Suicide: The Truth. (revised)

Sadly I have been dealing with a lot of people who have had their lives torn apart by the loss of a loved one by Suicide. So I decided to do a post based on my knowledge of what happens to a Suicide Soul after they pass over.

Contrary to popular belief they do NOT go to Hell and they do NOT get classed as being a Sinner for taking their own life.

Depression is the number one cause of Suicide and Spirit being the all loving all light souls that they are turn their back on NO ONE in the After Life. So I’m going to tell you the truth about what happens and I know this according to what I have been told by the Spirits who committed suicide themselves. This might hurt or offend some people and that isn’t my intention. I am simply trying to educate people because I am quite simply bothered by the amount of lies, half truths and blatant ignorance is given by supposed Psychics and Mediums who care more about the work than the clients to educate themselves on the truth. SO here it goes. I apologize if I offend anyone but I am all about The Truth when it comes to Spirit.

Our Lives aren’t all predestined.
I used to think it was but it isn’t. We choose every single step of it. The choices we make decide what happens next and then we are to spend that life trying to find the balance. If the balance is right we are happy, if it isn’t, we aren’t.
So contrary to what some believe NO ONE dies before their time. If their time is up, it was meant to be and part of the plan. Even unfortunately Babies, Children. The duration of our life is based on two things.

The Lessons we were sent here to learn and The lessons we have taught those we leave behind. We spend more time as a Spirit than we do as a Human and we live our lives according to the lessons we are meant to learn. For example: Someone who was a wealthy, greedy, megalomaniac might after death decide to come back as a Poverty Stricken African Child so his soul will know the true meaning of suffering in his soul.

As we live our life, everything good or bad happens when and how it is meant to. Our Paths are as they were set out to be before our birth. But the easiest way to understand this is if I explain it like this.

If you imagine our life is a journey and your using Sat Nav to complete your journey. Imagine then your destination is set in before you set off on that journey and while we will go down some roads set out for us how we reach our final destination is based on how many detours and rerouting we take. The destination is the same but the roads we choose to go down is all us but either way you get there in the end. But the roads we take whether we choose them or not come with the lessons we are meant to learn from taking them. All the good things that happen to us, all the bad things that happen to us, happen because they are meant to and because the lessons we learned from them are important for us to complete the journey having learned the most we could from it.
But because the Universe is based on balance and there are always two roads. A bright sunny road and a dark scary road. You choose which road you go down and where it stops.
We are underneath all this skin, Spiritual Beings. All Spiritual beings are eager and I mean eager, students who live for the human experience so they can evolve to the next level.

With Suicides, they get to a fork in the road when the Sat Nav gives them a choice. take Road A) Where your life will end and your journey is completed or Road B) where you take the lovely scenic route which means it will take longer to reach your destination but you will get there in the end.

If they are successful in their attempt to take their life then they chose Road A. I haven’t met one Spirit who killed themselves who didn’t regret what they did the second they pulled the trigger, jumped,swallowed the pills etc….they all said the second the light left their life they realized that actually things weren’t so bad and there IS a way out of the depression or stress they were under at the time. They all wished they had chosen Road B. However because they are Spirits they know, understand and fully accept that this was the path they chose and it was for a greater purpose than anyone living realizes.
I came to realize that in fact some suicides are happy they did it. That some suicides actually are Teaching souls which means they are higher evolved than us the living and it is in the very rare exception that the lessons are for those left behind more than the one who left than the one who left. But knowing the life path the way I do now I know that none of this could of happened without everyone agreeing to it before they even got here.

I’m around suicide a LOT now and there are some parents, partners, children, friends, loved ones who have taken their grief in such a beautiful way it humbles me. On my knees and bow down humble.
They get it, they understand the pain they saw them suffering. They didn’t take it personally and while they are in pain from the grief they know that at least now the pain and suffering is over for the one they watched suffer.

For those beautiful souls who choose suicide, it is a very painful process for them. While they live they suffer and it’s a burden I have felt many times when I connect with them and I can’t describe the pain they felt. It’s indescribable and I’m pretty good at describing stuff.
I’m a descriptive person by nature. But it’s like, you see grief in everything. Think about the saddest you have ever been and have that pain in everything you do. Getting up, working, eating, sleeping, endless, none stop and you can’t think straight and you feel discombobulated because of that grief. It’s hard to concentrate just trying to imagine it so imagine how they felt living it in everyday things like just having breakfast or walking to school?

Those who suffer most are the Teaching Souls, those who witness it are the students.

I promise you, they don’t get into trouble when they cross over.
They are treated with so much love and understanding when they die. All their loved ones greet them and walk them to where they will get the help they need to release themselves from the stress and fear of what made them want to die in the first place.
All their loved ones on the other side actively join forces to help mend the pieces of their Broken Souls. And they are Broken Souls. They are released of all their Earthly emotion,all the things that made them hurt, angry, sad, depressed, jealous, worried etc…it is removed from them as is the trauma of their death. Especially in the case of Gun Shot deaths, Hangings, Train, Bus Suicides etc…the body takes a huge impact which if not removed it would carry over into the next life they have to live. And they WILL have to be reborn. So what happens next?

There are two versions of every possible out come. YOU decide your fate when it comes to suicide. But it’s not the case of it leaving tortured souls behind.
There is always a way out with Suicide. You can walk away but some souls will just never be happy living. They will be drawn to it sooner or later so no one should carry the blame. If their compass is set to do it there is nothing you can do but try to do the best by them in memory and not blame yourself.

For some reason the popular belief of those left behind is that the person who killed themselves is trapped and filled of guilt and anguish because of their actions. Because the house they lived in and or died in seems so dark now, there is a horrible air of sadness and dark depression in the building that wasn’t there before they took their life.
I am here to tell you this is wrong. The dark heavy depressive feeling left in the house they lived/died in isn’t because of them being trapped souls. It is because WE know what happened in the building and if your still living in the house where it happened or you still have access to the building no one remembers what the place was like before the death only afterwards. It’s called grief, it’s called tragedy.
The house stops being the house where ‘XYZ’ lived and it becomes the house where ‘XYZ’ took their life. They get forgotten for the people they were and become defined by the fact they took their own life.

If you can remember they are now in Spirit and all the things that made them so sad and so full of anguish in the first place is now gone. They don’t feel the same way. They are Enlightened Beings of Light, all they care about is making sure their loved ones are at Peace with their passing and this is why they choose to come back and hang around.

We all feel them around us after they die and the heaviness we feel is OUR grief not theirs. But they are around us and they are feel a little guilty but that is because of the fact they see the suffering they caused us. Suicide is never easy on anyone. If you die of an illness then people will say ‘Well at least they aren’t suffering now’ if they died of an Accident or Sudden Death they say ‘At least it was quick and they didn’t suffer’ or ‘They died doing what they loved.’ if it is Murder or something Violent like that we say ‘I won’t let the tragedy of their death define how I remember them, I’m going to embrace their memory because that is what they would of wanted’. etc….  But if it is Suicide everyone involved is left until the end of their days asking ‘Why? What could I have done? Why didn’t they talk to me or get help?’ and because of that we stick around to try to make amends.

To get your forgiveness and understanding is the biggest reward for a Teaching Soul. You do a LOT for them when you forgive them or at least try to understand what they did and why.

No Spirit who take their life is free from learning a lesson. They are ALL made to come back to those they left behind so they can see what their decision to take the A road created. And some aren’t allowed to move on to the next phase in their Spiritual Existence until they are forgiven. So this is why I tell everyone who comes to me looking for answers that they need to sit down with their loved one and tell them what their death did to them and at the end of it you need to tell the Spirit you forgive them.

For the ones who have to make amends for what they did, the best thing you can do for your loved one who has taken their own life is to sit down one day and say ‘XYZ, you broke my heart when you took your life. I will never understand why you felt you couldn’t talk to me. But I love you and I need to know your at peace now because you were in so much pain during your last days. So I want you to know I love you and I forgive you for doing what you did because no matter how much I am hurting for losing you I know nothing I feel will be as bad as what you felt when you made the decision to leave us all behind. So I forgive you and I want you to go in peace.’

Just by saying that, you heal everything. You heal the gaping hole in your heart and you heal theirs too from when they were alive and they know their suffering wasn’t for nothing.
Then they can move on to the next phase of their Existence. Which for them is Reincarnation usually but not always. Each suicide is different.
It may very well be in the next life their lose a loved one to suicide so they know the pain. Then when they die they understand it from both sides and hence they move up a step in the ladder. That would be a selfless Spirit who would level up to something like a Spirit Elder when they cross over next I imagine.

However, in the case of things like Murder Suicide it is a different story all together. In the case of a Murder Suicide the Murder Victim goes up the ladder and the one who did the murder then took their own life once they are healed of their passing etc…get sent down to the bottom of the ladder along with the serial killers and dictators etc…and will be made to suffer the pain and suffering ten times worse than they caused until they get the lessons they need to learn. Then they will get reborn and reborn and reborn and reborn moving up the ladder until they finally get the message. I know in one of my past lives (my first I think) I was a horrible disgusting man who gorged and gave orders to end the lives of those who opposed me or got in my way. I was a slothfully lazy man who basically ate himself to death from his own greed. From the times of King Henry the 8th. So I would like to think I’ve learned from my mistakes by now. lol I’m NOT coming back again. I will sit outside the Pearly Gates singing Protest songs if I have to lol

So what can you do to help someone you know how has taken their own life?

Well you can sit down one quite day or night and talk to them. It doesn’t need to be out loud, it can be in your head. But you can help by telling them how much your hurting. How you wish they had come to you for help and how much it has affected your life. It is perfectly okay to get upset and even angry. This is what they are needing to hear. You need to be 100% honest. You don’t need to use kid gloves for their benefit. If your angry, tell them your angry and why. This will be Cathartic for you and it will be a valuable lesson for them. Then after you have said all you can you then need to try and see it from their perspective. You don’t have to like it or accept it but you do need to forgive them. Because you’ll never know their fear or their suffering until you try to piece together WHY they did it. Think about all the things they had going on at the time and try and see the other side of the coin (as they will be with you too). Then you need to forgive them so they can be at peace. In fact you don’t even need to forgive them, but you do need to accept that this is what they chose and for whatever reason they did it you just want their souls to finally be at peace. By doing this your letting them move on to their next journey whatever it may be.

I am not saying that all suicide cases are reborn into a life where someone they love kills themselves either, I was using that as an example. Some have said that was the case but not all.

The one thing you don’t want to do with a Suicide is keep them Earth Bound because of your grief or guilt. It is bad enough when it happens with a loved who died from other causes but because Suicides do have to come and make amends it is easier to do it to them.
So if you love them, please……let them go. And as they have all, every single one of them have told me basically ‘Don’t let my death define how you remember me. I was more than how I died. My death wasn’t what I was as a person, it was who I was in the moment of my death. So don’t let your memory of me be about how I died and why I died. Remember ME, not my death and then if you love me, let it go so we can all be at peace.’

There is ALWAYS a way out of your despair. There is always an answer to your questions. There is always another option to taking your life. I couldn’t imagine anything worse having lost a couple of people myself to Suicide but what is worse for them is not being allowed to move on until their loved ones forgive them. They aren’t trapped. They aren’t unhappy, they can come and go as they please, but until they make amends for their passing they are just a Spirit who exists and can’t move forward to any of the good stuff. It happens to them all eventually though and I’ve seen what it does to them and it bursts your heart with pride and joy when you see it. It really is the most remarkable thing I’ve ever seen when a Spirit gets to move on. It is indescribable.
But for most, the pain is over and they are happy and at peace immediately.
I used to think differently but the more I tuned the more I heard. I didn’t know half of what I do now lol

So if you’ve lost a loved one to Suicide, let them go so they can be more than they allowed themselves to be in life. It is the best thing you can do for yourself and for them so you can all Be At Peace.

Death isn’t final and they are in Spirit the second they cross over. As I said some cases are not that easy but it depends on the circumstances to their suicide.

But any way you look at it suicide is fuckin soul destroying for those left behind. However, would you really want to prolong their suffering for your own needs and feelings or would you rather know they were at peace and floating about in space being all omnipresent and all knowing?

Love and Light
Mama Bear
xoxox

Spirits guidance: Getting started (revised)

I am asked all the time by people to teach them what I know. So they too can have the sort of understanding of Spirit that I do.

I used to think I couldn’t do it but I recently learned so much new information all  want to do is teach people how to do it too.

And boy am I getting results. A couple of my students are going to write articles about their training with me to prove this stuff works.

There ARE things you can do. You can start the process yourself if you follow TO THE LETTER what I say and give yourself the full knowledge and understanding of what is going to happen once you open yourself up.

The best advice I can give anyone wanting to be more open is to let Spirit guide you. I know that sounds crazy but once you begin to live with Spirit, you start to see the lessons, you begin to understand the paths they have you on and then the rose tinted glasses come off and they show you  how to see the world the way your meant to.

So what do you do?

NUMBER 1: FAITH

Well Firstly you must have Faith. You must never EVER doubt what you see, hear or feel from the very first day of your new life.

Everything you experience in life happens for a reason. Our lives are all about lessons and whether it be good or bad, whatever happens in your life happens because it is meant to. That’s why you should never let yourself stress about the things you know you have no control over. Just put your head down and have faith that everything will turn out the way it is meant to. I promise you, once you actually start to believe, your life becomes so much easier to handle.

I haven’t been stressed out or worried for years because I have learned that good or bad it is meant to be. I know everything that happens in my life or my families life is for a reason and the only thing I can do is my best to deal with it when I need to. But if it is beyond my control then I just keep the faith that Spirit will take care of us while we go through it. And they do. They have never let me down yet. Honestly, that saying ‘Don’t sweat the small stuff’ Is true. People are conditioned now to worry about every single thing in their lives. Including the things absolutely beyond their control.

Your gonna have shit stuff happen. Maybe have worrying medical tests done, maybe being made redundant, lost a loved one, had an accident. Something that changes your life for ever. But you can and MUST find the silver lining because if you don’t it invites more negative things into your life and that’s when things get REALLY messy. Don’t get me wrong, I get angry, I get concerned, I get bothered by things but I know how easy it is for the negative stuff in my life to take hold and ruin life for me and my family.

The science behind this practice is called The Quantum Effect and it works. It’s real. Really real. What you send out comes back. You can get anything you want, and you can get back what you send out. Send out only good, you get good back. As for things you want, get the things you want.

You get out of our life exactly what you put in. It’s that simple.

Okay so when you lose your job, yes it might mean having to move, downsize, commute for a new job, or even declare bankruptcy but you know what? There are far more worse things to happen than not being able to afford a house you couldn’t afford anyway. Why stress out about losing something the bank is going to make you pay more than 2 times it’s actual value to live in just so the first sign of trouble for your job they can take it from under you?. Unless you have paid your house off completely you don’t own the house, the bank does. So let them have it. They are the ones left with trillions of dollars worth of houses they now can’t sell. You get to start all over again. You get to hit the reset button and do it again but this time with the knowledge and lessons that go with it meaning you will never make the same mistakes.

Times might be tough but there are ways of surviving this until after the cleansing if you use your common sense. For Example if you have children and you’ve fallen on hard times and you smoke, go to the gym, go out once a week with friends, get your nails done then you have to stop all of that so the extra money goes to providing for the family. Now this isn’t me saying YOU HAVE TO DO THIS AND THAT OR YOUR A BAD PERSON!!!! this is me using examples of what you can do to put a more positive spin on negative things that happen in your life.

As long as you know what is really important to you when things are tough, Spirit will ALWAYS have your back. They NEVER leave you to go through the hard times alone. They will even guide you into getting back on the Path. It is when we wallow and revel in self pity that the real trouble begins and remember the tempters. They are the ones who put these things in your path to test your faith. The more you react to the bad stuff, the more bad stuff they bring into your life. So ALWAYS Have faith, that no matter what happens your gonna be in the best possible care.

NUMBER 2: COMMON SENSE

Please please use common sense when dealing with Spirit. Not everything that goes bump in the night is Spirit. Not every bad thing that happens in your life is The Devil. You have to use Common Sense when your embarking on a Spiritual Life. You can’t get carried away with anything and you can’t live life like everyone else. A Spiritual person doesn’t spend money they don’t have on things they can’t afford because they know money means nothing to Spirit. In the Spirit realm they have no concept of money neither do beings on other planets (who are all connected to each other) Money isn’t something they have concepts of.

Spirit don’t begrudge anyone who makes money. Their concerns is how the money is made and what you do with it once you have it. There is no point working all your life and squandering all your money to be the richest person in the cemetery.

Your life is about the lessons your being given NOW while your living it. the human experience is everything to a Spirit.

The rest you can deal with after your dead but ‘life is for the dead and wasted on the living’.

Enjoy it while you can. And if that includes making money then that is fine too. As long as you made the money honestly and you do good things with it.

Also if your feeling something, Spirit based but others tell you your wrong, trust YOUR instincts. No one knows your intuition better than you do. Don’t take on board anything that doesn’t feel right to you. This journey is yours and yours alone.

You take from life what you need to. Just because someone says it is so doesn’t mean you have to believe it. Use your common sense at all times. Then no one or no thing can trick you. There is so much bull shit out there.

Also please don’t encourage or teach what your learning to the wrong people. Not everyone will be able to handle what you are. That’s why it’s called a gift not privilege or right. So make sure you don’t encourage just everyone to do what you do. Some people just aren’t meant to know this stuff. Some people aren’t ready yet.

It’s going to take a good few decades of people living in the New World before everyone on this planet is Spiritual. Some people will die never knowing it. It will come to those when it is their time. There are going to be a few billion people in shock and having to come to terms with the truth about the last 2000 years before you can plonk dead people in their laps. There are people praying right now who in the next couple of years will know the truth about religion and will never pray in a church or to a church ever again. Some will even be former Nuns and Preachers, Ministers and Priests. Ya know what I mean? So just have faith that The Light will come to others when it is their time, when it is meant to, if it is meant to be for them.

NUMBER 3: MARCH TO THE BEAT OF YOUR OWN DRUM

Find what feels right for you. You might want to believe in God and Fairies, rainbows and frogs. But as long as it is YOUR faith and it makes YOU happy and it isn’t hurting anyone else then you just go right ahead and believe.

The only thing you need to know is Your Faith is your right and just because it doesn’t make sense to anyone else doesn’t mean it is wrong.

No one has the right to tell you what makes you Spiritually fulfilled and cleansed is wrong. My ex has a friends who’s faith is based around the principals of fairy tales and nursery rhymes. I know of someone who uses Science to make his major decisions for him. But the fact is, they are happy men and do wonderful things based on those principles.

And that is all that matters. As long as your happy and it isn’t breaking the common law of the Universe which of course is ‘I shall no by my own actions coz loss or harm to any living being’ then your fine. This is about you and your faith. It is no ones  business.

It isn’t what you believe that makes you a better person. It is that you believe in the first place.

You might lose friends or respect from some people because they won’t believe in what you believe in. If your Faith is like mine, aka Spirit based then you have to be prepared for the fact your probably going to lose some people from your life. But silver lining and all that, if they walk away from your life because you chose to believe in the teachings of The Dead even though it has made you happier and a better person then they never cared enough about you and your friendships/relationships.

Also be prepared for the fact some people are gonna think your crazy and will try to argue your beliefs are wrong and will try to change your opinion.

Fuck them. People are always going to be afraid of you because you have the guts to march to the beat of your own drum. Not someone elses which is what religion is.

So good riddance to them if they leave. They aren’t worth it. You’ll have the people in your life your meant to. It’s YOUR life. No one can tell you how to live it.

NUMBER 4: GET A CODE OF CONDUCT FOR YOURSELF

It really does help if you set up a bunch of principals for yourself to live by. It helps keep you on the straight and narrow. Mine include things like ‘Always Tell The Truth as it is better to be hurt by the truth than devastated by a lie’.

Always put others before myself. If someone is in need of something and I have the means to give it to them, it doesn’t matter what I’m doing, I must always put them first.

I never allow myself to get something done first so I can do what Spirit need me to do. I know how annoying they can be lol so I will drop everything to do whatever it is they need me to do.

Now you must remember though if you weren’t what is called a Natural (which means you were born with the gift and have kept it your whole life like me) your not going to be expected to be perfect and live the life of a Nun or something. So base your code of conduct around simple things. Common Sense things. The basic expectations of a Spiritual person. ie No Stealing, Lying, Giving to those who have less than you, that sort of thing. Then as your gift builds up and your understanding of the Spiritual grows you can add or change things to suit your new found knowledge. Do a baby Code of Conduct with things you know your can do. Don’t give yourself unobtainable codes. (Honesty with yourself as well ya know lol)

NUMBER 5: PAY ATTENTION AT ALL TIMES

I’m the first one to warn people that Spirit can be as subtle as a brick when they want to get the message across to you. But they have so many ways of communicating to you.

So again using common sense get to know the ways Spirit chose to communicate with you. They know what you can and can’t handle. They know what frightens and what terrifies you. They don’t want to hurt you.

They will mostly talk to you through your dreams in the beginning. It is the oldest form of Spirit communication. But once you’ve had the talk with them to say ‘Help me know you’ they WILL ramp things up.

So you’ll see things out of the corner of your eye, get smells, gut feelings, thoughts that produce results ie thinking of someone then they call, or thinking something like ‘that guy better watch or he is gonna crash’ and he does.

Knowing what someone is going to say or do before they do etc….it ALL comes par and parcel with being Spiritual. And for the record Spiritual doesn’t mean psychic. If your meant to open up your psychic ability then you will.  99% of people who live a Spiritual life will enhance or open gifts. It seems to be most people are in their late 20s-to mid 40’s when they choose to embrace Spirit and enhance any gifts you might have.

So don’t worry that you won’t have the same level of gifts, you will get there eventually. You have to understand I’ve had 43 years experience. If your starting your path in your 30’s or 50’s your going to need about 20 years to master it. So be patient.

Just let Spirit show you the way. If your meant to learn fast your in for a really busy life lol Just let Spirit take you on the journey you need to go on. Don’t rush anything. ALL good things take time.

NUMBER 6: HAVE THE TALK WITH SPIRIT.

Before you do any of this you need to sit and have THE TALK with Spirit. You need to salt your door way and you need to sit down and tell Spirit your ready for them to enter your life.

Tell them on no uncertain terms you will ONLY embrace the love and light. Your not interested in any trouble from any Spirits who don’t come with utter love and light. Your terms, your rules.

Always have respect for Spirit. Never invite them in. Leave the door open but only send out invitations to Spirits of Love and Light.

You will NOT tolerate any trouble. Tell Spirit why your wanting to embrace their teachings. Tell them how your feeling and what your wanting to have out of the relationship. You must trust them as they trust you. You will see how wonderful your life is going to be once you have established your connection to Spirit. You need to tell them what you want but also be realistic. If your thinking of doing this so you can be rich or famous then it’s never gonna happen.

Remember, Spirit KNOW everything about you and they will know if your intentions are genuine or not. So if after 10 years of pretending to GET Spirit, your still not seeing them, and your still broke then you’ll know why lol Luckily for you, I know your genuine. That is why I’m sharing all of this with you.

NUMBER 7: BE PREPARED FOR ANYTHING

In 43 years of being what I am I can safely say I can never assume to know what Spirit are talking about.

I’ve done readings for people where I am utterly convinced I know the man/person/situation Spirit are talking about but I’m never allowed to say ‘Your husband/sister/friend/boss etc….because there are 100 different scenarios that can happen in one day in your life and just because it looks and feels like the situation is related to you and your boss doesn’t mean it will be unless Spirit specifically say YOUR BOSS!!!!!

So never assume to know what they are talking about until it’s happened. Also you might be going about your business and you turn around and see a Spirit standing there as true as the day is long. This will be because this is the best way Spirit have chosen to show you them basically.

So be prepared for anything. They might start moving stuff in front of you. They might switch your Psychic on over night and you wake up suddenly being able to read peoples thoughts and predicting and seeing and so on.

DON’T freak out. Just have faith that THIS is how Spirit have decided your ready. So just take it, learn from it and move on. Spirit don’t want to hurt you. They want you to love them and embrace your new life. They have so much to teach you. So let them teach you. Be calm, and have faith. Just be prepared for anything though. lol But how you react to it will determine how quickly you move on to the next level of your ‘training’. Just always stay focused and use your common sense. Your cold breeze and chills might be an open window. But when it’s Spirit, lol You know lol

NUMBER 8: ALWAYS KEEP YOURSELF AND YOUR HOME PROTECTED.

Now,…………remember the Common Sense thing I keep going over and over? Well when it comes to The Dark Side, or Negative Energy your gonna need it.

Ergo don’t do seances on the 3rd week of our training just because you saw one Spirit out of the corner of your eye in the kitchen. We all see Spirits. It doesn’t mean your Psychic and ready to do readings and stuff.

Before and IF your destined to do readings you will get permission from what I call The Counsel before you do. So you can try as hard as you like but if you haven’t gotten permission or clearance to do such things there is nothing you can do. So be aware that the Dark Side will be waiting for you to stuff it up.

They will be waiting in the wings waiting for you to do something silly or foolish so they can come in and start to get you all discombobulated and disconnected with Spirit. All they need is for you to do something like a Seance without proper protection, or for you to react badly to something for them to come into your life. Hence why you must always ALWAYS find a silver lining. See? Aaaahhhh there IS method in my madness lol I do actually know something lol

The Golden Rules for keeping yourself protected are this.

Be In Control at all times.

Never let your guard down.

You must walk around with a feeling of a shield of armor around you at all times.

Don’t let your guard down.They will try to trick you any way they can. A Child Spirit might not be a child at all. The sounds of a woman crying might be a trap. So trust your instincts and before you do anything protect yourself.

Every night before you go to bed you ask for protection from Spirit and your Ancestors. Don’t forget to ask for Protection for your home, the people in your home and all the people who will enter your home. Do that every night and your always protected BUT should you have dealings with any non living entity be it good or negative, you ask to be protected by the White Light. Everything you do must come with protection. It is just common sense. And don’t allow yourself to be fooled. The truth of the matter is The Dark Side don’t like people turning to the Light. The more people who are happy, genuine, kind, loving souls of the Light the less they can corrupt and rule us. They have had a bigger hand in our lives than most people realize as they are in every form of Government, Business, Entertainment etc….anything that gets your money, gets your power, gets your self control or common sense. Anything that can do to distract you from being a Spiritual person they will do it.

And remember the old Adage ‘The Devil comes in many forms’. Now I don’t believe in the Devil or Demons because I know we create them. We manifest them from our own fears and darkness. But there can’t be Light without Dark. They come hand in hand.One helps you keep away from the other. Without pure darkness you’ll never know pure love? So just because it isn’t a red horned, hoofed man with a tail and pitch fork doesn’t mean your safe from negative and dark energy. So never let your guard down.

When you know you have something around you that isn’t of the light, you get angry. Get defensive and you tell them where to go. You tell them they have no power over you and never will. Then ignore them. Once they know your serious, then they stop trying. They really are quite pathetic. It is YOUR power. YOUR life. YOUR in control. So keep yourself protected at all times. The knowing your protected, protects you. It’s that simple.

NUMBER 9: LEARN AS MUCH AS YOU CAN

You can never read up and study and watch too much when it comes to Spirit and The Paranormal. Educate yourself. Even I’m still learning.

This way you learn everything you need to know that feels right for you.

What is meant for you to follow, what is meant for you to believe, it will stick. The rest will pass right over you.

Finding your Faith is time consuming and requires a lot of hard work and effort lol So get your hands on as much material as you can find, then practice. You might take your Faith from 20 different sources. But whats right for you will be.

Try to know a little about every field of the Paranormal. The more you know, the more you can help.

With great power comes great responsibility never forget that. Even if your Learning is solely for the purposes of just living a happier contented, enlightened life, your going to be able to use your knowledge to help someone. Albeit teaching your friends or children about the dangers of using Ouija Boards, or helping someone who is grieving understand the truth about the beautiful journey their deceased loved one is on now they are free.

If your just doing this for yourself, without a want to read for people or anything, your going to be called on by Spirit at some point to impart your wisdom. So learn about Ouija Boards, Seances,Scrying (all that form of making Spirit contact), The Occult, Witch Craft, Mediums, Psychics etc….learn the lot. And also on a personal note I recommend learning about the Aramaic Scrolls and what it says about Religion and The Bible.

It will blow your mind considering it was written before the bible. It will blow your mind. Also and I don’t want to be political or preachy or anything but learn about the Conspiracy stuff too. There is a lot of truth behind some of them.

But don’t just read an article, fact find, cross reference. Don’t read the Government stuff, get the Scientific stuff, independent surveys, victim/patient/parent/witness testimony and educate yourself. So when you need to help someone you have facts and figures, and you know both sides.

Education is learning, learning is knowledge, knowledge is wisdom, wisdom is power and what you will be striving for after starting this journey is the understanding of all 4.

NUMBER 10: Remember ALL GOOD THINGS TAKE TIME:

Spirit know your limits better than you. Let things happen as fast or as slow as they need to happen. But don’t push yourself because you have to understand, if your being blessed with a certain level of Spiritual and Universal understanding that no one else has, you being gifted with something only a handful of thousands of people are going to have.

Whether you choose to read or guide for people or just so you can go out and help people. Your going to have vulnerable people who trust you with every fiber of their beings.

They will put their Souls in your hand. You will help people decide whether to fight on or give up, to live or die, to have strength or have fear.

Don’t EVER take that for granted. Don’t EVER forget this gift is on loan and if you mistreat it, you will lose it. Don’t do more than your capable of.

And don’t try anything you don’t fully understand because you will put peoples lives in danger. Don’t abuse the power. Don’t make things happen before they are meant to and know that at any time if you abuse the privilege (and it is a privilege) it WILL end. Let Spirit guide you. It will happen when and how it is meant to. So please take one day at a time.

Your experiences will be completely different to mine or any one else you know who will be going through the same thing. It will all be based on the things that happen in your life and how you react to them.

My Teacher Pauline Wardel Braddon imparted many a great wisdom on me. All of which I will never forget and I will share a couple with you as you begin your wonderful life changing journey.

Love hard and honest. Nothing brings you closer to your universe than love. It is something we all feel. And it’s not just about loving your Lover, or Spouse.

I’m talking Love EVERYONE. Have that love for everyone, no matter their religion, creed, colour, intelligence. We all breath, eat, laugh, love, feel pain etc….No one is greater than the other. We were all created and we all share this planet.

Your Arab neighbour might have saved a life, your Black boss might of donated a kidney to a child. Your Asian school Teacher may have lost every member of her family to a disease she will get herself one day. Your Indian Grocer might have had his wife and children killed in his native land because of their religion and he managed to escape with the baby to America/Britain where he has felt safe for the first time in his life and he’s not being racially abused by those that come into his store (although nowadays he probably is).

That Gay Man who serves you in your favourite restaurant might save your life one day when you choke on our food.

My point is, no one person is better than anyone else. We all are one people on one Earth. We need to look after each other. Without Love we have no hope, without hope we have no future. So love every one and every day.

Having said that give respect where you get it. Your not expected to love everyone. Just make sure when you don’t love someone it is for a VALID reason and racism, bigotry, sexism etc…isn’t a valid reason. Nothing will get you in trouble quicker on the other side than The disrespecting, hating,  hurting and belittling of anyone on this planet.

Plus sometimes it doesn’t matter how nice you are some people are always going to be dicks.

but remain humble at all times. When your ego gets in the way of your life it is the ugliest thing people will see in you.

Let people see your true feelings. If your hurting, cry.

If you don’t agree with someone, say so. People are so used to fakes and phony people always out to take your money and pretend to care when they want to take from you the least you can do is be yourself around them. It’s better they don’t like the real you than love the fake you.

And lastly if your going to end up doing readings for money, always make it about the client. They have chosen you to give their hard earned money to. They should be everything to you.

Give them as much room as they need to trust you. If your genuine they will know within seconds of talking to you. The occasional person won’t like you no matter what. They will have made up their minds about you before they got there but that’s their business not yours. It’s not for you to worry. As long as your honest and humble you have nothing to fear. Your true clients won’t care.

And  remember to enjoy every minute of your learning and journey. It’s going to be the start of your new life. Your life will never be the same again. It shouldn’t be hard. If it’s hard then it isn’t for you and your being told to stop.

Otherwise your about to learn more about yourself and your life more than at any other point in your life previous combined.

If your meant for this path eventually as well you will be given a Mentor or Teacher. Like my students were with me and I was with Pauline. My dear Pauline.

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