One thing I have been sharing with you all on this blog is the situation I am having with my youngest child and his forgetting he isn’t a third world Indian child anymore. A very dear friend couple of ours are also dealing with issue with their daughter who has been traumatized in this life with her past life.
If you know the history of what they were before it can certainly help explain why they sometimes do the things they do.
My youngest Train still tries to get all the plastic out of the recycle bin, hoards food, tries to drink coffee and cleans our toilet.
Her story was tragic when Train was her. She was taken by her Father to work for a slightly better off family where she was forced to endure back breaking labor of cleaning and house work for scraps and to sleep on the floor. She ran away and basically lived hand to mouth collecting plastic and rope, string etc..and would buy coffee to keep her awake because she was frightened of going to sleep because on the streets she was treated worst than the house she ran away from. She would lay on her patch of path and watch the trains go by day dreaming about the exotic places those lucky people on the train could be going to. She would cry for her Mother every single day. The memory of her Mother crying and Father pulling her by the hand to never be seen again stays with Train to this day as a 3yr old boy. Well….to cut a long story short that little Angel was promised work by two men who did horrendous things to her tiny 8yr old body before throwing her on to the rocks.
As a parent who knows her story it is hard for me because the men who took her life are still alive and so are her parents. And as far as I’m concerned Karma is a bitch and if my Train can bring the little girl peace in knowing she got that good life she dreamed of having when she lay awake then I will move heaven and earth to make it happen to show those who hurt her how wrong they were in thinking they got away with it. I neigh WE will always know the truth.
But I digress, basically being what I am I was able to talk to my babies in uterine. You don’t need to be like me, millions of women will claim to be able to speak to their babies. For me though it was from the minute I knew I was pregnant.
Because the soul was attached to mine, I knew the second I had conceived. My body told me and my psychic told me I was pregnant.
And one of the very first things Train said to me when they pulled him out of me was ‘Yay, I get a white family’. I had been told during both of my pregnancies who they were in former lives. I was told there was a reason we had been chosen as their parents, explained why and told who they were. So I knew what he meant when he had said that. He became fascinated with our technology.
He couldn’t believe we had lights that we could turn on and off whenever we wanted, TV, Phones etc…fascinated him. Train was laughing proper belly laughs at 7 weeks, crawling at 5 months and walking by 10 months.
By the time he was one you could have full blown conversations with him and understand him perfectly but he was doing weird things like he became obsessed with anything plastic.
We recycle so our recycle bin was his favourite play spot. If he went missing you knew he would be there. I have oodles of photos of him in among the recycling. He would hoard food. He would stack it under his cot bed or in his wardrobe. He would ask all the time ‘Come with me Mama’ and I would follow him and he would take me to his bedroom and he would say ‘My room Mama?’ and I would say ‘Yes baby this is your room?’ and he would say ‘Only Trains room?’ and I would say ‘Yes and no one else but Train?’ and he would roll around the floor and squeal and look so happy and hug everything individually in his room’
He would also ask for baths all the time off ‘to get the yucky off’ he would say and he was a baby. How yucky was a baby going to get?
If you went into the bathroom he would try and get into the bath. He could not believe he had hot water to bath in when ever he wanted. He became obsessed with trains too and to this day still loves trains. He has about 30 of them and saves his pocket money to get them from car boots.
His Dad and I are firm believers in rewarding hard work and indulging them in their interests. Train has books, dvds, toy trains, tracks, posters up the wazoo. He recently was very lucky to have gotten some Posters sent directly from Sir Richard Branson signed by himself as he found out that my 3yr olds favourite thing in the whole world is Virgin. We felt so blessed he did this for our wee boy.
We moved to a house with a burn at the back (stream in Scots) and if anyone even the cat went near the water Train would become almost hysterical with panic and he would shout out ‘Danger Danger’ sometimes he would shake he would get so worried about his big brother or his Daddy going near it.
His brother Robots past life was even more traumatic but Spirit said I was never to know how he died. So I trust that but I was able to talk to the old man he was before and assure him it was okay to let Robot live his life now. It’s been a little harder for Train because his last life wasn’t that long ago.
But you need to help your child become who they were born to be. I don’t agree with these parents who track down the family from their former lives because the child is here to live THIS life not the last one and it can confuse not only the child but also their Soul to live dual lives. SO my advice to anyone who is in my boat to do what I do.
Every time she comes out I sit with him and I say to him ‘Your Train now and Mummy and Daddy love you so much…then I remind him of things we have done as Train and Mummy, Daddy and Robot and ask him questions like ‘Do you remember when we went to the park and you were on the slide and you went woosh down really fast?’ and then he will add his bit of memory like ‘yes and then I landed on my bum and it got all sand on it’
By pulling them out of their past lives like that it cuts off the connection quickly and brings them back into the now. When he starts cleaning my toilet which he has been doing since he was able to pull himself up onto furniture’ I had to move all my cleaning stuff like my toilet brush out of the way or he would be there for ages trying to clean it.
After he was done he would always hold his hand out for food. It used to break my heart. But when he would do this I would distract him by saying ‘No baby Mummy doesn’t want you to clean the toilet, Mummy wants you to…draw a picture, help me make cupcakes..etc….to give him new memories and new distractions.
And for the record when I bake which is ALL the time, and cook meals I have included the boys since they were newborns. Now they both have little chef hats and kiddy baking instruments and no cupcake or cake is made in this house without ‘their love’ getting stirred into it.
Because All cakes are made with love. Since I started doing what I call ‘ The Distraction’ technique he hasn’t cleaned the toilet since. His trains are his distraction now anyway. He knows every name, very part, every type of train there is and he is three.
He seems to have a thing for engineering now so we let him indulge in this instead and even though I know I could track his family down and get him reacquainted with this last family, what good would it do?
There is enough pressure on children as it is but when your child is a crystal baby with gifts and living in an unusual life as it is because lets face it, my family isn’t normal. Getting him involved in his past life would be too much for his poor soul to bear besides which his last life left him very bitter towards his Father after he was born and his Dad has had to work very hard in building his relationship with Train to go back to her Father who sent her away would open up so many old wounds.
The only way you should reintegrate your child to their past life is if the child is suffering emotionally now BUT even then it should be done on the understanding that once the connection is made, they are to be then left alone to live the life they were born to live.
Past is past for a reason. If your child is experiencing past life regression, keep reminding them they are the name you gave them, your their parent, and then use distraction techniques. For your own peace of mind you could do some investigation into the things they claim but it isn’t a good idea to share it with them especially if they are young.
It can put a lot of pressure on the child and in a lot of cases the child has wanted to remain with the former family. Be understanding but also reassure them that it’s okay to remember things but the important thing is to be allowed to live the life they were born to have. I’ve seen some lovely cases thanks to Moon who sent me a link to a show on Bio about Reincarnated Children, where the child has been introduced to their past lives families and it has ended beautifully but those cases are few and far between.
My Train wouldn’t even look at his father. My poor husband would be heart broken because every time he tried to hold him to give him a bottle, change his nappy, anything that involved contact Train would scream. He would be thrashing around and it was traumatic for all involved. It was horrible.
My husband knew why it was happening but he couldn’t bond with Train, Train would NOT let him near him. He stuck to me like glue. If I left the room he was in with his Dad he would chase me down screaming and he would cling. He would tell his Dad ‘I don’t love you, I only love Mama’ and it would tear my poor husband up. I would have to step in and tell him that he was hurting his Daddy and his Daddy has never hurt him, and never would.
I would have to say to him ‘Your last Father did something very bad but your new Daddy loves you so much’
I would make Mr do things with Robot in front of Train that I knew Train would want to get involved in. I would then walk away for short periods of time to leave them alone. When he got used to that I would make the two of them spend time together. I would be with Robot and Mr would have one on one time with Train. Then when they were used to that he would actually ask to spend time with his Dad. By which time the three of them would go off on great adventures. Now Train doesn’t even remember how he used to feel about his Dad. But I know Mr will never forget it as long as he lives.
If you continue to encourage the past life it can have a detrimental effect on anyone involved and if you don’t uncover what’s going on really quickly it can lead to many misunderstandings.
My husband has a really good friend of his and his wife have a wee girl. She has the birth marks where she was shot in the head when she was a Palestinian child. I wont go into details though because I’ve explained all this before. But this wee girl has been having trouble sleeping and her parents thought it was because she was playing up. Understandably they didn’t have a clue what was going on and assumed the child was playing up.
When I reminded them of her past life and why she is afraid of the dark etc…other things came to light which they never knew and it made her night terrors a lot easier to understand. The fear of loud noises, strange men, sudden noise etc…all started to make sense when I told them why she was acting the way she was acting and to make matters worse her past life family she died with were in her room protecting her. I had to go in and get the Mum to cleanse the rooms and take control back of the situation. It took quite a while for things to settle down but the other day I was told by this past life family had moved on and leaving the family friends of ours alone now they knew their sister/daughter was in good hands. But by nipping it in the bud now while their daughter is only 18 months old means she will be less likely to remember and carry forward her past life issues.
So remember, Be firm but fair.
Distract them and remind them. You have to remember they aren’t being your child when they are being who they were in their past life.
Have some understanding as to why they are acting the way they are. So you don’t get angry or upset when you see them doing what they are doing. Remind yourself ‘It isn’t my child’.
Be patient, this is going to be a process of retraining your child’s mind set.
Keep them in the present, it distracts them from the past.
Only show them evidence of their past life if you think it will help bring closure.
They need closure so if they are older, and old enough to understand what is going on do whatever you need to do to bring closure and lay the past life to rest. If your lucky enough to come up with their name, country, manner of death etc..you could have a service for them in which they lay their past life to rest. Have a ceremony in which the child can say goodbye to the past life.
Let them express whatever emotion they have in dealing with it too. One of the things I have uncovered is that the rate at which children are being reborn remembering past lives is growing in an exponential rate and ALL have suffered very traumatic deaths. Some were in 9/11 some are from WW2, Murdered, Killed in Bosnia, Iraq etc…and a lot if not most were killed as children or young people. And all are being born to a certain type of parent. An enlightened parent, an open minded parent, a patient parent or someone like me. It’s like for all the children and people who were cut down in their prime in their past lives are being sent back to be given another chance, a better chance, a loving chance. Forgiveness, closure, peace, empathy, reward, there are many reasons as to why they have been reborn to the better lives.
But if they died as children or killed by no fault of their own then they will be always asked what they want to do next and it seems like most of them are opting to be reborn to have it a bit better this time around. They are being given to people who understand their unique situation. Which that in itself is a gift. I’ve never seen a parent not understand the unique situation they and their child have been put in and Mothers especially seem the most willing to want to find out more. Just remember you could be opening up a Pandora’s box. So tread very carefully. But most importantly, the one thing you must never forget is this:
Your child, is YOUR child. You were chosen to be their parent for a reason. Love them for what they were created to be, not what anyone else wants them to be. Embrace them and their uniqueness for what it is. Don’t try to ‘change’ your child, just try to help them. Everything you do for your special child should be for their best interest and no one else’s.
Once you start to involve other people especially from their past life you could be causing a heap of emotional baggage your child doesn’t deserve or need. This is about THEM, not you, not their last family, or anyone else. If your going to try and uncover the things they say make sure your doing it for them, not for yourself. Also be prepared for anything. You don’t know what your going to find so you have to prepare yourself for some distressing things that could be uncovered.
Also remember, we all carry traits of our past selves to our present lives so make sure you are delving into a Past Life Issues and not a Genetic Memory. Just because your child may talk of loving to drive and traveling and eating nice food it doesn’t always mean they are remembering past lives, it could be in their genetic memory which is very different. Genetic Memory is when no matter what life you live, some things stay with you because it is in the very core of your design. Your very first life on earth was as something where each life there after carries these certain traits. So their very first life may have been as an Explorer or Sailor who traveled the globe seeing new and exciting things.
Other wise follow my tips and eventually you should be able to help their former selves move on to let their current selves live in peace. Especially if you discover they are Rebirths from a young age.
And as always if you have any questions, or need any help. I am here. Just email me or contact me on this Blog.