How to get Rid of Negative Energy

Sometimes when things aren’t going right in our lives or things in the house seem a bit oppressive or there has been a lot of negativity around, you need to do a cleansing. If you have been stressed out, fighting or tired but with no real reason as to why, sometimes the energy your surrounded by needs to be cleansed.

You need to be cleansed. If your having trouble sleeping, if you had activity in your home and passed a Spirit over, or you just feel like you need to free yourself from something you can’t explain then you need to do a cleansing. I am telling people how to do this themselves as I have been hearing that some so called Psychics and New Age Gurus are charging extortionate amounts of money to this them for people and it’s just wrong. I only charge for readings.

Before I tell you what to do you need to know some of the rules.

1) NEVER!!! do a cleansing under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Even if your on medication that impairs you. Wait till it is out of your system.

2) You must keep all the doors and windows closed during the entire process.

3) Remove animals and children after they have been brushed with the sage.

4) Make sure you have nothing else on after you have performed the ceremony as you can and will find yourself physically and mentally drained afterwards.

5) Take it very seriously. If you make a joke of it, or decide to use the time to use Oujia boards and such you will invite trouble that I will not be held responsible for.

You will need: A White Sage stick or Smudge Stick. It must be just an ordinary plain Sage stick, not one for specific needs. You can buy them on eBay or Amazon for no more than Ā£3 including delivery. Salt, just normal table salt. A tea light Candle for every room in the house including garage and walk in wardrobes and bathrooms. Incense About 4 spare hours. Try to have someone with you that you trust.

Keep the noise down. Your going to need to concentrate. The first thing you do is close all the windows and doors and not let anyone in or out. Take the phones off the hook until you have smudged each room. Get the table salt and make a line across the front and back doors of the house or office. Just a straight continuous from one side to the next. So when people step over the threshold they are stepping over the salt. This will keep unwanted visitors or people away.

If you want to be double sure, you can keep some Lavender at the door or entrance ways also. Then close the doors and don’t let them open again until the last candle is out. Then you want to light one tea light candle for every room in the house. This includes wardrobes, wash houses, basements, garages. If you can walk into it, you need to put a candle in it.

Safely, put them in a bowl or lid if your worried about wax dripping. Don’t have them close to clothing or curtains. Just in the center of the floor is fine. You need to be able to see them when you do your walk around. After you have lit every candle in every room then you light the Sage stick. You will need something to fan the flame so you can use the smoke to brush over the door frames and stuff.

Some people use a feather but to me it is using a dead animal to help life and it feels wrong so I use a small booklet or piece of paper. Before you send children out, quickly go up and down their bodies with the smudge stick. cats and dogs are usually okay but birds will need to be taken outside until it is done. The cats and dogs can be smudged too but they are usually outside anyway or laying about being nosy as to what your doing but if you live in a really small house, please, put them outside for a couple of hours.

Close your eyes and imagine a door or bridge opening up as you count to ten. When you get to ten the door or bridge should be fully open. Then again ask Spirit for protection as you perform the cleansing. Ask them to protect you from all negative and unwanted people and energies while you cleanse your home and for protection of anyone who lives there also. Start from the front door and work your way to the back of the house. So use the sage stick up and over the entire door frame, then stand in the middle of the room and use the Sage to brush outwards to the four corners of the room.

If you have adjoining rooms like a living room and dining room do them both separately unless you can see the is entering the dining room. In which case after you have done the one room, do the remaining corners of the other from the last room. As you are brushing the Sage out to the four corners of each room ask Spirit and your ancestors for love, protection and guidance.

Ask Spirit to protect your house/office and self. Ask them to protect the house from anyone and anything that isn’t welcome. Tell them out loud what it is your needing help with IE ‘I wish to bring peace to this house because there has been so much negativity’ or ‘I ask you to give us strength during this difficult financial time’ You want to ask for things that matter. Not for possessions or wealth.

Stuff means nothing to Spirit. You can ask for help dealing with financial issues or for help in providing for your family but never for lottery wins or stuff. Your asking Spirit for enough to live, not to be rich. It would be abusing the privilege and chances are you will then get the money in a less than acceptable way IE inheritance after the loss of a loved one, or redundancy.

After you have done each room standing in the middle of the room and sweeping outwards from your chest/stomach area, to the four corners of the room, go to the next room and sage the door of the room you just walked out of. Do this with every room and every door, no door should be done twice. If you have Spirits in the house you will notice the candles burning in such a way that you will now you have attracted their attention.

If your wanting to send them on, tell them when your in the middle of each room to go to the light. Tell them God loves them and their loved ones are waiting for them on the other side. Tell them it is time to pass over and to follow the light. You’ll know by how the candles react if they have gone or not. You never want to do a door or room twice. Start from the front of the house to the back and cover every door and room.

Once you have done every single room, come back to the living room and light the incense. This will help with the smell. The sage will drop ash but it will be easily vacuumed up. Remember not to open any doors and windows. P,lace the remainder of the Sage somewhere safe where it can go out and then when it is cold and all the embers are out bury it in the dirt out the back or if you don’t have a yard inside a pot pant will do.

Never use the same Sage stick twice. Once you have used it once, it needs to be removed. But you shouldn’t have that much left anyone. It’s okay to put it in the bin but I just prefer to send it back to the earth to get recycled into the earth. Nothing is more pure than Nature. Your going to have quite a smoke filled house now which is good.

Take this time while your waiting for all the candles to burn down to have a drink, sit quietly and read a book, maybe play some quiet music. Talk with your partner. Just keep the house or offices noise to a quiet volume. The idea is to balance the energy by smoking out the negative energy, confusing it and cleaning it.

You may start to notice your feeling exhausted by this point, even emotional. If you have be holding stuff in, or you’ve been feeling emotionally blocked or your not sure why you’ve been off kilter this may start to come out now. This is why you can’t be alone. You may doze off and with candles burning in the house, plus if you become emotional your going to need support. What you were keeping bottled up, will come out. I’ve seen grown men weep like children after a cleansing.

Because it frees the soul as well as the house. Check on the candles every 20 minutes. Try not to get 8 hour candles. The 3 hour ones are fine. Just remember no one can come in or out of the house until the last candle is out so if you get 8 hour candles, that is a long time for your pets and kids to be outside or away. Once all the candles are burnt out, then your able to open the doors and windows to air the house out.

Do NOT use air freshener. Let nature take it’s course. The wind outside will disperse it and it will dissipate the way it is meant to. But just before you open the front door, pause, close your eyes and imagine the door or bridge in your head. Slowly close the door as you count backwards to ten. When you get to one, the door or bridge should be fully closed.

This closes you down. You should notice a difference in the atmosphere within 24 hours, but if it has been a particularly hard time it could take up for 7 days for the affects to be felt. Please take this seriously. It serves no purpose other than to cause you immense trouble to deviate from what I have told you to do. It is always better you do it than get someone else because no one else knows what your feeling or going through.

No one should charge you any money to do this. Helping cleanse someones life or home is a very serious matter and therefore should be treated as a gift not a service. If anyone asks for money they aren’t in it to help you, only to make money. If you have any questions about this or anything else, please just ask me. I don’t charge for my time. Only readings. If your needing advice or help, I will help you any way I can for free. I only charge for readings.

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    • Thank you Susan, I felt compelled to do it because this week I was horrified to hear from a couple of clients that some people are trying to charge absurd amounts of money to do cleansings on peoples homes or person. Anywhere from $150 to $4000. I was mortified. Anyone who charges a fee for anything other than a reading isn’t doing it to help people and it usually results in their gifts being removed eventually. As I keep telling people ‘I only charge for readings’. No one has the right say ‘I will cleanse you but it will cost $4000’. Now….hopefully people can just do it themselves for the price of a couple of items.


  1. thnxx for posting this and I was looking for this a while.Nowadays I am emotionally drowned,my mental stage is not quiet happening.Mixed emotions of rage and crying is oozing out from my self question is ,is there any particular time alotted?like evening or at night??
    like to here from you debbie..
    soulful regards ,

    • Hi Garima, any time of the night or day is fine sweetheart. As long as there is no one coming in and out of the home when it’s being done. You will feel quite emotional after it because it draws out your underlying emotional issues. So be prepared. It cleanses your soul as well as your home. It’s an amazing feeling the next day.

  2. Thank you so much. That is such a wonderful thing to be told. You humble me friend.
    I do what I can to help people understand. I’m glad it is working. It means I’m doing something right.
    Love and Light

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    • Um…..thanks. I only have a Facebook page. I rant too much for Twitter and don’t know even what the others are lol I don’t think people would want to hear me going on and on and on lol
      My Facebook is Debbie Dakiwi but I don’t go on there much.

    • well you forced my hand lol I now also have a Linkedin lol It’s called Spirit Child, plus I have the Facebook Debbie Dakiwi, and WordPress. I’m kind of nervous about Twitter because it would leave me open to trolls and stuff. I only hear bad things about Twitter. Oh and I have Google Plus that is Spirit Child also. Your welcome to follow me any time šŸ™‚ I checked you out. Your recipes look amazing.

  8. Hi, I loved this post! Its very helpful, but ive read on other sites that the windows and doors should be open during saging and so now im a bit conflicted as to what to do. Im going to sage for the first time and i want to make sure im doing it right.

    • Hi Yolanda, that is an excellent point. Thank you for bringing it up. The answer is, it’s personal preference. I recommend closing the doors and windows so your not letting outside interference in while your doing something so important. If you were in the middle of a Cleanse and your windows were open and you heard a minor accident or a bit of something outside you would get distracted and the cleansing would be incomplete which is very very very dangerous to do. You cannot afford to have outside influence or interference. It is safest and easiest for everyone I think personally to have it quiet and closed off so there is less chance of distraction. An incomplete Cleanse can cause utter carnage. Plus because your doing something where your essentially opening and sealing connections to the other side, dealing with energy and frequency you don’t want to risk anything that is negative outside (ie mentally,emotionally and physically negative neighbours, drivers, citizens walking past your house, delivery drivers,postal workers etc….) Anything outside that is dark and negative looks for any crack in the frequency to get in. Keeping yourself closed up and closed off protects not just you but those out side as well. But each to their own really šŸ™‚
      Excellent question though. Thank you so much for asking.
      Love and Light

  9. Hi I have a friend who wants me to cleanse their house but she dosnt want to do it herself. There’s a male spirit in her house which I have sensed and her little boy has seen. Whilst I’m cleansing the house what would she have to do?

    • Nothing. She doesn’t have to even be in tbe house but it’s better if she does. You should do one purge and one purge only. She shouldn’t need to do one in that home ever again. However shouldn’t you be doing a releasing of a trapped Spirit instead? A Cleansing should only be done for removing or cleansing negative or unwanted energy from a home/office/building etc….as a Cleansing can be done against the living as well. It’s not always a Spirit causing negative energy. And if the Spirit isn’t doing anything harmful or upsetting your going to purge Spirits that are innocent and or actually protecting the home/residents. So I strongly suggest you figure out what your dealing with and the best course of action to take because if your cleansing the wrong Spirits for the wrong reason you might be removing something that’s there actually protecting her and her family. If you need help figuring it all out please don’t hesitate to ask. I’m only too happy to help. Love and Light, Debbie xoxo

    • Hiya Sweetheart, yes you can. Only one of you needs to cleanse the house. If it’s to cleanse yourselves of negative energy I suggest using a bell and something to use as a pendulum. It is quick and effortless and can be done as many times as you need it. These methods are safe, harmless and can be done over and over again. If you have any questions please feel free to ask ok? I have instructions and an old video on YouTube showing you how to do a bell and pendulum cleansing. I must warn you though, the videos are old and I don’t look anything like that now lol but please if you have questions or need help I’m here. Xoxo