Helping your Empathic side: Just Look Up

Before I came to America last month to do this radio show and start the process of trying to get my visa and so on, I sent a message out on Facebook to the people I would be spending a lot of time with to explain to them that as an Empath I will have times in my life where I will need to detach and spend time alone.
That they weren’t to take it personally. In fact I’ll just show you the message.
It is as follows:

I really don’t like socializing unless I have to. I prefer to sit and work on my connection then have down time. I don’t like being told, I like being asked, I don’t like sharing my life unless I want to share. I am a private person unless I want to be public. I am a Scorpio. I like to decide when and where I go. It’s hard for me to express this to people who are comfortable being social. I get accused of being a snob or rude but I’m not. I’m independent and I like to know my surroundings before I charge into them. People think because I’m a hurricane with them I’m a hurricane with everyone but I’m not. AT ALL. I don’t like crowds, I don’t like being in unfamiliar surroundings and I don’t like being babied. I’m not complicated. I’m just Scorpio. I want you to help me be independent and you’ll get loyalty in abundance. But I don’t like people talking about me, sharing my life, deciding my life or assuming things. My life is an open book only once I take the lock off.
Why? Because I deal with death every single day on levels 99% of the population can’t even imagine. My articles on mental health are being published, my clients rely on me to keep their issues confidential. I take what I do very seriously. Not to mention the grief and heartache associated with my work. It’s so much for me to carry these burdens on my shoulders. I take people’s fears and turn them into hope. No-one understands that in order for ME to be free of these burdens I need time to my self. I need time to sort the emotions out in my head and release them so they don’t become my burdens too.
Please don’t be offended if I say no to something or don’t want to do it. Please understand that in one 20hr working period I may have held a man grieving for the loss of his child, helped a man decide not to hang himself, helped a woman change her career path, passed messages on to a grieving husband, taught 6 students Medianship through murder and done some Physics. My job and my gift are as protected to me as my children are. If I ask you not to share, or give me space, or help me understand something it is nothing personal. You just don’t know what goes on in my life that day.
I absorb everything like a sponge. When I’m out with you, you see people having fun, you see people being people. I hear blinding noise, I hear their fears, worries and thoughts, their broken hearts and suicidal thoughts, their debt worries and dishonesties. On top of which I’ll then have the dead telling me how to fix them all which is impossible even though it’s all I want to do. I was born just wanting to love everyone. Because I can’t that is a burden for me. So I avoid it as much as I can and let the universe decide who I am to help.
If your in my life it means I love you. If I let you in it means I trust you. But I trust you only once. It’s not easy being me. I work long hours to help people. If I want to stay home it’s with good reason.
Please try and understand that and it’s about to get worse because when I get to America I’ll be working as much as possible. I need to earn money to provide for my family and pay taxes when I’m there. The things I’ll experience will be bigger than even I’m used to. Being thrust into the limelight the second I’m working. No time with my kids, missing my man, work on my mind, people to employ to drive me, manage my career, travel costs, rent to pay etc…my burdens become mine pretty fast.
But I do it because it’s my dream, my dream job, my dream friends and family surrounding me in many states and continents. I’m a sponge. I need to wash myself out and let myself hang out to dry. Otherwise I will become heavy with the things I absorb. So please if you don’t hear from me, or I’m quiet or anti social it’s nothing you’ve done. I’m just doing what I need to do to release my energy so I don’t end up like the people I’m in America to help.
It’s not easy being the one person 100,000 people plus a year come to for advice and guidance.
But I do it because I can. I do it because I want to. I do it because I am Scorpio, I do it because I am Debbielee. I am the person I am born to be.
Thank you all for reading this if you did. That in itself means a lot to me. My only fear in life is letting people down. I don’t want to be doing that for anyone.
But it does often come at a detriment to myself.

Since I wrote that post I have been around hundreds of people who I have absorbed their thoughts and emotions like a sponge.
I read people every second of every day even when I’m not reading them as my job. An Empath absorbs everything around them like a sponge.
If your not an Empath your never going to understand what it is to be one.
We can’t be around gossip, we can’t be around prejudice, we can’t be around hate or negativity because we absorb it and reflect it back IF we don’t know how to handle it.
Most people don’t know how to handle it so they become depressed or suicidal.
This is why people in the new age philosophies piss me off so much. Because they use this word like it is peanut butter and it like peanut is cloying to my palate and drives me nuts.

Anyone who is an ACTUAL Empath doesn’t tell people they are one because it evokes a whole range of issues so it is easier to just never tell people. An Empath is more than someone who cares, it is more than someone who sympathizes and it is costing people their lives and I’m the one who has to pick those pieces of suicide and depression up.

I have been around thee most horrendous situations since I have been in Wisconsin and there has been absolutely nothing I can do about it because I’m in a confined space most of the time and as I started to feel myself get weighed down by the negativity that has been surrounding me with peoples thoughts, griefs, sadness and inner turmoil’s my beautiful and very patient teacher Pauline Wardel Braddon came to me and said ‘Just look up’.
At first I wasn’t sure what she meant. My student bumblebee did a reading for me and he kept saying in this reading to Just Look Up.
And because I file stuff like that away in my head it comes out just at the right time.

Yesterday I couldn’t stand it any more. I HAD to get into my quiet space and try to decompress everything that is going on in my head.
I’m dealing with my gift, and my empathic side while trying to figure my future out, work with clients in my usual day job I do in the UK and my students, along with my radio show and missing my boys and fiancé all at the same time.

No one will ever understand what it is to be me. And I can’t talk to anyone about what I am because no one understands. It is never as simple as ‘letting go’ or ‘talking about it’.
It builds up like lime scale and over time it can wear heavy on ones soul and the only way to remove it is to do what you need to do to remove the scum that becomes hard on your heart.
That is why I say, have an outlet. Whatever your thing is. do it. It helps, it really does.
But once in a while it isn’t enough. So like yesterday when I couldn’t stand it any more I had an incredible moment with a Spirit in the place I was staying and then my teacher came and reminded me to JUST LOOK UP!!!
She then went on to explain it like this and I share it with you.

Go somewhere quiet and lay on your back. And just look up.
Because looking up will what is there will always be more simplistic than what is around you and inside you.
Looking up will be a plain ceiling, with one maybe two colours of objects to purvey.
Looking up will be a beautiful night sky with dark blues and stars, or a sky of greys and blues with whites if it’s a nice day.
Looking up is calm on ones mind and looking around or within is a kaleidoscope of colours and emotions that can be overwhelming to your mind. So lay down and just look up.

So I did just that. I went to my room where I get changed. I put my blanket on the cold floor and turned the lights off and just looked up. Before long my mind stopped racing. My heart began to beat a little slower and before I knew it I was calm and relaxed again having started to think about simple things like how good it feels to hold my boys in my arms.
How nice it feels to be held by my fiancé. Kittens that look like Hitler or Kitlers as my friend Becca calls them.
I felt the negative leave me. I felt it drain from my soul.
I went to see my friend Colin Slife race the other day. He is an incredible car racing prodigy who will be a Nascar champion by the time he is 19-20 years old. He is an inspiration to me and the perfect role model for my boys and children everywhere.
At 14 he raced against grown men and did so fantastically well I was proud and honoured to be a apart of it. I LOVE cars. I loved watching him drive 100 times around that track.
BUT with hundreds of spectators there it was impossible for me not to absorb peoples thoughts.
There were affairs going on, people wanting to kill themselves and deciding how, people secretly HATING each other with such venom in their hearts and some of it was directed at that poor boy.
I of course had to protect him and ended up blowing the lights out in the stadium because of it.
But I also saw sexual predators eyeing up some of the kids playing and women hating on other women because of the men there were with etc…
At one point I nearly ran out of there. I can NOT under ANY circumstance be around negative minds and hearts because with my gift it can turn dark and dangerous.

I could kill someone with my thoughts, if I transmitted that kind of bad energy out to the people who made me angry I could crash their cars, make them go nuts or worse.
With great power comes great responsibility. I take what I do very seriously. People trust me with their deepest darkest thoughts and fears and I am proud to say I have built my reputation on three things.
My Confidentiality.
My Honesty
My Knowledge.
People know I speak the truth when I counsel them. That my intentions are honourable and my heart is in the right place.
I observe EVERYTHING. The curse of a Scorpio is we watch and observe our surroundings even when we appear dopey and docile.
The students I stay with for a while freak out because before I leave them I ‘read them’ and make observations that ring true to their very core.
I floor them and it makes them go away from me happier and more focused and a little shocked because they assume the whole time I’m just a big floppy haired Muppet who swans around all dazed and confused.
But I pay attention to every detail. Because of this I need time to decompress and a lot of people just don’t get that sometimes it means in order to do that I need to Just Look Up.

My students under s certain level of ability know they will never be allowed to watch me read, or hold sessions with fellow students.
My life, my feelings, my work is 100% confidential. This is the basis and foundation of my very existence.
I make no apologies for this. There are only two people in this world who have built trust with me over the years to decompress to verbally and I was married to one and about to marry the other.
My balance.
My ex on one side and my current on the other. They are my scales. They are the two that have seen me develop my gift over the years and don’t judge me when I have melt downs or cry.
You can explain this to people till your blue in the face but I trust very few people with my inner thoughts and cerebral process for the simple fact that no one will ever understand what it is to be me.
I live by the voices in my head. I don’t judge, gossip, criticize, condemn or try to complain.
Writing is my outlet for expression as is working out and music.
But while I might be the worlds first Paranormal Scientist and while my life appears to be cool and super happy fun time it is hard and exhausting when you absorb everything like a sponge.
An Empath is telepathic as well and 99% of people who are suicidal hear voices thinking they are losing their minds not knowing they are hearing Spirit of the voices of people they have encountered that day or week.
If you don’t have an outlet it builds up like a volcano and will erupt into something dark if you don’t have an outlet.
So I’m sharing this with all of you who feel like your heart wears heavy with the burdens of the world.
Go somewhere quiet, no people around, lay on your back and Just Look Up.
Stay there until your mind is clear. Look at the simple shapes and colours. It really does work.
You’ll come out of it exhausted but then have something to eat and watch how incredible it feels afterwards.
I feel fantastic.
Sometimes even caring people need to be a little selfish. If you don’t take time to rinse out that sponge your soul becomes dirty from mess you absorb around you, you simply end up smearing your own life with the filth you absorbed and you deserve so much better than that.
You were given your good heart for a reason and you can’t let ANYONE under ANY circumstances taint that in you.
It is okay to remove yourself from the negative in your life. If you are around people talking mean about people, if your around prejudice and gossip it is okay to shut yourself off. They will never understand what it is to be you.
You get one shot at this life. Don’t make yourself have to come back because you didn’t award yourself the time to just look up while others look down.

The choices you make today directly affect the consequences of those choices tomorrow. So make better choices for YOU not anyone else.
As I always say ‘Live your life for others, make them happy, live your life for you, make you happy’

If the people in your life truly care about you they will understand and give you time to do you.
If not, they aren’t friends and shouldn’t be in your life in the first place so maybe the universe is trying to tell you they are one of the negative things your soaking like a sponge.
whether it be your job, your school, your friends or family, your society or your street, if your an Empath your going to absorb it all.
The New Age movement should be ashamed of themselves for wrongly identifying themselves in such a manner and I will make sure now I have a Talk show on WRMN1410 that people know the truth.
They aren’t the ones picking up the pieces of what an Empath really is.
I am. And because of that once in a while I need to remove myself to a dark room and Just Look Up.
Until you carry the weight of the world on your shoulders don’t judge those of us who do.
Because one day it will be your weight we carry on our shoulders too and you won’t want us faltering and stumbling when we do it.

Cleansing Revelation

Oh the way my brain works.

Do you remember last year me talking about after the cleansing I saw children coming down from the hills, the oldest were about 35 the youngest 2ish.

I said they looked dazed and in shock, I thought they had been taken to the hills?

I also said I saw adults eating what they called Citizen Dogs? And Citizen Burgers etc…..?

I said we were driving around in white vans with megaphones calling out to these people to come down from where they were hiding or were hidden and we in the white vans were wearing orange jumpers?

Do you know what they call little boys in the Pizzagate scandal?

Hot dogs………..

I think a certain honest politician is an instigator in bringing about the New Renaissance and is one of those picked to bring about a new America.

I think these dark forces days are numbered and a ton of stupid mistakes are about to be made and the NYPD and FBI will be responsible for taking this knowledge mainstream and it’s worse than people think.

I think scandal is coming to their house holds and some of the biggest celebrities are about to be investigated and arrested because the darkness with throw them to the slaughter first.

I think Weinstein and Podesta will snitch to save their skins and will fail miserably.

I think The Fight Club are getting ready to fight.

Hot dogs……citizen hot dogs. It was weird to me because there were animals all around these adults eating the meat and they were worshipping the animals yet found it funny they were eating humans.

I only realized it this morning that the Citizen Dogs were in reference to Pizzagate.

Spirit told me this early last year.

My pals up there told me about those tablets they have that reflect perfect 3D images of people and things which can’t be denied and they wouldn’t be able to deny their actions in court. Yet they wouldn’t of been there at all.

They have these pens that can change time, when they slam them down they can move forward in time by up to a few hours.

My pals said they were given this technology but would never be allowed to get the best ones because of the destruction it would cause.

Project Blue Beam……look it up.

It’s terrifying to me all the things Spirit and my pals told me are now making sense.

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My Quantum Magnetics is working. I’m not crazy after all. MUCH!!!

Since I had my ‘Break through’ experience last January 2016 at my sons birthday in Birmingham my life has changed so dramatically my students and I are now reeling in the events of the last 17 months.
I sat them down in class a couple of times and told them I was working on a theory and if it worked I would change the face of Spirit communication.
I accidentally invented or discovered a new science and I have been using my life and the lives of my brave students as guinea pigs so when I took this to the public I would have proof and evidence that proves when you listen to the dead, they can change your life and teach you to manifest your own reality just by doing certain things within your training.
My science is what I call Quantum Magnetics.
It is the ability to make the correct choice in your life based on exercising your Pineal gland and trusting your instincts to guide you the right decision every time.
By tuning into our Universe using pendulums you connect to the planet which in turn heals you in every way. You join the vibration.
It also trains you through trusting your compass to never make bad choices and when bad choices result, to self correct and fix it so you can move forward.
I can tune anyone in to the dead so when they do make choices they can pull forth the best possible outcome to ensure they only get the best possible outcome as a result. By reading and KNOWING the signs the dead send them.
That is the Quantum Magnetics part.
It then creates a domino effect and your life gets happier and happier and happier.

Because when you make a decision there are an infinite amount of possibilities that can come off that one choice.

I’ve discovered how to pull forth the best outcome for you which will make you happy, even when they choices might appear on the surface to be going wrong.

To prove my theory I sat my students down and told them this:

I’m going to work my ass off to prove that I have unlocked the key to the Universe. That when you can step through time and death you can achieve whatever it is your heart desires.
To do this I’m going to show you how it is done using my life as the example and so here is a list of things I’m going to achieve within a 2 year time frame and we shall see what happens.

I laid out my plans. They were as follows.
I’m going to lose weight.
Write a book.
Get my divorce.
Start Teaching.
Start visiting America to find where I belong.
Get a radio show.
Divorce Hubby.
Meet my man.
Marry him.
Be living in American by the end of August 2017.
Have my own place by end of October.
Retire my ex husband.
Have a baby.
Get my man out of prison early.

I would only follow my intuition. I would ONLY listen to Spirit no living person. If Spirit said NO I don’t, if they said YES I do. It’s that simple.
I asked Spirit to bring me specific people to help me in my study who could help me get to where I need to be so I can be in the best possible position to help those living or dead find their light.

I asked for a PA, Scientist, Protection, Marketing guru, Writer, Artist, Musician, stylist, hairdresser, make up artist, Webmaster/Social Media guru, Accountant, Right hand man, Vice President of my Society, Nanny/Protection for my kids, Driver,
and students with a good enough skill that I can hand my client list to them to do my readings because my intention when on the radio is to teach.
I said I want to start my school.
I want to hold classes, 3 months each at first but I want to buy a building in about 20years (if I can’t save quicker) and open the Debbie Black School of Paranormal Sciences, here my seniors and I who will sit on the board of directors and will travel the globe finding people who show skill and desire to want to train at our school.
They will receive a free education, and stay in onsite dorms. I will be opening what is essentially a real life Hogwarts.
The worlds first X-Men college.

I told them I would work as hard as I had to in order to achieve my goals and if they just stood by me and tolerated my crazy while I figured all of this connection stuff out on a Physics level and helped me by making monthly contributions I would in turn employ them within my Society and eventually when I made the money I needed I would retire them all.

My intention is to write some books, ones never written before.
Get on TV or make this documentary for Netflix based on my life. A Catfish style show seems to be the flavour of the moment. But I know Spirit will guide me there.

My intention is to Teach. I want to make my Teacher Pauline Wardel Braddon proud. I want her name to go down in history as the only teacher with enough patience to teach me what I’m about to become.
I came to realize that her dragging me to that radio station in Wellington in 2000 was to prepare me for what is about to happen next.
For you see I have thus far ticked these things off my list.

I’ve lost 216lbs so easy it defies medical reasoning. I’m soon to be a 12 or US 8. I started my diet on the 29th July 2015.
My book came out just after summer 2016
I met Martin in November 2016.
I visited friends all over the US and found my home in Wisconsin although I believe I buy a home in Pennsylvania at some point in the future.
I got my divorce on the 19th June 2017.
Marry Martin in December of 2017.
I record my first show this month and my show starts next month in August. Meaning I should be moved and settled into my new country home by October 2017.
I will work in Chicago and live in Wisconsin.
I am a couple of weeks away from retiring my ex husband.
I will then have the money to get the lawyer I need to get my man out of prison. Because I believe he was given a 5yr sentence for something he didn’t do and was never proven to have committed and was convicted for on hearsay testimony.

I’ve through the course of this time taken on 37 students both publically and privately and now have 7 seniors left, 12 junior/intermediates.
Now get this.
My seniors started between January and August of last year.
5 females 2 males. My 12 newbies are female.
Of my seniors all but the two men have skills I NEED.

Rainbow turns out I can’t do without her. She is my right hand man when it comes to crossing over the dead and doing cleansings.
She was the most afraid of her gift and is about to start doing readings for a job she has developed so quickly. She had ZERO gift and was afraid to see dead people but now she is picking up Spirit at an alarming rate and it’s incredible to see.

SAM: Is my PA, NO ONE sorts me out like she does. She is the right amount of firm and loving. She un confuses me because she knows first hand how discombobulated I can get when I’m in the ‘work’ zone. She is delicate and precise in her approach to anything I need done. I can’t live without her. She’s Mummy lol I run to her when I need a hug. She brings me calm.

Spitfire:
My daughter, my boys ADORE her. She will be their Nanny, she will teach them Spanish and French and protect them as much as I do. They all connect like I’ve never seen.

Sunshine: My Scientist. Nuff said. She documents, pays attention, advises, introduces new concepts and hypothesis. She is my food for thought.

Flower: My fellow time traveller. She will be my 2IC. Should anything happen to me, she will run my Society. She knows my work better than anyone as far as the practice of it. She has never doubted her connection and her loyalty to me is humbling.

My two boys: They are the ones I will pass my clients on to. I want them reading. They are without exception, talented and humble and my reluctant heroes.

My Ex is the photographer/artist.
Rainbows husband is my musician lol (you really can’t make this up). I promised him I will retire him so he can do all the music I need for shows and commercials etc….

Of my Juniors:
I have:
Aunty B: Seamstress, nurturer, hairdressing Goddess.
Totoro: Make up artist.
Warrior: Security (she is US military and I worship her, she comes fully trained).
Tiger: Webmaster/Social Media guru
Hotty: My accountant. And not just any accountant. She’s hard core nerd and is actually turned on at the thought of learning about American tax laws lol
She organizes my Blog tidy with Aunty B and Tiger.

And two of my best friends are going to do my writing with me.
I then have one student who will manage me in Wisconsin and help me get settled. Her best friend who is a professional driver I’m hoping will be my driver.

It’s pretty much as I said it would be because I asked for it.

I have spoken to all my seniors to prepare them for what is about to happen. They have witnessed it all. They are now preparing for hurricane Debbie to land in the US next month and they are all preparing to take up their roles in my life.
They have ALL been going through uncanny life events that seem to be gearing them up to work within my society. Like……it’s all too perfect.
BECAUSE: Through my friend the Author I met her Mother who is my Seamstress/Hairdesser, who is also the sister of the Marketing Goddess who got me my radio show. Through staying with her I met my Manager for Wisconsin, and my driver (possibly if he says yes).

I haven’t found roles for the couple left but I will. I un-legally (yes I know it isn’t a word) adopted 4 of my girls. They are mine for life. I will find roles for the others once Spirit highlight their skill or ambition. I just need to pull it out of them.
I’m pretty sure they will be my readers. My female readers. Intuitive and Median.

SO it seems my science seems to be working. I sat them all down, and told them once I am making what I need to, all contributions will stop.
Any money that comes in goes to the school after we take what we need.
If I do end up the Oprah of the Paranormal world I’ll retire all 19 of my students and I promised them all trips to New Zealand with me as their tour guide.
I’ve given myself a year to make this so.
You watch this next chapter.
All I need to finish my list is get my contract, visa, marry, have a baby. I’m gonna give that radio station the best show they have ever had. I promise to work so hard for them.
I will cross Spirits over, cleanse houses, guide people, educate them and love them all as best I can.
I am Debbie Black and I am the voice of the dead. The will be silenced no more.
Its time people knew the truth.
Get ready for me American. I’m a couple for weeks away.
Your pain, your grief, your active houses, and hearts are safe with me.

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Spirits and the Paranormal: ‘They Are Just Us Only Dead'(revised)

Most people, when they think of Spirits think of Ghostbusters, Most Haunted, Ghost Whisperer

or Medium. All popular and all completely inaccurate. What drives me mad is how people

assume all Spirits are Ghosts and all Bad.

The truth is most Spirits are here of their own free will and half of them don’t even know we

exist. And we forget they used to live, love, eat, sleep, cry like us. We……will one day be dead.

Death is not final. Spirit are just us……only dead.

In order to explain myself I will categorize them with an explanation so it makes it easier to

understand.

Imprinted Images

Often referred to in the biz as the Stone Tape theory this is when a person’s emotions are

recorded in the very fabric of the building or surroundings. Always made of natural materials

like stone, concrete, rock, wood, pottery, water, dirt etc.

Most commonly an Imprinted Image of person is captured at the most joyous or saddest time of

that person’s life. And usually before that person’s own life ends. A time of suffering, anguish,

pain, joy, celebration. Any sort of pure and raw emotion.

It is the Grey Lady who is seen sitting at the window desperate for news that her husband is

returning from war. Her cries, her pacing of the floor can be heard on a regular basis. She doesn’t

know your there. She is locked eternally in your own anguish. She is no more than a recording in

the ether like a photograph, a snap shot in time.

It is the sound of laughter and music in a hall. When upon opening the door, it ceases. It’s a party

of a great celebration.

One thing I am starting to look in to is the theory I am starting to have is that Imprinted images

are in fact us seeing stepping in time to their past. Seeing someone as they were living their life

as though we were standing there with them as they did it in their time.

Since my Time Travel incidences, I’m starting to see things a lot clearer from Spirits point of

view and because I am being taken to their time as though I was living it with them I’m starting

to wonder if some Spirit encounters are in fact us going back in time to see them living as though

we were there with them in that time.

I have some reservations about this research I am conducting because of the fact the stone tape

theory suggests it is just one moment in time on repeat. However, there are documented cases of

people seeing this image beyond a repeat.

So, it’s not just always the grey lady standing at the window, some people will see her then walk

through a door. Or even turn to look at them confused.

There are plenty of reported incidences of so called Imprinted Images turning to respond to the

person in this time as if they were seeing a Ghost themselves as well.

So, in theory the Spirit isn’t the Spirit, in essence you are. They are seeing in the future and

responding accordingly.

I’m reading of a few cases where so called Spirits have responded to the living in a way that

would suggest to me it isn’t a case of us stumbling upon them roaming the rooms like a Ghost in

limbo but actually US going back in time to their life and them seeing us as the Ghost or

Unknown entity.

For that reason, I might soon be adding a 4th category to this post soon if my findings suggest

sometimes Spirits are the living and we are the one being projected in time to the past to see

them in their life and where they see us as the thing to fear.

I’m close to figuring out all this Death, Spirit and time being imperative to Paranormal Haunting

and Time Travel, Death and communication. It’s all so important and my time trips are

unlocking so much.

So be prepared for me to be altering this post soon because I’m close to an answer.

Resident Spirit

is a Spirit who has died, who more often than not know they have died (but some don’t know)

and choose to stay around. They may have loved the house or building so much they couldn’t

leave it.

They may have stayed to try to stay connected to the people in it, or to protect the place. It could

be love or regret that keeps them there but they should really be moved on. These are the ones

most commonly called Ghosts. I hate that term. Any Spirit, Ghost or free roaming is a higher

evolved Spiritual being and they deserve the respect. Ghost is so cheap and tawdry. It conjures

up images of women with scarves on their heads holding crystal balls saying things like ‘Yes he

is here, he’s saying G, like G, grass, gold, good? golf? He haunts you coz he wants his G…..?

A Resident Spirit will be the ones you hear coming up the stairs, and sitting on your bed, or

tucking you in, or cooking, singing etc. They go about their business. For the ones that know

they have passed on, they know your there and just go about their business and try to get

involved with the living when they feel the need or want. But they generally are too busy going

about their business and sometimes the two worlds collide. Some people will report feeling

someone hopping into bed with them.

It’s nothing personal. It may just be where they also had their bed. For those that don’t know

they have passed and have stayed on, they don’t know your there and more often than not the

two worlds collide a lot. Again, this is where I am questioning whether this isn’t more a case of

us being in their time more than them being in ours.

But neither mean any harm. In the rare occasion, you might have a bit of a naughty Spirit and

they are trying to cause bother so you will leave all you need to do is stand your ground and say

to them ‘Oi!!!!! this is my house now, bugger off if you can’t live with me, your dead’

I say this is jest but the truth of the matter is, they always deserve your respect unless they are

dark side.

They know what you can and can’t handle and the naughty ones will try to push you so you must

stand your ground. I tell people you treat them like you’re scolding a small child. Firm but fear

and with love. Always with Love. By naughty I mean the ones who might try to frighten you for

fun or move stuff to annoy you. It doesn’t happen often like manifestations they are rare but they

do happen. You know when they are being naughty or genuinely trying to get your attention.

They give off different energy.

Spirit

They can come and go as they please, know they have passed over and communicate with those

they know they can. Most people don’t know they can though which leads to interesting

encounters lol Spirit will always communicate in ways they know the person can handle it. But

most people put that movement out the corner of their eye or cold breeze in a warm room or

touch or sound they hear that is out-of- place down to their imagination or down to being tired

etc. But in actual fact, it is Spirit. It always is and will be. If you don’t listen that’s when they

move stuff, turn things on, call your name, spook the cat for fun. But they are just trying to get

your attention. All people need to do is say ‘Okay I hear you now leave me alone’ and it stops.

Or then they move on to telling you stuff or appearing in dreams to get messages across (hence

why your here lol)

Free Roaming Spirits also are the ones who died in tragic ways who can’t move on till they get

help. They need to be moved on also. You hear a lot about these poor men who died in wars who

will roam the fields looking for help, or will come into your home trying to get your attention.

They all just need to be moved on. It’s not nice to have them linger in eternal suffering like that.

Imagine that was someone you loved being treated like they were harmful and scary. Spirit

deserve our absolute respect people.

They are so much more than something to shine a light on and take a photo of.

Some Spirits will stick around just so they can let someone who can hear them know they didn’t

kill themselves, they were murdered. Once they have made that contact they feel free and can

move on. Most of the Free Roaming Spirits will divide their time (I use that term loosely)

between this world and the next.

I call them Spirit, even if they are my parents, sibling or lost children. They are all, of a higher

standing than me, as they are beings of pure light and energy. They are free of earthly restraints

of emotion and frailties, so I give them the respect they deserve and call them Spirit. They guide me in every aspect of mine and my husband’s life. I live by them and love by them. I trust them

above all others and without them my life would be a disaster.

It is my faith in Spirit guiding me that has helped me through some of the most traumatic times

of my life. I will defend them to anyone and have. Through them I live by a very strict code. In

return, they take care of me and my family.

I am what is called a White Lighter. I started out as a Pathwalker. A Pathwalker is someone who

spends their life learning, teaching and living by your guidance from Spirit. It is personal and

time-consuming work but it gives you rewards not of this earth.

A White lighter is someone who lives their life based on what Spirit tells them to do. Your sent

to help those that need it and you do it without question. You take the knocks thrown at you and

get back up with a smile because you know that there is a lesson to be learned to make you a

better person and they never give you a lesson without a reward. All sacrifices come with

reward.

If they ask something of you and you do it then your rewards are great. I make it sound like it’s

all about the rewards but the rewards aren’t always material or financial. They never ask

anything of you, you can’t give. They never expect you to do anything you can’t handle. The

strength and control you end up in your life is priceless. You see the world differently.

The Rose-Tinted Glasses come off and suddenly everything and everyone is clear to you. You

just ‘Know’ that person can be trusted even though they look dodgy. You just ‘Know’ that if

your asked by Spirit to give that man your last £3 Spirit will give you 20 back. You walk on a

Leap of Faith every day.

Everyday your walking blind. Not knowing how your day will end. But it can be so exciting and

fulfilling. The life of a White lighter is hard and sometimes thankless. So much is expected of

you but you don’t even question it. I have been blessed with so many gifts. I can’t not use them

to help people. I live to serve Spirit and in return they take care of me.

There is more to having a gift than just being able to see the dead. There are so many aspects to

it. Clairaudient (hearing Spirit) Clairsentient (smell) telekinetic (moving or manipulating objects

with your mind) Telepathic (Communicating with your mind) but really it all means the same

thing. If you can feel Spirit, you will see them, and can communicate with them if you call

yourself Psychic or Clair/whatever or Medium.

It’s all the same thing really. It’s just different names for the same science basically.

My husband and my oldest son are Telepathic and we often talk to each other when apart and

without our voices. Our oldest child has often finished our sentences of the conversations we are

having in our heads. Natural Telepathy is the gift of being able to communicate with nature and

animals. It is my favourite gift.

Like Dr Doolittle, but for trees and plants as well as animals. The clouds will often tell me when

there is about to be a natural disaster or conflict. Psychometry is using pendulums or tools of

divining to read the energy of natural objects. For example. Most people don’t realize we

shouldn’t just be buying crystals and picking up stones and shells off the beach because we are

‘in to them’ or think they are pretty. Everything on this planet works on its own vibration and not

all vibrations go together.

It can be the difference between playing a beautiful G cord on the guitar and scraping your

fingernails down a blackboard if you have anything around you that is negative to your vibration.

Before you bring anything like a crystal, rock, stone, shell, wood or anything made of all 100%

natural materials as it was created you MUST!!! have it checked to see if it matches your

vibration I promise you. If your walking around with a shell necklace around your neck and

crystals on your window sill and a bit of drift wood adorning your fire-place and you haven’t

checked it and it turns out to be an opposite energy, it can make a huge difference to how your

life is going. If your always feeling tired and drained and nothing seems to be going right and

you just can’t seem to catch a break in life, check your house for crystals and rocks etc.

We’ve all done it. We have all walked along the beach and seen a gorgeous shell we have to take

home. It could be turning all your energy of your home off kilter. You need to free that energy. If

you imagine your life as a series of cogs and someone puts a stick in one of the cogs and it stops

all the cogs from turning properly. Some stop all together, some rattle, some skip back and forth,

back and forth stuck wanting to be free.

This is what your life can be like when you have opposing vibrations in your energy field. You

need to use Psychometry to fix it. I use a pendulum made from glass but in truth you can use a

ring on a strand of your hair or cotton. As long, as it is natural and long enough to swing. Hold

the pendulum out and ask it which way it wants to swing for yes and for no. It will tell you which

way it prefers to swing.

You then place the pendulum over the object and ask; ‘Is this ‘name the object’ positive for me?

It will swing yes or not. It could be up and down for yes and side to side for no. Or in circles for

no and on a diagonal for yes. But it will decide when you ask it. And it will tell you when you

use it. If it swings Yes, you’re okay to keep it, but if it swings No, then it must be removed

immediately. If you can’t find someone who the energy is positive with then it needs to be put

back or buried.

Unfortunately, girls this is also true of gems and gold, silver, bronze etc. Diamonds and Rubies

etc., so before you let your man buy you a ring get him to check it first. It could mean the

difference between a long and happy relationship and a bitter divorce. I kid you not.

The most important thing to remember when your deal with the Paranormal is instinct and

intuition. When you’re talking to yourself in your head you’re talking to Spirit. When you ask a

question in your head and answer yourself, that is Spirit.

When you have a nagging feeling, it is Spirit. When you have second thoughts about doing

something and it turns out to have been a good thing you didn’t have second thoughts, that is

Spirit telling you something isn’t right, think again.

That is more specifically, your Spirit Elder. You might know them as Guardians, or Angels,

Guardian Angels, etc.

We all have them. We are given them from the second we are conceived to the second we die.

We have a main Spirit Elder and then well…….maybe the best way to describe it is by saying.

Imagine yourself as a house. God (or whatever you believe in) owns the house. Your Spirit Elder

is the Butler. They take care of the running of the house. They control every member of staff in

the house. Then your Elders are your cooks, cleaners, drivers etc.

Your Spirit Elder controls everything concerned with life and death. They are the ones that stop

you from crossing that road because you at the last second changed your mind then a truck

comes around the corner and just missed hitting you. They are the ones that walk you to your

loved ones when you pass away.

They guide you to the person who will give you your children. Anything to do with the biggest

aspects of your life, that is your Spirit Elder helping you get there. Not all are from decades or

hundreds of years ago. I know of a friend, of my husbands, whose wife was pregnant at the time

she was being visited by a Spirit. She was so frightened and ask for my help. It was just her

unborn Babies Spirit Elder introducing herself to the mother to be and she had only passed a few

weeks before.

I can still see her standing at my bed all apologetic for scaring a pregnant lady. Once it was

explained to this woman who her son was being protected and by someone who has family that

is still grieving over her passing, she felt very comforted and blessed.

The Elders will guide you on everything from money, love, business etc. each Elder is the

Manager of each thing.

I have Leelee, she is love and money. She is the one who stops me from wanting to hit my

husband with a bat when he is pissing me off lol. She led me to him and made me love him like I

do. She made me not fear giving up my life and traveling 17,000 to be with a man I had only met

once for a month.

Then I have Head of the Eagle. He is a young Native America boy who governs my health, both

mental and physical health. He always comes to be when I’m grieving or sick. Or if I’m having a

big crisis.

My husband has a career Spirit. I don’t. Basically Spirit are my career so….

You might have a love Spirit and if it is in your life to travel a Travel Elder. But they only have

your best interests at heart and serve only you. They are all yours and your alone. Even twins won’t have the same elder.
Unusually, my husbands, Spirit Elder is an Old man who at the time of his introduction had

Spirit children with him that were golden. As his path has progressed the children have gone

away. We are pretty sure the siblings are our boys. We didn’t know it then but looking back now

we think he was showing our boys their parents.

Because Spirit work on frequencies different to ours, when they come into contact with you, it

can be like an electric shock to your soul. It is why your hair stands on end and you shiver. It is

why you walk into a building or room and you get an almost flat, quiet, still feeling.

That is a sign your picking up on Spirit. It’s like when you’re in a library and you make a sound

and you can feel all eyes on you and it gives you that rush of blood in your chest. That’s when

you’re in contact with Spirit. It’s an electrical charge or impulse. Your blood pumps faster, you

go hot or cold (depending on how much energy they have used up).

They like to play games to get your attention. But they only show themselves to those they want

to. You could be in a room with 50 people and you’re the only one who sees the vase move.

But you must remember they can’t physically touch stuff. It is done by making it move through

telepathic telekinetic energy. It does, actually move, you do, actually get scratched but they can’t

do it physically. They make you think it happens so it actually happens. They gather a great deal

of energy and use you as the charge, so to speak. They can’t physically touch things as they are

just energy on a different frequency.

Depending on the frequency depends on whether they can move or talk to you. Understand?

So, enough energy turned to one frequency will have enough power to move objects.

Enough of the other frequency and you can hear them talk. Telepathy is talking using the power

of the mind and Telekinesis is moving objects using the power of the mind.

Teenagers are the best at this power as their brains run on a whole different frequency all

together and it is in a permanent state of their WiFi being on they can create untold seemingly

paranormal experiences like Poltergeist activity and Demonic Possession type activity all just

because they were having a bad day. It really is remarkable. I’d love to do a study on it.

My nephew was very powerful at using telekinesis when he was a kid. But it seems in my family it can only be used when we are angry or frustrated. One time when he was about 4 he was fed up with his Mother telling him to sit still while she did a reading for us at the table. After about the 10th time of getting told off for fidgeting he grumpily looked at a teaspoon that was sitting on the table, arms all crossed in a puff and the spoon just ‘popped’ up and bent in half, lol. It was astounding. I must ask him if he can still do it.

I, myself, can only do it when I’m really angry. Like punch a wall angry and I’m never that angry in my everyday life but I have thrown things out of cupboards and down hallways or slammed doors shut before. Luckily for me the last time I used it was over a decade ago. I have

been told I am never allowed to use it. Because I can only use it through negative means it could invite negative entities in while I have my guard down.

There are many types of people like me. They go by many names but how can you tell the ones who are genuine from the ones who are fake?

ORBS: People mistake these for being Spirit but in actual fact only a small percentage of orbs are Spirit. The rest are balls of energy or time traps. The energy ones are manifested from stress, anger, depression and the time traps are pockets of moment trapped in time. The rest are dust.
How you can tell which ones are Spirit are because you’ll see colour or faces in them often resembling photos taken f loved ones but you can see the faces as plain as day.

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