This is a subject my Boy Henry asked me about and made me realize this need to be said.
If your gay in this life are you gay in the next?
The Answer? NO!!! Sexuality doesn’t exist in Spirit. Sex doesn’t exist. We are one energy. Like all the sparks that connect to illuminate a light we are all one.
People wrongly believe that Spirits are sexual. Is a radio wave sexual? Is a frequency sexual? Um…..NO. So just like how Spirits don’t eat or sleep they don’t get aroused and anyone who says they do is an idiot. Seriously.
BUT!!! That don’t mean to say these Fabulous Divas don’t like to Drag it up when they come through.
I am a STAUNCH supporter of Gay Rights and I think the LGBT community are some of THEE bravest, strongest most resilient sub group of human in the history of the world.
Being Gay isn’t a new thing. Most Mammals go a bit gay when a partner isn’t available. Especially Deer and Antelope lol Them Bitches like some ‘Heeeeeey’ from a same sex sister. And why not? Rock on. Sex rocks.
But there is no T and NO shade in Spirit if you lived this life as Gay, Lesbian or Transgender. We have so much historical proof that being either L G B or T existed.
Alexander the Great, Leonardo Da Vinci, J Edgar Hoover (was a Transvestite), Michelangelo, Walt Witman, Abe Lincoln, Oscar Wilde, (some say there is a future King who is too), Tennesse Williams, Rock Hudson, Lawrence Olivier, Eleanor Roosevelt, Cary Grant, Anthony Perkins, some of these I got online but the most I knew and I’m straight.
The truth is, if we weren’t meant to be LGBT we wouldn’t be. If it’s organic and it exists it is meant to be.
I’d like to share with you a couple of stories close to my heart because I knew and loved these people personally and I hadn’t even thought about it until my Henry reminded me and I think this will be a great way to honour their memories.
So I’d like to dedicate this to my cousin David aka Daphne and Adam aka Goldie Horny.
Both victims to Suicide. Both had struggles dealing with the issues surrounding Bigotry and prejudice of the 90s. Thankfully it’s not as bad now but it STILL needs addressing. It makes me sick to my stomach the way these Warriors and Heroines are treated still in some cultures and countries.
But in the early 90s we still had the fear of the government engineered diseases AIDS and HIV hanging over us and it created a swath of fear among people that caused some apparent poo flinging Homophobic Retards (and it is retarded if you look at the real definition of the word) to use it as an excuse to throw shit around.
1. Occurring or developing later than desired or expected; delayed.
2. Offensive SlangSocially inappropriate or foolish.
The third definition is fairly recent in comparison.
My boys tried and failed in recognizing their beautiful state of creation and neither could stay here. They took flights home early and broke many hearts. The thing that breaks my heart the most is Adam was only 15. I’ll never forget being told about either of them. Oh Adam isn’t his real name by the way. (I need to protect his identity for personal reasons).
Two weeks after burying David he turned up in my room in the MOST spectacular fashion.
Bitch had more Gold on him than the 70s lol
He had on thee most flouncy Gold dress on with MASSIVE bat wings, wig, make up, FULL drag and in those days Garage Doors were big. He made a bigger entrance than RuPaul and took to that stage with more pride and enthusiasm than a Gay Pride Parade. She was BANGING. She looked sooooooooo happy. She had a message for his family which I did pass on to my cousin later on (his sister) and never saw him again. But the fact he did that means when he crossed over Daphne felt free FINALLY to be all she was in all her Fabulous Fishy glory.
That brought me peace and I was only 19 at the time.
Adam was in desperate need of acceptance and basically needed a Drag Mother but growing up in small town New Zealand was hard for him and his parents just couldn’t grasp the concept of him being what he was so he too decided to ‘opt out’ of his life contract. The thing that fucks me off the most, the thing that makes me SO fuckin angry is that even in death he wasn’t allowed to be free. No one who was ‘different’ was even allowed near his funeral and no one was to mention his little ‘mental health issue’ and I’m getting upset as I type this because he was such a beautiful soul. I taught him as best I could with make up. He would come and sit and use all make up even though this little Maori boy was tanned and I’m casper but he just LOVED being around the make up. I taught him to shade and contour but my God, no offense Baby Boy but your taste in clothing was terrible lol He tried it ALL. I used to say ‘he’s step out in everything on the rack’. ‘Less is more’ I’d said and he said ‘No darling, more is more’. lol
15 and such a mouth on him. He’d of been a good pal for Bianca Del Rio. In fact Queen Bianca is the one who would of been his idol if he was still here because he had the acerbic quick wit too.
When I was 17 I went to stay with my cousin in Sydney, Australia and he took me to The Underground and The Rainbow Bar in the late 80’s and it fuckin rocked. I’d never seen men in gimp masks and leather before and it was hot.
It was all to wall leather, mouth balls, whips and lots of gay 80’s mustaches.
One of my cousins pals Darren was a dancer for Miss Kylie Minogue and I often cooked a roast chicken for him and his pals before they headed out lol
The Rainbow was incredible. It was full of beautiful people Id never seen before. No one cared I was there, although they might have thought I was gay which would of been cool too. But the music. OMG can anyone do music like the gays? The energy, the dancing, the drugs, the nakedness, it was tantalizing and hot.
I always wanted to see David go from David to Daphne and never got the chance but I do know that when he came through with this Milli Vanilli style wig on and his arms out stretched in a flowing ‘I have arrived’ style it gave me chills.
He changed my life that day he took me to those clubs.
I was submersed in a hot, exciting, sexy, energetic culture I have embraced ever since.
It was the BEST experience of my life. My first drag act I saw I cried because I was so in awe of the most beautiful Queen I’d EVER seen in my life. She was total Fish. You could NOT tell she was male underneath all that beauty. Her lady parts were tighter than mine and I was 17 lol
I knew then at the age of 17 I was going to be a Drag Queen when I grow up.
The LGBT community are inspiring and brave. They are strong and resilient and I am SO SO SO PROUD to be a world where they exist.
Life would be fuckin shit without you. Our art, fashion and music would fuckin suck.
I personally think anyone who is homophobic has hidden gay tendencies and are just jealous that the LGBT community are higher achievers and make better money than the Straighees. It’s a known fact that gay men have higher IQs than straight and gay men and women are higher achievers who make better money.
Why wouldn’t we be jealous? If I looked like Alexis Mateo, Milk, Ivy Winters, Raven, Juju Bee, or Miss Ru I’d be all over myself lol I’d be in full drag getting my smear test lol
I’d be more Drag than Drag.
Adam when he came through the night after he left us, he took my breathe away and he was like ‘Debbie, Debbie, look, look what they did to me, look, I’m GORGEOUS, LOOK.’
And he did look stunning. His make up was beat down, like BEAT DOWN. He was flawless and his outfit was unlike anything I’d ever seen before.
I was so so SO proud of him. He shone like a star and his light has never faded and that was 1987.
I’m from the Pacific Islands and in my culture and surrounding Polynesian islands Transgender people are considered Blessed. They are seen as being Twin Souls. Both Male and Female. Which is a blessing because they get to understand both sexes.
There is a STUNNING Queen I’d love to introduce you to. SHE is my heroine. I adore her and you should too.
People stupidly think if your from the islands as we are, we are backwards. We may have gotten microwaves 20yrs after they were invented but we know when we are blessed with something special in our midst. We can’t be that backwards if we knew centuries before hand that if your Trans your blessed. So get over it White People. EVEN in IRAN, IRAN, YES IRAN you can get your gender reassignment surgery for free.
Yes they have a lot to learn but it’s better than most countries who claim to be all cool and copacetic.
Africa is the continent that needs the kick up the ass. Boy are they in for a fright after the cleansing lol
These are the people we should be getting our respect. Not the Fucking Kardasians and Beyonces of the world. Our LGBT Souls are the very epitome of strength, courage, poise, beauty and dignity.
So my Gay, Lesbian, Bi and Transgender brothers, sisters and sisters, hold your heads up high. You are represented in Spirit in the highest order and you steal the show every time let me tell you.
Never have I had a Spirit come through to a theme tune as they make their entrance. Daphne came through to I’m Coming OUT BY Diana Ross and even now when I hear that song it takes me back to seeing him shine that fuckin gold Bat Wing dress brighter than the glitter ball that was dangling over his head lol
If your LGBT and you have no where to go, if you need to talk or need a Drag Mother, you come to me. Your safe here with me and I know people………….I can get you to safety, I can get you protection, advice or Love.
I might be bat shit crazy but no one has more love for you than me.
Even my 6’5 Scottish Mr wants to dress in full drag. He gets it too. Your too fabulous to not want to emulate. My 7yr old son watches RuPauls Drag Race on Netflix and has all Ru’s Albums on his player. He loves Glamazon and if he grows up to be Gay Bi or Trans we will love and support him within an inch of his life. The truth is I’d want to immerse myself in his world lol he’s get pissed off and be straight just to annoy me lol
BUT he is 100% straight which makes me even prouder. When he grows up he said he wants to have a wife and be a Cardio Thorasic Surgeon and have kids, live next door to me and go to Drag Shows. So I know I’m raising my Babies right.
My Gemini baby wouldn’t notice.
The truth is the world would suck without gay folk and there is something seriously wrong with our so called modern society if we can’t live and let live. Who are we do judge anyone?
There is certainly no judgement in the After Life. In Fact I’ve had straight Spirits come through a big fabulous too now that I think about it.
It’s called Gay not Miserable.
Lesbi Gay together 🙂
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