Spirit Attachment/ Psychic Vampires: It’s a lie

I was recently contacted by a few people asking me about Spirit attachment. Instead of replying to them all individually I thought I would write an article about it and send them the link instead.

There are psychics and mediums out there telling people their run of bad luck or depression is because they have Spirits attached and it pisses me off.
This bullshit they spout is hurting people. Genuinely hurting people. People are paying money to these frauds and coming out terrorized worst than they went in. I think these people should be thrown in jail to be honest. It’s fraud and it’s destructive and I can’t WAIT to start my radio show so I can put the right these wrongs people are doing in the name of Spirit.
People, the dead do NOT attach to the living, they can NOT manipulate your life in a way that makes you lose jobs and money etc….YOU do that. The choices YOU make affect YOUR life not the dead.
They have NO interest in creating trouble for you for the simple fact that if they did they would go to the darkness faster than you could blink.
People need to understand how a dead person functions.
In order for them to come through they need energy. They are no different to a current that runs through a plug. They NEED an energy source. They have to use limited energy because communication isn’t easy to them. Contrary to popular belief they don’t pop up and show themselves at any random time. They are intelligent light, they have to pick their times of use us to come through but they do so knowing it comes at a detriment to us physically.
It is EXHAUSTING having ANY kind of Spirit communication so they prefer the easiest way to do it.
Telepathy and Synchronicity. It’s not just your physical though. It is conscious exhaustion too.
It can take them the drain your phone just to show themselves as a black dot. Can you imagine what they would have to drain to attach to a living person?
If they were attached to a living person 24/7 the person they attach to couldn’t function as a human, nor would anything electrical around them.

Even the darkest entity is fighting to get to the light. The darkness only comes when invited and is created by YOUR belief they exist.
You MUST use logic people. If your losing jobs it’s either going to be because there is a world wide economic down turn or its you.

The darkness feeds on fear and negativity but even it knows they can’t come unless invited. There is a rule of compliance in the universe that every organic being adheres to. They know without a balance and symbiotic relationship with everything else, we don’t evolve.
To do something so destructive to a living person would have severe consequences for ALL involved and to be honest, the average Joe just isn’t that interesting.
The choices you make today dictate what happens next. If you make bad choices, bad things will happen in your life.
So just make better choices from now on.
Follow your compass every time.

As for Psychic Vampires? Don’t insult me. I can’t even bring myself to discuss the issue.
If you want to believe this stuff then you get what you deserve. Just because some new age dork says it’s a thing doesn’t make it a thing.
It’s people finding excuses in the paranormal for things they can’t or don’t want to face so they blame it on someone else. But because its bollocks they blame it on people they don’t know or can see. The Invisible trouble makers as I call them lol
Them damn invisible goblins and ghouls causing someone to be tired and not think straight ‘Grrrrrr said sarcastically’.

It’s like I always say ‘People so desperate to believe in something, they will believe anything’ but it’s the lack of understanding in the paranormal that causes all the trouble in the first place.

Educate yourself or come to me.
I can’t wait to get my show started. People need to start breathing again without fear of thinking the dead all up in their face.

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What is Synchronicity?

Many of you know the journey I’m on right now and how synchronicity has been playing a huge part in my life recently.
My ex husband and I have been getting Foxes a lot too which started in December.
Foxes everywhere and in the early hours of this morning having had no sleep (some times you need to deprive yourself of sleep in order to concentrate harder, it’s hard to explain until your going through it but when I do spells for clients I go without sleep for 48 hours as they work better than when I’ve slept well. It’s a concentration thing).
But it dawned on me this morning it’s more than likely talking about Fox news. Tucker Carlson etc….he’s really doing some incredible stuff and who would of thought Fox news of all places would end up the Knight in shining media armour?
So I decided to do an article about synchronicity as it is playing a huge part in my life right now.
Synchronicity in lay terms is when the Universe gives you repetitive signs and symbols that have undeniable coincidental meaning to your life or a situation your going through or are irrefutably backing up other messages your getting from Spirit.
For example. My seeing 44 everywhere and KY and Foxes. I know to pay attention to these symbols because the more you are shown something the closer you are to figuring it out of the closer you are to solving the puzzle.
You might see blue cars everywhere. The same type of blue car over and over, in ads, magazines, on the road, in paces like your kitchen, your friends house, doctors office, the same blue car will show up somewhere over and over.
Then you meet a man you quite like and he has the exact same blue car you kept seeing and he ends up being the love of your life and you get married and have a beautiful life together.

Synchronicity (German: Synchronizität) is a concept, first introduced by analytical psychologist Carl Jung, which holds that events are “meaningful coincidences” if they occur with no causal relationship yet seem to be meaningfully related.

But for me it is basically when the Universe and Spirit send through obviously repetitive symbols to send messages and clues for you to use. It can be a heads up about something important or life changing.
It can be a test, a warning or backing up claims of something. But when it happens the intention is for you to sit up and take notice. There IS a purpose and it won’t go away until it’s purpose is served.

It becomes undeniable though. It can even be scary at how they will be thrown at you so fast and so often. Like on our drive home that day when I saw 44 over 50 times on a 2 hour car journey.
The thing is though you can’t look for it. It comes to you. You can’t go looking for the synchronicity. Your drawn to it.
So you can’t sit in the car and look around for 44 everywhere. 44 will throw itself at you when your just minding your business.
It will be in many forms. For me it wasn’t just road signs but license plates, stickers, on the radio, on houses, price tags, painted on a bridge across the road, etc….
But I do know that the more you ignore it the more it finds you like in the case of my student Rainbow seeing the tigers and lions everywhere at the same time as I was.
It’s getting so bad now even my ex is getting them. The same as me and ones of his own.
It’s all very exciting though and I can’t wait to see what they all mean if I haven’t figured it out already.
The Lion/Tiger one I’m pretty sure I have it figured out but as with anything with Spirit you can never assume to know what they are talking about lol
But as always you know I’ll document it here first.

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The truth about Ouija/Pendulums and Tarot (your gonna REALLY hate me after this)

Okay so here is the biggest misconception about Tarot cards and Ouija Boards.
People think they get to talk to the dead using these three tools and it just isn’t so.
I’m going to outline why below.

Tarot Cards: A tool used to tell ones future. It uses NO Spirits to conduct. This is the one that pisses me off the most because there are people out there calling themselves Psychic/Mediums because they use Tarot cards.
Spirit don’t need this stuff and it’s simply insulting to people out there who have spent their ENTIRE lives dedicating themselves to their gift and honing their skills such as myself.
Tarot readers take credit for the Reader (Client) using their own telepathic skill to chose the best card for the outcome and answer they need to help guide them.
It is the READER who conducts the reading not the person doing the spread.
Tarot cards are a set of predetermined answers, yet many take money and credit for this type of reading when in actual fact is the reader could just get a set of cards themselves and save themselves the money by doing the reading themselves.
My students are taught to read EVERYTHING BUT Tarot because I require my students in my society to have actual skill and ability.

Trust me when I say if your paying to have a reading from someone using Tarot who calls themselves anything other than a Tarot Reader your being conned.
If your a Psychic or a Medium you wouldn’t need Tarot at all.

Having a gift is a Privilege NOT a right and yet so many people take these titles without having any right and it pisses me off.
Having the privilege of guiding people using the dead to guide you requires hard work, dedication and a delicate balance of the mind, body and Spirit 99.9% of people out there who conduct readings just don’t have.
I’m sorry but it’s true. It’s called a GIFT, for some it should be called a Loan but for the rest it should be called a Fantasy.
Honestly, buy a pack and do your own readings. You’ll get exactly the same results as the person doing the reading and save yourself the money.
To test my word, go to a Tarot Reader who calls themselves anything other and ask them to conduct a reading without the cards. If they have been doing it for more than 5 minutes this shouldn’t be a problem.
A true Gifted, can read using many forms.
I myself do Clairvoyance, Psychometry, Medianship, Dream Interpretation, Tea Leaves, Palms, Bones, Nature (Natural Telepathy) I can read animals paws and feet as well, I can also read using normal playing cards. The kind you play Poker with. To me it plays out a move in my head of the persons life.
I can also read a persons vibration, or Aura and even read a person based on what colours they are wearing that day.
If you have a gift you don’t need Tarot.

Pendulums:
This uses the Science of Metaphysics, nothing more. No dead people use a pendulum to make contact.
A Pendulum uses magnetism and the fields of energy around you and the planet.
They can be used to ask yes no questions. How? because anything organic can be read and communicate in it’s own unique way. You as the conduit for the pendulum need to train yourself to connect to the planet first before anything else because your required to tune in to the vibration or fields of energy around you.
This is why the pendulum is best used to find things like water, lay lines, electrical lines, lost objects, treasure, oil, missing people, active spots, etc……
It’s insulting to think our beloved dead are sitting tapping and pushing on a glass ball or whatever you use to communicate.
If anyone says they are reading you using one they are fooling not only you but themselves.
The trouble with Pendulums though is how easy it is to manipulate the answer you want. Because you too are organic and everything in the Universe is also organic and the vibrations of each to be read have to be perfectly balanced if you don’t finely tune your connection to your Pendulum you can manipulate the answer you want.
When you don’t want a specific answer you get the correct hit. But if your wanting an answer you create the answer you want.
Again, tuning in to a Pendulum requires at least a year of dedication and commitment to it. My Pendulum went with me everywhere.
Also you must never buy your pendulum, it should be found, or offered up to you and it must be 100% organic and cleansed before use.
You don’t know what your piece of rock, stone, shell, bone etc….has been before it was your pendulum.
And as I have said before, if it is offered to you it doesn’t need cleansed. If you find it then it does.
The difference being, when your out and about an offered Pendulum jumps out at you, it is one of those things where you’ll see the stone your meant to have on a beach full of them because it jumps out at you and you can’t take your eyes off it.
One that you find is usually something you already have laying around the house already in which case it needs to be cleansed in salt water.
You can’t read the planet if your using plastic. So your pendulum MUST be 100% organic.
Once you have found your pendulum you must then going around your house and use it to test every other organic object in your home.
Having an object in your home that is negative for you is like putting a magnet next to a compass. It can pull and weigh it down and actually can be responsible for activity in your home, from Poltergeist to depression, relationship issues and erratic behaviour in your children and pets, not to mention in you.
If you can’t sleep it could be because that pretty rock you found on the beach you didn’t test saw a war when it was part of a mountain or even a ritualistic killing from 10,000 years ago. You just don’t know what your brining into your home. THIS is when your Pendulum is at it’s best. I don’t have so much as a twig in my house that hasn’t been tested.
People don’t understand why I take this stuff so seriously. Why I’m so fiercely protective of Spirit and my craft.
Because no one gets it. These new age people have taken an ancient skill and turned it into a fluffy joke.
The truth of the matter is, the pretty pieces of our planet (crystals, gems, jewels) aren’t any better to use for healing and power than the stones in your garden.
They all come from the one life source. But no one wants the fingernail, they all want the organs.
And that pisses me off.

Ouija Boards:
SIGH!!!! This is the one I deal with DAILY from people.
Ouija boards use NO dead people. The dead do NOT talk through them. YOU DO!!!
Those conducting the séance or board (it’s the exact same thing but using a different conduit) manipulate the board or session using Telekinesis. This is a Science using the power of ones mind to move objects.
The answers you get are telepathic in ability. This is the Science of placing thought or reading ones mind using your mind.
People say ‘But how did it know the name of my Grandmother, no one knows what her real name is’. The answer is ‘Because you do’.
Our brains are the most powerful computer/engine in the Universe. There is nothing like it nor will their ever be as long as we keep evolving.
People don’t understand this stuff yet so many people use these tools for entertainment and then fuck it up.
Then it’s me they run to in order to fix it. Everyone knows Ouija and Seance’s are counter productive to Spirit communication.
The dead don’t sit and push a piece of glass to talk, they don’t need it and requires WAAAAY too much energy to make happen.
Moving objects and showing themselves in a 3D visual require thee most amounts of energy needed and so they avoid it at all costs.
NOW!!! the thing with these types of entertainment (and it is for entertainment only because it’s not a real gift or ability, it’s just Science) is if one single person in that group is negative, depressed, angry, or easily manipulated it places negativity into the outcome and then you get the nasty stuff coming through.
Then because of the fear and hysteria it creates it then invites the actual bad stuff because they see you and think ‘Ahhhh here is one we can cause trouble for’ then BOOM!!! you get the growls and fear being generated.
The dead know how much trouble all of this can cause and want and play no part in any of it.
If you use these tools for readings, your producing the answer not the dead.
Your basically doing your own reading using your own abilities. That’s it.
So don’t be fooled.

I hope you learned something today and I hope I cost a few fakes some money because there are more of them out there than genuinely gifted people.
Having a genuine gift is the same as people and politics. Just because you have an interest in it doesn’t mean you can and should do it.
As I say time and time again ‘Just because everyone can have the gift doesn’t mean they should’.
I simply refuse to show ANYONE who asks how to open up to Spirit because not everyone should.
If your self absorbed, too caught up in your own life to take the time to help others, if you suffer from depression, addiction or any kind of mental anguish, if your a negative person, aggressive, scared of everything, too afraid to be what you are, easily manipulated or frightened or refuse to open and expand your mind or too lazy to do the work then this isn’t for you.
You don’t need to sit under copper triangles or meditate. If you sit and do the work you don’t need any of it at all because YOU become the biggest conduit there is.
Your Pineal Gland should be the only tool of your trade for ANY of it and if you don’t exercise that most then the rest of it is pointless.

It is a Privilege not a right, it’s dealing with actual dead people who often have tragic stories to tell to distraught and frantically hopeful loved ones. If your too busy getting laid, stoned, or lazy to take the years required to perfect your craft then this really isn’t for you.

Tarot readers have the easiest job in the world in this industry. They don’t even need to ask for protection because all they are doing is playing poker dealer in someone’s life. All the work is done for them.
The reader shuffles, the reader picks the cards, the reader uses their own ability to pick the cards they need to help them and the conduit is the cards, and the person taking your money for it gets all the credit using no ability or skill yet they get all the reward.
How is that fair or just?

When I hit the mainstream media I’m going to be getting hated on by millions and millions of people around the world because I’m gonna shut as many of them down as they can.
Thousands upon thousands of years of stud, honing ones Science and gift has gone into my society and these people just all think they can just come play at being one of us without any training or ability.
Having an interest in the Paranormal Sciences don’t mean you can ever understand the intensity of the training. There are steps taken that often start from birth.
A Pathwalker starts their path from birth then when it is nearing time to move up to White Lighter they are sent a teacher.
Yet so many people are told and believe they are one. So many people are getting readings and being told they are a White Lighter. But you can’t be one without being a Pathwalker and as I said a true Pathwalker starts from birth.
A Pathwalkers life is not an easy one and the gifts are established from birth.

A Pathwalkers life is a difficult one, often dealing with serious mental and emotional issues like bullying, abuse of all forms, poverty, adversity and social bias ALL while dealing with their gift.
A Pathwalker is born with a gift, and a White Lighter then uses these gifts to help the masses. The dedication and loyalty required would put a Special Forces trainee to shame.

Often those who can’t balance their empathic gift with the path with which they walk often end up committing suicide or want to.
To quote The Highlander ‘B A L A N C E’
If you don’t find the balance in all of it you might as well take up a sport or hobby because the rest of it is pointless.

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Spirits/The Dead/The Devil/Demons dream meanings:

I think it’s best I write a post about it instead of answering individual emails and comments.
So here it is in a nut shell.

To see a Spirit in a dream:
is a warning of deception. You must look to the dream to know in which area of your life deceit lay in.
A house, childhood home would obviously be in your family life, family members, someone from childhood.
Office buildings and schools would be work and friends etc…

You must determine if its a Spirit in an interpretation point of view.
If you didn’t know this Spirit in life then it is a warning of deceit.

If it was a Spirit of a loved one or someone you knew then you must interpret that also.

If your dreamed of being dead yourself it means an immediate release to your problems.

If you spoke to someone who was dead it means good news is coming your way.
Aunts and Uncles
is help coming with money matters.

Other relatives:
is help from an unexpected source.

In laws are good fortune from strangers.

Unknown Females: You will hear sudden surprising news.

Mothers represent love and home,

Fathers are authority and finances.
So to dream of a dead parent is expect sudden news in that area.

To dream of hearing of a death is news of a birth.

To dream of someone you don’t recognize it means an inheritance or significant financial gain.

By Spirit I mean the resident types, not the imprinted images.

However, if you have a conversation with a deceased person in a dream that seems more like a visit than a dream, it was a visit.

To dream of the Devil or Demon:

To dream of the devil in his full comedy red cape, horns and hooves is a warning you hiding a secret and need to come clean.

If you did battle with the Devil you will outwit your enemies.

If The Devil spoke to you it means your going to have to fight temptation.

To dream of being his friend it is a health warning.

Demons/Poltergeist activity is a warning to pay attention to your mental or emotional state.

But you must interpret the entire dream because to dream of death and the dark side in my culture can also be a very VERY good omen.
It just depends on if you were afraid, fought it, ran away etc…

But to dream of being afraid or have fear in a dream means this:
If you fought the fear or overcame it, you will forecasts a solution to your problems.

If you couldn’t shake the fear and you overcame it you are being warned about the deceit of a close friend or ally.

To dream of helping someone overcome their fear it means a solving of a misunderstanding or the removal of a threat in your life.

Ghosts in dreams (I hate this word) but I mean imprinted images and those who linger in dreams.

if it scared you is a warning of peer pressure or pressure being placed upon you is coming.

If it simply appeared it is good luck in business or in love.

If the Ghost was familiar to you it is again a warning of deceit from a close friend.

To dream of Heaven is a warning that change is coming you won’t like one bit.
To dream of Hell means an increase in income. However this success will evoke jealousy from those around you.

To dream of returning from hell is a warning of temptation that you won’t be proud of yourself for giving into.

To Dream of the Occult in any kind of way means a beneficial gain through new insights and unforeseen avenues.

Funerals: If you saw or attend a funeral means news of a birth/engagement/pregnancy/promotion.
To dream of your own funeral forecasts a solution to your problems to all present anxieties.

I hope this helps you now 🙂
Love and Light
Debbie
xoxox

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Why we choose to die:

I know this post going to be controversial but I only write what I know to be truth.
As you all know I’ve been on quite the journey of self discovery this year. Everything I test myself to do this year I have done.
I successfully completed all my tasks bar one (retire the ex) but that for me and my life it is mission accomplished for this year. Next year I’ve set my goals even higher as it involves me building my life and career in the US to be with my beloved and my American family. (which is all of you who need the kind of love and help I provide).
So in these lessons I’ve learned about the physics of the Universe, the cause of the Big Bang, the Cosmological Constant, balance, time, gravity, magnetism, etc….and it’s correlation to our evolution, existence and purpose as told to me by the dead.
All done through weed and music lol

Anyway on one of my many occasions where I was asking a thousand billion questions I was told the reason why we are the only race in our galaxy who chose to die still.
The others out there have lived for millions of years, evolved beyond the need for vocal chords, physical form, etc….what we see is how they chose to show themselves to us as our primitive brains are still very visually.
When you evolve past the need to die you get to travel through time and space and to the light where all time exists. So death doesn’t exist.

The reason we do it is to fold.

1) In order to obtain optimum Spiritual light we must suffer the human experience.
Life is death, death IS life. This entire Universe is based on evolution and balance, time, magnetism etc….we are in actual fact one of the lower forms of existence basically. We are just three devolution’s away from being Dark Side Spirits and it’s up to us to find the balance so when we die we can evolve.
Without evolution nothing and I mean NOTHING progresses. We are relying on a delicate balance to make sure we all get it right so we can all climb up that ladder of evolution together.
Unfortunately for our brethren up there because they don’t die, and they are pretty much perfect in every light they no longer have that experience of life and the suffering that comes from death.
When they hurt they heal.
They have no fear because there is nothing more powerful than them, their power and technology.
Each race striving to advance and perfect their connection to the light.
Spirits in essence are recycled over and over until they get in just right and I know in cases of murder victims and victims of war, babies, kids, mentally ill or disabled, those who suffered crippling addiction, homeless, etc…those who have suffered great pain and loss in their lives evolve. The harder the life, the higher you evolve.
Because there is no greater fear on this earth than death.
To over come that fear is monumental for an evolving Spirit, so some chose lives that are short and or have great impact to themselves and those around them in order to gain the optimum human experience.

Maurice Maeterlinck said ‘The dead are the living on holiday’ and he was spot on.
When we go on holiday we like to ski, ride, swim, shop, eat, sleep, shag, drink, dance, laugh, love etc…..right?
Well it’s the same for a Spirit.
I have actually heard of loved ones who when they passed over never came back again. They evolved to such a high status in the light, they forfeited the need for human form or life again. Thus giving their suits or vessels to a new soul.
As even energy takes up space if its in large enough quantities lol
We are all responsible for each other which is why our friends up there check in on us all the time.
And NOT looking like greys and blues and giant 7 feet humans. We are the only race who needed to evolve skin and hair and shyte like that. Some of them don’t even have eyes but are incredible navigators.
There is only one bad one and they live in fear every day. We need to help them to be honest. They did bad things out of desperation.
But fundamentally they want life and it is evading them. The irony of life, they kill to live lol silly buggers.
But if we help each other we get

2) Full control of all time and space. Having that kind of control i ones evolution is key to our existence as we are ALL here for the Learning experience. To see how far as can go basically. See how far we can push ourselves to see what is beyond it all.
Evolution, creates, on every level.
We know that we create it every day, every day our Universe expands, when we create and evolve. But if we get the balance wrong our Solar system gets caught in a recycling process and planets get destroyed. I know we are missing about 50 in total, 7 just in our Solar System.
The big gap in space, is where the big bang happened and we are the result of what was pushed out from it after it was created. So I’ve been told.
Like when you detonate a landmine. It leaves a crater? Understand what I mean?
But because the Universe is all based on balance, it works the other way as well. When we get it right we create new worlds in other galaxies and they’re so much nicer than ours lol.

We have fucked this up so much we are that department store in every small town that can no longer survive and it’s shelves are empty and they can’t afford to have all the lights on and it runs on a skeleton staff and it’s heart breaking to watch because in it’s day it was the hub of the town. It took care of everyone in the town and everyone is devastated to see it’s demise.
Well earth is like that department store. We have fucked it up. It’s going to close it’s doors one day and if we don’t prepare for that or try to fix it, we will all suffer for it. No one wants to have to drive miles and miles to Walmart when they could have what they need right here.
However, the stores demise all depends on how the towns folk chose to deal with it. They can save it and rebuild it or walk away and let it die out.
The trouble is when if we let earth die out, it tips the balance and our solar system goes the wrong way and gets recycled and we all have to start again.
So we are going through various stages of evolution in order to get off and safe this planet also. For the greater good of humanity and the Universe and all that gets created in herm (joint energy masculine, feminine not one of tuther. I created the word Herm to describe it lol).

But when we have access to this light we have total power and control over time and space. We can go back and forth to the past, present and future of any living being on any form of existence.
Omnipresence is what it is.

So death isn’t something we need to fear in the light, but until we re i the light, death is all part of the necessary steps required to evolve.
It takes a selfless soul of light to chose to die as a child or by way of murder etc…..honestly, only a being with total understanding of it all would chose such a life to live.
The lessons aren’t just theirs though. There are always lessons to be learned from anyone surrounded by or connected to just pain.
But death is only hard on the living. For the death it is an adventure. An experience. A right of passage we all agree to take part in before we come down to live.
If you lost someone, you chose to have this journey with them however short the path.
These are things we decide and agree to even while we sleep (for those yet to woven (born) into our journeys fabric).

I believe one day, (until we are immortal which won’t happen while we still live by banks and government, money and fear etc…we are fucked.
However it is starting to change. We are about to tip the balance in favour of evolving). We will celebrate death.
We won’t mourn but celebrate the journey that loved on now gets to be a part of because what if, just what if, they got to make it to the light where they now get to live forever?
Once we are able to look past those fuckin Kardashians and all the distractions we allow ourselves to get caught up in, we will be able to join them in thought and memory (actual visual memory like I can now do at will) and never be parted when while we are still living in this life on this planet and they aren’t.
Who wouldn’t want that until we are all together riding the same thread of light?

But it’s up to all of us. No segregation, no hate, no labels, no dominance. Just doing what you love and loving what you do does all you need to kick start your true light.

We choose to die and we choose when we die and how.
My Dad died of heart disease. He could of not smoked or drank and eat crap the way he did. Even though his organs were healthy and that of a man half his age his heart was fucked. It was his choice.
My sister chose to die of skin cancer, she went in the sun, when she was told at the age of 14 not to.
My Mum chose to die of cancer because she didn’t have her check up the first time she felt off. Had she of answered the doctors letters to get checked up she would still be here not having died at 65 from Ovarian Cancer.
Suicides choose to pull the trigger, jump, swallow, etc…..even murder victims choose to open doors, hop in cars, follow their killer etc…..but this while it seems harsh, is ALL true.
We control every aspect of our loves including when we die. I used to think we didn’t but I was wrong, so wrong.
With the exception of the innocent ones (babies, children etc…) it’s all up to us, but all of our fate is decided before we are even born. But there is a domino effect that begins once we take our first breathe into life.
My family would all still be here. If only……however, this is nothing to be sad about. That was their journey and they willingly chose to participate in it with us.
We are all actors playing specific roles in each others plays.
Except in the future, the final scene gets standing ovations not boos and hisses.

It’s that simple 🙂