People always say to me ‘Oh your so lucky, I wish I could do what you do’ and it always makes me laugh because people always assume I get the lovely premonitions, the pleasant Spirits, and the lottery numbers.
The truth of the matter is Spirit communicate to everyone all the time but most people are usually too busy to notice.
The thing is you don’t want to do is ignore the signs because when it comes to Spirit, they are as subtle as a brick if they need to get something across to you. This is why people mistake being scratched and pushed as something dark and negative. 99.9% of all Spirits are just trying to get recognized and don’t realize their own strength of energy when they do manage to get across to someone.
In all honesty, they don’t want to hurt you, they can’t physically touch you, they can only project their energy onto yours to make you feel like you can be touched. It takes more energy to be a negative Spirit than it does to be a positive one. So in most stories of TRUE negative Spirit cases, your batteries will drain, they drain YOU, no lights will work, no TV or radio will function because they need that much energy. Besides which most cases of negative energy come with a level of positive protection.
Our ancestors and Spirit Elders would never allow anything to get too close to us. And so many poor misunderstood Spirits get blamed for being over zealous in their approach as being negative.
As I always say ‘You’ll know when it is a dark Spirit because the fear is so intense you feel like your going to die’.
Children and animals are the best judge of whether a Spirit is of positive or negative persuasion or not. If they are constantly sick for no reason, can’t sleep, can’t eat, restless, scream or growl at certain rooms etc…refuse to enter a home etc…then you know it is something to worry about. But if your hair goes up on your arms or back of your neck it is not a sign of negative energy. I explain it like this.
Our hair standing up on end and the goosebumps is like our alarm system. Remember I said if you imagine we are like a house and Your God whoever they are owns the house, and our Spirit Elders are our butler (you may call them Guardian Angels or Spirit Guides, they are all the same thing) and our Elders are our cook, cleaner etc…well we also come with a built-in alarm system that lets us know if something or someone is trying to gain illegal entry lol
Our hair stands on end, we get goosebumps, our mouths get dry, our heart beats faster, our pulse races, we get jumpy and jittery. But it doesn’t mean it’s anything negative trying to get in, it just means SOMETHING is near.
Then what happens is we become alert and aware of something and it automatically closes us down to prevent anything coming too close. By which I mean it shuts our relaxed energy down to prevent negative and positive Spirits from making contact we don’t want.
Most Spirit or Ghost encounters don’t come when we sit watching to see if the door will move with the camera ready to catch it but rather when we are going about our business. The saying goes ‘A Watched Pot Never Boil’s the same is said of ‘A watched Ghost Never Performs’ so to speak lol and I’m sorry for using the term Ghost, it is rude and disrespectful of Spirit but they know I jest to make a point’
It really bothers me the way I see some investigators act when on an investigation. There is too much work done where they concentrate on the gadgets that can cost way too much money, there is a lot of talking and discussion and not enough paying attention.
You don’t need to do investigations at night, it makes no difference. If the place is haunted, it is haunted during the day and the night.
Investigations just seem to be best done at night because it is quieter. But with a lot of these gadgets can hinder the investigation. You really don’t need half the stuff they use today. EMF detectors for one. Yes they pick up on electrical frequencies but to be honest, even in buildings with no electricity, there is magnetic frequencies in everything because of the sun and because time is gravity based our planet is extremely magnetic and I feel magnetic energy around me.
If your good at investigating you don’t need them or anything else that lets you know they are there. If there are reports of activity it should be enough. You have to be logical and be sensible. Don’t put everything down to Spirit and don’t dismiss the small stuff. You need to pay attention to your surroundings because Spirit will try to come to you through many ways. From Loved ones to trapped Spirits, they have many ways of coming through.
Here are some ways you can tell Spirit are trying to communicate.
Apart from the obvious hair standing on end, goosebumps etc…they may play a song on the radio that reminds you of them, a commercial, a movie. It will usually be obscure or one that isn’t played often but has meaning to you.
You will feel cold or warm but down in your soul. It is more than a breeze, it touches the very core of you and you may find yourself wondering ‘who could that be’.
If ever you have felt an unexplained breeze and thought ‘That’s odd, I wonder what that was’ That it Spirit.
A photo or memento might come from nowhere. They LOVE the what I call ‘Look what you found’ game. So if something appears from no where and is out of place then that is Spirit too.
You might feel something touch you, it either feels like cobwebs or actual fingers. You’ll know because it stays with you for a long time after it happens. Nausea is a common one for me. Smells, and sounds. Often you might hear a cry, laugh, or your name being called.
It can be thoughts said out loud or in your head. Mostly in your voice but not always.
Objects will get moved. (They can’t physically touch them but if they build up enough energy they can make it move by thought aka telekinetics )
You may wake up feeling like someone is in your room and for no reason you’ll start thinking about the person. It can make you feel unsettled. Not frightened but almost,……like your soul can’t rest because it’s on guard. In that case if you acknowledge the Spirit they are happy to leave you be then.
But this is the trouble. They don’t get acknowledged so they have to become more drastic in their communications and this can lead to all sorts of misunderstandings.
In any case you need to calm yourself down and think logically. If you’ve been touched or scratched or pushed. Do as you would if it was any person doing it. Tell them off. Tell them it isn’t acceptable and you won’t tolerate any form of physical touch. Or do what I do, swear, apologies and then ask them what they want lol 9 times out of 10 they just want you to know they are there. They are happy with just being recognized. But please always remember this Spirit once was like you. Living, breathing, loved, nurtured, this was someones child, wife, daughter, husband etc…this will some day be you and your loved ones. Always remember that. Respect always. Someone might very well still be grieving for them. Respect ALWAYS.
Pushed and Scratched could mean many things like ‘This is how I died?’ or ‘this is how I was treated’ or ‘Hey you, I know you can hear me, listen to me’ (over use of energy and Boom you have a mark because they over shot the runway lol)
It can be very useful having a good relationship with your Spirits and Resident Spirits because they will protect you and your home. It may be that all they need is for you to know they were a good person as maybe in life they were deemed to be mean or nasty. It may be that they want you to know their name. Help find their family, let you know they are okay etc…but one thing that is clear with all my 43 years and ancestral knowledge of Spirit is, if you don’t acknowledge them they will only get worse. They can bug you for a long time if you don’t acknowledge them.
I did a reading for a client in Liverpool who didn’t recognize a Spirit who came through and he hounded me for 2 months before she finally remembered who he was. He said he had a long name but was known by a short name, like James to Jim, Anthony to Tony, he made it very clear to her that he could finally dance, I told her I could see wheels etc…..and it turns out after I got woken up every night and morning with his face staring at me and my clock getting thrown across rooms etc…that he made me ring her at 7am to go around there and I sat there for 3 hours making her remember him. It turns out he was only the wheelchair bound best friend of her daughter who had only passed away the year before. Her daughter used to dance with him in his wheelchair and he had told me he always wanted to dance with Laura and now he can. She felt so bad for not remembering him because Anthony otherwise known as Tone had been such a very special part of her family for many years. Once she finally acknowledged him, he left me alone.
So as with investigations and with you personally, the second you feel Spirit or even have a thought in your head that it could be Spirit, please acknowledge them because they aren’t subtle in getting their point across if you’re not listening.If your too afraid to want to open communications just tell them. They listen. They don’t want to hurt you. You just tell them ‘I acknowledge your communication but I’m not ready for this just now’ or if your okay with it you can say ‘I acknowledge your communication and accept it, Thank you, if you have a message for me I am ready to receive it, if you have a message to get out I am ready to receive it’ then they will let you know in their own way what they need to say. But like I say, for the most part they just need to know you know they are there.
I think the voice boxes are awesome but I’m wondering how much is true Spirit.
Knowing what I know about time manipulation and the power of conscious thought it has made me want to try out and test the theory that Voice boxes like Poltergeists and Seances/Ouija Boards etc…are a manifestation of our own desires for the communication with the dead..
I wish wish wish I could tell you EVERYTHING I know but people are starting to copy my work and twist the facts to suit their own insanity and this information is dangerous to the wrong person but if I told you everything I knew you would never fear death again and in fact I think you would celebrate it. But I need to protect you all from certain things and only my students are privy to this info but trust me when I say, ‘See death? it’s all an illusion’
The living are just the dead on holiday – Maurice de Maeterlinck (1862 – 1949)
Never have truer words been said. Probably THEE most apt description of death and Spirit I’ve ever heard.
We live our lives for such a short amount of time, and are Spirit for the rest. Life is just a holiday. Some are weekend breaks and some are world tours but ALL come with lessons and when it’s over we go home again and when we take our flight home they our loved ones in Spirit meet us in the airport holding huge signs saying ‘Welcome home’.
But we can still Skype and Email them. That’s what people like me are. We are the Skype and Gmail. But so can you be if you stop ignoring them.
‘Your perception of Spirit is always going to be much darker than the reality of them’ (me 2016)
We have been investigating Spirits for centuries quite successfully without a lot of this stuff they use nowadays.
Flour, water, sand, coal, bones, etc….Night or day, try it the old way. Quiet, respectfully and cameras at the ready. If you feel something odd, take a picture. Don’t go charging over with machines that light up and beep. The mere fact your going into their space with strange machinery can be intimidating for them.
This is why Most Haunted got so bad. They started introducing all sorts of ridiculous gadgets to communicate like Tesler Coils and Gongs and it’s quite insulting to the process of Spirit communication.
Nowadays it’s all about the latest gadget and the best this and the biggest that. Just cameras, digital recorders and patience would be fine.
That movement out the corner of your eye is them, that sudden urge to be happy or excited is them. That need to have a cry but you don’t know why, is them.
Take note of every emotion in your investigation. And please……please…….oh god please…..use a trusted Intuitive Clairvoyant. Not someone who comes with the title of Clarscentiaudiychic. Test them first.
Make sure they have a proven track record. Not just someone who carries smudge sticks and can ‘sense’ something. My cat can ‘sense’ something and he’s afraid of apples lol make sure they can take control of any situation in an investigation.
They should be able to run faster than the most frightened camera man too lol
Coz lets face it, if your in a room and someone says something in French in your ear when your half asleep your natural instinct is to leg it lol even for the Clairvoyant.
It gives you a bloody fright but this is why most Spirits talk to us in our own voices. It’s only if you build up a relationship that they will come through in their own voices, out loud for all to hear.
But if you take one like me, please choose someone who is relaxed and knows what they are doing. Any one like me worth half their salt wouldn’t tolerate Ouija or Seances. They are the Cocaine and Heroine of the Paranormal World, you just don’t go near them because they become addictive and once they have you all sorts of bad things happen and nothing good ever comes from it. They are not Spirit, never have been and never will be. They aren’t needed in an Investigation. And by Investigation I mean anything you do to try and capture Spirit Communication whether your a Society or a guy in your house.
I’ve gotten amazing stuff just by setting up a camera and leaving the building or going to bed. Just go about your business. If they want to communicate with you as with a reading, they will. They will show themselves to 10 people in a room of 1000 or to one person in a room by themselves. They aren’t performing clowns who jump through hoops just because your there. If they want to, they will.
That goes for loved ones as well. Spirit know what we can and can’t handle. Just when they do, be respectful, acknowledge them and move on. But if you can build up a level of trust with a resident Spirit, you have a level of protection and trust that you just can’t describe. Every time I leave my house I ask mine to protect my home or my family, cat etc…and I’ve gone away accidentally leaving my back door wide open.
I’ve had some quite horrible people be literally scared out of their clothing to leave my house because they were caught doing something by Spirit who made sure they left and never came back lol
And please remember ‘Never EVER ask a Spirit to follow you’. If you move house or leave somewhere even with the nicest most communicative of Spirits you don’t ask the Spirit to come with you or anything of the sort because not only would you be inviting them but unwanted things as well.
If your dealing with a child or lost soul like a murder victim existing in their own suffering the only thing to do is move them to the other side. It’s the only right thing to do. Imagine if you lost a younger loved one and you knew they never left the place they loved even in Spirit, Wouldn’t you want them to move on to peace and love? Plus You have to remember there is negative stuff just waiting for us to screw up so they can jump right in and cause trouble.
So as I say treat them like you would anyone else, Spirit are just us only dead. Don’t let them get away with anything you wouldn’t let a living person get away with but at the same time always respect them and acknowledge them because even the ones who are filled with love and light and want nothing more than to guide you can be as subtle as a sledge-hammer if you’re not listening.
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