Depression: It’s our fault.

As you all know my marriage has come to an end and the Number One contributing factor in this happening is that dirty fuckin word Depression.
In the almost 4 years I’ve been writing this stuff out the number of people who come to me suffering from one form of depression or another has risen exponentially.
I’m talking it was one in 1000 before, but now it’s more like one in 3.

Depression is a pandemic sweeping across the world and we have no one to blame but ourselves.
Why? Because we now live in a world where emotions are bad and being lazy and no longer self motivated to do anything ourselves, we run to Doctors and Governments to do something about it.

No one allows themselves to cry any more, or be angry or hurt.
People, we were given emotions for a reason. They are our release valve. They dump all the toxins in our emotions and psyche and heal us.
But with Fluoride and Artificial Sweeteners, Sugar, Antibiotic filled meats and dairy, the low fat bullshit stripping our brains of the healthy fats we need to coat it and now the medications we take in bucket loads willingly, we have depression when the smallest thing happens.
I bet you no one will have depression when the Cleansing hits and we are all having to fight for tins in the Supermarket lol

Get off your asses and take your Blob Damn life back.
We have an entire Universe full of Conscious love and light out there desperate to teach us the ways of the Universe.
All our loved ones throughout the course of our Evolutionary creation are begging us to listen to what they have to say and what do we do?
We eat cake and watch the Fucking Kardashians.

Also this ‘Labels’ bull shit and the Moral Brigade, these pain in the ass ‘Black Lives matter’ trouble makers and ‘Feminists’ etc…the governments orchestrate these little pockets of sub division so we will run to them to fix it.
Well guess what people? You get the Government you deserve.

They’re coming, and they are bringing tanks and Thought Police. So now you can’t be angry that some cops are out of control because your a Terrorist and if you say anything bad your a Terrorist and threat to the nation you live in.
Even though freedom of speech and expression are in the front of all great nations Declarations or Constitutions.

Remember when we were kids, things were so much less complicated when shit happened.
They are allowed to cry and have tantrums but when your an adult you suddenly need to focus on working and going to University and pay taxes that aren’t even legal.
We hand ourselves over to the Matrix and then wonder why we are unhappy and our souls are crying out for us to be FREE!!!!

People, please, I beg you, STOP allowing yourself the right to have a fuckin emotion. Life is shit sometimes. Its supposed to teach you the lessons YOU asked for before you came here to be you.

We are incredible Vessels of love and light and only a few of us (Empaths) understand this needs to just cry or be worried or whatever.

We have ALL had to rise above shit that when it’s over we have unclenched our butts and breathed a sigh of relief. But life’s issues aren’t the hurdles we think they are. They are stepping stones not hurdles. We place each stone there ourselves.
WE are the masters of our destiny, no God or Deity. US, we are one consciousness. We are ALL one. We are symbiotic and connected by the light in the Universe. This is why we don’t know what is beyond the edge of space because we haven’t finished creating it yet. I’ve seen it. I know how t works. I can step outside all time and see the light and why and how it works because my brian (yes I know I said Brian, watch the animated movie Igor, I LOVE that movie, it is so sweet and I feel like I’m the monster) releases its own DMT it seems without the need for the drug. We all can but mine is just obvious lol

We are ALL supposed to be like me. The way I deal with stress, the way I understand the Universe, the way I leave all the big stuff to fate, my gift is nothing if we are all like it and if everyone was more like me in terms of this gift stuff depression wouldn’t exist.
Anyone can be like me if the want is there to put in the years of dedication and training.

This year should of been the worst of my life. So much has changed. My heart has been broken more times this year than any other in my life and you know how bad my life has been.
Yet I’m the happiest I have EVER been in my entirety of life here as Debbie.
Since I gave over to the fear and allowed myself to focus on following my compass, get it. What I am, what I need to be, what I need to do etc…..to be happy. I found pure light.

And boy am I getting happy. I see only light now. I’m surrounding by spirits hundreds deep, I have the most incredible job. Oh My Blob, my readings I actually enjoy them now because I’m helping those who want direction not answers. So it spreads positivity and hope. Where as before I was always worried I was letting people down. My fear of letting people down made me nervous.

I’m teaching thee most incredibly loyal, gifted, loving students. They all tell me how they followed their gut to find me. (They followed their compass) and of my senior students I can honestly say I have found my family.
Even when I’ve had to go Dark to teach certain lessons these last few days they ALL understand why it had to be done and never judged me and in fact by having their support and permission it illuminated many truths and brought certain people to the light who should never have found it in the first place.

My sons are so clever and funny. They are bat shit crazy like their parents but they are individuals and happy even with all this going on with Mr Ex.
But they embrace my crazy and now my 7 year old is in to Physics. Even has theories of his own we like to discuss.

Mr Ex and I? We are the best of friends and will continue to love and support each other through out all of time. All divorces should be like ours. I’m taking nothing but what is mine, and he will help me with the boys without lawyers getting involved. No drama, just healing.

Everything in life has an opposite, for balance. Without perfect balance nothing can evolve. Left/Right, Up/Down, Light/Dark, Yes/No, Good smells/Bad smells, Love/Hate, Day/Night, Sleep/Wake, Run/Walk, Laugh/Cry etc…..you name it, it will have an opposite. So you have to know that when your depressed because your marriage is over, the good times WILL come. It has to. It’s Universal law of balance. But what is happening with us on earth is there are so many of you suffering from some form of emotional or Spirit blockage that we are now tipping the balance the wrong way. We either go up the ladder to light which is evolution and all knowledge, all time, all creation, everything, or we tip it the other way to dark and de evoling or nothingness. Which everything in the Universe including the dark are trying to avoid.
Nothing wants to go down the wrong part of the Black Hole. I call it The Tornado Effect.

By us not doing anything about our situations we head further and further into the black hole (metaphoric black hole of life I mean this time not the actual black hole like I meant last time).

So how to beat depression?
Honestly? Grow up. Embrace the suck, admit your dramas, get off our medication, stop trying to pass the responsibility for your bad decisions onto other people, own your problems, take responsibility and get off processed garbage. Sugar and Fluoride, MSG, SLF, Sweeteners, all that shit is killing our brains, turn off your Blob Damn TVS and read a book, go for a walk, stop being fed the lies that your not good enough. Do what makes you happy and fuck every body else. You will give love and support where you earn it. Give respect where you get it, love with all of your heart, do what you love and love what you do. Stop working jobs you hate and follow your dream. It’s better to try and be happy than fail at being happy?
Know that you chose this life for the very lessons your running away from. So face them head on.
You ask for this life. The reason your so miserable is your Third self or Highest Self knows it is here to have the Human Experience and by you fighting your compass trying to point north your denying yourself the experience you sent yourself down here to learn.

If you are living a life where you wish you were doing something else then your pointing your dial away from North. Over time that wears heavy on the dial. Now imagine your intuition is the dial and the decisions you make the magnetic force pulling that dial to North. So like a magnets polarity pushing when your put two magnets against each other, your pushing your Soul away from where it was set to be all along.

So everything you do, every thought, every action, every decision, every plan has it’s opposite response. So if you make a positive decision, a positive plan, do something there is also the alternative to it out there. The potential of what could be if you make the wrong decision.
Your gut, your intuition is your compass and no one listens to it but me lol
I’m the only idiot brave enough to listen to every gut feeling and thought BUT I’ve lost 200lbs and found the love of loves because of it. I have an incredible career now and a book coming out and I’m fighting the fight to get to New England (well that area). I’m happier than I’ve ever been and at 43 I now have a 25yr old in love with me hahahahaha (I KNOOOOW RIIIIIGHT?) lol
Bless him the silly boy lol

But I did ALL the things my compass told me to do and my life has changed so dramatically I now welcome the bad shit that happens because the Universal law of Balance dictates that what turns to shit also turns to roses ūüôā
That’s why you enjoy the positives in life because it can change in an instant but it’s AAAALLLL based on what you do with what happens next that decides what happens next.

See life as you standing on a pair of skis. One ski is Light, Positive, Evolution of your Spiritual Self, the Other Ski Dark, Negative and De Evolving on a Spiritual level.
Our job while having the human experience is to balance just right on those skis, not too dark, not too light just going at the right speed to have our journey. But soon enough you get the balance just right so your skis go so fast that before you know it your traveling at the speed of what??????? Anyone?………LIGHT!!!
Good Students. I know the 4 that had their hands up immediately already from here lol (see…..Time Traveller lol)
Get it now?
Sort your shit out and watch how fast you get to the light and evolve?
My light is blinding now I’m going so fast.
Many of my students have just gotten on the slopes so I can’t wait till they catch up and they will because my experiences mean I can show them how to avoid the hard stuff. I have the cheats to life lol no having to go through the shit I went through to know what I know.
Some still have the fear but honestly if your that miserable in your life, surely trying to be happy is worth giving it a go because if it doesn’t work you haven’t lost anything and you can say ‘See I told me so’ lol
Nothing found nothing lost right?

You owe this to yourself and your Ancestors to try. Otherwise you’ll be back down for sure.
We are those kinds of nerdy Spirits lol it’s ALL about the Lesson of the Human experience.
That’s why we do it. But we control what happens, when and how. Fight or Flee.
I used to think everything was predestined but it isn’t. We choose it all. Everything, even when we die.

I chose to fight and I’ve been fighting like a bastard these last 12 months Oh My Blob.

Oh and the reason I am anti Black Lives Matter is because I think ALL lives matter. I’d like to see the people protest the Asian Slaves in the textile and sex industry etc….the African Diamond slaves, The Eastern European Orphans, (All Orphans tbh), First Nations, Aboriginals, LGBT, Men, Hispanics, Muslims,Palestinians, Homeless, Gypsies Animals, Women, The Elderly, Black people, Irish, Gingers, Nerds, Handicap, Mentally challenged, even ugly Spiders the Devils Minions, ALL lives matter, I could be here all day,trees, plants, even dark side, all victims in some way, and we allow it to not matter. We all have good and bad versions. Your going to get good Priets and bad ones, Good Teachers and Bad ones, Good Judges and DAs and bad ones, good black/White/Hispanic/Catholic/Muslim/Gay/Straight/Handicapped you get my drift, I could go on and on. But you know what I mean. If you don’t agree that ALL lives matter then your to blame for the state of all of this in this world. Your either a part of the solution or a part of the problem because that’s the balance lol See how it works? lol
See….I told you I wasn’t crazy lol The dead people in my head taught this stuff. Lol
Wait till I do my book called The Science of the Paranormal.

So we are all to blame for this shit. We got what we deserved.
We are living our collective Spiritual Karma.

A handful of people tell us who to hate and we obey. Even though deep down we know it’s wrong.
Immigration…….we ALL come from Immigrants. We ALL came from somewhere. No one will be 100% pure anything.

The trouble isn’t letting someone in from a different country but letting everyone in without checking the moral fibre of the person you let in.
If your there to work and make a life for yourself then come on in. Your going to stimulate the economy, and build infrastructure. If your there for benefits and have nowhere to go then maybe you don’t come in, especially if you can’t read or write.
BUT…..what we should be doing is helping these countries so these poor souls aren’t having to leave in the first place. And we do that by getting rid of Bankers, Government, Sovereignty, Big Business, Pointless Celebrity, Military, Pharmaceutical companies etc….
If we all lived the same way there wouldn’t be any of this shit.

I’d of worked in every country but now if it wasn’t for immigration.
Bastards. Who are we to say no you can’t come my soil? It’s not even OUR soil, it’s Earths and she belongs to ALL of us in the Universe.

We are ALL responsible for each other, when we have the SJWs and Politically Correct, and Moral Brigade getting offended by every little thing we de evolve ourselves faster than war.
War is tragic and brutal and over with eventually. Take your emotions and freedoms and rights of expression away etc…and it poisons us slowly over centuries.

This is why we are on the dark side of the Black Hole and Brethren aren’t.
We are heading towards that black holes corner pocket faster than we can maintain the balance and we all know what happens when a house gets sucked into the wrong part of the Tornado.

So you choose. Life is choice. Be the change you want to see because know one can fix what is wrong in you because only your compass knows where it’s north is.
Deny it and you deny yourself.
So don’t blame anyone else if you don’t listen to yourself. The answer is in you and has been all along.

The question is how much do you want to be happy and live the life your soul asked for?

I was taught this by the dead. I share it with you to show you that the dead are NOTHING to fear. Nor the Dark Side as just these very last days I had to work WITH the Dark Side to resolve a problem surrounding a Student of mine.

You HAVE to know the Dark to know the Light. It is the balance of life.
Don’t be afraid. I’m trying to show you how, if you just listen and trust your instincts your compass finds it’s way to where it is meant to be every time.

The bad stuff happens because it is meant to, but with bad comes good. With good comes bad. You just have to find the balance.
But as I say The Fear of the Paranormal is never as bad as the reality of it and I’m living proof.
Now I just have to be heard a little louder which is why I need to get to America. I know the course of my true destiny lies there.
My compass is set and I can’t fight the magnets pulling me in and to be honest I don’t want to stop it.
Knowing this path is taking me faster to the light and the happier I become the closer I get to it.
So I won’t jump off any time soon.
Light is soooo right. I can’t even begin to tell you.
But I’m gonna try.
I’ve been crossing over so many Spirits I think maybe it might be my thing lol My main purpose, my true gift. I just can relate to them. They trust me to do the right thing.
But more about that later.

We are deigned to self govern
So when we bottle stuff like shaking a bottle of coke eventually it’s going to explode and erupt. It’s the same with emotion.
I admire people that withdraw and mope
or like me I go off and cry
crying is my release
it’s just in how you choose to deal with it comes the hard part
finding the balance
so get angry and punch a pillow but don’t go out and punch a cow or small child
hahaha

Listen to music that you know can change your vibration, go for a walk, hug a tree, bake a cake, play golf, paint, fish (catch and release or for dinner not for sport or the blood lust), whatever it is you have to do to bring calm to your light. Stop stopping yourself from feeling. Put your anger towards something that gets that kenetic energy out of you. Just put it into the right action. Make good choices when wanting to be angry not bad ones. YOU set the balance. YOU. No one else knows your balance but you. No one IS you but you so no one can understand what YOUR balance is.
And this is what I’m teaching you all, this is what my students are doing. Skiing lessons ūüôā
And I’m the Ski Instructor called Sven, but it’s a Military grade Ski Slope so I’m the Drill Instructor as well and I’m sorry but my Teacher was right and I apologize to you now Pauline, can you hear me up there? lol I’m so sorry lol You were right you little tiny person. I am tougher than you. You said I’d be a tough teacher and I laughed at you. I told you I’d bake cakes and tuck them in at night lol
I’m hard Mama, Oh My Blob, I’m like Satan with big tits lol
I’m the Satan of the Paranormal Sciences hahaha bloody typical lol
My poor students lol they are tough man, I’ve not had to drop a student in months and boy have I thrown some shit at them lol
It’s an honor to serve with these men’s and women. We are going to war together to change history forever and I couldn’t ask for a better regiment to serve with.
Our galactic brethren are with us, fighting the good fight and the light is starting to shine.
Soon enough if I can do this right, before I die there will be a few hundred thousand less people afraid of death and what happens after and then we can see death as a celebration because they get to go back to the light if they lived the right life while here.
So get it right. Please listen to what I’m saying in these posts. What I want you all to do is try it. Try the way I’m saying to be. Just for a month or a year listen to what I’m saying. It works. I promise you. You wait till you see my weight loss. Once I’m down to my goal weight you wait till you see the change it made all because I listened to the voices in my head lol The dead.
If I’m wrong……well then I just won’t play anymore lol Your on our own. I’m done lol I quit lol

Love and Light
Mama
xoxox

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READINGS

Over the past few months I have been learning, studying and developing a variety of new techniques which I have begun encompassing into a new form of reading.
The main aspect of this new technique is giving the client guidance on how they can achieve their goals and find balance unlike a traditional reading which is just predictive.
This will offer guidance from Spirit in regards to things like career, love, money, mental health etc….
I believe I am the first to offer this kind of reading.

In the course of doing so Spirit will show you the future and you can have with the predictions being far more accurate than me trying to pull them out of the ether.
You will learn more about your journey this way as there will be no fear on my part of getting the connection with Spirit wrong.

The sooner people realize Spirit are conscious energy and not physical beings to describe in detail the better the connection will be.
You will be able to learn so much from them if you just listen to the messages rather than look for evidence they are there.

If your having life issues, depression, worried about anything or just want to connect to Spirit and the Universe please come book a reading and let me show you how to follow your compass to perfect balance and peace in your life.

You get 5 questions $50 £35 but your readings will be done either digitally or written in great detail via email. I also do phone calls as well. Even international ones.
You will NOT be disappointed. I will work my ass off helping guide you with all the knowledge of the Universe behind me.

My students and I are on an incredible journey together and one day soon I’ll have more of me to go around but I want to spread Spirits hot sticky love all over the globe and show people how a reading should be done.
Spirit can change your life. You never need to be unhappy, lost or disconnected again if you listen to Spirit.

Email me at debbiedakiwi@gmail.com if your interested.

I am Psychic Therapy or Spiritual Counseling if you will.

I look forward to walking your journey with you.

Love and Light
Debbie

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Opening your Gift

I’m inundated with people asking me to help them ‘open themselves up’ to Spirit.

If you’ve read my Blogs at all you’ll know my answer to this off by heart lol BUT here is some advice on how you can open yourself up to Spirit.

Tips and Advice to set you on your path. Then instead of repeating myself in emails I can just refer people here.

Now……..in the last 12 months I have been giving people the Card test. here you get a deck of cards and shuffle them and then you have to guess whether the card is a red or black card. Then when your 80% right, you then try and guess the suit ie hearts,clubs,spades, then once your at 80% you guess the entire card ie 8 of Hearts etc…Someone I got to do this test once spat at me ‘How does using these fucking cards teach you to be psychic’ and my reply to her and to you all is this.

‘The Card test isn’t to help you BE psychic, the card test is to help you tune in your frequency to Spirit AND to test your resolve and determination.’ If you give up doing the card test then your not ever going to be a tuned psychic. Because the truth of the matter is, this is feckin hard work and you have to put in at least 10 years of hard work and dedication to draw out, open up and master your gift.

That is if your not a natural. Even then,no one who is Psychic will be allowed to BE psychic for others without passing the test from The Council. Any Psychic or Medium I know of especially in my Society had ‘The Meeting’ with the Council introduced to them by their Teacher and if your an honest person who uses their gift the right way I won’t even need to go on any further. You’ll KNOW what I’m talking about. The Council are as old as time and historic text is littered with talks of these Guardians of The Spirit World. If you know what I’m talking about you’ll know. I won’t need to say another world. Not any people see them. But most will know them by name alone. The Egyptians spent centuries trying to understand and gain favour with them, the Greeks were terrified of them as were the Goths and Romans. All of whom were desperate to have an inside view of The Spirit World.

As I have explained before, I am what is called an Ancient. Everything I do is based around tens of thousands of years of practice and learning and anything I tell you is based on these practices. And you know I’m only ever going to be honest with you. Brutally honest. And it starts with me saying this:

To open yourself up, you don’t need drums, incense, meditation, courses, books, crystals, Gurus or any of it. Your relationship with Spirit is yours for the taking.Spirit have been waiting multiple millennia for us all to say ‘I want to know you’. So what you need to do to have them in your life is so simple. The question is. Are you prepared in the years of hard work and dedication to achieve it?

So first thing you need to do is what I call ‘Have The Talk’.

When your ready you need to sit and say to Spirit I’m ready to receive you into my life if you think I’m ready. I promise to listen and follow you and to never judge what your teaching me. I will have faith in all that you do and I will work hard to be a good student. I will never doubt myself and everything I do I will do with the absolute best of intentions using my gift and connection to you ONLY to help others where you see fit and never to gain, fame or power. I ask that you always protect me and to teach me what you decide when you think I’m ready.’

or something like that lol

Second:

You need to Pay ATTENTION: learn what is and isn’t Spirit. Just because you get scratched doesn’t mean it is a negative Spirit. 99.9% of the time it is a Spirit trying to show you how they died and they don’t realize you don’t understand this. Don’t let religion or even someone like me sway you. Go with what feels right for you but know what your talking about. You are a student of Death.

So you HAVE to know it inside and out. Know what it feels like to die, (you won’t actually have a choice to be honest, I’ve felt death 100 different ways but in order to know death you must know what it is to die). You can’t know Spirit without knowing how they died. But just because you get goosebumps, or your hair stands up on end or get scratched of pushed it doesn’t mean it is negative. If the only energy the Spirit can muster is to show you how they died, then it means it is important to them that you know how they died. It is up to you to them figure it out and help them. It really pisses me off that people think they’re under attack from ‘dark unseen forces’ because it scratched you. And I don’t blame them.

I blame the media and these shows who portray Spirit in a totally unrealistic way. Dead Resident for example. Like what? you go to 100 houses and EVERY SINGLE ONE has a demon? I never knew they were so busy lol ¬† Use logic, science, common sense and psychic ability please I beg you. All that is cold is NOT Spirit. All that growls is NOT a Demon. Spirit will try and communicate in a million different ways and it is up to you to know when it is genuine, when it is wishful thinking or when it is environmental.¬† You need to educate yourself on the many forms of communication and trust me, once you have ‘ The Talk’ things will happen quick and fast. So know your Dead. It’s not going to be just the ones you’ve loved and lost. Once Spirit know your open for business you will have them coming from all angles. So educate yourself. Lucky for you I did all the hard work for you and have listed all the different types of Spirits and their forms of communication lol

Thirdly: Know your boundaries and set them with Spirit:

Sometimes Spirit can pop in at the wrong time, or put you in a position your not comfortable with. I’ve been in restaurants and even just recently at a car boot when Spirit have wanted me to pass on a message to someone. They have to understand what your prepared to¬† do.

While Spirit know what you can and can’t handle they don’t always understand not everyone is actively Psychic and can’t just go talking to all and sundry about their deceased loved ones. So don’t put yourself through anything that makes you uncomfortable. Your the one who has to live with it not Spirit so set boundaries. For example, my spirits know that they are NOT allowed to bother my sons while they are asleep. If they come to me it’s fine but they are to leave the boys out of it. Also they know when I’m sick or exhausted I need quiet time.

They are only to come to me when it is urgent. Also they are never to ‘Pop in’ when I’m doing something that requires my concentration to the fullest. Like using sharp knives, driving (if I drove lol but you know what I mean) you get my drift. They are welcome to talk to me Telepathically but visuals and Time Slips etc…are for when I’m not trying to put nails in to line up a painting or something lol they can give you a fright if they come to you without warning.

Your not always going to get the hum, buzz or anything to warn you they are there and if your concentrating on something then turn around or hear them in their own voice you can jump 100 feet in the air lol Even Psychics can get a fright lol Once you set the boundaries it doesn’t take them long to realize and learn. It happens to me very very rarely now. It’s usually only if it’s urgent.

Fourth:

Don’t run before you can walk. Just because your starting to see them doesn’t mean your ready to go sending them over, or doing readings. Some of you may never be able to predict.

If The Council don’t give you the Test and approval then your never going to be the Clairvoyant kind of Psychic. You may just be the sort that knows they are there¬† but that doesn’t mean your no good or anything.

You will still have the incredible responsibility of being Psychic.

Some people are happy just having their own personal connection to Spirit, some people might have enough of the gift to be able to let people know their loved ones are around but being Psychic doesn’t mean you’ll automatically start seeing into the future, or Time Slipping.

All of this will be determined on your intentions and your understanding of your ability. But even the most basic Psychic ability can mean many wonderful things like the ability to cross Spirits over and assuring scared or grieving people their loved one is at Peace. You can counsel people using even the most basic of ability. But as I said it will be The Council that decide your fate. You will have to practice everything you preach and if you go doing stupid things like Seances, Ouijas, Ghost Hunts and Provoking Spirits etc…..and you have only been openly Psychic for 2 weeks then your going to have to be prepared to get nothing but trouble. So please be smart and responsible enough to know what your capable of. If you misuse your connection and gift Spirit WILL remove it. You have to prove to them you deserve the right to have this gift. If you misuse it, you won’t have it for long. It is called a Gift for that very reason. So don’t take on more than your prepared to handle. If you call on Spirits because you asked them to follow you then you have to be prepared to literally face your demons. You created it, you fix it. Which is a nice segway into

Fifth: Don’t EVER ask The Dead to follow you.

Never, EVER take Spirit with you. Don’t let a child Spirit, lonely woman, sad man or crying baby fool you into thinking it needs to come with you. the WORST thing you can do is invite Spirit to follow you or communicate through you. If you don’t know what your doing you can bring a reign of terror down on yourself and your home. So ANY TIME your going into a situation involving Spirit, Protect yourself and leave what is there……THERE.

Sixth: Make a Code of Conduct.

I talk about this all the time and having one really does make you a better Spiritual person. Your not expected to be perfect but you are expected to be honest. Making a code of conduct  always reminds you of why our doing what your doing. I was recently taught by my now deceased teacher the Spiritual Laws of judgement.

As a White Lighter I’m not allowed to judge. Being human first, sometimes I have caught myself doing it. The night my teacher passed away she came to be with my ‘File in hand’ and told me I needed to work on Judgement.

I thought she meant I was too judgmental but then an incident happened on Facebook where I was accused of being non Spiritual because I judged Kim Kardashian and Angelina Jolie based on their fame coming about because of sex and how they were appalling examples of the wrong type of ‘Role Models’ to young girls.

When you hire yourself out for personal appearances for money your a Call Girl. When you take money for work because you released a sex tape, your a Porn Star, when you abuse the sanctity of marriage because you were told it would nice to have a TV wedding your not someone I want to have in my home or around my children. Having money doesn’t give you class or automatic status as a role model.

This is when I realized actually I am allowed to judge others based on their behaviour  and also how I choose to have them in my life especially with having young kids. What I am not allowed to do is judge why someone drinks, or takes drugs, no one is perfect. I especially am far from perfect.

I’ve done things in my past I would like to change but I am smart enough to know my mistakes didn’t hurt anyone else but me and they happened so I can learn from them and better myself. Being Spiritual doesn’t mean your expected to be perfect. But you are expected to be honest. And sometimes the truth will hurt.

After I was abused and called all sorts of names on Facebook by people who call themselves Spiritual who weren’t even smart enough to counter argue my point (which said to me they knew I was right) Spirit said to me ‘Being Spiritual means you often have to speak the truth to ears that don’t want to listen’. And that is so true. So create a code of conduct. It will be your guiding light in every single part of your life. Mine involves things like Always being honest,putting others before myself, giving to those who have less etc….Yours can be anything you want it to be if it makes you a better person. Your going to make mistakes but it is whether you correct them and learn from them that matter to Spirit. Spirit don’t begrudge anyone making money but what they care about is how you make your money and what you do with it once you have it. If I was ever lucky enough to have millions in the bank my readings would be free. I’ve said that many times before and I mean ever bit of it.

Seventh: Educate yourself.

Get to know every aspect of Spirituality. From the Theological point of view to the Religious aspects. Know what your living and preaching. You can’t go helping people understand the true nature of Spirit if you yourself don’t understand it or practice it. Never tell anyone anything you yourself don’t believe and never do anything or get anyone to do anything you yourself wouldn’t do.

Because then your not a leader your a dictator. Read up, talk to people, ask questions, watch movies, documentaries, practice. Educate yourself. Your going to have people listen to everything you say so make sure your telling them the right thing. Common sense, logic, psychic ability and science. Right?………Right. Remember learning is knowledge, knowledge is wisdom and wisdom is power. Having the power over yourself and your gift is thee most invaluable most precious gift you could ever be given next to having children. No one person, no amount of money, no single experience can ever teach or give you what Spirit are going to give you for free. So make sure you give yourself and Spirit the respect of knowing what your talking about. Never will you regret it ever. In fact it gives you a sense of peace and comfort not only to yourself and to others when you have the answers. Even the most basic a of Psychic or Spiritual ability will be called upon at times to help someone else or yourself.

Eighth: Document everything

Especially for the first couple of years. Your dreams, your experiences, the lessons you’ve learned,¬† visions, visitations. Get a big journal and write it all down. Date stamp it and never throw it out. You’ll be surprised how helpful it will become later on. I have one for dreams that I write all my ‘premonitions’ in and one for my experiences and lessons. Both started when I was around 15-16yrs old and I still get them out to read them. I’ve been able to tick my premonitions off and understand things that didn’t make sense when they happened but do now. It does help honestly.

Ninth: Know you are privileged.

If you end up a Path Walker which is what you will become if you put all I’m teaching you into practice, your going to be privy to the entire Universe and it’s secrets. Your going to live a life dabbling in Scientific theories and principles even Science is just starting to understand and unravel. Your going to be in a position of great power over the sad, lonely, scared, vulnerable and grieving.

With your knowledge and ability your going to be the final answer in a lot of peoples lives. If you get it wrong, or abuse the privilege you will not only destroy your life but theirs as well. I have had over a dozen people on the brink of suicide come to me this year alone relying on me to give them the answers. If I put my ego in the way in any way, none of them would be alive today.

It doesn’t matter what your principles are, or your religious views or what your views are on anything in their life. You take of your own principles and keep it away from everyone else unless your asked to. But when it comes to the grieving, the scared, fed up and lost they must ALWAYS come first. you do whatever you have to do to comfort them and give them the solace they seek so they choose life. If your only playing at being Psychic, if you think its fun and cool and a bit sexy to be playing at psychic and then you psychically read someone wrong, or read them the wrong way you could be responsible for them dying instead of living.

You can think your cool and righteous Meditating and Namasteing everyone, burning incense so you can transcend space and time but if you don’t understand how important your role is or your just playing at being Spiritual you could commit Spiritual Murder. When your Spiritual, I mean truly Spiritual, you don’t become Spiritual for yourself, you become Spiritual for everyone else and the entire Universe. There is no room for Yourself or your Ego in the world of Spirituality.

Tenth: Know the words you speak.

One of the things that drives me barmy more than anything is watching people misuse or use a term incorrectly. For example to be an Empath does NOT mean to be Psychic. It means to feel Empathy with your fellow man and the Universe on a very high and emotional level. If someone calls themselves an Empath and they mean Psychic, please walk away. They don’t know what they are talking about.

I do not have a problem with New Age or Modern Spirituality but I do have a problem with how many of these places and people are teaching others the wrong thing and putting peoples lives in danger. In going over my books for the year I received in 2014 from January 17th until the 3rd December 211 emails from people who had been told or read something from a New Age practitioner or shop they were a White Lighter or an Empath  who should be doing this and that who spent a fortune buying the things they needed or to have the readings that ended up causing them financial, emotional or Spiritual hardship.

One of them is actually being sued. I have no problem¬† what you choose to believe. It’s your faith, your beat, you march to it, what I do have a problem with is people wearing the Uniform but not knowing the job. If you think your a White Lighter because someone said you were and then you can’t control someone suffering from depression or someone who is erratic with fear then your going to bring so much trouble on you, possibly even litigious actions or physical harm.

Because it is one thing to do it yourself but when you involve other people it is a whole different story and probably a good 60% of what I do is fixing other peoples ignorant mistakes. I’m not having a go at anyone who is New Age, I wish no one ill will or bad feeling. I love and respect anyone who takes on the hard task of being Spiritual. I have New Age followers and friends all of whom I know would NEVER abuse their life style. I know they would never dream of putting anyone’s life in danger because of their own ego. But I’m being dramatic with you so you understand the seriousness of being Spiritual and Psychic. I would never lie to you.

My goal and dream is to have everyone on the planet having a level of Spirituality in their lives that makes them happy and stops them being afraid of Death and the Dead. How they do it is up to them but when your dealing with other peoples lives you need to understand the importance and serious nature of the business. And that is, if you don’t know what your doing or do it for the wrong reasons, you won’t last long and Spirit will shut you down. With great power comes great responsibility. So know the words you speak. A sensitive is someone who feels Spirit but doesn’t want to be called Psychic. The word Psychic can be seen as a dirty word but what else are you to call the ability? Someone who drives for a living is called a Driver, someone who nurses is a Nurse etc…someone who can communicate with the dead using psychic ability is called a Psychic. It is the Science of it after all so call it what it is.

Also a White Lighter is someone who lives their life under the guidance of Spirit for the purpose of helping others. All these terms have been around for centuries, don’t let anyone teach you otherwise. The strength of your gift will be based on the level of your understanding. The more you know the more you learn. The more you learn the more you can teach. The more you teach the more others learn, the more people learn the better our world will be.

Everything I have told you is all things I have done myself. You can have no ability or have a small amount of ability but if you do all of these thing you WILL have the ability to see and communicate with the dead. Some people in my society were in there 60s when they became Open to Spirit. But as I said in the beginning, just because you have the gift doesn’t mean your going to be allowed to BE a Psychic. Some of you I know will just want to have a better understanding of what your ability is all about. Some of you will want to help others, some of you will want to make a living from it. It is your gift to do with it what you want. But ultimately it will be Spirit who decide if you get to use it on others and how you get to use it.

Be honest, be pure of heart, have the best of intentions and never do it for the money. Spirit will give you the life they see you working hard to have, you will never make yourself be rich and famous if it isn’t in your destiny. But you will be rewarded all the time for your selfless acts and good deeds. The rewards are better than any lottery win I promise you that. When someone you took from the darkest place in their life and showed them the light at the end of their tunnel so they could walk through it and see the light for themselves no amount of money of earth is better than that feeling of knowing you got to watch them come out the other end saved and at peace.

You will never worry about money, Spirit will ALWAYS have your back and your Faith will be stronger than anything else in your life. They will never lie to you or let you down. The path they walk you down is littered with love and abundance, opportunity and friendship, loyalty and respect, admiration and understanding. People will respect you and fear you, love you or hate you, but for those that matter you will be their light. These are the reason it is called a Gift. This is why it is a privilege and why I am so fierce to protect it. Having a gift is an honour not a right.

If you spend the next 10 years working on all of these things once you have The Talk, you will be rich beyond your wildest dreams. I wake up every day wondering how I got to be so luck to have the life, followers and clients that I have. Such loyalty is truly humbling to me.

You can have that too if you follow my teachings. Honest, easy and free. But if you don’t get past the card test, your either never going to have the patience to master your craft or your going to take decades to get past the first level. You will need patience, dedication and humility. Spirit will teach you at the pace they know your capable of. Remember to protect yourself at every connection, protect yourself every night at bed time and make sure you protect those around you too. you might be the only one practicing your ability but if your in a house with others they WILL get caught up in it at some point.

You must remember, Spirit will have been waiting for you to have ‘The Talk’ since the day you were born if it is in your destiny to have this ability opened up. They will come thick and fast. Even the Negative ones. You WILL get tested many times before you get the go ahead to use your gift out in the world should that be the plan and even if it isn’t your going to be tested many many times.

The Light Side goes par and parcel with the Dark Side at first. So just remember what I have taught in this blog about it and you’ll be fine. Be firm, protect yourself and don’t give in to the fear. Remember they need your fear to survive so don’t give it to them. Starve them of the fear. They will be whatever your most afraid of and use it¬† against you. Don’t give in to it. get angry, get protective and tell them where to get off then turn your back on them. However, it is just a test.

Always remember Spirit have your back. If you keep yourself honest and¬† only use your gift the right way then the Dark Side or anything negative won’t really be interested in you if your not doing anything you shouldn’t be. The Dark Side don’t worry about people who just want to open up to understand or have a better connection to Spirit. It’s if you want to use your gift for a greater humanitarian purpose they will have a problem with. But they are weak pussy bitches who need to frighten you in order to exist. So tell them where to go and shut it all down before it takes off okay? Also when you start this journey remember to forget everything you knew before because the way Spirit choose to do it for you doesn’t necessarily mean it will be done the way you think it should be done or even how. You will be the Student and the Teacher for the rest of your life.

Thank you for your trust and faith in me in knowing my character. I am honest, I am forthright and blunt but I’m not cruel or abusive. I just want to help people and it requires honesty. I want to help heal people not hurt them. Those that know me and my style know this about me. I’m True Blue.

Happy New Year and I love you all

Love and Light

Debbie

 

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Hmmmmm So I seem to be Time Slipping at Home now too

Well I thought with what little I knew about Time Slipping it was related to the place I was in at the time playing a major role in where I have them but the last three days have proven to me this doesn’t need to be the case as I have had 3 time slip events in my own bedroom and they are so distinctive I will never forget every sensation I felt.

Here is what happened:

Wednesday Night while I was awake and anxiously waiting to have a mild medical operation on Thursday Morning I was laying on the bed and started to feel weird. I had almost like a dizzy episode but not an uncomfortable one. It just made me think I was tired. But all of a sudden I found myself sitting on the stairs of a grand house. The wooden rails and stairs had been newly varnished and painted because I could smell the varnish and paint. There was a tiled floor in front of me and I was sitting on a red carpet. I could feel it. I still can. I could smell pie cooking in the kitchen which I knew to be at the back and to the left of where I was sitting. I knew the lay out of the house and it was lovely and warm. It felt like home but I heard someone walking towards me, and I was just about to start talking to them when the sound of my own voice seemed to interrupt the Time Slip and everything when well I described it to my husband as ‘The Wibbly Wobbly Effect’. Everything was spinning so fast and I felt like I was falling faster than the spend of light to the point where I reached out to grab on to the bannister of the stairs I was sitting on and found myself grabbing on to thin air in my bed room.

The Second episode was after I came home from hospital on Thursday. I lay down to rest and was watching some TV in bed laying on my side when I found myself dropped and I say dropped because it felt like I landed with a thud on a cold country path. There was a stone bridge to my left and wintery country setting all around. It was so cold I could feel and still can feel the cold hitting my lungs. My breathe was steaming in the air. I could hear the stream running under the bridge. I could and still can feel the stones crunching under my feet as I walked to the bridge. I was aware that someone was with me. But I should point out these people I felt both times didn’t feel out of place being there so I don’t feel it was Spirit with me or my Elder for example. I felt like the people I was with was someone like a friend or Mr etc…. I wasn’t startled by them being there if you know what I mean?

So as I touched the freezing cold stone of the bridges structure I go to talk to who it was behind me and again the sound of my voice broke the connection and I literally felt myself almost disintegrate before my eyes. It was like I was in one of those machines that mixes paint tins. I was wibbly wobbling so fast I kind of broke up and started to fall REALLY fast. Again I reached out to grab the bridge to steady myself and found myself in my bedroom reaching out for the bridge to steady me, that was no longer there.

The third time was not 10 minutes ago. I have not dealt with this procedure very well. I’m in a lot of pain and have felt a bit rotten lol But I was laying on the bed with my youngest Train who was playing on his Tablet. He was ‘Looking after me’ which meant getting me to download free train games for kids on his Tablet while trying not to annoy me. And all of a sudden I felt myself standing in a door way in what looked like the heart of New York City. I could smell the heat of the city and it was a mixture of sweat, bakery/food, diesel, tar, tobacco and it only felt like about 8am. I reached out to open the door of this building. Glass on either side of me with silver metal door and building frame. As I reached out to open the door (which was warm) it was stuck and as I pulled on the door I made like a grunting sound as I yanked it open and I started the Wibbly Wobbly and for a split second, and I mean¬† split second I was in nothingness where it was like I was inside a TV on no channel. Ya know when your TV has static? I was super aware of my body between this nothingness and life and everything was magnified. I was just starting to feel nauseous and I found myself back in the bedroom yanking at a nothing in mid air lol my son looked at me like I was crazy lol

So every experience I have with this Time Slip or Psychic Travel or whatever it is I learn something new. I do need to point out at no time was I asleep, I was fully awake at all times.

Which is:¬†¬†¬†¬†¬†¬† The location of the event isn’t important. I seem to break down physically, I’m able to communicate with the people in the Time Slip who don’t seem to be alarmed by my being there, even if I don’t know these people in my actual real life. I seem to travel so fast it must hold the key to breaking my down.

Like in Star Trek when they go through the Teleportation Device and they break down into pixels. I don’t seem to break down like that but the things around me do, it goes all static like around me. I feel everything in my body, my blood, organs, arteries, veins, follicles, every individual hair on my body, pores etc….everything on my body is magnified by 10,000 times it seems. At no point am I afraid and the only side affect is utter exhaustion and once a bit of nausea. I still can’t control when they happen or what happens when I’m in one. My goal is to see if I can manipulate my environment and interact with the people there with me. But unfortunately at this point I don’t know when it’s going to happen so I can’t even begin to prepare myself. Ideally I would love to have a camera with me but as I said, if I don’t know when they are going to happen I can’t prepare for it.

I have to assume I’m not allowed to interact just yet if at all. I know I won’t be allowed to change anything ie step on a mouse or kill someone. I know it’s an observation only thing but I would like to see how others see me when I’m in this ‘Time Slip’.

I know this sounds insane but it’s happening and very real.

Every episode I have I learn more and more, I can wait to see where this ends. Maybe I will be able to Quantum Leap at will sometime and have my very own History Channel lol

But one thing I have noticed, is the more I do with my gift to help those around me, the more of this gift I seem to unlock. Almost like I’m being tested and then rewarded. As I become more Spiritually Aware, as I become more in tune with my clients and those who are sent to me for help Spirit are unlocking a wee bit more to this gift. So I have to assume at some point I will know all there is to know about this Time Slip and may even be able to control when it happens. That is assumption of course. But I know that this all based on my level of faith, trust and understanding of my Gift and The Universe. It’s becoming clear I am on a major break through with something.

I wish I knew what it was lol I just know it’s all to do with my Gift and my Understanding of it. The more I learn, the more I practice the more Spirit let me experience. So considering I can have one experience every 6 months but have 2-3 at a time at this rate I should have this figured out by the time I’m 50 lol