When One Twin Dies and Why

As a parent losing a child is your worst nightmare. I can’t wait to have more children with my future husband. We want to start trying as soon as possible with conjugal visits etc……. (hot right? -_-
lol

Anyway his Dad is a twin and has sisters who are twins, My Dad had twin Brothers, my sister had twins but lost one.
I’m pretty sure he and I have two kids, both girls. But close in age not birthdays. But it got me thinking because obviously EVERYONE says ‘OMB you’ll have twins, hat if you have twins? how cool to have twins, twins twins fluffing twins. I’m sorry but Woooooah there cowboy!!! Who helps me look after these twins? lol ya know what I mean? They’d be 2 and a half by the time Daddy got out to help me lol One I can handle, not 2 at once.
But it got me thinking…….coz obviously I’m a girl so I sit and think about life with my Knight in shining Latino Hotness and then I started seeing stuff.

Spirit showing me various people who had given birth to twins and one passes away.
I know now why I was so drawn to this article a couple of months ago and this is why I love being so observant. (Suddenly being a Scorpio pays off in my real life science experiment)

Look at the poor little girl on the right sound asleep not knowing when she wakes up her life will NEVER be the same again.
She is going to grow up always feeling like a part of her is missing. Her parents forever lost in sadness and wondering the ‘what if’s’ and ‘if onlys’.
I can’t think of anything more heart
breaking on this earth than a parent having to bury a child.
Yet look at the look on the face of that Spirit Elder on the left and tell me he isn’t what the truth definition of divine purpose and Guardian Angel are?

Twins William and Reagan; William died days later of a congenital heart defect.

Twins William and Reagan; William died days later of a congenital heart defect.

When one twin dies, it is because they are escorting the one who is to survive because it usually means the life they had before was one of trauma and sadness.
They may have died homeless in their last life, or been murdered or abandoned etc….so they are given escorts. To guide them through the birth which is a traumatic process on ones Spirit because it’s physically painful having a body, they need time to grow into their bodies.
That’s what conception basically is.
The sperm and egg meeting and giving the Spirit time to get used to a physical form.
Sometimes if a trauma of a past life is present the survivor will get an escort.
Spirit Elders are guardians of the soul. So they are living breathing Spirit Elders, who of course can’t communicate or get attached, so they leave once it is necessary.

If you have ever lost a twin be proud and take with you the fact from the creation of your surviving child onwards she or he are forever escorted by the twin as protector and guardian. They NEVER separate and always keep their memory alive in the other o the child never feels detached.
I’m told for many survivors Elvis included they walk around in life feeling like something is missing. They swear they are connected to the twin in their minds and can talk to them but people would think they were crazy etc….
Elvis swore black and blue he had a telepathic connection to his twin who died at birth.

Twins and multiple births are a great blessing. We can’t have it too crowded up there now can we? hahahahahaha just kidding. I’s a constant recycling process until the balance is tipped to evolution.

TANGENT:
(Did you see they discovered other black holes? I told you I saw at least 7 of them. There might be more but I saw 7.)

I asked Spirit why multiple births and they said as only they can ‘Consider it our equivalent to a theme park ride’. -_-
hahahahahahahahaha Gotta love their sense of humour.

Your surviving child/ren will be blessed in so many ways. They have been chosen to be something special to make up for whatever it is they suffered in the last life. Do NOT fuck it up.

ALL babies are gifts from the Universe but if your chosen to have more than one at once especially if you lose some of them then you’ve been given something extra special and it is a reward gifted to very few considering the rate we breed.

I’m told here is the way to tell the trauma level of the child that survives last lives was.
It’s in how long the twin who dies stays with them for.
So what does that mean for someone who loses a twin at 90?
I’m so crying right now.

You created Angels either way you look at it.
Give thanks every day when there are tens of millions of couples in this world longing for a single child.
People who never found anyone to have a child with who regret every moment. For all the couples who live in countries and cultures who say they are the wrong sex to be raising a family.
Having a child is the greatest gift we in this universe can be given and it is rewarded to a select amount. Don’t EVER abuse that privilege because noting and I mean NOTHING will assure you an all expenses paid first class ticket to the dark side, hell, darkness, devolution whatever you want to call it.

But to those who lose a twin or any amount of children, I bow at your feet.
I wouldn’t be as strong.
Your children were and ARE the most special of the special in Spirit terms. I guarantee you your child is in the one place 80% of the population won’t get to for 20 life times.

You will meet up with them in your sleep and in memory that is fact. It’s how we connect with them while they are in Spirit until you tune yourself in to them.
But for you I’m sure they are never far from your mind anyway

I have nothing but love and respect for you all, no matter the age, a child is a child.

Depression: It’s our fault.

As you all know my marriage has come to an end and the Number One contributing factor in this happening is that dirty fuckin word Depression.
In the almost 4 years I’ve been writing this stuff out the number of people who come to me suffering from one form of depression or another has risen exponentially.
I’m talking it was one in 1000 before, but now it’s more like one in 3.

Depression is a pandemic sweeping across the world and we have no one to blame but ourselves.
Why? Because we now live in a world where emotions are bad and being lazy and no longer self motivated to do anything ourselves, we run to Doctors and Governments to do something about it.

No one allows themselves to cry any more, or be angry or hurt.
People, we were given emotions for a reason. They are our release valve. They dump all the toxins in our emotions and psyche and heal us.
But with Fluoride and Artificial Sweeteners, Sugar, Antibiotic filled meats and dairy, the low fat bullshit stripping our brains of the healthy fats we need to coat it and now the medications we take in bucket loads willingly, we have depression when the smallest thing happens.
I bet you no one will have depression when the Cleansing hits and we are all having to fight for tins in the Supermarket lol

Get off your asses and take your Blob Damn life back.
We have an entire Universe full of Conscious love and light out there desperate to teach us the ways of the Universe.
All our loved ones throughout the course of our Evolutionary creation are begging us to listen to what they have to say and what do we do?
We eat cake and watch the Fucking Kardashians.

Also this ‘Labels’ bull shit and the Moral Brigade, these pain in the ass ‘Black Lives matter’ trouble makers and ‘Feminists’ etc…the governments orchestrate these little pockets of sub division so we will run to them to fix it.
Well guess what people? You get the Government you deserve.

They’re coming, and they are bringing tanks and Thought Police. So now you can’t be angry that some cops are out of control because your a Terrorist and if you say anything bad your a Terrorist and threat to the nation you live in.
Even though freedom of speech and expression are in the front of all great nations Declarations or Constitutions.

Remember when we were kids, things were so much less complicated when shit happened.
They are allowed to cry and have tantrums but when your an adult you suddenly need to focus on working and going to University and pay taxes that aren’t even legal.
We hand ourselves over to the Matrix and then wonder why we are unhappy and our souls are crying out for us to be FREE!!!!

People, please, I beg you, STOP allowing yourself the right to have a fuckin emotion. Life is shit sometimes. Its supposed to teach you the lessons YOU asked for before you came here to be you.

We are incredible Vessels of love and light and only a few of us (Empaths) understand this needs to just cry or be worried or whatever.

We have ALL had to rise above shit that when it’s over we have unclenched our butts and breathed a sigh of relief. But life’s issues aren’t the hurdles we think they are. They are stepping stones not hurdles. We place each stone there ourselves.
WE are the masters of our destiny, no God or Deity. US, we are one consciousness. We are ALL one. We are symbiotic and connected by the light in the Universe. This is why we don’t know what is beyond the edge of space because we haven’t finished creating it yet. I’ve seen it. I know how t works. I can step outside all time and see the light and why and how it works because my brian (yes I know I said Brian, watch the animated movie Igor, I LOVE that movie, it is so sweet and I feel like I’m the monster) releases its own DMT it seems without the need for the drug. We all can but mine is just obvious lol

We are ALL supposed to be like me. The way I deal with stress, the way I understand the Universe, the way I leave all the big stuff to fate, my gift is nothing if we are all like it and if everyone was more like me in terms of this gift stuff depression wouldn’t exist.
Anyone can be like me if the want is there to put in the years of dedication and training.

This year should of been the worst of my life. So much has changed. My heart has been broken more times this year than any other in my life and you know how bad my life has been.
Yet I’m the happiest I have EVER been in my entirety of life here as Debbie.
Since I gave over to the fear and allowed myself to focus on following my compass, get it. What I am, what I need to be, what I need to do etc…..to be happy. I found pure light.

And boy am I getting happy. I see only light now. I’m surrounding by spirits hundreds deep, I have the most incredible job. Oh My Blob, my readings I actually enjoy them now because I’m helping those who want direction not answers. So it spreads positivity and hope. Where as before I was always worried I was letting people down. My fear of letting people down made me nervous.

I’m teaching thee most incredibly loyal, gifted, loving students. They all tell me how they followed their gut to find me. (They followed their compass) and of my senior students I can honestly say I have found my family.
Even when I’ve had to go Dark to teach certain lessons these last few days they ALL understand why it had to be done and never judged me and in fact by having their support and permission it illuminated many truths and brought certain people to the light who should never have found it in the first place.

My sons are so clever and funny. They are bat shit crazy like their parents but they are individuals and happy even with all this going on with Mr Ex.
But they embrace my crazy and now my 7 year old is in to Physics. Even has theories of his own we like to discuss.

Mr Ex and I? We are the best of friends and will continue to love and support each other through out all of time. All divorces should be like ours. I’m taking nothing but what is mine, and he will help me with the boys without lawyers getting involved. No drama, just healing.

Everything in life has an opposite, for balance. Without perfect balance nothing can evolve. Left/Right, Up/Down, Light/Dark, Yes/No, Good smells/Bad smells, Love/Hate, Day/Night, Sleep/Wake, Run/Walk, Laugh/Cry etc…..you name it, it will have an opposite. So you have to know that when your depressed because your marriage is over, the good times WILL come. It has to. It’s Universal law of balance. But what is happening with us on earth is there are so many of you suffering from some form of emotional or Spirit blockage that we are now tipping the balance the wrong way. We either go up the ladder to light which is evolution and all knowledge, all time, all creation, everything, or we tip it the other way to dark and de evoling or nothingness. Which everything in the Universe including the dark are trying to avoid.
Nothing wants to go down the wrong part of the Black Hole. I call it The Tornado Effect.

By us not doing anything about our situations we head further and further into the black hole (metaphoric black hole of life I mean this time not the actual black hole like I meant last time).

So how to beat depression?
Honestly? Grow up. Embrace the suck, admit your dramas, get off our medication, stop trying to pass the responsibility for your bad decisions onto other people, own your problems, take responsibility and get off processed garbage. Sugar and Fluoride, MSG, SLF, Sweeteners, all that shit is killing our brains, turn off your Blob Damn TVS and read a book, go for a walk, stop being fed the lies that your not good enough. Do what makes you happy and fuck every body else. You will give love and support where you earn it. Give respect where you get it, love with all of your heart, do what you love and love what you do. Stop working jobs you hate and follow your dream. It’s better to try and be happy than fail at being happy?
Know that you chose this life for the very lessons your running away from. So face them head on.
You ask for this life. The reason your so miserable is your Third self or Highest Self knows it is here to have the Human Experience and by you fighting your compass trying to point north your denying yourself the experience you sent yourself down here to learn.

If you are living a life where you wish you were doing something else then your pointing your dial away from North. Over time that wears heavy on the dial. Now imagine your intuition is the dial and the decisions you make the magnetic force pulling that dial to North. So like a magnets polarity pushing when your put two magnets against each other, your pushing your Soul away from where it was set to be all along.

So everything you do, every thought, every action, every decision, every plan has it’s opposite response. So if you make a positive decision, a positive plan, do something there is also the alternative to it out there. The potential of what could be if you make the wrong decision.
Your gut, your intuition is your compass and no one listens to it but me lol
I’m the only idiot brave enough to listen to every gut feeling and thought BUT I’ve lost 200lbs and found the love of loves because of it. I have an incredible career now and a book coming out and I’m fighting the fight to get to New England (well that area). I’m happier than I’ve ever been and at 43 I now have a 25yr old in love with me hahahahaha (I KNOOOOW RIIIIIGHT?) lol
Bless him the silly boy lol

But I did ALL the things my compass told me to do and my life has changed so dramatically I now welcome the bad shit that happens because the Universal law of Balance dictates that what turns to shit also turns to roses 🙂
That’s why you enjoy the positives in life because it can change in an instant but it’s AAAALLLL based on what you do with what happens next that decides what happens next.

See life as you standing on a pair of skis. One ski is Light, Positive, Evolution of your Spiritual Self, the Other Ski Dark, Negative and De Evolving on a Spiritual level.
Our job while having the human experience is to balance just right on those skis, not too dark, not too light just going at the right speed to have our journey. But soon enough you get the balance just right so your skis go so fast that before you know it your traveling at the speed of what??????? Anyone?………LIGHT!!!
Good Students. I know the 4 that had their hands up immediately already from here lol (see…..Time Traveller lol)
Get it now?
Sort your shit out and watch how fast you get to the light and evolve?
My light is blinding now I’m going so fast.
Many of my students have just gotten on the slopes so I can’t wait till they catch up and they will because my experiences mean I can show them how to avoid the hard stuff. I have the cheats to life lol no having to go through the shit I went through to know what I know.
Some still have the fear but honestly if your that miserable in your life, surely trying to be happy is worth giving it a go because if it doesn’t work you haven’t lost anything and you can say ‘See I told me so’ lol
Nothing found nothing lost right?

You owe this to yourself and your Ancestors to try. Otherwise you’ll be back down for sure.
We are those kinds of nerdy Spirits lol it’s ALL about the Lesson of the Human experience.
That’s why we do it. But we control what happens, when and how. Fight or Flee.
I used to think everything was predestined but it isn’t. We choose it all. Everything, even when we die.

I chose to fight and I’ve been fighting like a bastard these last 12 months Oh My Blob.

Oh and the reason I am anti Black Lives Matter is because I think ALL lives matter. I’d like to see the people protest the Asian Slaves in the textile and sex industry etc….the African Diamond slaves, The Eastern European Orphans, (All Orphans tbh), First Nations, Aboriginals, LGBT, Men, Hispanics, Muslims,Palestinians, Homeless, Gypsies Animals, Women, The Elderly, Black people, Irish, Gingers, Nerds, Handicap, Mentally challenged, even ugly Spiders the Devils Minions, ALL lives matter, I could be here all day,trees, plants, even dark side, all victims in some way, and we allow it to not matter. We all have good and bad versions. Your going to get good Priets and bad ones, Good Teachers and Bad ones, Good Judges and DAs and bad ones, good black/White/Hispanic/Catholic/Muslim/Gay/Straight/Handicapped you get my drift, I could go on and on. But you know what I mean. If you don’t agree that ALL lives matter then your to blame for the state of all of this in this world. Your either a part of the solution or a part of the problem because that’s the balance lol See how it works? lol
See….I told you I wasn’t crazy lol The dead people in my head taught this stuff. Lol
Wait till I do my book called The Science of the Paranormal.

So we are all to blame for this shit. We got what we deserved.
We are living our collective Spiritual Karma.

A handful of people tell us who to hate and we obey. Even though deep down we know it’s wrong.
Immigration…….we ALL come from Immigrants. We ALL came from somewhere. No one will be 100% pure anything.

The trouble isn’t letting someone in from a different country but letting everyone in without checking the moral fibre of the person you let in.
If your there to work and make a life for yourself then come on in. Your going to stimulate the economy, and build infrastructure. If your there for benefits and have nowhere to go then maybe you don’t come in, especially if you can’t read or write.
BUT…..what we should be doing is helping these countries so these poor souls aren’t having to leave in the first place. And we do that by getting rid of Bankers, Government, Sovereignty, Big Business, Pointless Celebrity, Military, Pharmaceutical companies etc….
If we all lived the same way there wouldn’t be any of this shit.

I’d of worked in every country but now if it wasn’t for immigration.
Bastards. Who are we to say no you can’t come my soil? It’s not even OUR soil, it’s Earths and she belongs to ALL of us in the Universe.

We are ALL responsible for each other, when we have the SJWs and Politically Correct, and Moral Brigade getting offended by every little thing we de evolve ourselves faster than war.
War is tragic and brutal and over with eventually. Take your emotions and freedoms and rights of expression away etc…and it poisons us slowly over centuries.

This is why we are on the dark side of the Black Hole and Brethren aren’t.
We are heading towards that black holes corner pocket faster than we can maintain the balance and we all know what happens when a house gets sucked into the wrong part of the Tornado.

So you choose. Life is choice. Be the change you want to see because know one can fix what is wrong in you because only your compass knows where it’s north is.
Deny it and you deny yourself.
So don’t blame anyone else if you don’t listen to yourself. The answer is in you and has been all along.

The question is how much do you want to be happy and live the life your soul asked for?

I was taught this by the dead. I share it with you to show you that the dead are NOTHING to fear. Nor the Dark Side as just these very last days I had to work WITH the Dark Side to resolve a problem surrounding a Student of mine.

You HAVE to know the Dark to know the Light. It is the balance of life.
Don’t be afraid. I’m trying to show you how, if you just listen and trust your instincts your compass finds it’s way to where it is meant to be every time.

The bad stuff happens because it is meant to, but with bad comes good. With good comes bad. You just have to find the balance.
But as I say The Fear of the Paranormal is never as bad as the reality of it and I’m living proof.
Now I just have to be heard a little louder which is why I need to get to America. I know the course of my true destiny lies there.
My compass is set and I can’t fight the magnets pulling me in and to be honest I don’t want to stop it.
Knowing this path is taking me faster to the light and the happier I become the closer I get to it.
So I won’t jump off any time soon.
Light is soooo right. I can’t even begin to tell you.
But I’m gonna try.
I’ve been crossing over so many Spirits I think maybe it might be my thing lol My main purpose, my true gift. I just can relate to them. They trust me to do the right thing.
But more about that later.

We are deigned to self govern
So when we bottle stuff like shaking a bottle of coke eventually it’s going to explode and erupt. It’s the same with emotion.
I admire people that withdraw and mope
or like me I go off and cry
crying is my release
it’s just in how you choose to deal with it comes the hard part
finding the balance
so get angry and punch a pillow but don’t go out and punch a cow or small child
hahaha

Listen to music that you know can change your vibration, go for a walk, hug a tree, bake a cake, play golf, paint, fish (catch and release or for dinner not for sport or the blood lust), whatever it is you have to do to bring calm to your light. Stop stopping yourself from feeling. Put your anger towards something that gets that kenetic energy out of you. Just put it into the right action. Make good choices when wanting to be angry not bad ones. YOU set the balance. YOU. No one else knows your balance but you. No one IS you but you so no one can understand what YOUR balance is.
And this is what I’m teaching you all, this is what my students are doing. Skiing lessons 🙂
And I’m the Ski Instructor called Sven, but it’s a Military grade Ski Slope so I’m the Drill Instructor as well and I’m sorry but my Teacher was right and I apologize to you now Pauline, can you hear me up there? lol I’m so sorry lol You were right you little tiny person. I am tougher than you. You said I’d be a tough teacher and I laughed at you. I told you I’d bake cakes and tuck them in at night lol
I’m hard Mama, Oh My Blob, I’m like Satan with big tits lol
I’m the Satan of the Paranormal Sciences hahaha bloody typical lol
My poor students lol they are tough man, I’ve not had to drop a student in months and boy have I thrown some shit at them lol
It’s an honor to serve with these men’s and women. We are going to war together to change history forever and I couldn’t ask for a better regiment to serve with.
Our galactic brethren are with us, fighting the good fight and the light is starting to shine.
Soon enough if I can do this right, before I die there will be a few hundred thousand less people afraid of death and what happens after and then we can see death as a celebration because they get to go back to the light if they lived the right life while here.
So get it right. Please listen to what I’m saying in these posts. What I want you all to do is try it. Try the way I’m saying to be. Just for a month or a year listen to what I’m saying. It works. I promise you. You wait till you see my weight loss. Once I’m down to my goal weight you wait till you see the change it made all because I listened to the voices in my head lol The dead.
If I’m wrong……well then I just won’t play anymore lol Your on our own. I’m done lol I quit lol

Love and Light
Mama
xoxox

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The main aspect of this new technique is giving the client guidance on how they can achieve their goals and find balance unlike a traditional reading which is just predictive.
This will offer guidance from Spirit in regards to things like career, love, money, mental health etc….
I believe I am the first to offer this kind of reading.

In the course of doing so Spirit will show you the future and you can have with the predictions being far more accurate than me trying to pull them out of the ether.
You will learn more about your journey this way as there will be no fear on my part of getting the connection with Spirit wrong.

The sooner people realize Spirit are conscious energy and not physical beings to describe in detail the better the connection will be.
You will be able to learn so much from them if you just listen to the messages rather than look for evidence they are there.

If your having life issues, depression, worried about anything or just want to connect to Spirit and the Universe please come book a reading and let me show you how to follow your compass to perfect balance and peace in your life.

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My students and I are on an incredible journey together and one day soon I’ll have more of me to go around but I want to spread Spirits hot sticky love all over the globe and show people how a reading should be done.
Spirit can change your life. You never need to be unhappy, lost or disconnected again if you listen to Spirit.

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Love and Light
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Love: I get it now

John Lennon once sang ‘All you need is love’. And they killed him.
But his message while never forgotten, never reached all the ears that were meant to listen. The biggest lesson Spirit have taught me in the 43 years of my life is ‘If your not doing it for the love, your not doing it for the right reasons.’

People are suffering, suffering for their art, suffering for survival, suffering for their cause.
My ex husband works long hours, grueling hours, on his art because he loves what he does so much, he knows it comes with sacrifices.
I supported him, even when I missed him, because I loved him so much.
I’m not a Super Model, I’ve never been known for my looks but I’ve never been without a boyfriend or partner. I’ve always had a way of knowing what a man wants. (My trouble is I give too much control over to the men I’m with and it drains me of all they loved about me in the first place. Not now)

Whatever he is into, I learn, so we have something to talk about.
All to often in my job I’ve had women coming to me for a reading wanting to know why the men they are with are no longer the men they fell in love with.
And the answer is always the same.
‘You dated a man you thought you could change and you ended up changing so much about him he is no longer recognizable.’
There are so many men and women who crush the Spirit of their partner when they see things in them they don’t like, then no longer recognize the things they saw in them they originally loved in the first place.
That isn’t love.
Love is worth hurting for. Love is with the sacrifices being made to be together.
My ex husband gets up every day to work his ass off so I can stay home and raise our boys. I get to work from home because of him and that is why when I’m in a position to I’m going to retire him and pay for him to just sit and paint.
It is the least I can do for him because he broke himself so I could learn everything I have learned about my gift, Spirit, The Paranormal and now the Universe.

I work pretty much full time, helping where I can but he takes all that pressure off me so I can concentrate on educating and nurturing our boys with the best life we can give them. Because he loves me as the Mother of his children and as his best friend.
The fact our marriage broke down doesn’t mean we then ha to hate each other. Because of the rare nature of who he and I are, we are able to push past the hurt and just love each other as friends, parents to two incredible boys, fellow human doings and Universal beings. That is love.
No lawyers, no hate, no alimony, no visitation orders, just a happier path for us both that run parallel to each other.

He endured 16 years of emotional bullshit, threats and abuse from his own family because he loves me.
He has given up all of his holiday days, sick days, and even lost wages taking unpaid leave to take care of me when I was dealing with all my health issues because he loved me.
People have divorced for less and it’s because none of those couples loved each other.
Not really.
Love is hard to get a hold of but once you have it, and I mean REALLY have it, the hard stuff doesn’t seem so hard.
Some one once said ‘True love is wanting to kill your partner but never going through with it.’ and with the exception of things like adultery, addiction or abusive behavior, most things our partners do to upset us are forgivable and can be worked on.

By abuse I mean, physical, mental, verbal, sexual, financial, etc….
If you have ever been in love, REALLY been in love you’ll know how much it hurts. To know love is to know pain.
But love can save the world. Love can stop wars. Love can change the entire way you see the world, the Universe and the Dead.

The reason why Spirit keep on at us even though we are idiots who run around with cameras flashing in their non existent faces, and putting our hands through their energy is because they love us.
Even though we don’t give ourselves the time to get to know them, even though we might not or mostly don’t have any genetic history with that Spirit (meaning they might not be a family member or ancestor) they still put themselves through exhausting, and often time consuming, contact with us because they love us and want to guide us on our journey to becoming enlightened and happy Souls.

The same goes with our ‘Galactic Family’.
The reason they come to keep an eye over us because we are war mongering idiots who instead of allowing ourselves to educate, protect, nurture, heal and love each other and our beautiful planet we fight and steal, lie and cheat each other out of having Love.
True Love.
Love really does make the world go round.
While Governments are threatening to shoot on sight, terrified refugees who were forced to flea their own countries because of the wars those very countries who want to shoot them created.

Yet among it are these beautiful, truly Spiritual souls who are offering food and sanctuary to these refugees because they understand what it is we are all meant to be. It should be the first reaction we have when we see any living breathing soul in need to want to go to their aid and offering them help, or love.

We allow ourselves to be divided by the colour of our skin, by our religious beliefs, by the uniforms we wear, by the money in our bank accounts and by the soil that lay under our feet at the time of birth.

But the truth is, this is ALL of our planet. No one owns this planet. It wasn’t given to all of us. We were allowed to simple share the same space. It’s on loan to us for a symbiotic relationship.
The fact we need to ask for permission to travel from one bit of dirt to another is a slap in the face of everything we were given this planet for.

It would make no sense or serve no purpose to have all of this staggeringly beautiful Galaxy to have only one planet have life on it who then would have to wait millions of years for us to evolve enough to get off our asses and build a way of getting out into the Universe and explore it.

We drop bombs on each other because some people in a posh office decide the innocent men, women and children on a patch of soil are no longer worthy of standing on it.
We send millions and millions of people out onto the streets, often starving and in need of medical care and mental health protection because they don’t have enough paper in their wallets or digits on their banks computer screen to please a Fat Cat on millions a year in stolen, often illegal but most definitely sinful revenue who has decided you and your family aren’t worthy of life.

The Love of Money is the Root of all Evil. And it is true.
Spirit are like proud parents who want to give their children the best of everything. They WANT us to work hard and make a good living. They want us to be successful and have all the good things in life.
As long as what you do you do for the love of it and as long as no living being be it animal, mineral or vegetable have to suffer or sacrifice themselves for your success them Spirit support you every step of the way.

Yes Spirit have no concept of money nor do they have a need or want for it.
But we have allowed ourselves to be taken in to believing money is everything and it just isn’t.
Love is.
If you don’t love your fellow, if you don’t love this planet, you don’t love yourself.
The wealthy people of this world might like to believe they are envied and are powerful. They might like to believe there are people who want to emulate them and for the most part it is true.
There are plenty of people who want what they have. But what these people seem to forget is, if you remove your skin, we are all the same underneath.
If you remove the paper we are all the same in the cemetery.
However in Spirit the way your treated will be vastly different.

The more you love money, the more Souls who were sacrificed in order to make you wealthy and powerful on earth the worse you’ll be when your Spirit because you had no love for your fellow man.

The people who are sacrificed, their lives, their homes, their health, their livelihoods and often families, because it was the right thing to do according to Universal Law will be the ones who are given the higher place in Spirit than the Donald Trumps of the world.

If you love yourself, you’ll love your fellow man regardless of colour or religion.
A man who wears rags who shares his donated food or dollar with his fellow homeless brothers and sisters has more love and will be in a better position come the New Renaissance And the After Life than the man in the Rolls Royce who thought it was funny claiming ‘Nothing smaller than a hundred’ to the homeless man will.

We must ALL learn to be more Empathic. And not the Empathic that drives me insane lol the ‘Oh I’m so sensitive to Spirit and the energy around me’ bull shit. I mean ‘Empathic’…. As according to the Oxford Dictionary.

Which says: People often confuse the words empathy and sympathy. Empathy means ‘the ability to understand and share the feelings of another’ whereas sympathy means ‘feelings of pity and sorrow for someone else’s misfortune’. Empathy hurts you to witness as much as the person your witnessing. You suffer the emotional highs and lows with the man or beast. And it can take days even weeks to get over something.

I know I say all the time it is my least favourite gift because I’m constantly in floods of tears for someone or some thing I’ve never met before.
It’s not just negative or unpleasant stuff either because I will cry seeing moments of great joy as well.
Like my favourite YouTube clip of the dog that see’s her Papa for the first time in 2 years having spent the time apart because Papa was in the US Military.
This Dog howls, and screams and cries so much, it’s hysterical out pouring of love almost makes the poor beast pass out.

THAT is Love.

You only get one chance at this life. What you do next, all has an impact on what happens to you when you die.

If your chasing the money to be rich, and not because you enjoy the job. If you buy the house or shoes you can’t afford to be like everyone else.
If you take a life because the person in the shell represented someone or an ideal you found offensive.
If you endure a relationship that is so toxic, negative and or dangerous because they are hot and look good on your arm, or because they are rich and can give you an easier life.
If you destroy or remove someone or some thing from it’s domicile so you can have the land or money from renovating and flipping the house for profit.
If you walk past a homeless person whether they are a drunk or not and you don’t help them.
If you find their presence an inconvenience to you or if you find the homeless animals and humans who eat from the bins in our neighbourhood an embarrassment. Or worse if you’ve ever been abusive, insulting or worse to them because they offended you with their mere existence then you have never known and will never know the true meaning of love.

Love isn’t just about having a partner you have great sex with, or who buys you nice things who makes our friends envious and who can give you a dream wedding.
Abuse love and love will abuse you. That is the balance of the Universe.

Love isn’t about putting yourself and your parents in debt for tens of thousands of dollars/pounds for the perfect wedding and if you had your dream wedding where you got everything you wanted and it cost so much your still paying it off years after you were married then I’m sorry but you didn’t marry for love.

The truth of the matter is, it shouldn’t matter where you marry them. The wedding is supposed to be about the union of two families coming together to celebrate the union between the Bride and Groom, or Bride and Bride or Groom and Groom.

It shouldn’t be about how much they spent on flowers and whether the bride managed to talk her parents into buying her the dress she wanted that was over her budget allowance.

Marriage was originally a business deal between two tribe members as a show of trust and partnership.

Nowadays it’s seem as a show of often non existent wealth and to be frank…………gluttony. You invite people who ordinarily you’d never have a lot to do with outside of family gatherings so you can show off your wealth under the guise of Love.

When in fact what you should be doing is gathering your nearest and dearest to celebrate the union between two people who love each other.

All the money you could save by exchanging vows in a garden and having a BBQ or supper then having a shin dig in a hall somewhere could go on the honeymoon of a life time. Making memories and having experiences to live your entire marriage by would be so much more worth it than wearing a designer gown your never going to wear again and more than likely one day will look back on with hate and regret because you realized you married the wrong person.

Marriage is such a special union very few are mature enough to enter into. Marriage is about going to hell and back with each other for. Making sacrifices for each other. Having each others backs in the good time and the bad. Marriage is about never having to explain yourself because without saying a word your partner understands why you said or did what you said or did. Marriage is the perfect embodiment of what love really is all about if it is shared by two people who understand the true meaning of the word.

I believe in marriage. It is the ultimate commitment two people can make to each other. I believe in love and the power of it which is why I will marry Martin without hesitation. I know on paper we might look insane but there is no denying this connection we have. I just don’t care. I love him and he is the first guy I’ve ever been with who knows what he wants from me and us. It’s so nice not having to convince someone I’m worthy of being loved because he is the one who chased me and convinced me I should love him.

It changes you, Love. It makes everything better.

It’s about being there without being asked to be there whether it is being there for your spouse, or a stranger.

We are living in countries where our leaders are systematically slaughtering human and animal beings because of oil, money and power in the exact same ways the Jews were persecuted in WW2 yet no one is stopping it.

What we are allowing to happen to the poor Syrians in Europe is exactly what happened to the Jews. Yet it seems to be for the most part acceptable. Why is that?

Are people so insular now they  refusing to see we are walking right into? another World War? Our Governments would have you believe that Muslims are bad people just like how Germans were told that Jews were bad people not worthy of life. But what people forget it it’s not just Muslims who’s lives get affected by a war. This is NOT YOUR country. It is NOT yours or your Governments planet. It is OUR country and OUR planet. You do not own the soil under our feet and yet your happy to pay over half your wages to own some of it that at any moment the bank could refuse you the ownership of.

We created ALL things equal. So why the hell are we allowing our brothers and sisters, our animals and trees, our lands and our oceans to be treated as though they belong to anyone other than all of us?

If you’ve ever said ‘These fuckin immigrants come here and take our jobs and buy our houses making everything too expensive for us to live in our own country’ then your an idiot. I’m sorry. But there is NOT one piece of land on this planet that wasn’t settled by immigrants.

We all came from Africa. Our African Grandparents traveled from Africa, up through Europe and across the oceans to find a home for themselves. There is no one on this planet that is 100% of anything other than Human. Yet we are prepared to in debt ourselves and fight for a bit of soil that belongs to all of us.

Is that what you think your God wants? Is that Love? Love for your fellow man? Love for your Country? Love for your Planetf

NO MAN IS BETTER THAN THE NEXT WE ARE ALL EQUAL.

Equality creates balance. Our Universe, our Spiritual format, is ALL running in perfect order when we have balance.

Our Solar System reacts so much better when everything is in balance.

Regardless of whether your God is Christian, Muslim, Jewish, Buddhist, Hindu, Jedi, Alien, A Tree or an Animal. It’s all the same to the person who believes.

Love keeps the Universe in balance. It’s a fact.

We are ALL connected whether your an Ape on this planet, a bacteria on the Moon, a being from another Galaxy, or a planet in our Galactic sky. The comets, animals, plants, water, insects. dirt, bacteria, trees, etc… the meteors, planets, beings, space dust, black holes, milky ways, in this Universe and the others, are ALL connected. We all were born from the one original source of life.

What we do to ourselves we do to them. What we destroy they suffer with, what we create they enjoy, what we invent they receive the benefits from and what we love creates a balance and calm they are attracted to.

They are NOT a threat or a danger to us regardless of what they might start saying. Project Blue Beam has been in the works for a long time and to prove I’m right I suggest for the next 8 weeks you watch the news articles going up on the Yahoo news website.

I’ve noticed that every day for the last 2 weeks the news is about the discovery of or existence of ‘Alien life’. And that is the basis or foundation for the start of Project Blue Beam. I know it sounds insane but it is true. I suggest you Google it.

What we have been fed about our ‘Intergalactic Brethren’ is all founded on stories, wild imagination and very carefully planned out plots and role playing games to fool the masses into believing that what is out there wants to hurt us and experiment on us sexually and mentally. Which is typical of us to make everything about sex and power.

But as with Spirit, they aren’t interested in us sexually. In no way shape or form. We are the only beings who have sex for pleasure. And sex does NOT mean love.

But I digress. I could talk for days about this stuff but I’m going off on a tangent.

The reason why our galactic brethren help us.  They have stopped missiles from being set off on ‘the enemy’ is because they love.

We are compared to Spirit and them, the Babies of the Galaxy. They are trying to help us reach the level of Love and Understanding we need to get our shit together to join them up there. So that we too can Play among the stars.

But we will never be allowed to go near Space in it’s true glory until we can learn to love each other.

They are our Ancient ancestors and the only ones of us who seem to truly understand that they are our Ancestors are the First Nations and other Indigenous peoples such as the Aboriginals and Maori. But none more so than the First Nation people.

This is why they don’t come down to speak to our Military leaders and Presidents. The first thing they would do is kill them, the second would be to steal their technology.

So they are waiting until we ALL get off our backsides and create Balance.

Don’t do it if it isn’t for love. When you do it for love your doing it for the entire greater good of your Spirit, your Ancestors and your Galaxy.

Any less of a reason isn’t good enough and you’ll never evolve while your doing it for any reason other than love.

The best thing you can do for yourself right now is leave that job you hate. Leave that partner your not happy with. Leave those possessions your in debt up to your eye balls for and the house your never truly going to own until the day you make your last payment for in about 30 years time and go out into the world and find your true love.

I’m not just talking about ‘Partner’. Find the job you love, find the person you love, find the culture you love, eating the food you love, embracing all the aspects that come with having that love and watch how rich you become after it.

Then when you are rich of heart you will be rich in life and there is nothing more rewarding I can promise you than waking up next to the one you love in a job you love with a life you love.

Sure some days you might not have two pennies to rub together but if your belly is full and your warm and healthy who cares. As long as your living an honest life, where your honoring yourself. You deserve to have the best of everything if your prepared to work hard enough to seek it out. Nothing is stopping you but you.

Whether it is with millions in the bank or not. If you can write the chapters of your story where the experiences you have create the content where the laws of the Universe aren’t broken then live life each day like you’ve never seen it before. So much awaits us when you go looking for love.

Life is an adventure from the second your born.

Go out there and tell your story. Write each chapter as though it is your last and fill it with memories of all the things you got to love along the way.

Just make a promise to yourself to learn the difference between Love and Sexual Attraction, Education and Learning, Honor and Duty, Balance and Order. Life and Living, because only one of those in each selection is what’s wanted for us.

Love is the reason we exist. If our Galactic brothers and sisters were that dangerous they would of cleaned our clock a long time again. The fact they haven’t speaks volumes.

Spirit are the same. They could of gone about their business and left us to deal with death and Spiritual understanding on our own but they all help us because they want us to know the true meaning of the word Love.

Do what you do for the right reasons, and you’ll live thee most rewarding life you could ever imagine. When you have that confidence to love all things openly, nothing is more attractive. And nothing is more attracting. Like attracts like. It’s Universally understood. Like attracts like. And for me there is nothing hotter than a guy who knows what he wants and stops at nothing to get it. For love. I just found that in Martin and man…………..how hot is that? It has taken all the pressure off me lol

I spent 20 years working on myself. Writing my chapters. Finding balance and now as I come to the end of my time as a Student. As I prepare for graduation and life with whatever Spirit have in store for me I do so with excitement and confidence. Because even when it’s been hard, I’ve hurt and suffered and been betrayed, disrespected, used and abused and I’ve wanted to walk away, call it quits, start again and forget about it, I get up every morning to the greatest love I ever want to know beside me.

My boys, they are the greatest loves in my life. They helped me nurture and repair, in a life that I love, helping the people I love through a gift that I love. Sure…..I’m mostly broke, and my clothes are falling off me lol (because I’ve lost so much weight) but my life is an adventure from the second I open my eyes. My journey as a Spiritual person of the purest form of Love and Light enables me to have adventures beyond space and time, in and around our planet and universe, because everything I do, and everyone I do it for, I do for the love of my boys. I couldn’t breathe without them. Even on the days when a crack addiction seems more appealing than dealing with their carnage. lol

Love………….is Universal. It creates and nurtures, it heals and mends, it inspires and develops, it builds and protects, it transforms and transcends, it balances and bends, it feeds and nourishes. It turns dark into light and light to dark. It opens up not just the world around you but the Universe as well. It makes grown people drive themselves insane with the need for it. The lust that comes with getting to get down and dirty with that one guy you KNOW is gonna hit all the right spots every time because he loves you THAT much you crave them.

Like……..you know when your skin hurts you need them so bad? You can’t sit still. You can’t stop thinking about them and then get pissed off when you have to stop thinking about them to think about stuff like ‘work’ lol

When you hear his voice and you turn to jelly. When you try to be all tough but he makes you weak with a purr of his voice. When you run to him for comfort without question and he knows just what to say.

When he tells you your the most beautiful women he has ever seen on your period days lol *stupid boy* lol Blob he makes me fuckin brianless (yes brianless).
You know that distracting kind of love? Where you walk into walls and shit.

I wish I could show you. I wish I could show you. Then you wouldn’t be so afraid to live your life as you.

Go out there and love. I promise you John Lennon was right.

Love……..is all you need.

To My Boys, My Family and Friends, My Students, I can’t express to you enough how blessed I am to have you all in my life.

I love you all more than you will ever know. My life is rich because I have you in my life. You make my life rich and rewarding and you put up with me regardless of the fact I’m often throwing some of the most bizarre situations your way expecting you to have answers for me to help me understand what’s happening. I trust you with my life and most importantly I trust you with my gift.

You see the side to me I don’t share with anyone else because no one understands my gift the way you do. You never judge me. You often spend days pondering things I’ve told you in order to help me understand what’s happening to me and you have never once doubted me.

Your the only people who know the things about my gift I dare not share with anyone. Things I would take to my grave. The stuff people just aren’t ready to hear or know about. You have patience with me and you never make me explain myself. Your the first people I go to when something new happens and the first two I go to when I need advice, help or just to talk. My life wouldn’t be half of what it is without you in my life and I just want to thank you for loving me the way you do.

I am rich because your my reward for everything I do along with my sons.

Everything I do, I do because I am loved by you and everything I am, I am because of you. I wouldn’t be what I am today without you in my life. Separately and together you give my life joy and balance.

I am the Master of my Universe and you are my Planets, Black Holes, Milky Ways and Stars.

I love you and Thank you.

xoxoxox

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EVPs: The Modern Day Ouija Board

As someone who was born observing the world around her I am proud to say I was probably born the most nosy and observant Bitch on the planet lol It drives my ex husband nuts because I will remember EVERYTHING. The time she looked at him, the top she was wearing, how tall she was. What he said, what he was wearing, what we were doing, everything. My Mother always said I would of made a fantastic Homicide Detective and always wanted me to join the Police Force lol

But I used to be a HUGE fan of Paranormal Investigation based TV shows. Most Haunted, Ghost Hunters, Ghost Adventures, and the rest. I would spend hours watching these shows. It drove my ex mad because he felt with the exception of Ghost Adventures all the rest were flaky, dramatic and over the top fame seekers who never respected the process or Spirit. It was all these shows and watching the way they conducted their investigations that made me want to start my blog. That one about the Psychic Kids and the things they were getting these kids to do was just so wrong. Just because I was a kid with a gift once and it needn’t be a scary experience.

The kids were taught to investigate but not learn about their gifts. Yeah sure it’s great they can see this and know that but do they understand WHY they can?

So I wanted to teach people. The Council told me I was to sit back and observe and after having that experience with Kriss Donald’s Spirit it changed my life forever.

When I realized people were going to pay to have his Spirit reach out so they could get spooked or investigate the rooms it made me angry and it made me protective. What no one realizes is I’m now suffering because of sending him over. I gave him everything I had psychically and now my body is racked with pain because of it. I would do it 1000 times over and I do NOT want sympathy. I’d do it again and again and again and again if I had to. Being me, being the type of gift that I have it is often painful or exhausting after I do certain things. It can take me days to recover from a Time Slip.

But I realized something through all of this. It made me look at all the investigations and put things together as to why people feel this need to catch evidence. Yet why so many TV shows only ever have negative or scary experiences rather than good ones like mine. It is very very rare I come across negative Spirits. It made me realize the one thing all these experiences of scary voices and growls, threats and negative influence have in common is the EVPs. And just like Seances and Ouija Boards they follow a pattern.

It starts with people getting someone who was murdered or died tragically so you feel pity for them.

Then they will start to say things to make you defensive and scared. Murder, Die, Devil is a popular one, Hate, Die You, Hell, Help etc…..

Then they might say your name and you’ll hear someone vulnerable. Maybe a small child, a young woman, crying, maybe someone feels touched low down, or scratched.

You then feel protective of the child or crying and you immediately want to help it. You want to protect it or cross it over and the second you say anything like ‘Don’t worry I’ll help you’ or ‘Come with me and I’ll make sure your safe’ or ‘I’ll get someone to cross you over just bear with me’ anything like that where your offering help they have you right where they want you because then they have been invited in.

Some don’t even bother doing the child or murdered innocent person thing. Some just come in and attach to the weakest person in the group. Whoever is the emotionally vulnerable one of the group, The Tricksters will have them in their sights.

That’s when you get the knocking and rapping, the aggression for no reason, feeling of vulnerability. You might have trouble sleeping, you might hear your name being called. Feeling watched, nervous, can’t relax.

You become addicted to the EVPS. You want to get more and more evidence so the more EVPs you do the more and more you want the more you let them in.

I know people will argue with me but in the ratio of good v bad experiences with EVPs very rarely will the person experience messages of love and light.

And I say ‘As with Seances and Ouija sessions it all depends on who does them and most people who do them do it for fun or entertainment.

Not everyone should be doing them because not many people can handle and respond to the negative voices appropriately. Spirit come through when they want to, not because they have to and trust me when I say they don’t do Ouija or anything like that. So who are the ones who always need the attention and needs the numbers?

The Dark Side. So they go after the weak ones to try to wear them down.

EVPs are the modern day Seance and Ouija Board and like those two things only bad can come from a device that invites communication with the dead.

Most people go in all guns blazing and forget to protect themselves. Then they contact me.

SO I’m here to tell you people unless you know what your doing please don’t try and make contact with the dead.

People have died from being hounded by the darker side of the Paranormal. They can’t take it any more and usually end up taking their life or having accidents because of lack of concentration and focus.

If your going to do EVP sessions of Seances and Ouijas, Scrying, Planchettes etc….please protect yourself before you start, don’t do it in your own home unless it’s active, ALWAYS make sure you only ask for Spirits of pure love and light to communicate and NEVER allow yourself to get provoked by the ones that come through saying horrible things. They trying to goad you into getting mad so you’ll let your defenses down. They go after the weaker of the group and they latch on and it can take years to get rid of them because if all depends on the mental strength of the one under attack and if they want to get rid of it.

Remember it like this. The Dark Side make everything too easy. There is no effort to make contact and you’ll get whatever you want no questions asked.

Spirit on the other hand only come when they know it won’t scare us, they only have your best interests at heart so if they know it will be upsetting they put it off or do it in a way that won’t scare you. And everything they do is for the lessons. We have lessons to learn and they want us to go through the process step by step so you learn from it. It’s hard and it’s self sacrificing and can be scary but your not afraid. You’ll know what I mean by that if you’ve experienced a Type A Spirit. You get scared. Even I get scared if I wake up seeing someone hovering at the end of my bedroom. But it’s not the kind that makes you want to run screaming. I just say ‘Not now please Spirit I’m tired’ and it calms down.

Of course your going to get scared. It’s not normal. It’s super ab normal. But it’s beautiful and it means something. You never forget the contact you have especially if it’s someone in need of love like wee Kriss was. You can’t be a price on giving him Peace and his family peace of mind. If you saw how excited he was, if you knew how he held my hand to say Thank you and the way he ran so fast to the light.

I told someone about this story last night to someone I consider to be one of my dearest friends. But he is a hard man. He doesn’t give emotion away easily. It’s taken me 2 years to chip away at his soft side and even he was touched by the story. He said it was hard not to feel the emotions and he could feel Kriss’s desire to see his parents and be at peace.

I’ll never forget it as long as I live. It’s why I had to protect him. He could be someone you love. Do you want Tricksters using your loved ones death as a way to get into your life to fuck it and you up?

Please think very carefully because you start using these EVP devices, or Spirit contact boards etc….unless you have a trained professional in the group who can identify the trouble makers and who protects the circle and Spirit at the same time.

There’s a reason why Spirit make it so hard for us to be able to talk to them all the time.

The best things in life are never easy. Otherwise we wouldn’t appreciate them once we got them and you can’t take talking to the dead for granted.

I’d love to do a show where I taught people and released trapped souls. Maybe I should get some Youtube stuff recorded. Not all of my investigations would be at night time either.

I’d send over every single Spirit I could AND I’d educate people.

I’m mere viewings away from reaching 100,000 views so I’m educating someone lol

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Spirits guidance: Getting started (revised)

I am asked all the time by people to teach them what I know. So they too can have the sort of understanding of Spirit that I do.

I used to think I couldn’t do it but I recently learned so much new information all  want to do is teach people how to do it too.

And boy am I getting results. A couple of my students are going to write articles about their training with me to prove this stuff works.

There ARE things you can do. You can start the process yourself if you follow TO THE LETTER what I say and give yourself the full knowledge and understanding of what is going to happen once you open yourself up.

The best advice I can give anyone wanting to be more open is to let Spirit guide you. I know that sounds crazy but once you begin to live with Spirit, you start to see the lessons, you begin to understand the paths they have you on and then the rose tinted glasses come off and they show you  how to see the world the way your meant to.

So what do you do?

NUMBER 1: FAITH

Well Firstly you must have Faith. You must never EVER doubt what you see, hear or feel from the very first day of your new life.

Everything you experience in life happens for a reason. Our lives are all about lessons and whether it be good or bad, whatever happens in your life happens because it is meant to. That’s why you should never let yourself stress about the things you know you have no control over. Just put your head down and have faith that everything will turn out the way it is meant to. I promise you, once you actually start to believe, your life becomes so much easier to handle.

I haven’t been stressed out or worried for years because I have learned that good or bad it is meant to be. I know everything that happens in my life or my families life is for a reason and the only thing I can do is my best to deal with it when I need to. But if it is beyond my control then I just keep the faith that Spirit will take care of us while we go through it. And they do. They have never let me down yet. Honestly, that saying ‘Don’t sweat the small stuff’ Is true. People are conditioned now to worry about every single thing in their lives. Including the things absolutely beyond their control.

Your gonna have shit stuff happen. Maybe have worrying medical tests done, maybe being made redundant, lost a loved one, had an accident. Something that changes your life for ever. But you can and MUST find the silver lining because if you don’t it invites more negative things into your life and that’s when things get REALLY messy. Don’t get me wrong, I get angry, I get concerned, I get bothered by things but I know how easy it is for the negative stuff in my life to take hold and ruin life for me and my family.

The science behind this practice is called The Quantum Effect and it works. It’s real. Really real. What you send out comes back. You can get anything you want, and you can get back what you send out. Send out only good, you get good back. As for things you want, get the things you want.

You get out of our life exactly what you put in. It’s that simple.

Okay so when you lose your job, yes it might mean having to move, downsize, commute for a new job, or even declare bankruptcy but you know what? There are far more worse things to happen than not being able to afford a house you couldn’t afford anyway. Why stress out about losing something the bank is going to make you pay more than 2 times it’s actual value to live in just so the first sign of trouble for your job they can take it from under you?. Unless you have paid your house off completely you don’t own the house, the bank does. So let them have it. They are the ones left with trillions of dollars worth of houses they now can’t sell. You get to start all over again. You get to hit the reset button and do it again but this time with the knowledge and lessons that go with it meaning you will never make the same mistakes.

Times might be tough but there are ways of surviving this until after the cleansing if you use your common sense. For Example if you have children and you’ve fallen on hard times and you smoke, go to the gym, go out once a week with friends, get your nails done then you have to stop all of that so the extra money goes to providing for the family. Now this isn’t me saying YOU HAVE TO DO THIS AND THAT OR YOUR A BAD PERSON!!!! this is me using examples of what you can do to put a more positive spin on negative things that happen in your life.

As long as you know what is really important to you when things are tough, Spirit will ALWAYS have your back. They NEVER leave you to go through the hard times alone. They will even guide you into getting back on the Path. It is when we wallow and revel in self pity that the real trouble begins and remember the tempters. They are the ones who put these things in your path to test your faith. The more you react to the bad stuff, the more bad stuff they bring into your life. So ALWAYS Have faith, that no matter what happens your gonna be in the best possible care.

NUMBER 2: COMMON SENSE

Please please use common sense when dealing with Spirit. Not everything that goes bump in the night is Spirit. Not every bad thing that happens in your life is The Devil. You have to use Common Sense when your embarking on a Spiritual Life. You can’t get carried away with anything and you can’t live life like everyone else. A Spiritual person doesn’t spend money they don’t have on things they can’t afford because they know money means nothing to Spirit. In the Spirit realm they have no concept of money neither do beings on other planets (who are all connected to each other) Money isn’t something they have concepts of.

Spirit don’t begrudge anyone who makes money. Their concerns is how the money is made and what you do with it once you have it. There is no point working all your life and squandering all your money to be the richest person in the cemetery.

Your life is about the lessons your being given NOW while your living it. the human experience is everything to a Spirit.

The rest you can deal with after your dead but ‘life is for the dead and wasted on the living’.

Enjoy it while you can. And if that includes making money then that is fine too. As long as you made the money honestly and you do good things with it.

Also if your feeling something, Spirit based but others tell you your wrong, trust YOUR instincts. No one knows your intuition better than you do. Don’t take on board anything that doesn’t feel right to you. This journey is yours and yours alone.

You take from life what you need to. Just because someone says it is so doesn’t mean you have to believe it. Use your common sense at all times. Then no one or no thing can trick you. There is so much bull shit out there.

Also please don’t encourage or teach what your learning to the wrong people. Not everyone will be able to handle what you are. That’s why it’s called a gift not privilege or right. So make sure you don’t encourage just everyone to do what you do. Some people just aren’t meant to know this stuff. Some people aren’t ready yet.

It’s going to take a good few decades of people living in the New World before everyone on this planet is Spiritual. Some people will die never knowing it. It will come to those when it is their time. There are going to be a few billion people in shock and having to come to terms with the truth about the last 2000 years before you can plonk dead people in their laps. There are people praying right now who in the next couple of years will know the truth about religion and will never pray in a church or to a church ever again. Some will even be former Nuns and Preachers, Ministers and Priests. Ya know what I mean? So just have faith that The Light will come to others when it is their time, when it is meant to, if it is meant to be for them.

NUMBER 3: MARCH TO THE BEAT OF YOUR OWN DRUM

Find what feels right for you. You might want to believe in God and Fairies, rainbows and frogs. But as long as it is YOUR faith and it makes YOU happy and it isn’t hurting anyone else then you just go right ahead and believe.

The only thing you need to know is Your Faith is your right and just because it doesn’t make sense to anyone else doesn’t mean it is wrong.

No one has the right to tell you what makes you Spiritually fulfilled and cleansed is wrong. My ex has a friends who’s faith is based around the principals of fairy tales and nursery rhymes. I know of someone who uses Science to make his major decisions for him. But the fact is, they are happy men and do wonderful things based on those principles.

And that is all that matters. As long as your happy and it isn’t breaking the common law of the Universe which of course is ‘I shall no by my own actions coz loss or harm to any living being’ then your fine. This is about you and your faith. It is no ones  business.

It isn’t what you believe that makes you a better person. It is that you believe in the first place.

You might lose friends or respect from some people because they won’t believe in what you believe in. If your Faith is like mine, aka Spirit based then you have to be prepared for the fact your probably going to lose some people from your life. But silver lining and all that, if they walk away from your life because you chose to believe in the teachings of The Dead even though it has made you happier and a better person then they never cared enough about you and your friendships/relationships.

Also be prepared for the fact some people are gonna think your crazy and will try to argue your beliefs are wrong and will try to change your opinion.

Fuck them. People are always going to be afraid of you because you have the guts to march to the beat of your own drum. Not someone elses which is what religion is.

So good riddance to them if they leave. They aren’t worth it. You’ll have the people in your life your meant to. It’s YOUR life. No one can tell you how to live it.

NUMBER 4: GET A CODE OF CONDUCT FOR YOURSELF

It really does help if you set up a bunch of principals for yourself to live by. It helps keep you on the straight and narrow. Mine include things like ‘Always Tell The Truth as it is better to be hurt by the truth than devastated by a lie’.

Always put others before myself. If someone is in need of something and I have the means to give it to them, it doesn’t matter what I’m doing, I must always put them first.

I never allow myself to get something done first so I can do what Spirit need me to do. I know how annoying they can be lol so I will drop everything to do whatever it is they need me to do.

Now you must remember though if you weren’t what is called a Natural (which means you were born with the gift and have kept it your whole life like me) your not going to be expected to be perfect and live the life of a Nun or something. So base your code of conduct around simple things. Common Sense things. The basic expectations of a Spiritual person. ie No Stealing, Lying, Giving to those who have less than you, that sort of thing. Then as your gift builds up and your understanding of the Spiritual grows you can add or change things to suit your new found knowledge. Do a baby Code of Conduct with things you know your can do. Don’t give yourself unobtainable codes. (Honesty with yourself as well ya know lol)

NUMBER 5: PAY ATTENTION AT ALL TIMES

I’m the first one to warn people that Spirit can be as subtle as a brick when they want to get the message across to you. But they have so many ways of communicating to you.

So again using common sense get to know the ways Spirit chose to communicate with you. They know what you can and can’t handle. They know what frightens and what terrifies you. They don’t want to hurt you.

They will mostly talk to you through your dreams in the beginning. It is the oldest form of Spirit communication. But once you’ve had the talk with them to say ‘Help me know you’ they WILL ramp things up.

So you’ll see things out of the corner of your eye, get smells, gut feelings, thoughts that produce results ie thinking of someone then they call, or thinking something like ‘that guy better watch or he is gonna crash’ and he does.

Knowing what someone is going to say or do before they do etc….it ALL comes par and parcel with being Spiritual. And for the record Spiritual doesn’t mean psychic. If your meant to open up your psychic ability then you will.  99% of people who live a Spiritual life will enhance or open gifts. It seems to be most people are in their late 20s-to mid 40’s when they choose to embrace Spirit and enhance any gifts you might have.

So don’t worry that you won’t have the same level of gifts, you will get there eventually. You have to understand I’ve had 43 years experience. If your starting your path in your 30’s or 50’s your going to need about 20 years to master it. So be patient.

Just let Spirit show you the way. If your meant to learn fast your in for a really busy life lol Just let Spirit take you on the journey you need to go on. Don’t rush anything. ALL good things take time.

NUMBER 6: HAVE THE TALK WITH SPIRIT.

Before you do any of this you need to sit and have THE TALK with Spirit. You need to salt your door way and you need to sit down and tell Spirit your ready for them to enter your life.

Tell them on no uncertain terms you will ONLY embrace the love and light. Your not interested in any trouble from any Spirits who don’t come with utter love and light. Your terms, your rules.

Always have respect for Spirit. Never invite them in. Leave the door open but only send out invitations to Spirits of Love and Light.

You will NOT tolerate any trouble. Tell Spirit why your wanting to embrace their teachings. Tell them how your feeling and what your wanting to have out of the relationship. You must trust them as they trust you. You will see how wonderful your life is going to be once you have established your connection to Spirit. You need to tell them what you want but also be realistic. If your thinking of doing this so you can be rich or famous then it’s never gonna happen.

Remember, Spirit KNOW everything about you and they will know if your intentions are genuine or not. So if after 10 years of pretending to GET Spirit, your still not seeing them, and your still broke then you’ll know why lol Luckily for you, I know your genuine. That is why I’m sharing all of this with you.

NUMBER 7: BE PREPARED FOR ANYTHING

In 43 years of being what I am I can safely say I can never assume to know what Spirit are talking about.

I’ve done readings for people where I am utterly convinced I know the man/person/situation Spirit are talking about but I’m never allowed to say ‘Your husband/sister/friend/boss etc….because there are 100 different scenarios that can happen in one day in your life and just because it looks and feels like the situation is related to you and your boss doesn’t mean it will be unless Spirit specifically say YOUR BOSS!!!!!

So never assume to know what they are talking about until it’s happened. Also you might be going about your business and you turn around and see a Spirit standing there as true as the day is long. This will be because this is the best way Spirit have chosen to show you them basically.

So be prepared for anything. They might start moving stuff in front of you. They might switch your Psychic on over night and you wake up suddenly being able to read peoples thoughts and predicting and seeing and so on.

DON’T freak out. Just have faith that THIS is how Spirit have decided your ready. So just take it, learn from it and move on. Spirit don’t want to hurt you. They want you to love them and embrace your new life. They have so much to teach you. So let them teach you. Be calm, and have faith. Just be prepared for anything though. lol But how you react to it will determine how quickly you move on to the next level of your ‘training’. Just always stay focused and use your common sense. Your cold breeze and chills might be an open window. But when it’s Spirit, lol You know lol

NUMBER 8: ALWAYS KEEP YOURSELF AND YOUR HOME PROTECTED.

Now,…………remember the Common Sense thing I keep going over and over? Well when it comes to The Dark Side, or Negative Energy your gonna need it.

Ergo don’t do seances on the 3rd week of our training just because you saw one Spirit out of the corner of your eye in the kitchen. We all see Spirits. It doesn’t mean your Psychic and ready to do readings and stuff.

Before and IF your destined to do readings you will get permission from what I call The Counsel before you do. So you can try as hard as you like but if you haven’t gotten permission or clearance to do such things there is nothing you can do. So be aware that the Dark Side will be waiting for you to stuff it up.

They will be waiting in the wings waiting for you to do something silly or foolish so they can come in and start to get you all discombobulated and disconnected with Spirit. All they need is for you to do something like a Seance without proper protection, or for you to react badly to something for them to come into your life. Hence why you must always ALWAYS find a silver lining. See? Aaaahhhh there IS method in my madness lol I do actually know something lol

The Golden Rules for keeping yourself protected are this.

Be In Control at all times.

Never let your guard down.

You must walk around with a feeling of a shield of armor around you at all times.

Don’t let your guard down.They will try to trick you any way they can. A Child Spirit might not be a child at all. The sounds of a woman crying might be a trap. So trust your instincts and before you do anything protect yourself.

Every night before you go to bed you ask for protection from Spirit and your Ancestors. Don’t forget to ask for Protection for your home, the people in your home and all the people who will enter your home. Do that every night and your always protected BUT should you have dealings with any non living entity be it good or negative, you ask to be protected by the White Light. Everything you do must come with protection. It is just common sense. And don’t allow yourself to be fooled. The truth of the matter is The Dark Side don’t like people turning to the Light. The more people who are happy, genuine, kind, loving souls of the Light the less they can corrupt and rule us. They have had a bigger hand in our lives than most people realize as they are in every form of Government, Business, Entertainment etc….anything that gets your money, gets your power, gets your self control or common sense. Anything that can do to distract you from being a Spiritual person they will do it.

And remember the old Adage ‘The Devil comes in many forms’. Now I don’t believe in the Devil or Demons because I know we create them. We manifest them from our own fears and darkness. But there can’t be Light without Dark. They come hand in hand.One helps you keep away from the other. Without pure darkness you’ll never know pure love? So just because it isn’t a red horned, hoofed man with a tail and pitch fork doesn’t mean your safe from negative and dark energy. So never let your guard down.

When you know you have something around you that isn’t of the light, you get angry. Get defensive and you tell them where to go. You tell them they have no power over you and never will. Then ignore them. Once they know your serious, then they stop trying. They really are quite pathetic. It is YOUR power. YOUR life. YOUR in control. So keep yourself protected at all times. The knowing your protected, protects you. It’s that simple.

NUMBER 9: LEARN AS MUCH AS YOU CAN

You can never read up and study and watch too much when it comes to Spirit and The Paranormal. Educate yourself. Even I’m still learning.

This way you learn everything you need to know that feels right for you.

What is meant for you to follow, what is meant for you to believe, it will stick. The rest will pass right over you.

Finding your Faith is time consuming and requires a lot of hard work and effort lol So get your hands on as much material as you can find, then practice. You might take your Faith from 20 different sources. But whats right for you will be.

Try to know a little about every field of the Paranormal. The more you know, the more you can help.

With great power comes great responsibility never forget that. Even if your Learning is solely for the purposes of just living a happier contented, enlightened life, your going to be able to use your knowledge to help someone. Albeit teaching your friends or children about the dangers of using Ouija Boards, or helping someone who is grieving understand the truth about the beautiful journey their deceased loved one is on now they are free.

If your just doing this for yourself, without a want to read for people or anything, your going to be called on by Spirit at some point to impart your wisdom. So learn about Ouija Boards, Seances,Scrying (all that form of making Spirit contact), The Occult, Witch Craft, Mediums, Psychics etc….learn the lot. And also on a personal note I recommend learning about the Aramaic Scrolls and what it says about Religion and The Bible.

It will blow your mind considering it was written before the bible. It will blow your mind. Also and I don’t want to be political or preachy or anything but learn about the Conspiracy stuff too. There is a lot of truth behind some of them.

But don’t just read an article, fact find, cross reference. Don’t read the Government stuff, get the Scientific stuff, independent surveys, victim/patient/parent/witness testimony and educate yourself. So when you need to help someone you have facts and figures, and you know both sides.

Education is learning, learning is knowledge, knowledge is wisdom, wisdom is power and what you will be striving for after starting this journey is the understanding of all 4.

NUMBER 10: Remember ALL GOOD THINGS TAKE TIME:

Spirit know your limits better than you. Let things happen as fast or as slow as they need to happen. But don’t push yourself because you have to understand, if your being blessed with a certain level of Spiritual and Universal understanding that no one else has, you being gifted with something only a handful of thousands of people are going to have.

Whether you choose to read or guide for people or just so you can go out and help people. Your going to have vulnerable people who trust you with every fiber of their beings.

They will put their Souls in your hand. You will help people decide whether to fight on or give up, to live or die, to have strength or have fear.

Don’t EVER take that for granted. Don’t EVER forget this gift is on loan and if you mistreat it, you will lose it. Don’t do more than your capable of.

And don’t try anything you don’t fully understand because you will put peoples lives in danger. Don’t abuse the power. Don’t make things happen before they are meant to and know that at any time if you abuse the privilege (and it is a privilege) it WILL end. Let Spirit guide you. It will happen when and how it is meant to. So please take one day at a time.

Your experiences will be completely different to mine or any one else you know who will be going through the same thing. It will all be based on the things that happen in your life and how you react to them.

My Teacher Pauline Wardel Braddon imparted many a great wisdom on me. All of which I will never forget and I will share a couple with you as you begin your wonderful life changing journey.

Love hard and honest. Nothing brings you closer to your universe than love. It is something we all feel. And it’s not just about loving your Lover, or Spouse.

I’m talking Love EVERYONE. Have that love for everyone, no matter their religion, creed, colour, intelligence. We all breath, eat, laugh, love, feel pain etc….No one is greater than the other. We were all created and we all share this planet.

Your Arab neighbour might have saved a life, your Black boss might of donated a kidney to a child. Your Asian school Teacher may have lost every member of her family to a disease she will get herself one day. Your Indian Grocer might have had his wife and children killed in his native land because of their religion and he managed to escape with the baby to America/Britain where he has felt safe for the first time in his life and he’s not being racially abused by those that come into his store (although nowadays he probably is).

That Gay Man who serves you in your favourite restaurant might save your life one day when you choke on our food.

My point is, no one person is better than anyone else. We all are one people on one Earth. We need to look after each other. Without Love we have no hope, without hope we have no future. So love every one and every day.

Having said that give respect where you get it. Your not expected to love everyone. Just make sure when you don’t love someone it is for a VALID reason and racism, bigotry, sexism etc…isn’t a valid reason. Nothing will get you in trouble quicker on the other side than The disrespecting, hating,  hurting and belittling of anyone on this planet.

Plus sometimes it doesn’t matter how nice you are some people are always going to be dicks.

but remain humble at all times. When your ego gets in the way of your life it is the ugliest thing people will see in you.

Let people see your true feelings. If your hurting, cry.

If you don’t agree with someone, say so. People are so used to fakes and phony people always out to take your money and pretend to care when they want to take from you the least you can do is be yourself around them. It’s better they don’t like the real you than love the fake you.

And lastly if your going to end up doing readings for money, always make it about the client. They have chosen you to give their hard earned money to. They should be everything to you.

Give them as much room as they need to trust you. If your genuine they will know within seconds of talking to you. The occasional person won’t like you no matter what. They will have made up their minds about you before they got there but that’s their business not yours. It’s not for you to worry. As long as your honest and humble you have nothing to fear. Your true clients won’t care.

And  remember to enjoy every minute of your learning and journey. It’s going to be the start of your new life. Your life will never be the same again. It shouldn’t be hard. If it’s hard then it isn’t for you and your being told to stop.

Otherwise your about to learn more about yourself and your life more than at any other point in your life previous combined.

If your meant for this path eventually as well you will be given a Mentor or Teacher. Like my students were with me and I was with Pauline. My dear Pauline.

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Reincarnation and Children

One thing I have been sharing with you all on this blog is the situation I am having with my youngest child and his forgetting he isn’t a third world Indian child anymore. A very dear friend couple of ours are also dealing with issue with their daughter who has been traumatized in this life with her past life.

If you know the history of what they were before it can certainly help explain why they sometimes do the things they do.

My youngest Train still tries to get all the plastic out of the recycle bin, hoards food, tries to drink coffee and cleans our toilet.

Her story was tragic when Train was her. She was taken by her Father to work for a slightly better off family where she was forced to endure back breaking labor of cleaning and house work for scraps and to sleep on the floor. She ran away and basically lived hand to mouth collecting plastic and rope, string etc..and would buy coffee to keep her awake because she was frightened of going to sleep because on the streets she was treated worst than the house she ran away from. She would lay on her patch of path and watch the trains go by day dreaming about the exotic places those lucky people on the train could be going to. She would cry for her Mother every single day. The memory of her Mother crying and Father pulling her by the hand to never be seen again stays with Train to this day as a 3yr old boy. Well….to cut a long story short that little Angel was promised work by two men who did horrendous things to her tiny 8yr old body before throwing her on to the rocks.

As a parent who knows her story it is hard for me because the men who took her life are still alive and so are her parents. And as far as I’m concerned Karma is a bitch and if my Train can bring the little girl peace in knowing she got that good life she dreamed of having when she lay awake then I will move heaven and earth to make it happen to show those who hurt her how wrong they were in thinking they got away with it. I neigh WE will always know the truth.

But I digress, basically being what I am I was able to talk to my babies in uterine. You don’t need to be like me, millions of women will claim to be able to speak to their babies. For me though it was from the minute I knew I was pregnant.

Because the soul was attached to mine, I knew the second I had conceived. My body told me and my psychic told me I was pregnant.

And one of the very first things Train said to me when they pulled him out of me was ‘Yay, I get a white family’. I had been told during both of my pregnancies who they were in former lives. I was told there was a reason we had been chosen as their parents, explained why and told who they were. So I knew what he meant when he had said that. He became fascinated with our technology.

He couldn’t believe we had lights that we could turn on and off whenever we wanted, TV, Phones etc…fascinated him. Train was laughing proper belly laughs at 7 weeks, crawling at 5 months and walking by 10 months.

By the time he was one you could have full blown conversations with him and understand him perfectly but he was doing weird things like he became obsessed with anything plastic.

We recycle so our recycle bin was his favourite play spot. If he went missing you knew he would be there. I have oodles of photos of him in among the recycling. He would hoard food. He would stack it under his cot bed or in his wardrobe. He would ask all the time ‘Come with me Mama’ and I would follow him and he would take me to his bedroom and he would say ‘My room Mama?’ and I would say ‘Yes baby this is your room?’ and he would say ‘Only Trains room?’ and I would say ‘Yes and no one else but Train?’ and he would roll around the floor and squeal and look so happy and hug everything individually in his room’

He would also ask for baths all the time off ‘to get the yucky off’ he would say and he was a baby. How yucky was a baby going to get?

If you went into the bathroom he would try and get into the bath. He could not believe he had hot water to bath in when ever he wanted. He became obsessed with trains too and to this day still loves trains. He has about 30 of them and saves his pocket money to get them from car boots.

His Dad and I are firm believers in rewarding hard work and indulging them in their interests. Train has books, dvds, toy trains, tracks, posters up the wazoo. He recently was very lucky to have gotten some Posters sent directly from Sir Richard Branson signed by himself as he found out that my 3yr olds favourite  thing in the whole world is Virgin. We felt so blessed he did this for our wee boy.

We moved to a house with a burn at the back (stream in Scots) and if anyone even the cat went near the water Train would become almost hysterical with panic and he would shout out ‘Danger Danger’ sometimes he would shake he would get so worried about his big brother or his Daddy going near it.

His brother Robots past life was even more traumatic but Spirit said I was never to know how he died. So I trust that but I was able to talk to the old man he was before and assure him it was okay to let Robot live his life now. It’s been a little harder for Train because his last life wasn’t that long ago.

But you need to help your child become who they were born to be. I don’t agree with these parents who track down the family from their former lives because the child is here to live THIS life not the last one and it can confuse not only the child but also their Soul to live dual lives. SO my advice to anyone who is in my boat to do what I do.

Every time she comes out I sit with him and I say to him ‘Your Train now and Mummy and Daddy love you so much…then I remind him of things we have done as Train and Mummy, Daddy and Robot and ask him questions like ‘Do you remember when we went to the park and you were on the slide and you went woosh down really fast?’ and then he will add his bit of memory like ‘yes and then I landed on my bum and it got all sand on it’

By pulling them out of their past lives like that it cuts off the connection quickly and brings them back into the now. When he starts cleaning my toilet which he has been doing since he was able to pull himself up onto furniture’ I had to move all my cleaning stuff like my toilet brush out of the way or he would be there for ages trying to clean it.

After he was done he would always hold his hand out for food. It used to break my heart. But when he would do this I would distract him by saying ‘No baby Mummy doesn’t want you to clean the toilet, Mummy wants you to…draw a picture, help me make cupcakes..etc….to give him new memories and new distractions.

And for the record when I bake which is ALL the time, and cook meals I have included the boys since they were newborns. Now they both have little chef hats and kiddy baking instruments and no cupcake or cake is made in this house without ‘their love’ getting stirred into it.

Because All cakes are made with love. Since I started doing what I call  ‘ The Distraction’ technique he hasn’t cleaned the toilet since. His trains are his distraction now anyway. He knows every name, very part, every type of train there is and he is three.

He seems to have a thing for engineering now so we let him indulge in this instead and even though I know I could track his family down and get him reacquainted with this last family, what good would it do?

There is enough pressure on children as it is but when your child is a crystal baby with gifts and living in an unusual life as it is because lets face it, my family isn’t normal. Getting him involved in his past life would be too much for his poor soul to bear besides which his last life left him very bitter towards his Father after he was born and his Dad has had to work very hard in building his relationship with Train to go back to her Father who sent her away would open up so many old wounds.

The only way you should reintegrate your child to their past life is if the child is suffering emotionally now BUT even then it should be done on the understanding that once the connection is made, they are to be then left alone to live the life they were born to live.

Past is past for a reason. If your child is experiencing past life regression, keep reminding them they are the name you gave them, your their parent, and then use distraction techniques. For your own peace of mind you could do some investigation into the things they claim but it isn’t a good idea to share it with them especially if they are young.

It can put a lot of pressure on the child and in a lot of cases the child has wanted to remain with the former family. Be understanding but also reassure them that it’s okay to remember things but the important thing is to be allowed to live the life they were born to have. I’ve seen some lovely cases thanks to Moon who sent me a link to a show on Bio about Reincarnated Children, where the child has been introduced to their past lives families and it has ended beautifully but those cases are few and far between.

My Train wouldn’t even look at his father. My poor husband would be heart broken because every time he tried to hold him to give him a bottle, change his nappy, anything that involved contact Train would scream. He would be thrashing around and it was traumatic for all involved. It was horrible.

My husband knew why it was happening but he couldn’t bond with Train, Train would NOT let him near him. He stuck to me like glue. If I left the room he was in with his Dad he would chase me down screaming and he would cling. He would tell his Dad ‘I don’t love you, I only love Mama’ and it would tear my poor husband up. I would have to step in and tell him that he was hurting his Daddy and his Daddy has never hurt him, and never would.

I would have to say to him ‘Your last Father did something very bad but your new Daddy loves you so much’

I would make Mr do things with Robot in front of Train that I knew Train would want to get involved in. I would then walk away for short periods of time to leave them alone. When he got used to that  I would make the two of them spend time together. I would be with Robot and Mr would have one on one time with Train. Then when they were used to that he would actually ask to spend time with his Dad. By which time the three of them would go off on great adventures. Now Train doesn’t even remember how he used to feel about his Dad. But I know Mr will never forget it as long as he lives.

If you continue to encourage the past life it can have a detrimental effect on anyone involved and if you don’t uncover what’s going on really quickly it can lead to many misunderstandings.

My husband has a really good friend of his and his wife have a wee girl. She has the birth marks where she was shot in the head when she was a Palestinian child. I wont go into details though because I’ve explained all this before. But this wee girl has been having trouble sleeping and her parents thought it was because she was playing up. Understandably they didn’t have a clue what was going on and assumed the child was playing up.

When I reminded them of her past life and why she is afraid of the dark etc…other things came to light which they never knew and it made her night terrors a lot easier to understand. The fear of loud noises, strange men, sudden noise etc…all started to make sense when I told them why she was acting the way she was acting and to make matters worse her past life family she died with were in her room protecting her. I had to go in and get the Mum to cleanse the rooms and take control back of the situation. It took quite a while for things to settle down but the other day I was told by this past life family had moved on and leaving the family friends of ours alone now they knew their sister/daughter was in good hands. But by nipping it in the bud now while their daughter is only 18 months old means she will be less likely to remember and carry forward her past life issues.

So remember, Be firm but fair.

Distract them and remind them. You have to remember they aren’t being your child when they are being who they were in their past life.

Have some understanding as to why they are acting the way they are. So you don’t get angry or upset when you see them doing what they are doing. Remind yourself ‘It isn’t my child’.

Be patient, this is going to be a process of retraining your child’s mind set.

Keep them in the present, it distracts them from the past.

Only show them evidence of their past life if you think it will help bring closure.

They need closure so if they are older, and old enough to understand what is going on do whatever you need to do to bring closure and lay the past life to rest. If your lucky enough to come up with their name, country, manner of death etc..you could have a service for them in which they lay their past life to rest. Have a ceremony in which the child can say goodbye to the past life.

Let them express whatever emotion they have in dealing with it too. One of the things I have uncovered is that the rate at which children are being reborn remembering past lives  is growing in an exponential rate and ALL have suffered very traumatic deaths. Some were in 9/11 some are from WW2, Murdered, Killed in Bosnia, Iraq etc…and a lot if not most were killed as children or young people. And all are being born to a certain type of parent. An enlightened parent, an open minded parent, a patient parent or someone like me. It’s like for all the children and people who were cut down in their prime in their past lives are being sent back to be given another chance, a better chance, a loving chance. Forgiveness, closure, peace, empathy, reward, there are many reasons as to why they have been reborn to the better lives.

But if they died as children or killed by no fault of their own then they will be always asked what they want to do next and it seems like most of them are opting to be reborn to have it a bit better this time around. They are being given to people who understand their unique situation. Which that in itself is a gift. I’ve never seen a parent not understand the unique situation they and their child have been put in and Mothers especially seem the most willing to want to find out more. Just remember you could be opening up a Pandora’s box. So tread very carefully. But most importantly, the one thing you must never forget is this:

Your child, is YOUR child. You were chosen to be their parent for a reason. Love them for what they were created to be, not what anyone else wants them to be. Embrace them and their uniqueness for what it is. Don’t try to ‘change’ your child, just try to help them. Everything you do for your special child should be for their best interest and no one else’s.

Once you start to involve other people especially from their past life you could be causing a heap of emotional baggage your child doesn’t deserve or need. This is about THEM, not you, not their last family, or anyone else. If your going to try and uncover the things they say make sure your doing it for them, not for yourself. Also be prepared for anything. You don’t know what your going to find so you have to prepare yourself for some distressing things that could be uncovered.

Also remember, we all carry traits of our past selves to our present lives so make sure you are delving into a Past Life Issues and not a Genetic Memory. Just because your child may talk of loving to drive and traveling and eating nice food it doesn’t always mean they are remembering past lives, it could be in their genetic memory which is very different. Genetic Memory is when no matter what life you live, some things stay with you because it is in the very core of your design. Your very first life on earth was as something where each life there after carries these certain traits. So their very first life may have been as an Explorer or Sailor who traveled the globe seeing new and exciting things.

Other wise follow my tips and eventually you should be able to help their former selves move on to let their current selves live in peace. Especially if you discover they are Rebirths from a young age.

And as always if you have any questions, or need any help. I am here. Just email me or contact me on this Blog.