Dead Lives Matter: Letting go of the past

There are any forms of Spirit communication. Spirit are inventive to say the least and as subtle as a brick when they want to let us know they are around.

But why do they do it? Why go to all that bother when they know they are the butt of jokes, misunderstood, abused, denied, ridiculed and lied about?
Dead Lives Matter. Just because they are dead doesn’t mean they don’t have an opinion and I’m a spokesperson or representative for the dead.
I’m their loud speak or foghorn some would say lol
The thing that sets me apart from other Medians or Intuitive Clairvoyants is instead of trying to prove they existed I sat and asked them questions and observed their answers.
I stopped hearing the dead and started listening to the dead.
And they taught me how to be an amateur theoretical physics, and philosophy and history. I understand evolution now on a mind blowing level. It seem so easy to me now because I’m lucky enough to experience the answer to the question I seek.
I am developing the theory based on observation of recent conversations with the dead and things I’ve experienced is those of us who are dead who communicate often have something to make up for in this life with loved ones of society.
For example. Those of my loved ones who are crossed over who I see often in Spirit, are those who I had issues with in life. Hurts and issues I carry with me due to the nature of the relationship we had.
For example: (I’m about to get very personal here)
My Dad. I loved him. He is someone as far as his long and distinguished army career is something I simply beam with pride for.
I have SO much respect for what he did for his country. He was adored by all who knew him. He made time for anybody who needed him.
Except his family. He neglected my Mum, cheated on her, left her to raise 7 kids on her own and when he was home he slept and got pissed.
He was a fantastic man and we never went hungry and always had a roof over our head. Just…..
He let me Mother dream about ‘One day when you get out of the army we can go to Scotland’ and when he did get out he dropped dead 7 years later having worked himself to death as a security guard who worked all the hours blob sent.
Leaving my poor Mother to raise 2 orphaned grandchildren by herself.
I know my Dad was embarrassed of me. I was over weight, sleepy-aroundy, reckless and un-militarian. (yes I made up a word). I was too soft, I cried all the time. I hurt so bad as a teenager and child.
he wanted badly for me to join the army. I think he thought it would toughen me up and help me lose weight. Truth be told, If I wasn’t so fat I would of joined. I’d of had a great time. I would of been so proud to have been known as Sarg Major Callaghan’s daughter. Then I would of risen to the ranks just to spite him.
Yet the night he died, it was me he sent for. We drove 2 hours to be home that night he called me and asked me if I was coming home that day Friday 9th January 1991. Which I thought was odd and I told my husband at the time ‘Something is wrong, I need to get home’. My Dad didn’t like me, why was he calling me? The ones he did like lived across the road from him and down the road etc…
h had been unwell and had been to the Doctor. He was given Amitriptyline and was afraid to take it. I talked him into taking it because I was taking it too.
I went to bed that night and said to Mum ‘I’m not going to sleep tonight. I can sleep in the morning when I know he’s okay’. Call if you need me.
No sooner had I hopped into bed with a book all hell broke loose.
I had to do CPR on him, my poor Mother standing at the door with my nephew who was about 14 I think looking to me to do something.
When the ambulance was there had to ring my siblings.
Anyway…..he and I had issues. The only time I ever saw pride for me was the day I got married. When I walked out in my dress. He did a double take. He took my face in his hands and told me I looked so beautiful and I knew he meant it. He teared up and said I looked like my Aunty Rosina which I’m now getting emotional about because as I talk I’m reliving the experience. (the perks of time traveling) I’m feeling my Dads big hard Royal Engineers hands on my soft skin. I can smell him.
Old spice and tobacco. I thought my Aunty Rosina was a movie star. She was stunning to me. My dads hands were scared and rough because when I was a baby he put a fire out in my bed room with his bare hands because my sister Paula went to sleep reading by candle light.
The candle was on a varnished dresser and the varnish stuck to his hands.
I know your telling me you loved me Dad and I love you too but you were the man who was supposed to protect me forever and you didn’t.
But I forgive you. I do. Because on the course of my journey I have come to realize that you taught me so much growing up. It felt like you were never there but when you were there you clearly made an impact on me.
You taught me my love of tanks and cars. You taught me how to walk. I’ll never forget the only compliment you ever gave me as a kid was I had an excellent walk lol
You taught me how to be organized. I loved it when you would bounce the coin on our beds to see if they bounced. I was determined to get it bouncing higher than my sister Erin’s.
You taught me my love of death. Serial killers and unsolved mysteries etc…because I’m Scorpio, I have a fascination with death because I rule it. I rule birth, regeneration, the occult and sex (hehe).
I would try and solve them. Dad and I would have discussions with him about who we thought Jack the Ripper was.
You taught me how to drink. I LOVED watching you entertain the crowds. You sang like a god. You sounded just like Bing Crosby who I adore. His Xmas album takes me back to my childhood Christmases. You always made Christmas so exciting. You were home, and happy. You were relaxed and friendly. You were excited for Santa.
You were such a big kid. I was so proud of you. Do you remember when I was about 8 I had a vision of you and Mum dying when I was still young? I was afraid you wouldn’t see my children. You came into my room because my siblings were laughing at me for being dramatic and you sat on my bed and you said ‘You and Mum weren’t going anywhere, not in this life or the next, life goes on Debbie’.
I’ll never forget what. I was 18 when Lauri died, 25 when you died and 32 when Mum died. You never saw my kids and neither did Mum.
But its okay because you do now. My boy has been talking about you since he was 2yrs old.
Thank you for protecting him. I know it was you that stopped him falling the wrong way off the couch. he should of fallen through the glass cabinet and he didn’t. He moved slowly on an angle and got slowly lowered down.
So I forgive you. I’m moving past it now. I have let go of it all. I cant ignore the fact you were a good teacher and you made me not afraid of what us kids were.

My sister Laurie I hardly every see. I’ve had maybe 4 encounter with her my entire life since she has been dead. All in dreams.
Bu my son has been talking about you since before he could walk. The pregnant lady who hit her head with red hair.

We had a good relationship. We got closer when she got sick. I helped her with her pregnancy an cancer treatment. She was diagnosed with terminal cancer the same time she finds out she is pregnant at the age of 27. She was due to have Emma on the 31st of May. They induced her on the 17th of April. She died on the 31st of May. I’ll never forget the look on Mums face as I lay beside you after I cleared your airways and put you in the recovery position.

I knew immediately why I’d just done the comprehensive first aid course on my Early Childhood Development Certificate.
You and I never had reason for you to hang around. That’s why I never saw you. I get it now. I know your part of the greater consciousness that helps me figure stuff out.

My Mum I never see. I’ve had maybe 2 dreams, you have come through on reading, yet I feel you answer my questions. You let me go when you were dying because you knew you and I were gonna be okay after your death. You and I had been on a journey since the second I was conceived. We both had to make a choice. Live or die. We chose life and there began our journey. You used to smack the shit out of me but I grew to adore everything about you. You taught me to be strong and to stand y your man no matter what. You taught me to cook.
You used to love standing in the kitchen letting me peel carrots, I could tell because you always called me Bub and played with my hair.
You taught me how to read palms and tea leaves our way.
You taught me pride for my culture. Scottish and Maori. You were the victim of abuse yourself because of Papa. So it’s okay. I still loved you. I grew to love you more. You were the personification of what a real woman was.
I wish I’d gotten you to teach me how to sew. I loved you teaching me to knit. I would even of let you teach me stupid gardening stuff bllllhhhaaa.
It was so boring to me until you taught me to feel the soil and stuff. That was our special thing between you and I no one knew about. Your respect for the land and it’s life was just so special t watch. I saw how being in the garden made you calm. It brought you peace. It’s why when I need calm and to connect to the universe I need to be around trees and plants. You taught me that.
You taught me how to take care of my man. The only difference is I also got my own independence. I’m determined to show y boys what it is to see a positive female role model. Someone who works hard to be the best at what I am while still maintaining a stable relationship with my man. (I’m talking about my life here not yours) and raise children at the same time. In fact I’m going one better and retiring my EX husband so he can stay and raise our boys and home schooling them, driving me around and being the cook and cleaner while I run an empire haha
Sounds nuts, but watch me.

My point to all of this rambling is this. I believe that the Spirits who communicate have to in order to make up for some loss in relationship during life.
They are hear to teach us. Hear their wisdoms and learn from what they teach. Be honest, stop denying it exists. They are just energy. Like for example. Look at air. You can’t see it but you now it is there. You can’t exist without it.
If they are around, they re trying to make up for something. Let them do it. So they and you can move on from it having learned something from the experience.
Whether you knew them in life or not. If they are there and your experiencing them, there is a lesson in it or you. Help them out. It’s the kind thing to do. Trying to prove their existence instead of understanding it.
If you have issues with someone who has crossed over and you another are around, find a way to let it go.
Whether it is forgiveness or cutting off all acknowledgement, either way they get to move on and learn from the experience and so do you.
But move on. The dead matter to us. As far as the evolution of us as a race is concerned it really does.
The dead have something to say and they an help you move on from so much.
I shared my story with you, my personal story with you because I was showing you as it happened how you move on from something that has stayed with you for a long time that left you growing up hurt and confused.
Letting go of the past is important. I understand, I couldn’t move on without learning to let go of my Daddy issues.
He was a good man. I’m honestly so proud of him. He did the best he could and it got me where I am today so he can’t be half bad I reckon lol
They talk to us because they are here to teach us and until you all hear them I will speak for them. Me and my gob. My Mum literally named me Foghorn Leghorn when we were placing family members with Looney Tunes Characters.
lol She must of known something aye?

 

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Helping your Empathic side: Just Look Up

Before I came to America last month to do this radio show and start the process of trying to get my visa and so on, I sent a message out on Facebook to the people I would be spending a lot of time with to explain to them that as an Empath I will have times in my life where I will need to detach and spend time alone.
That they weren’t to take it personally. In fact I’ll just show you the message.
It is as follows:

I really don’t like socializing unless I have to. I prefer to sit and work on my connection then have down time. I don’t like being told, I like being asked, I don’t like sharing my life unless I want to share. I am a private person unless I want to be public. I am a Scorpio. I like to decide when and where I go. It’s hard for me to express this to people who are comfortable being social. I get accused of being a snob or rude but I’m not. I’m independent and I like to know my surroundings before I charge into them. People think because I’m a hurricane with them I’m a hurricane with everyone but I’m not. AT ALL. I don’t like crowds, I don’t like being in unfamiliar surroundings and I don’t like being babied. I’m not complicated. I’m just Scorpio. I want you to help me be independent and you’ll get loyalty in abundance. But I don’t like people talking about me, sharing my life, deciding my life or assuming things. My life is an open book only once I take the lock off.
Why? Because I deal with death every single day on levels 99% of the population can’t even imagine. My articles on mental health are being published, my clients rely on me to keep their issues confidential. I take what I do very seriously. Not to mention the grief and heartache associated with my work. It’s so much for me to carry these burdens on my shoulders. I take people’s fears and turn them into hope. No-one understands that in order for ME to be free of these burdens I need time to my self. I need time to sort the emotions out in my head and release them so they don’t become my burdens too.
Please don’t be offended if I say no to something or don’t want to do it. Please understand that in one 20hr working period I may have held a man grieving for the loss of his child, helped a man decide not to hang himself, helped a woman change her career path, passed messages on to a grieving husband, taught 6 students Medianship through murder and done some Physics. My job and my gift are as protected to me as my children are. If I ask you not to share, or give me space, or help me understand something it is nothing personal. You just don’t know what goes on in my life that day.
I absorb everything like a sponge. When I’m out with you, you see people having fun, you see people being people. I hear blinding noise, I hear their fears, worries and thoughts, their broken hearts and suicidal thoughts, their debt worries and dishonesties. On top of which I’ll then have the dead telling me how to fix them all which is impossible even though it’s all I want to do. I was born just wanting to love everyone. Because I can’t that is a burden for me. So I avoid it as much as I can and let the universe decide who I am to help.
If your in my life it means I love you. If I let you in it means I trust you. But I trust you only once. It’s not easy being me. I work long hours to help people. If I want to stay home it’s with good reason.
Please try and understand that and it’s about to get worse because when I get to America I’ll be working as much as possible. I need to earn money to provide for my family and pay taxes when I’m there. The things I’ll experience will be bigger than even I’m used to. Being thrust into the limelight the second I’m working. No time with my kids, missing my man, work on my mind, people to employ to drive me, manage my career, travel costs, rent to pay etc…my burdens become mine pretty fast.
But I do it because it’s my dream, my dream job, my dream friends and family surrounding me in many states and continents. I’m a sponge. I need to wash myself out and let myself hang out to dry. Otherwise I will become heavy with the things I absorb. So please if you don’t hear from me, or I’m quiet or anti social it’s nothing you’ve done. I’m just doing what I need to do to release my energy so I don’t end up like the people I’m in America to help.
It’s not easy being the one person 100,000 people plus a year come to for advice and guidance.
But I do it because I can. I do it because I want to. I do it because I am Scorpio, I do it because I am Debbielee. I am the person I am born to be.
Thank you all for reading this if you did. That in itself means a lot to me. My only fear in life is letting people down. I don’t want to be doing that for anyone.
But it does often come at a detriment to myself.

Since I wrote that post I have been around hundreds of people who I have absorbed their thoughts and emotions like a sponge.
I read people every second of every day even when I’m not reading them as my job. An Empath absorbs everything around them like a sponge.
If your not an Empath your never going to understand what it is to be one.
We can’t be around gossip, we can’t be around prejudice, we can’t be around hate or negativity because we absorb it and reflect it back IF we don’t know how to handle it.
Most people don’t know how to handle it so they become depressed or suicidal.
This is why people in the new age philosophies piss me off so much. Because they use this word like it is peanut butter and it like peanut is cloying to my palate and drives me nuts.

Anyone who is an ACTUAL Empath doesn’t tell people they are one because it evokes a whole range of issues so it is easier to just never tell people. An Empath is more than someone who cares, it is more than someone who sympathizes and it is costing people their lives and I’m the one who has to pick those pieces of suicide and depression up.

I have been around thee most horrendous situations since I have been in Wisconsin and there has been absolutely nothing I can do about it because I’m in a confined space most of the time and as I started to feel myself get weighed down by the negativity that has been surrounding me with peoples thoughts, griefs, sadness and inner turmoil’s my beautiful and very patient teacher Pauline Wardel Braddon came to me and said ‘Just look up’.
At first I wasn’t sure what she meant. My student bumblebee did a reading for me and he kept saying in this reading to Just Look Up.
And because I file stuff like that away in my head it comes out just at the right time.

Yesterday I couldn’t stand it any more. I HAD to get into my quiet space and try to decompress everything that is going on in my head.
I’m dealing with my gift, and my empathic side while trying to figure my future out, work with clients in my usual day job I do in the UK and my students, along with my radio show and missing my boys and fiancé all at the same time.

No one will ever understand what it is to be me. And I can’t talk to anyone about what I am because no one understands. It is never as simple as ‘letting go’ or ‘talking about it’.
It builds up like lime scale and over time it can wear heavy on ones soul and the only way to remove it is to do what you need to do to remove the scum that becomes hard on your heart.
That is why I say, have an outlet. Whatever your thing is. do it. It helps, it really does.
But once in a while it isn’t enough. So like yesterday when I couldn’t stand it any more I had an incredible moment with a Spirit in the place I was staying and then my teacher came and reminded me to JUST LOOK UP!!!
She then went on to explain it like this and I share it with you.

Go somewhere quiet and lay on your back. And just look up.
Because looking up will what is there will always be more simplistic than what is around you and inside you.
Looking up will be a plain ceiling, with one maybe two colours of objects to purvey.
Looking up will be a beautiful night sky with dark blues and stars, or a sky of greys and blues with whites if it’s a nice day.
Looking up is calm on ones mind and looking around or within is a kaleidoscope of colours and emotions that can be overwhelming to your mind. So lay down and just look up.

So I did just that. I went to my room where I get changed. I put my blanket on the cold floor and turned the lights off and just looked up. Before long my mind stopped racing. My heart began to beat a little slower and before I knew it I was calm and relaxed again having started to think about simple things like how good it feels to hold my boys in my arms.
How nice it feels to be held by my fiancé. Kittens that look like Hitler or Kitlers as my friend Becca calls them.
I felt the negative leave me. I felt it drain from my soul.
I went to see my friend Colin Slife race the other day. He is an incredible car racing prodigy who will be a Nascar champion by the time he is 19-20 years old. He is an inspiration to me and the perfect role model for my boys and children everywhere.
At 14 he raced against grown men and did so fantastically well I was proud and honoured to be a apart of it. I LOVE cars. I loved watching him drive 100 times around that track.
BUT with hundreds of spectators there it was impossible for me not to absorb peoples thoughts.
There were affairs going on, people wanting to kill themselves and deciding how, people secretly HATING each other with such venom in their hearts and some of it was directed at that poor boy.
I of course had to protect him and ended up blowing the lights out in the stadium because of it.
But I also saw sexual predators eyeing up some of the kids playing and women hating on other women because of the men there were with etc…
At one point I nearly ran out of there. I can NOT under ANY circumstance be around negative minds and hearts because with my gift it can turn dark and dangerous.

I could kill someone with my thoughts, if I transmitted that kind of bad energy out to the people who made me angry I could crash their cars, make them go nuts or worse.
With great power comes great responsibility. I take what I do very seriously. People trust me with their deepest darkest thoughts and fears and I am proud to say I have built my reputation on three things.
My Confidentiality.
My Honesty
My Knowledge.
People know I speak the truth when I counsel them. That my intentions are honourable and my heart is in the right place.
I observe EVERYTHING. The curse of a Scorpio is we watch and observe our surroundings even when we appear dopey and docile.
The students I stay with for a while freak out because before I leave them I ‘read them’ and make observations that ring true to their very core.
I floor them and it makes them go away from me happier and more focused and a little shocked because they assume the whole time I’m just a big floppy haired Muppet who swans around all dazed and confused.
But I pay attention to every detail. Because of this I need time to decompress and a lot of people just don’t get that sometimes it means in order to do that I need to Just Look Up.

My students under s certain level of ability know they will never be allowed to watch me read, or hold sessions with fellow students.
My life, my feelings, my work is 100% confidential. This is the basis and foundation of my very existence.
I make no apologies for this. There are only two people in this world who have built trust with me over the years to decompress to verbally and I was married to one and about to marry the other.
My balance.
My ex on one side and my current on the other. They are my scales. They are the two that have seen me develop my gift over the years and don’t judge me when I have melt downs or cry.
You can explain this to people till your blue in the face but I trust very few people with my inner thoughts and cerebral process for the simple fact that no one will ever understand what it is to be me.
I live by the voices in my head. I don’t judge, gossip, criticize, condemn or try to complain.
Writing is my outlet for expression as is working out and music.
But while I might be the worlds first Paranormal Scientist and while my life appears to be cool and super happy fun time it is hard and exhausting when you absorb everything like a sponge.
An Empath is telepathic as well and 99% of people who are suicidal hear voices thinking they are losing their minds not knowing they are hearing Spirit of the voices of people they have encountered that day or week.
If you don’t have an outlet it builds up like a volcano and will erupt into something dark if you don’t have an outlet.
So I’m sharing this with all of you who feel like your heart wears heavy with the burdens of the world.
Go somewhere quiet, no people around, lay on your back and Just Look Up.
Stay there until your mind is clear. Look at the simple shapes and colours. It really does work.
You’ll come out of it exhausted but then have something to eat and watch how incredible it feels afterwards.
I feel fantastic.
Sometimes even caring people need to be a little selfish. If you don’t take time to rinse out that sponge your soul becomes dirty from mess you absorb around you, you simply end up smearing your own life with the filth you absorbed and you deserve so much better than that.
You were given your good heart for a reason and you can’t let ANYONE under ANY circumstances taint that in you.
It is okay to remove yourself from the negative in your life. If you are around people talking mean about people, if your around prejudice and gossip it is okay to shut yourself off. They will never understand what it is to be you.
You get one shot at this life. Don’t make yourself have to come back because you didn’t award yourself the time to just look up while others look down.

The choices you make today directly affect the consequences of those choices tomorrow. So make better choices for YOU not anyone else.
As I always say ‘Live your life for others, make them happy, live your life for you, make you happy’

If the people in your life truly care about you they will understand and give you time to do you.
If not, they aren’t friends and shouldn’t be in your life in the first place so maybe the universe is trying to tell you they are one of the negative things your soaking like a sponge.
whether it be your job, your school, your friends or family, your society or your street, if your an Empath your going to absorb it all.
The New Age movement should be ashamed of themselves for wrongly identifying themselves in such a manner and I will make sure now I have a Talk show on WRMN1410 that people know the truth.
They aren’t the ones picking up the pieces of what an Empath really is.
I am. And because of that once in a while I need to remove myself to a dark room and Just Look Up.
Until you carry the weight of the world on your shoulders don’t judge those of us who do.
Because one day it will be your weight we carry on our shoulders too and you won’t want us faltering and stumbling when we do it.

How The Dead Cured My Fibromyalgia

If you have Fibromyalgia you will know what an exhausting immune disease this is.
You ache from your jaw, down to your toes. You lack motivation and energy to do anything and the cocktail of drugs your put on seem to make you rattle.

I spent years dealing with an NHS that said I was diabetic, not suffering from mesh rejection, and I knew I had fibromyalgia even though they never tested me. But when I dealt with every infection, every ounce of pain, every night in hospital with IVs in my arm and pinholes in my skin,
I knew I had it right away because a lot of women who were in hospital with me had it.
The hot and cold sweats and restless leg syndrome were the worst. I had spent so much time in and out of hospital over the last 5 years from 2010-2015 they knew me by name the minute I walked into the ward.
It embarrassed me. I’m a very proud person and I don’t like a ton of attention on me unless I want it.

But when I went to Doctors I just got given new pills to try and told to have bariatric surgery.

What do you do when the people paid by your government to help you simply don’t?

On one of my very last trips to hospital in 2014 I contracted a disease, they didn’t know what it was. I was immediately quarantined and put in isolation. The head of the Tropical Diseases came to see me. The hospital staff were only allowed near me if they had contact with me prior to these blisters on my skin coming out.
They said it could possibly be chicken pox which I had already had as a child but I had been in hospital for over a week prior to me getting these blisters on my body and they treated me with anti viral medication and immune boosters.
When I went for scans and x-rays people recoiled in horror at the site of me and I had to cover my face when I left my room.
I had big tape and warning signs across my door and staff had to wear special masks and stuff near me.
People would peek into my room like I was a side show oddity and it broke my heart.
I lay in my room one day with tubes and IVs pumping crap into my body and I burst into tears one day and just couldn’t stop. I cried myself to sleep.
It was the lowest I had ever been in my life and I never thought my life would change.
I knew I had Fibromyalgia. It is a common side effect of having synthetic meshes and I had three in my abdomen from my hernia repairs from my pregnancies.

After I cried myself to sleep I had a visit from a nurse. She wore pink and white scrubs and was carrying a clip board with my file on it and with her broad American accent she told me to hang in there a little bit longer because next year 2015 would be the start of change and to just hold on. Then she vanished.
I knew if a Spirit was coming to tell me this I was to do what she said and just hang on in there.

Little did I know, she was spot on accurate and so began in 2015 the change that would affect the rest of my life forever.

On the 29th of July 2015 I started my No sugar diet. I was asked by Spirit to listen to everything they said and I figured I had nothing to lose because the NHS were just making me worse. I was also about to have a hysterectomy and I was tired of everything and ready to just wait for death anyway so what did I have to lose right?

I went off all forms of sugar immediately. I went on a STRICT detox diet, where I starved my body in order to kick start my organs into performing again after releasing my body of all the toxins that had been pumped into it over the course of my life time.
From the food I ate and sodas I drank to the medications I had been shoveling into my body. I went off it all.
I was on 1500 calories a day, low fat, no white flour, low carbs, zero sugar. I could have as much dairy as I wanted as long as it was low fat.
I was to do this for 2 months and drink nothing but water. I now have developed a taste for sparkling water because it tricked my brain into thinking it was fizzy pop and actually tastes sweet to me plus it is really refreshing.

I was starving for the first 2 weeks but gradually over the course of my detox I found myself getting more and more energy.
In 2016 I started taking B12, Magnesium, L-Tryptophan, L-dopa, Zinc, Vitamin C (timed release) Glucosamine, Omega 3 and the magic herb and it transformed my entire body.
my hair and nails became gorgeous, my skin was to die for again and I slept better.
I had crippling headaches for the first 2 weeks of going off the sugar but after that I felt fantastic and I knew then I would never put sugar into my system again.

My bowels went back to normal, my periods went back to normal and I lost weight so fast it was 8 months before I realized I’d lost over 100lbs without even trying.
I had sagging muscle and skin by then so I needed to exercise and man was I ready for it.
My boys were getting exhausted from the energy I had. It felt fantastic to finally be getting out and doing stuff again.

I started by doing exercises on my bed.
For 6 months I did leg, arm, bum and tummy exercises then that wasn’t enough so I added walks to the mix.
That wasn’t enough after a while so I bought myself a little exercise bike on Ebay for 40 pounds and started cycling for 15 minutes a day, then 20, then 30, then 40, now I do an hour and it became not enough so I added walks in on the mix.
This wasn’t like I HAD to exercise, it was a NEED to exercise. I found I had SO much energy, sitting still drove me nuts.
I was like a spring pulled back ready to pounce every morning and the only way I could get rid of it was to burn it off. It felt incredible.

So I would cycle for an hour a day then walk at least 6 miles during the week three times a week and weekends at least 10 miles a day.
Then the walks got steeper and harder and before you knew it I had started to develop and ass.
I was born with Lumbar Lordosis the flat back kind so the concept of having a bum was AWESOME to me.

The health benefits of my new diet was changing my life and within 3 months of me doing this diet (I detoxed for 2 months then went on full fat dairy, high nut diet with meat slowly added of the highest quality, and never went back to white flour again) not only had my Fibro completely gone but my reason for needing a hysterectomy vanished as well as my arthritic spine I had since birth, while I still get a sore back once in a while I’m not crippled by it.
My eye sight has gotten so good they have had to weaken my glasses twice and I think they need to do it again to be honest.
My memory is on fire. I was told I could have 10 more kids if I wanted so I look forward at 44 to having a baby with my future husband one day soon also.

My gift has grown exponentially as has my libido lol Being a Scorpio it is great to feel that again. I think about it 24 hours a day lol I think the Universe rewarded me with a 26 year old future husband for that reason lol

I no longer get depressed, I’m happy ALL the time, I crave fruit and veggies and can’t stand the taste of sugar. It’s like a hit of heroine or something. It gives me migraines and makes me lethargic and ill.
The white flour I found was irritating my bowel and gut and since going off it I’m not full of gas or having the trots every day.

I haven’t had the flu once and haven’t been sick with anything for more than 24 hours because that is how long I give my body to get over it before I get my ass back up off the bed to exercise again and I feel bloody awesome.
I’m 44 and I feel 22. My fiancé thinks my body is hot lol
I got told today by a personal trainer friend of mine I have absolutely got a nice muscle definition going on and I should be really proud of myself.

Which I am. This is why I need to say this next bit in all honesty and because I have lived this experience I believe I have the right to say this next bit.
Fibromyalgia, in my opinion is a form of physical hypochondria which people over the age of about 30 get because their lives and relationships suck.
They look for excuses to be ill in order to get the attention from family and when I have handed this cure to people no one has ever tried it even for a day.
They say if you can’t kick sugar your addicted.
Sugar IS an addiction and it is a poison, as is white flour. It is designed to make you lethargic.

We are pouring this stuff into our system like junkies.
Coke and Pepsi can strip rust of metal and remove caked in urine off toile bowls when left for soak for a couple of hours yet we drink it by the gallons.
It is added to pasta sauce, cereal, baked beans and tomato sauce like it is meant to be there and it just isn’t.

Everyone I know how has Fibro is over weight, has terrible skin, in bad relationships and blaming their Fibro for their unhealthy lifestyle.
I know because I did it too.
Well I refused to go down like that. I had children, young children who deserve to have a Mother to have adventures with and not sit around on my fat ass consuming copious amounts of crap because I hadn’t eaten real food that day.
We use it as an excuse to feel sorry for ourselves but the truth of the matter is, unlike measles, mumps and chicken pox Fibro is a brand new disease the pharmaceutical companies want us thinking is real so they can pump us with the medications we believe will help mask the symptoms while never actually trying to find the cure for.

I’ve never been on anti depressants in my life and in my opinion Fibromyalgia is a physical manifestation of depression and hypochondria.
Mostly by women over a certain age who lack attention and affection in their love lives and with their friends and family.
All the people I have met who have it fit this profile.
I’m disgusted at myself for thinking it was ever okay to eat 4 cheesecake muffins or an entire pizza, and 6 donuts for a snack because I hadn’t eaten that day and needed energy.
I’m disgusted at myself for allowing myself to drink 4-6 cans of Pepsi a day because it was on special and gave me a boost when I needed it. My teeth were rotting and I was always at the dentist.
I have no one to blame but myself for what happened to my body physically.
I am proud to say I haven’t been to hospital once in over 2 years now, and went off all forms of medication within 6 months of me going off the sugar.
Nothing unnatural or inorganic goes in my body now and if it does I can feel the effects within a couple of hours.
White flour kills my guts and sugar is torture.
I allow myself an ice cream or milkshake once in a while and if it’s something other than vanilla it can give me guts ache and headache the next day so I exercise it out of my system.
I buy protein powder now and am so happy and overjoyed that I get to make my shakes while it replaces the amino acids in my muscles due to burning so many calories from exercise.
And I never thought I’d hear myself say this but even alcohol doesn’t give me joy anymore.
If I drink it’s a nice craft ale or spirits straight on the rocks but I find my green is more than enough to keep me pain free and entertaining.
I know people might get offended by this but the earths greenery has over 1000 medicinal qualities and while I don’t have it every day now because I don’t need it, when I do it has me back on top in no time.
It has replaced all my Oxicontin, Oxicodone, Amytryptalene, Oxinorm, Anti nausea etc…all of which I took EVERY DAY!!! 22 tablets in fact and sometimes I would take more than I was meant to and make excuses to get more from the Dr because the drugs dulled my emotional pain of being a fat lazy unhappy slob.
Luckily for me I don’t have an addictive personality so I was able to stop these drugs and smoking over night and never felt the need to go back.
But I know people who have really struggled to come off the drugs, the anti depressants especially.

I LOVE trying new foods now and never thought I’d be the collard green, spinach, olive eating sort but I am.
I have tried so many new foods and I intend to try more. Some I like, some I don’t. I tried crab, lobster, pork, turkey, jalapeno peppers (my fiancé got me to try some on our first date and I love them now) Bloody Mary (um…no thanks) curries which I not only love but I can go quite spicy now, goats cheese, mushrooms (still yuck) Mahi Mahi and blue gill fish both of which I LOVE.
Because without sugar coating your tongue with the slime it does, food tastes so much nicer.
I bit into a peach a few weeks ago and it took me back to when I was a kid growing up in New Zealand.
I go to the store and buy almonds and other nuts like most people buy lollies (sweets, candy) and take away food is out of necessity rather than want because we are too tired to cook once a month from being out and about because we make ur own now.
My ex husband makes the worlds BEST burgers and Dadbabs, Chicken wraps and Curries.
We make our own pizza and chilli too and it is the nicest food I’ve ever eaten because we know what is going in it.
The greens we consume now cost more than anything else we buy, we only cook in coconut oil and it makes chicken taste gorgeous.
I am happier now than at any point in my life and it is all because the dead gave me strict instructions and I followed them.

This is my own personal opinion and if you have Fibro and are in outrage at what I have said all I ask you is this.
Go off sugar for one month. Just 4 weeks.
And then come back and tell me it hasn’t changed your life forever.
Because the guy who also cured his Fibromyalgia did the exact same thing as I did and he too has never looked back.

Before you judge, give it a go. It will change everything about your body and you will not regret it.
If you want to live, REALLY live, then stop taking the stuff that is killing you.
Isn’t it worth trying? It’s better to live trying than dying not trying right?

Spirit Attachment/ Psychic Vampires: It’s a lie

I was recently contacted by a few people asking me about Spirit attachment. Instead of replying to them all individually I thought I would write an article about it and send them the link instead.

There are psychics and mediums out there telling people their run of bad luck or depression is because they have Spirits attached and it pisses me off.
This bullshit they spout is hurting people. Genuinely hurting people. People are paying money to these frauds and coming out terrorized worst than they went in. I think these people should be thrown in jail to be honest. It’s fraud and it’s destructive and I can’t WAIT to start my radio show so I can put the right these wrongs people are doing in the name of Spirit.
People, the dead do NOT attach to the living, they can NOT manipulate your life in a way that makes you lose jobs and money etc….YOU do that. The choices YOU make affect YOUR life not the dead.
They have NO interest in creating trouble for you for the simple fact that if they did they would go to the darkness faster than you could blink.
People need to understand how a dead person functions.
In order for them to come through they need energy. They are no different to a current that runs through a plug. They NEED an energy source. They have to use limited energy because communication isn’t easy to them. Contrary to popular belief they don’t pop up and show themselves at any random time. They are intelligent light, they have to pick their times of use us to come through but they do so knowing it comes at a detriment to us physically.
It is EXHAUSTING having ANY kind of Spirit communication so they prefer the easiest way to do it.
Telepathy and Synchronicity. It’s not just your physical though. It is conscious exhaustion too.
It can take them the drain your phone just to show themselves as a black dot. Can you imagine what they would have to drain to attach to a living person?
If they were attached to a living person 24/7 the person they attach to couldn’t function as a human, nor would anything electrical around them.

Even the darkest entity is fighting to get to the light. The darkness only comes when invited and is created by YOUR belief they exist.
You MUST use logic people. If your losing jobs it’s either going to be because there is a world wide economic down turn or its you.

The darkness feeds on fear and negativity but even it knows they can’t come unless invited. There is a rule of compliance in the universe that every organic being adheres to. They know without a balance and symbiotic relationship with everything else, we don’t evolve.
To do something so destructive to a living person would have severe consequences for ALL involved and to be honest, the average Joe just isn’t that interesting.
The choices you make today dictate what happens next. If you make bad choices, bad things will happen in your life.
So just make better choices from now on.
Follow your compass every time.

As for Psychic Vampires? Don’t insult me. I can’t even bring myself to discuss the issue.
If you want to believe this stuff then you get what you deserve. Just because some new age dork says it’s a thing doesn’t make it a thing.
It’s people finding excuses in the paranormal for things they can’t or don’t want to face so they blame it on someone else. But because its bollocks they blame it on people they don’t know or can see. The Invisible trouble makers as I call them lol
Them damn invisible goblins and ghouls causing someone to be tired and not think straight ‘Grrrrrr said sarcastically’.

It’s like I always say ‘People so desperate to believe in something, they will believe anything’ but it’s the lack of understanding in the paranormal that causes all the trouble in the first place.

Educate yourself or come to me.
I can’t wait to get my show started. People need to start breathing again without fear of thinking the dead all up in their face.

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Cleansing Revelation

Oh the way my brain works.

Do you remember last year me talking about after the cleansing I saw children coming down from the hills, the oldest were about 35 the youngest 2ish.

I said they looked dazed and in shock, I thought they had been taken to the hills?

I also said I saw adults eating what they called Citizen Dogs? And Citizen Burgers etc…..?

I said we were driving around in white vans with megaphones calling out to these people to come down from where they were hiding or were hidden and we in the white vans were wearing orange jumpers?

Do you know what they call little boys in the Pizzagate scandal?

Hot dogs………..

I think a certain honest politician is an instigator in bringing about the New Renaissance and is one of those picked to bring about a new America.

I think these dark forces days are numbered and a ton of stupid mistakes are about to be made and the NYPD and FBI will be responsible for taking this knowledge mainstream and it’s worse than people think.

I think scandal is coming to their house holds and some of the biggest celebrities are about to be investigated and arrested because the darkness with throw them to the slaughter first.

I think Weinstein and Podesta will snitch to save their skins and will fail miserably.

I think The Fight Club are getting ready to fight.

Hot dogs……citizen hot dogs. It was weird to me because there were animals all around these adults eating the meat and they were worshipping the animals yet found it funny they were eating humans.

I only realized it this morning that the Citizen Dogs were in reference to Pizzagate.

Spirit told me this early last year.

My pals up there told me about those tablets they have that reflect perfect 3D images of people and things which can’t be denied and they wouldn’t be able to deny their actions in court. Yet they wouldn’t of been there at all.

They have these pens that can change time, when they slam them down they can move forward in time by up to a few hours.

My pals said they were given this technology but would never be allowed to get the best ones because of the destruction it would cause.

Project Blue Beam……look it up.

It’s terrifying to me all the things Spirit and my pals told me are now making sense.

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My Quantum Magnetics is working. I’m not crazy after all. MUCH!!!

Since I had my ‘Break through’ experience last January 2016 at my sons birthday in Birmingham my life has changed so dramatically my students and I are now reeling in the events of the last 17 months.
I sat them down in class a couple of times and told them I was working on a theory and if it worked I would change the face of Spirit communication.
I accidentally invented or discovered a new science and I have been using my life and the lives of my brave students as guinea pigs so when I took this to the public I would have proof and evidence that proves when you listen to the dead, they can change your life and teach you to manifest your own reality just by doing certain things within your training.
My science is what I call Quantum Magnetics.
It is the ability to make the correct choice in your life based on exercising your Pineal gland and trusting your instincts to guide you the right decision every time.
By tuning into our Universe using pendulums you connect to the planet which in turn heals you in every way. You join the vibration.
It also trains you through trusting your compass to never make bad choices and when bad choices result, to self correct and fix it so you can move forward.
I can tune anyone in to the dead so when they do make choices they can pull forth the best possible outcome to ensure they only get the best possible outcome as a result. By reading and KNOWING the signs the dead send them.
That is the Quantum Magnetics part.
It then creates a domino effect and your life gets happier and happier and happier.

Because when you make a decision there are an infinite amount of possibilities that can come off that one choice.

I’ve discovered how to pull forth the best outcome for you which will make you happy, even when they choices might appear on the surface to be going wrong.

To prove my theory I sat my students down and told them this:

I’m going to work my ass off to prove that I have unlocked the key to the Universe. That when you can step through time and death you can achieve whatever it is your heart desires.
To do this I’m going to show you how it is done using my life as the example and so here is a list of things I’m going to achieve within a 2 year time frame and we shall see what happens.

I laid out my plans. They were as follows.
I’m going to lose weight.
Write a book.
Get my divorce.
Start Teaching.
Start visiting America to find where I belong.
Get a radio show.
Divorce Hubby.
Meet my man.
Marry him.
Be living in American by the end of August 2017.
Have my own place by end of October.
Retire my ex husband.
Have a baby.
Get my man out of prison early.

I would only follow my intuition. I would ONLY listen to Spirit no living person. If Spirit said NO I don’t, if they said YES I do. It’s that simple.
I asked Spirit to bring me specific people to help me in my study who could help me get to where I need to be so I can be in the best possible position to help those living or dead find their light.

I asked for a PA, Scientist, Protection, Marketing guru, Writer, Artist, Musician, stylist, hairdresser, make up artist, Webmaster/Social Media guru, Accountant, Right hand man, Vice President of my Society, Nanny/Protection for my kids, Driver,
and students with a good enough skill that I can hand my client list to them to do my readings because my intention when on the radio is to teach.
I said I want to start my school.
I want to hold classes, 3 months each at first but I want to buy a building in about 20years (if I can’t save quicker) and open the Debbie Black School of Paranormal Sciences, here my seniors and I who will sit on the board of directors and will travel the globe finding people who show skill and desire to want to train at our school.
They will receive a free education, and stay in onsite dorms. I will be opening what is essentially a real life Hogwarts.
The worlds first X-Men college.

I told them I would work as hard as I had to in order to achieve my goals and if they just stood by me and tolerated my crazy while I figured all of this connection stuff out on a Physics level and helped me by making monthly contributions I would in turn employ them within my Society and eventually when I made the money I needed I would retire them all.

My intention is to write some books, ones never written before.
Get on TV or make this documentary for Netflix based on my life. A Catfish style show seems to be the flavour of the moment. But I know Spirit will guide me there.

My intention is to Teach. I want to make my Teacher Pauline Wardel Braddon proud. I want her name to go down in history as the only teacher with enough patience to teach me what I’m about to become.
I came to realize that her dragging me to that radio station in Wellington in 2000 was to prepare me for what is about to happen next.
For you see I have thus far ticked these things off my list.

I’ve lost 216lbs so easy it defies medical reasoning. I’m soon to be a 12 or US 8. I started my diet on the 29th July 2015.
My book came out just after summer 2016
I met Martin in November 2016.
I visited friends all over the US and found my home in Wisconsin although I believe I buy a home in Pennsylvania at some point in the future.
I got my divorce on the 19th June 2017.
Marry Martin in December of 2017.
I record my first show this month and my show starts next month in August. Meaning I should be moved and settled into my new country home by October 2017.
I will work in Chicago and live in Wisconsin.
I am a couple of weeks away from retiring my ex husband.
I will then have the money to get the lawyer I need to get my man out of prison. Because I believe he was given a 5yr sentence for something he didn’t do and was never proven to have committed and was convicted for on hearsay testimony.

I’ve through the course of this time taken on 37 students both publically and privately and now have 7 seniors left, 12 junior/intermediates.
Now get this.
My seniors started between January and August of last year.
5 females 2 males. My 12 newbies are female.
Of my seniors all but the two men have skills I NEED.

Rainbow turns out I can’t do without her. She is my right hand man when it comes to crossing over the dead and doing cleansings.
She was the most afraid of her gift and is about to start doing readings for a job she has developed so quickly. She had ZERO gift and was afraid to see dead people but now she is picking up Spirit at an alarming rate and it’s incredible to see.

SAM: Is my PA, NO ONE sorts me out like she does. She is the right amount of firm and loving. She un confuses me because she knows first hand how discombobulated I can get when I’m in the ‘work’ zone. She is delicate and precise in her approach to anything I need done. I can’t live without her. She’s Mummy lol I run to her when I need a hug. She brings me calm.

Spitfire:
My daughter, my boys ADORE her. She will be their Nanny, she will teach them Spanish and French and protect them as much as I do. They all connect like I’ve never seen.

Sunshine: My Scientist. Nuff said. She documents, pays attention, advises, introduces new concepts and hypothesis. She is my food for thought.

Flower: My fellow time traveller. She will be my 2IC. Should anything happen to me, she will run my Society. She knows my work better than anyone as far as the practice of it. She has never doubted her connection and her loyalty to me is humbling.

My two boys: They are the ones I will pass my clients on to. I want them reading. They are without exception, talented and humble and my reluctant heroes.

My Ex is the photographer/artist.
Rainbows husband is my musician lol (you really can’t make this up). I promised him I will retire him so he can do all the music I need for shows and commercials etc….

Of my Juniors:
I have:
Aunty B: Seamstress, nurturer, hairdressing Goddess.
Totoro: Make up artist.
Warrior: Security (she is US military and I worship her, she comes fully trained).
Tiger: Webmaster/Social Media guru
Hotty: My accountant. And not just any accountant. She’s hard core nerd and is actually turned on at the thought of learning about American tax laws lol
She organizes my Blog tidy with Aunty B and Tiger.

And two of my best friends are going to do my writing with me.
I then have one student who will manage me in Wisconsin and help me get settled. Her best friend who is a professional driver I’m hoping will be my driver.

It’s pretty much as I said it would be because I asked for it.

I have spoken to all my seniors to prepare them for what is about to happen. They have witnessed it all. They are now preparing for hurricane Debbie to land in the US next month and they are all preparing to take up their roles in my life.
They have ALL been going through uncanny life events that seem to be gearing them up to work within my society. Like……it’s all too perfect.
BECAUSE: Through my friend the Author I met her Mother who is my Seamstress/Hairdesser, who is also the sister of the Marketing Goddess who got me my radio show. Through staying with her I met my Manager for Wisconsin, and my driver (possibly if he says yes).

I haven’t found roles for the couple left but I will. I un-legally (yes I know it isn’t a word) adopted 4 of my girls. They are mine for life. I will find roles for the others once Spirit highlight their skill or ambition. I just need to pull it out of them.
I’m pretty sure they will be my readers. My female readers. Intuitive and Median.

SO it seems my science seems to be working. I sat them all down, and told them once I am making what I need to, all contributions will stop.
Any money that comes in goes to the school after we take what we need.
If I do end up the Oprah of the Paranormal world I’ll retire all 19 of my students and I promised them all trips to New Zealand with me as their tour guide.
I’ve given myself a year to make this so.
You watch this next chapter.
All I need to finish my list is get my contract, visa, marry, have a baby. I’m gonna give that radio station the best show they have ever had. I promise to work so hard for them.
I will cross Spirits over, cleanse houses, guide people, educate them and love them all as best I can.
I am Debbie Black and I am the voice of the dead. The will be silenced no more.
Its time people knew the truth.
Get ready for me American. I’m a couple for weeks away.
Your pain, your grief, your active houses, and hearts are safe with me.

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Dreams Explained (revised 2016)

“Dreams Explained (revised 2016)

Most people don’t realize that when we dream we are actually being told or forewarned about things in our lives or yet to come. It is never as simple as just thinking because you dreamed your partner or spouse committed adultery it means they will or are being unfaithful.
You must look at every aspect of the dream. Like was he naked? In bed? Was he with a female or male? What was your reaction? Did any colours stand out? and other aspects like that. A dream is NEVER about what is happening in the dream.
Spirit, through your dreams can be trying to tell you to see a Doctor. Or take a lottery ticket.
Good dream interpretation can be psychologically and physically healing.
They can bring peace of mind or get your prepared to deal with something that is about to happen.
Below are some examples of dreams I have been interpreting for people. These dreams are cut and pasted from the Yahoo Answers site where I interpreted dreams when I had time.
I have deleted the names, usernames and images of the people who asked the questions as all my work is confidential. Plus I don’t want to cause any trouble for anyone. I’m not good at this blog technology. I don’t really know what I’m doing. I just type and pray for the best.
 
What does it mean when you have a dream that you’re having sex?
With someone other than your husband? Not someone you know but a made up person
Me:
It signifies an end to a struggle. Your hard work will soon pay off. 
Don’t worry it’s a good dream, and perfectly normal.
What does it mean to dream of looking for a toilet but they have no privacy?
Examples: Toilet area totally exposed – no doors or walls for privacy; transparent / see through walls; toilet door too small or won’t shut; large gaps in walls; toilet cannot be used – out of order.
MY REPLY:
You never said what you were going to use the toilet for. Number One or Number two or if you managed to actually go. All of this really matters because they have very different meanings. Did you ‘do’ anything and did you ‘see’ it. Or was it just that you needed to go and couldn’t go?
So to dream of just going to the toilet, is legal troubles to do with property. But the actual act of going, ie if you did a wee it means a release from stress and anxiety. To do a number two is unexpected money coming your way. In my culture Poo dreams are much appreciated lol we take our dreams very seriously. So what it is saying is there is going to be some worries but either way it will work in your favour or at least give you peace of mind.
These toilet dreams usually come to fruition within 2 weeks of the dream.
Recurring dreams about the end of the world?
I just woke up and it was the end of the world. A tsunami was coming and I was on the beach and sand covered me and I thought I was going to die. I couldn’t claw my way out of all this sand and then I managed to and I ran home. When I got there my family all got into one room (which never happens in real life) and I told them how much I loved them I was really upset – in real life I don’t even talk to my dad much. And then I looked out the window and this huge wave was coming towards us. Then it cut out and I was looking down at the chaos. All these animals were drowning and the destruction was so vivid. Why do I keep on having these dreams – they’re awful. It’s always earthquakes and tsunamis. How do I stop having these dreams? I wake up in a cold sweat and in my head try to reverse the dream and think of a happy ending. Thank you
MY REPLY:
Oh you poor button. I know for those that don’t understand the way dreams work those sorts of dreams can be nothing short of devastating. But take it from me. To dream of the end of the world is probably one of THEE best dreams you can have next to dream of The Devil, Jesus, God or Asians. I could sit and type out what every bit of it meant but it would take less time to cut the long story short.
Your basically being told that your going to come to a point in your life where you will have won. Won in life, won in your soul and won in love. Your family will be of a great support for you and will share the happiness with you and even though you say your estranged from your Dad, Fathers represent security and protection.
Your basically going to do something that makes not only you proud but those around you will be proud. It will be something that causes great emotion (the Tsunami). The threat of death means your going to have the ability to completely transform your life. I don’t know how old you are but it could be something from ‘You could put yourself in danger to save someone’s life and be a hero which opens doors for you that help you get a new start in life or a new life’ or you could start a business that does really REALLY well, or you could win the lottery (honestly it wouldn’t hurt to buy a ticket for a bit lol)
The fact you were in danger means you will overcome what ever is going on with you now and go on to turn something negative into a positive and it will be better than you expected.
Now……to dream of Earthquakes is actually very rare. If you live in an Earthquake prone area it is saying you will have minor difficulties in your life.
If you don’t live in an Earthquake prone area it is saying after putting in the hard work you will be rewarded. So basically I would say your having a bit of a hard time of things just now, and your worried about how it, or your life is going to work out.
But your going to do something or become something you put in a huge amount of effort to become or have, and it will be the best thing you ever did to the point of giving you a huge reward both in life and in soul.
You will have the love and support of those around you and you will end up more than proud. The fact that this is a reoccurring dream suggests maybe you’ve had a dream for a long time to do something, or be something, or start a business, but you or life have always held you back. Your dream would be saying ‘Do it, do it do it do it do it’ Spirit can be as subtle as a brick when they tell us stuff we don’t hear.
You’ll keep having the dream until you do whatever it is your being told to do. It’s your destiny. Please please please keep me posted. I feel like this is something you don’t think your good enough to do or be. You will make yourself proud whatever it is.
What does it mean when a close friend that has past away almost 15 years, you dream about them?
This is now the 2 time in the past almost 15 years she has appeared in my dreams. We were sitting laughing & chatting away and then we were walking and still chatting on a nice sunny day.. what we were talking about was crafts, cooking and the animals.
MY REPLY:
You didn’t mention whether she appeared as a Spirit or as if she never died. But generally to dream of someone who has passed away means you will soon hear some good news. You would of known if she was visiting you because there would be Emotion attached to the dream. She is merely representing something good.
When you dream of Spirit and it is a visitation, it isn’t like they were never gone. Or you dream of them blending into back ground. They are merely the way Spirit has chosen to tell you to expect some good news. They chose your friend because she is a welcome sight and not intimidating.
Some people get very frightened of having dead people in their dreams so you tend to take more notice of the message when it is someone you loved or respected.
If your friend visits you in your dreams you would be full of emotion and you would carry it with you for days.
It would leave something on your soul that you just KNEW she was telling you. When a Spirit comes through it is never to just chit chat. There is always something in the dream that stands out and stays with you for days or years. Please be careful what you read on here as some people have been giving out horrendous advice.
Really damaging stuff. I am an Intuitive Clairvoyant. I have been doing readings since I was 6 and have been seeing Spirit my entire life. I am from a long line dating back to the 17th century of known Psychics but I hate that word. My culture is very Spiritual based and we are taught to interpret dreams from a young age.
I’ve seen some people give us such horrendous advice has made me frightened for the person being read. You can’t just interpret dreams without first understanding the Spirit realm. Your dream is just saying your going to get some good news.
I honestly can’t believe some of the comments made to some of these people on this Dreams Topic. I guess every one is an expert lol. If you ever need advice, just email me. I will be only too happy to help.
Asker’s Comment:
Thank you so very much, she was very real not a spirit. I appreciate your honesty about background and about other posts that replied to my question.

WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO DREAM OF HORROR AND SCARY NOISES:
When this dream started it was as if I were in an old cartoon *like Betty Boop or Felix the Cat however not as happy* My Father and I were going to look at a new house to move into and the road we were traveling on was paved of white gold, *recently I had received a ring from my Fiancé of white gold as an engagement ring* when we had gotten there I heard noises only I could hear but my Father could feel. They irritated me and I felt as if I could fall to the floor and scream. I was yelling to my dad *daddy please we have to leave now I cant take it … something is here*
This is odd because soon I plan to move into my Great Grandmothers house which has been completely remodelled, I’m going to live with my dad for a while because I have lived with my Mother for some time. Now back to my dream my Mother and Grandma wanted to see the house so I went with them… when I returned the voices I could hear were tearing me down i couldn’t stand it I grabbed a hold of my grandmother begging her to leave …. however she was stubborn and had told me to behave and stop this when we could finally leave we were walking down the road and my mother was telling me of a story of thieves…. I had woken up with a headache and the night before i had heard noises in my friends house though I knew the noises were just mice in the chimney. Is it possible that this dream means something about my engagement and my Fathers new house.
MY REPLY:
Houses or buildings in a dream represents how you see yourself at this time. It doesn’t matter if it’s your actual house, a run down house, a barn, mansion, mall etc…if it featured in your dream it is a dream about how your feeling.
Your dream basically means your going through a lot of changes, and that they might be happening too fast or you feel like things are out of your control, and your wanting things to slow down a bit.
BUT your dream is actually saying it will be the making of you. The type of people you had in your dream means that this new change coming into your life, will be the best thing that ever happened to you, and you will be loved and protected, safe and happy. Your about to embark on a whole new life and while scary and unknown you will actually blossom and not regret it for one minute.
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Asker’s Comment: Thank you so much this is a very good way of seeing things, and you are right I do feel rushed and things are happening so suddenly that I just feel like everything is just zooming by thank you for your help

What does my dream mean and why do I keep having it?
I keep having dreams that I cheat on my boyfriend. I’ve already had this dream twice this week, but it’s been different guys in both dreams. I’m not one to believe that dreams mean something but I’m wondering if mine does mean something, and why it’s reoccurring?
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P.S- I love my boyfriend very much. We’ve been dating for a year and there’s no way I would or could EVER cheat on him! That’s why these dreams are so weird and kind of funny to me.
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For a person to dream of being the one who is being unfaithful means your about to confronted with a very tempting offer or situation that you will have to try with all your might to resist to save your reputation.
To dream your being cheated on means your partner is actually faithful to the nth degree.
Whatever the situation it might not necessarily be a good temptation.
So be wary of the fact that the dream is a warning that it might not work out well for you if you give in to the temptation.
So hypothetically speaking and I don’t know you but this is a ‘For Example’ You might be tempted to take the money you see laying on a table. You take, get caught and then you get arrested for stealing.
Or it might be that your out and have a few to drink (I don’t know how old you but but this is ‘for example’) you then kiss someone in a drunken stupid mistake and your partner finds out or catches you and you end up in a bitter break up.
Or you have a drink then drive home and get caught for Drink Driving which causes you to lose your job. It’s basically something that depending on what you decide to do will have great impact on your reputation. Do you understand what I mean?
But the good thing is, it’s a warning. It hasn’t happened yet and it won’t if you don’t give in to temptation. Only you will know what it means when it happens though so good luck.
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Asker’s Comment:
Thank you.
This is an answer that could of led to a whole heap of trouble for the Asker.
from a Freudian perspective, the case is your boyfriend isn’t satisfying you sexually but you don’t wish to let him know about that (maybe it’s the sense of shame that stops you from that), you will keep your desires in your unconscious mind. However, when you sleep, your desires will get out in the form of dreams of having sex with other guys who might be sexually more capable than your bf.
Source(s):
Freud
So if you want, tell me your dream and I will tell you what it means.
There are Three Types of Dreams.
Visitation.
Precognitive.
Psychological:
A Visitation is when a loved one or Spirit come to you directly and connects with you on a personal level.
You’ll know these dreams because it’s always ‘more’ than the average dream.
You talk, you connect and you never forget it. Your often just in a place talking.
It could be on the beach, in a field, in a house etc….it doesn’t really matter. But you know it’s more than just a dream.
You’ll usually be shown things by them (that you yourself won’t remember) that will later become Deja Vu . But not always of course.
You don’t always know them. It doesn’t always have to be loved ones you’ve lost in this life.
But they will be people you connect with in Spirit. Meaning you knew them from past lives, future lives and as a Spirit yourself.
When we dream we visit our loved ones, in this life and the ones before and after it.
They will help us centre ourselves, help us get through what it is we are going through. We are here to learn. They are here to teach and guide. And dreams are always the way we do it. Have done so since the dawn of time. Unless your one of me.
There are many ancient cultures that live by their dreams.
Which bring me nicely to the second type of dreams we have.
Which is Precognitive: These are one we have no control over. They are pure prediction dreams. Resulting in things like Deja Vu and events happening in life where you knew it was what the dream was about.
Like for example many MANY people had dreams about the Twin Towers attacks.
You can’t interact in these dreams. And your not meant to.
Lastly is Psychological dreams where Spirit are trying to help you sort out things in your life that are happening, yet to happen, or about to happen. They are dreams to interpret and they often offer a great deal of insight into whatever is going on with you at that time. It may offer a way out, or a way to look at it from a different perspective.
Some people will actively seek a Lucid Dream but its really not wise to do so.
We are supposed to be listening to the messages not interfering with them.
If you want to fly about when you can control your astral traveling that is fine but dreams are there to be observed. Not interfered with. Too much too soon for some people can be fatal.
You must remember that dreams are just another form of message from Spirit. ALL have meaning. But they don’t mean what it is in the dream.
If you have a visit from Spirit in your dream or are given a premonition in a dream it is a lot different to a conventional dream. It leaves you, well touched is the only way I can describe it.
I usually wake up exhausted and it’s just a knowing. Like before how I said you just know what your name is. You just know it’s a visit. Otherwise it is important to take every detail in as much as you can. You will always wake up after a dream so keep a journal by your bed.
Write every detail down that you can remember and then look back every few weeks.
Spirit do talk symbolically too so it will take a bit of quiet and concentration to figure it all out. Only sometimes they will show it how it is. It would make my life a lot easier if they just said ‘Look…..tell the client they are going to lose their job but don’t worry because a better one will come by the end of the week’
But no……..for me, I will see usually something like a factory gate closing and being locked or a Job Centre. But because Spirit have no concept of time (they live in the past, present and future and can visit multiple people at once in different parts of the world…..or universe *wink*)
So then I have to trust my gut instinct and I might feel excited like I want to bounce off the walls, which means the job will come very soon or within the next few days. Or, I might get nervous and anxious so I will say to the client it will be sooner than you think but don’t worry, just keep your out goings to a minimum and before you know it you’ll have another job. Sadly this has happened a lot lately.
THIS IS WHY I LIKE TO DO WHAT I DO……
Why do I have this ability?
Ok well first off before I tell you what it is please don’t quote and say something like ‘your a fake’ or ‘your weird’ etc. as its not nice and if I could get rid of it I would. It would make my life so much easier. Now how do I say this…I can see the future in my dreams and sometimes during the day. And seriously I’m not lying. Ever since I can remember this has happened to me and I want to know why I have it.
I mean all my life the only person I’ve ever met who has a similar ability to me is my close friend. Though she has it stronger than me. And another thing is I have epilepsy. My mum says that when someone has a disability their body normally makes up for that disability by making them have something else. For example my friend Rosie is really badly dyslectic however she is amazing at every sport and when she does have to write imaginative coursework she is really good at it. Also another friend of mine is epileptic as well and he can know what anyone around him is going to say or do before they’re even doing it. And once again I’m not lying. I don’t make a habit of lying to people about these things. So I guess what I’m asking is why do I have this ability and is my mums reason true or just her way of trying to make sense of it? Oh and don’t make nasty comments. Its not nice and its rude when someone is serious about these things. Thank you.

MY REPLY:


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I’m sorry, I don’t mean to be rude but may I ask but why would you think being precognitive would be such a bad thing?
I’ve been seeing Spirit my entire life, my whole family have some sort of gift. I have been seeing the dead and making predictions and having premonitions my entire life and now I’m 40, it is how people just accept me.
I do the occasional reading for people, I interpret dreams, I can talk to nature (Natural Telepathy is my most favourite gift) telepathic especially with my kids, and more. It’s not a big deal. You have a gift.
The younger you are the more in tune with Spirit you are. It is usually society whacks it out of you by the age of 9. But luckily for me my culture and family are very in tune with Spirit. (I’m from New Zealand and Maori people are very Spiritually in tune, we don’t fear death or Spirit)
But it sounds like to me that you don’t get any support and this is why they only come to you in your dreams. Spirit know what you can and cant handle and will only come to you in a way that won’t scare you.
Be grateful you never woke up in the middle of the night to have a Spirit sitting on the end of your bed at aged 6 like me and I would have to wake up my Dad in the morning his Granny had a message for him. It is perfectly normal.
Don’t let people make you feel any differently to them. People fear what they don’t understand and if they are closed minded by religion, they will never understand unless it even if it is in their faces.
Unfortunately TV and Movies give people like me a bad name. It is so not how it is on TV, and please do not EVER!!! try and use a Ouija Board, they are more harm than good at don’t actually contact your loved ones. It’s all done on a Telepathic link, but it can leave you open to a lot of bad stuff that can and will destroy your life.
It’s okay to tell them to go away, if they start showing themselves but don’t be rude. It takes a lot for them to come through so just politely say to them ‘I’m sorry I’m not ready for this, please go away and come back when I’m ready’ Honestly, there is nothing to be afraid of. Everyone has the gift but some of us just have it unlocked, others prefer to keep it locked because they fear it. Also it’s actually really common for people with brain disorders i.e. ‘epilepsy’ to have a gift. Where your brain lacks in one skill, it enhances the others.
It’s why blind people have fantastic sense of smell and hearing or deaf people have amazing eye sight etc…It’s just the brain compensating. But don’t you dare let anyone tell you you’re handicapped or ill.
Your perfectly normal. Just special. And it’s good to be Special. It means you were hand picked to stand out above all those around you. Write your dreams down in a dream journal (like I do) and date and time stamp them.
You can look back later and see which ones come true and which ones may be personal messages meant just for you. But remember as well, a dream can just be a dream. You learn to tell the difference over time.
I do understand being careful who you tell though. I’ve lost a lot of possible friends because of what I am but then clearly if they can’t except me for who I am, I don’t want them in my life. But it can work the other way too. you can have people hound you 24/7 for readings and advice. Good luck and if your able to contact me (I don’t know if you can on this thing), but if you can and you need advice or help, email me. There is nothing I don’t know about the Paranormal lol I’ve had 40yrs experience.
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Man has been living by their dreams since cave man days.
There are cave paintings of people documenting their dreams and we all know that Stone Age Man was extremely Spiritual.
They worshiped their dead. They did the primitive form of what my people do when someone dies. We have their bodies at home for us to see them safely into the afterlife. It is called a Tangi.
Tangi means to cry or grieve. But basically we have been communicating with Spirit since before we could talk so there is something to it and it needs to be respected. While that person who replied to that last dream gave me a thumbs down for giving the wrong answer (because I showed her up for not knowing what she was talking about).
The Asker actually emailed me last night to ask if they could join my group.
I didn’t know I had a group but they have joined it. They told me they have asked a few questions on it before about dreams and no one ever gives it to them straight and he liked that I was honest. I have to be honest, I couldn’t live with myself if I wasn’t.
 I panic. I am probably thee worlds worst liar. Never used to be until I started on my Spiritual path and feared the consequences of my Karma lol but more about that later.
Some one living on the Sahara who has never seen a white person in a city before wouldn’t have too many dreams of shopping on Sunset Boulevard with fireworks going down etc…but it doesn’t matter if your Christian or Muslim. Spirit are of all races and religions.
In fact my Spirit Elder is an Egyptian God lol (don’t worry I can’t figure him out either but I will explain that in my next Post)
If some one knows what he is I would certainly appreciate the help. I’ve had 35 years of trying to Figure Birdie out.
So whilst I’m to remain humble at all times, I am pleased I was able to help this person especially. Honesty at all times is how it should be and I live by this rule. It is better to be hurt by the truth than devastated by a lie.
Long story short. Dreams are important and fundamental to our Journey.
How happy you are, how good your relationships with people are, how much you learn and grow Spiritually can all be figured out by listening to your dreams.
So pay attention.

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