatious and narcissistic behavior is deplorable. It is nothing more than strutting and that is NOT what a person of the light is about.

It isn’t about how much money you make, the money you make has NO basis for how good you are. I say this for two reasons. I saw Sally Morgan on the street a couple of weeks ago and she was head to toe designer clothes with this hideous grey fur thing around her, while her husband walked behind carrying bags and bags of stuff and not from the Poundshop I can promise you. I felt so sorry for her because she literally had her head up, walking really slowly like she wanted everyone to notice her.

It make my feel sick to my stomach. If you look up Sally Morgan now, she is mainly considered a fraud and has even resorted to threatening legal action to some people who saw some fraudulent behavior going on.

The newspaper or Radio station that made the claim paid compensation and she kept it.  These people had paid to go to her life show. They were sitting in the back of the hall and saw some men feeding her information through a microphone.

What they were saying on the mic, she was repeating through the ear piece because a small window at the back of the hall had been left open. Now over a dozen people saw this and when it started to get peoples attention the men in the room behind the window became aware of it and someone came rushing out to close the window. She used to be loved and respected by the nation and now she isn’t.

Her show on TV wasn’t renewed and I know loads of people who have been to her show and actually walked out. One of my friends who literally loves every Medium ever said she was gutted at how bad it was. She said by the end of the show the hall which seated hundreds and hundreds of people was half empty. It’s what I keep saying ‘If you abuse the privilege you will lose the gift’. This is a gift. It was given to us as a gift. Like getting any gift it is a humble and highly privileged honor to have bestowed upon you. It isn’t a right. It isn’t something you get as a right or demand so anyone who treats it in this way, doesn’t have a genuine gift.

While you can’t be a slob, you shouldn’t be dripping in expensive nail jobs and diamonds. It is not a measure of how good they are, just that they charge more than the average person can ever afford.

I hope I’ve helped you understand what it is you should be looking for in a Psychic or Medium. I REALLY hope none of you read this and get taken advantage of.

I think it’s even appalling that I’ve had to do it in the first place. But I’ve really enjoyed it.

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