The 7 Year Cycle: Why life doesn’t seem to go right.

Most of you will know what I’m talking about when I say there seems to be some times in our lives where nothing seems to go right.

Everything from job, money, friends, likes, tastes, relationships, attitudes etc….all seem to go wrong and cause us stress one after the other. Why?

Because your coming to the end of a 7th cycle.

See, our lives run in cycles of 7 years. It is when your made to clean house so to speak. Where every aspect of your life is put under a microscope and examined. And anything deemed unnecessary and no longer positive for your Spiritual growth on your journey gets removed.

This is one of thee very first lessons I was ever taught from Spirit when I was younger. It rang so true for me and I live by it and share it with my clients. Many readings I have done recently have been based around my clients starting or ending new cycles.

If you count back 7 years, every 7 years of your life you will find major events have happened that transformed or changed your life. If you count back from when things are going wrong it makes sense.

Every aspect of your life changes. I tell my clients ‘Imagine a sieve, a normal garden variety baking sieve. Everything and every one in your life is put into that sieve and shaken up. All the good things and good people still positive and worthy in your life is in the bottom of the bowl. All of those no longer an asset to you and your Spiritual growth and path get left in the sieve to be thrown out.’

It will be everything from work, money, friendships, relationships, attitudes, inspirations, needs, wants, taste, family, literally every thing that is in your life, or makes you, you.

Think of the 7 year itch.

It’s why someone can stop smoking after years of not having the will power. Or someone leaves an abusive relationship, change jobs, stand up for themselves, follow their dream, finish the project and all those sorts of positive changes.

We even shed our skin. That is a known fact. Every 7 years we shed our skin and with our new cycle we have a new skin. We also create new cells.

Your Cleaning House. Your Spring Cleaning your soul. You are getting ready to leave Winter for Spring and with that cycles end a new one starts.

That is where everything starts to turn around. Conflicts get resolve and issues that plagued you for so long suddenly get sorted and you go about our merry way with a new outlook and a happier beginning to something that seemed never ending and miserable before.

A cycle lasts anywhere from 3 months to 18 months and the new cycle takes about 12 months to kick into full swing. It’s why so many of us have the year from hell then the best year ever. It will feel like the bad things you had to deal with and the hard decisions you had to make are the worst most stressful times of your life but in essence we go through it ever 7 years. It’s just as we get older our problems go from ‘My friends don’t like me at school’ to ‘I need a job to be independent and I’m not happy in my relationship, there is no growth in my life’ to ‘I just lost my job, how am I going to pay my bills with a wife and baby on the way’ type of thing.

But there is a saying ‘When one door closes, another door opens’  or ‘When Blob Closes a Door he opens a Window’. And it is true. Because EVERYTHING and I mean EVERYTHING happens in your life and to you for a reason. Our lives are all about lessons. Learning from them, adapting to them and moving forward with the knowledge we have gained. Yes it can mean marriages end, and you separate from certainly family members, and you lose your job and your fighting with your kids, there are clashes of personalities, some times you will just be that fed up. But when these things happen it is just your Spiritual self being cleansed of all the things that blacken your journey.

Sometimes someone who was once your most trusted companion or friend will get removed and become someone you don’t like anymore.

That’s okay though. It is what it is. Some relationships have to come to an end in order for you to have growth.

It’s like with crystals. You need to soak them in salt water for the cycle of the moon because it soaks up all your negativity and sadness. Well our souls do the same thing. So they need cleaning just like the crystals.

So don’t fret, it doesn’t last forever this stress. This dark cloud hanging over you does have a  silver lining. It honestly truly does.

That’s all it is. Just with everything in your life and every one in your life. And don’t be sad if they are removed from your life. It was done because they were no longer positive in your life and there will be lessons to learn from the experiences. It doesn’t mean they won’t be back once the lessons you both needed to learn are learned.

And no one is immune to the cycle. We ALL go through it regardless of who you are, where you are, or the type of life you have. It is natural and necessary.

Without it we would carry too much burden on our souls and when we died we could never move on for other things. It’s a beautiful thing I think and actually as hard as things might be at the time knowing what it is makes you deal with things a lot easier because you know it can’t and won’t last forever. There will be a new beginning at the end of it. So it helps you stress a little less I think, personally from my own experience anyway.

This is also a prime example of what I mean when I say ‘If you look at Spirit differently and stop looking at them like they are scary unknown entities and actually use them for what they are here for ‘Learning’ it is amazing what you can learn from them’. This lesson they gave me have been invaluable and makes perfect sense. It has helped many clients in readings understand their lives a little better.

As I say to them ‘It is simply a case of Out with The Old and In with The New.

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