Never Ignore the Signs of Communication (revised)

People always say to me ‘Oh your so lucky, I wish I could do what you do’ and it always makes me laugh because people always assume I get the lovely premonitions, the pleasant Spirits, and the lottery numbers.

The truth of the matter is Spirit communicate to everyone all the time but most people are usually too busy to notice.

The thing is you don’t want to do is ignore the signs because when it comes to Spirit, they are as subtle as a brick if they need to get something across to you. This is why people mistake being scratched and pushed as something dark and negative. 99.9% of all Spirits are just trying to get recognized and don’t realize their own strength of energy when they do manage to get across to someone.

In all honesty, they don’t want to hurt you, they can’t physically touch you, they can only project their energy onto yours to make you feel like you can be touched. It takes more energy to be a negative Spirit than it does to be a positive one. So in most stories of TRUE negative Spirit cases, your batteries will drain, they drain YOU, no lights will work, no TV or radio will function because they need that much energy. Besides which most cases of negative energy come with a level of positive protection.

Our ancestors and Spirit Elders would never allow anything to get too close to us. And so many poor misunderstood Spirits get blamed for being over zealous in their approach as being negative.

As I always say ‘You’ll know when it is a dark Spirit because the fear is so intense you feel like your going to die’.

Children and animals are the best judge of whether a Spirit is of positive or negative persuasion or not. If they are constantly sick for no reason, can’t sleep, can’t eat, restless, scream or growl at certain rooms etc…refuse to enter a home etc…then you know it is something to worry about. But if your hair goes up on your arms or back of your neck it is not a sign of negative energy. I explain it like this.

Our hair standing up on end and the goosebumps is like our alarm system. Remember I said if you imagine we are like a house and Your God whoever they are owns the house, and our Spirit Elders are our butler (you may call them Guardian Angels or Spirit Guides, they are all the same thing) and our Elders are our cook, cleaner etc…well we also come with a built-in alarm system that lets us know if something or someone is trying to gain illegal entry lol

Our hair stands on end, we get goosebumps, our mouths get dry, our heart beats faster, our pulse races, we get jumpy and jittery. But it doesn’t mean it’s anything negative trying to get in, it just means SOMETHING is near.

Then what happens is we become alert and aware of something and it automatically closes us down to prevent anything coming too close. By which I mean it shuts our relaxed energy down to prevent negative and positive Spirits from making contact we don’t want.

Most Spirit or Ghost encounters don’t come when we sit watching to see if the door will move with the camera ready to catch it but rather when we are going about our business. The saying goes ‘A Watched Pot Never Boil’s the same is said of  ‘A watched Ghost Never Performs’ so to speak lol and I’m sorry for using the term Ghost, it is rude and disrespectful of Spirit but they know I jest to make a point’

It really bothers me the way I see some investigators act when on an investigation. There is too much work done where they concentrate on the gadgets that can cost way too much money, there is a lot of talking and discussion and not enough paying attention.

You don’t need to do investigations at night, it makes no difference. If the place is haunted, it is haunted during the day and the night.

Investigations just seem to be best done at night because it is quieter. But with a lot of these gadgets can hinder the investigation. You really don’t need half the stuff they use today. EMF detectors for one. Yes they pick up on electrical frequencies but to be honest, even in buildings with no electricity, there is magnetic frequencies in everything because of the sun and because time is gravity based our planet is extremely magnetic and I feel magnetic energy around me.

If your good at investigating you don’t need them or anything else that lets you know they are there. If there are reports of activity it should be enough. You have to be logical and be sensible. Don’t put everything down to Spirit and don’t dismiss the small stuff. You need to pay attention to your surroundings because Spirit will try to come to you through many ways. From Loved ones to trapped Spirits, they have many ways of coming through.

Here are some ways you can tell Spirit are trying to communicate.

Apart from the obvious hair standing on end, goosebumps etc…they may play a song on the radio that reminds you of them, a commercial, a movie. It will usually be obscure or one that isn’t played often but has meaning to you.

You will feel cold or warm but down in your soul. It is more than a breeze, it touches the very core of you and you may find yourself wondering ‘who could that be’.

If ever you have felt an unexplained breeze and thought ‘That’s odd, I wonder what that was’ That it Spirit.

A photo or memento might come from nowhere. They LOVE the what I call ‘Look what you found’ game. So if something appears from no where and is out of place then that is Spirit too.

You might feel something touch you, it either feels like cobwebs or actual fingers. You’ll know because it stays with you for a long time after it happens. Nausea is a common one for me. Smells, and sounds. Often you might hear a cry, laugh, or your name being called.

It can be thoughts said out loud or in your head. Mostly in your voice but not always.

Objects will get moved. (They can’t physically touch them but if they build up enough energy they can make it move by thought aka telekinetics )

You may wake up feeling like someone is in your room and for no reason you’ll start thinking about the person. It can make you feel unsettled. Not frightened but almost,……like your soul can’t rest because it’s on guard. In that case if you acknowledge the Spirit they are happy to leave you be then.

But this is the trouble. They don’t get acknowledged so they have to become more drastic in their communications and this can lead to all sorts of misunderstandings.

In any case you need to calm yourself down and think logically. If you’ve been touched or scratched or pushed. Do as you would if it was any person doing it. Tell them off. Tell them it isn’t acceptable and you won’t tolerate any form of physical touch. Or do what I do, swear, apologies and then ask them what they want lol 9 times out of 10 they just want you to know they are there. They are happy with just being recognized. But please always remember this Spirit once was like you. Living, breathing, loved, nurtured, this was someones child, wife, daughter, husband etc…this will some day be you and your loved ones. Always remember that. Respect always. Someone might very well still be grieving for them. Respect ALWAYS.

Pushed and Scratched could mean many things like ‘This is how I died?’ or ‘this is how I was treated’ or ‘Hey you, I know you can hear me, listen to me’ (over use of energy and Boom you have a mark because they over shot the runway lol)

It can be very useful having a good relationship with your Spirits and Resident Spirits because they will protect you and your home. It may be that all they need is for you to know they were a good person as maybe in life they were deemed to be mean or nasty. It may be that they want you to know their name. Help find their family, let you know they are okay etc…but one thing that is clear with all my 43 years and ancestral knowledge of Spirit is, if you don’t acknowledge them they will only get worse. They can bug you for a long time if you don’t acknowledge them.

I did a reading for a client in Liverpool who didn’t recognize a Spirit who came through and he hounded me for 2 months before she finally remembered who he was. He said he had a long name but was known by a short name, like James to Jim, Anthony to Tony, he made it very clear to her that he could finally dance, I told her I could see wheels etc…..and it turns out after I got woken up every night and morning with his face staring at me and my clock getting thrown across rooms etc…that he made me ring her at 7am to go around there and I sat there for 3 hours making her remember him. It turns out he was only the wheelchair bound best friend of her daughter who had only passed away the year before. Her daughter used to dance with him in his wheelchair and he had told me he always wanted to dance with Laura and now he can. She felt so bad for not remembering him because Anthony otherwise known as Tone had been such a very special part of her family for many years. Once she finally acknowledged him, he left me alone.

So as with investigations and with you personally, the second you feel Spirit or even have a thought in your head that it could be Spirit, please acknowledge them because they aren’t subtle in getting their point across if you’re not listening.If your too afraid to want to open communications just tell them. They listen. They don’t want to hurt you. You just tell them ‘I acknowledge your communication but I’m not ready for this just now’ or if your okay with it you can say ‘I acknowledge your communication and accept it, Thank you, if you have a message for me I am ready to receive it, if you have a message to get out I am ready to receive it’ then they will let you know in their own way what they need to say. But like I say, for the most part they just need to know you know they are there.

I think the voice boxes are awesome but I’m wondering how much is true Spirit.

Knowing what I know about time manipulation and the power of conscious thought it has made me want to try out and test the theory that Voice boxes like Poltergeists and Seances/Ouija Boards etc…are a manifestation of our own desires for the communication with the dead..

I wish wish wish I could tell you EVERYTHING I know but people are starting to copy my work and twist the facts to suit their own insanity and this information is dangerous to the wrong person but if I told you everything I knew you would never fear death again and in fact I think you would celebrate it. But I need to protect you all from certain things and only my students are privy to this info but trust me when I say, ‘See death? it’s all an illusion’

The living are just the dead on holiday – Maurice de Maeterlinck (1862 – 1949)

Never have truer words been said. Probably THEE most apt description of death and Spirit I’ve ever heard.

We live our lives for such a short amount of time, and are Spirit for the rest. Life is just a holiday. Some are weekend breaks and some are world tours but ALL come with lessons and when it’s over we go home again and when we take our flight home they our loved ones in Spirit meet us in the airport holding huge signs saying ‘Welcome home’.

But we can still Skype and Email them. That’s what people like me are. We are the Skype and Gmail. But so can you be if you stop ignoring them.

‘Your perception of Spirit is always going to be much darker than the reality of them’ (me 2016)

We have been investigating Spirits for centuries quite successfully without a lot of this stuff they use nowadays.

Flour, water, sand, coal, bones, etc….Night or day, try it the old way. Quiet, respectfully and cameras at the ready. If you feel something odd, take a picture. Don’t go charging over with machines that light up and beep. The mere fact your going into their space with strange machinery can be intimidating for them.

This is why Most Haunted got so bad. They started introducing all sorts of ridiculous gadgets to communicate like Tesler Coils and Gongs and it’s quite insulting to the process of Spirit communication.

Nowadays it’s all about the latest gadget and the best this and the biggest that. Just cameras, digital recorders and patience would be fine.

That movement out the corner of your eye is them, that sudden urge to be happy or excited is them. That need to have a cry but you don’t know why, is them.

Take note of every emotion in your investigation. And please……please…….oh god please…..use a trusted Intuitive Clairvoyant. Not someone who comes with the title of Clarscentiaudiychic. Test them first.

Make sure they have a proven track record. Not just someone who carries smudge sticks and can ‘sense’ something. My cat can ‘sense’ something and he’s afraid of apples lol make sure they can take control of any situation in an investigation.

They should be able to run faster than the most frightened camera man too lol

Coz lets face it, if your in a room and someone says something in French in your ear when your half asleep your natural instinct is to leg it lol even for the Clairvoyant.

It gives you a bloody fright but this is why most Spirits talk to us in our own voices. It’s only if you build up a relationship that they will come through in their own voices, out loud for all to hear.

But if you take one like me, please choose someone who is relaxed and knows what they are doing. Any one like me worth half their salt wouldn’t tolerate Ouija or Seances. They are the Cocaine and Heroine of the Paranormal World, you just don’t go near them because they become addictive and once they have you all sorts of bad things happen and nothing good ever comes from it. They are not Spirit, never have been and never will be. They aren’t needed in an Investigation. And by Investigation I mean anything you do to try and capture Spirit Communication whether your a Society or a guy in your house.

I’ve gotten amazing stuff just by setting up a camera and leaving the building or going to bed. Just go about your business. If they want to communicate with you as with a reading, they will. They will show themselves to 10 people in a room of 1000 or to one person in a room by themselves. They aren’t performing clowns who jump through hoops just because your there. If they want to, they will.

That goes for loved ones as well. Spirit know what we can and can’t handle. Just when they do, be respectful, acknowledge them and move on. But if you can build up a level of trust with a resident Spirit, you have a level of protection and trust that you just can’t describe. Every time I leave my house I ask mine to protect my home or my family, cat etc…and I’ve gone away accidentally leaving my back door wide open.

I’ve had some quite horrible people be literally scared out of their clothing to leave my house because they were caught doing something by Spirit who made sure they left and never came back lol

And please remember ‘Never EVER ask a Spirit to follow you’. If you move house or leave somewhere even with the nicest most communicative of Spirits you don’t ask the Spirit to come with you or anything of the sort because not only would you be inviting them but unwanted things as well.

If your dealing with a child or lost soul like a murder victim existing in their own suffering the only thing to do is move them to the other side. It’s the only right thing to do. Imagine if you lost a younger loved one and you knew they never left the place they loved even in Spirit, Wouldn’t you want them to move on to peace and love? Plus You have to remember there is negative stuff just waiting for us to screw up so they can jump right in and cause trouble.

So as I say treat them like you would anyone else, Spirit are just us only dead. Don’t let them get away with anything you wouldn’t let a living person get away with but at the same time always respect them and acknowledge them because even the ones who are filled with love and light and want nothing more than to guide you can be as subtle as a sledge-hammer if you’re not listening.


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937 thoughts on “Never Ignore the Signs of Communication (revised)

  1. I’ve been being touched & my pets are being touched as well. I don’t know if it’s sexual but I’m being touched mostly vaginally & anally but all over my body as well & as I said, my female & male Chihuahuas are being touched the same way. With them, I can tell by their behavior…licking, trying to get away from something.
    Before it starts & during, my body temperature rises & I perspire profusely. I become extremely nauseous & exhausted. I also experience extreme fear, almost terrorized & I feel that, that’s what it wants me to feel. As a matter of fact, I’m being touched right at this moment.
    Also, my cat has changed & she’ll do things like suddenly attack my arms, hands or feet. She seems very stressed out & so do my dogs. My other cat refuses to come inside now & yet another cat ran away, which breaks my heart because I love all my pets. I also have two bunnies who are always freaking out & running away from something.

      • I’ve been having a outta body experience.. I truly don’t no what to do, or how to help

      • They’re normal Sweetheart, just relax and let your body mind and soul adjust to what has just happened. It’s a stepping out if physical time and it’s only scary because we are used to only doing it in our sleep. Are you ok? How do you feel?

  2. My best friend past away a year ago she meant everything to me, she helped me through my abusive marriage. When she passed I “lost my self” went n a deep depression almost killed myself! Then I started to her her voice, her singing, she would change my radio station to the one she listened to and every song mafe me cry! One day out of no where tears started pouring from my eyes and I felt like someone was huging me, I knew it was her, it was like she hugged my soul after that day I felt stronger and finally managed to leave my husband! Now I don’t feel her as much but now and then she lets me know she’s still here! Always seems to be when I need her the most!

  3. There are many things I have been wondering about, I’ll start with the most current thing and go back further in the past..

    Yesterday, as I cuddled up in bed between the warm ,comfy sheets I suddenly felt very cold, I was shivering throughout my whole body, I was wondering what (& why it) happened (it has happened quite a few times).. when I had the thought that maybe a spirit was passing through me ,it stopped.. but I still wonder what that spirit was doing for me to feel so cold..
    Then I felt like there was something behind me, it felt like a very gentle hug.
    That was followed by my head, hair and face being softly caressed,
    It is something I’ve enjoyed a lot since childhood and it has a calming effect on me.
    The family members who have ever caressed me in that way are all alive, so I do not know who it could be.

    I’ve very often felt someone run their fingers through my hair or caress me, or a soft breeze (to which sometimes I am very thankful; once I needed it because it felt too warm/hot to breathe and I couldn’t breathe properly, but as I was hoping for the soothing cold, the much needed breeze came and felt very nice. Overall, I seem to need a bit of an colder environment and my room is often the coldest place in the apartment. When it is cold outside and most people freeze, it feels perfect to me, neither warm nor cold, like there is a small fire ball in me; which is something that when imagined warms me up throughout my whole body).

    Once, I was in the woods with my boyfriend and felt fingers combing through my hair, it was quite weird ,since I had never felt it that way before.. my first thought were tree branches but there were none that could have touched me (nor any spider webs), then there was that soft breeze through my hair, yet not a single leaf moved even the slightest..
    I told my boyfriend of what had happened (regretted it afterwards ,didn’t mean to creep him out, more like share it with him out of excitement) and suddenly it became a bit eerie, he was also a bit strange,.. it felt like he shouldn’t have been told a thing.
    While I felt safe and comfortable in that place before ,in that moment I told him, he became strange (like he ignored it, as if I shouldn’t have said a thing about it, as if he pretended that I didn’t say a thing.. just weird.. when he looked at me, it was slightly unsettling; maybe he had scary thoughts and I creeped him out) , there was a slight feeling of being unwelcome, I felt vulnerable and unfamiliar, like we could easily get lost (the familiar feeling was gone). Which I cannot comprehend.. I don’t really see a reason..

    However, I do wonder, is it possible for spirits to settle in trees ?
    That would explain the feeling in that forest, or the feeling of a bond I had once felt with a tree.
    It was a very strong, special bond.
    When I met the tree, it happened right away I felt a strong pull and interest, as well as respect and love. I took my shoes off and climbed it, sat down on a branch and it felt like home. It felt like the tree had a spirit which was like a soul mate to me.
    I caressed the moss that grew on certain parts and branches and the branches themselves, feeling a very faint warmth radiating beneath my hand.
    When it was time to leave, it felt very difficult to part.. I kept on turning my back ,being close to running right back to it, not wanting to leave it.. I couldn’t get it out of my mind.
    I was missing it but I couldn’t stay longer since it’d have become darker ,colder and dangerous for me to stay out there.
    Days passed, it became colder, I felt like it called me but I couldn’t go because it was cold and not safe for me to go alone. Then winter came and the urge to go and see it grew faint.
    I promised to see it in the spring, which I did, but I was with my boyfriend then and it had never been the same.. as if I shouldn’t have brought him along and as if my love and feelings towards him had broken that bond with the tree spirit.

    Another question, that I have is whether certain spirits can be friendly to certain people and unfriendly or cold/distant to others and mostly whether that treatment can be felt right away, by both parties or only one of them ..
    Since, my boyfriends’ house seems to be a tiny bit haunted.
    He had told me once of a night in which he couldn’t fall asleep & saw a shadow/someone tall, felt a presence right beside his bed, which unsettled and scared him.. he also told me how things had disappeared and reappeared in a different room, how his cat had been running for dear life, like being chased, how he saw something pass by but there had been nothing (which happened to me too, I thought it was his cat so I often called her name & looked for her ,but she was nowhere close by, I brushed it off, yet again to call out to her a few hours later).. but that presence and unsettling feeling ,of not being ready to fall asleep yet, since not relaxed and uncomfortable ,is something I felt at his place once and long before that, in a monastery (which was during a school trip and so very. very much worse.. I actually wished for light & had to keep the light on to feel safe).
    I’ve been wondering how I could help him, if it is to happen again..
    How could I make that spirit friendlier towards him, me.. (or what could I have him do to make the spirit welcoming towards him ? Would it be the correct way ,to give out unconditional love and spread warmth/light from within me ?

  4. This really helped me because I’ve felt that something has been trying to contact me for awhile. Maybe it’s the same thing maybe it’s not. Anyways I’ve been too afraid to listen to it because I get flooded with anxiety. Not as strong as it used to be, but definitely an uncomfortable feeling of unknown.

  5. Wonderful advice on how to accept, not fear & communicate with spirit. It has been a very creepy and frightening ordeal for me & i “like you mentioned” have thought it was demonic because of its,aggressive ways of trying to communicate. My spirit/spirits will interfere with me trying to sleep blinds might move ill hear tapping on objects loud ones, i have felt touched i have seen shadows, when i walk they will mess with street lights i have seen synchronistic events for years especially concerning a man i met a few years ago. Theyve turned off tvs in my house with no sleep timer on the tv, occassionally very seldomly i have felt i was sexually touched like the other commenter commented. So normally because im so scared i ignore, but yesterday i decided to say something to it it was making little noises and i asked wht it was doing that. So hopefully it will be positive communication between me and this spirit i just know I dont want to be scared of it anymore.

  6. Hi, i read your article while searching for information that could explain why some things happened (and apparently keep happening) at my parents house, where I grew up in. I found it very interesting because it offers a different approach to the theme. So even if the article was written years ago, I’ll take a shot and see if you will answer anyway. I always had insomnia as a child and later during my teenage years, I got involved with the wrong crowd and was living in angst also because my parents would fight a lot every day. I bet the energy wasn’t properly good… Then, I started to dwell in witchcraft and so it got worse. Some strange things happened in that house… My brother then died and I started to sense more strange phenomena such as my bed shaking at night. But as I was involved with such spiritual levels that I understood nothing about… I cannot say it was my brother trying to communicate. Until today I doubt it could be him
    Because it could be anything else that used my magic and the room as a portal (?). Nowadays I am a born again Christian and everyday I pray for me, my baby and family…mostly I live in a positive attitude and try to get away from anything bad. But see: today my mom told me that when she sleeps in that room, many times at night, the bed shakes. Is there a way to understand who is
    it and is there a way to just make it stop and clean the place ? Thank you so much for the help ! God bless ***

  7. Around 3am today, I went to the bathroom….as I was sat there I had a real strong urge to look to the left of me.
    And there I saw a little girl, no older than 10.
    She didn’t move or do anything. It’s the first time this has happened in the 5 years I’ve lived in this house. I ran to bed, and 5-10 minutes later I could hear her playing with my daughter (aged 1) whom I am assuming she had woken up. I could hear her talking and laughing. And I then fell back to sleep feeling happy in the fact that my daughter was happy.
    I don’t know what to do next? I’ve spent my day pottering around my house and talking to the girl (I have felt a bit “off” whilst upstairs today)
    But have been talking to her and basically saying that I don’t mind her being here, but I can’t handle seeing her right now, it’s very new to me and I’m still a little on edge.
    What should I do? Anything? Nothing? Something?

  8. my hubby died 6 months ago. and he is communicating with me. i am a medium myself so i know what to look for. my doorbell will ring, my lights flicker, I see something move out of the corner of my eye, he leaves me white feathers, a song will come on theradio or tv that meant something to us, ringing in my ears, shivers and i could go on and on. howeever way he can get my attention he will.

      • Can you become a medium or is it something that you’re born with? I’d really like to connect with my dad who took his own life almost 3 years ago

      • You can learn. My senior students just started learning the Medianship stuff. None of them were mediums before joining my class.

  9. I keep feeling a sting like warm feeling near my breast I’m not to sure who it is but I remember in hospital when I was so sick i was given a big hug from a spirit it he must of been protecting me from something and maybe this warm feeling is him again who knows.

    • If it gave you the warm fuzzys then absolutely. I hope your ok? Spirit don’t just randomly hug without good reason. Are you ok?

      • Yes I’m ok I found out he is my arch angel thankyou for your concern though 🙂

      • Arch Angel? You mean Spirit Elder? Again, they don’t come to you for no reason. Unless you were in bed asleep or getting ready to sleep or wake up of course but a random visit from a SE won’t be without reason.

      • Yaaaaay, I’m so glad you said that. The alternative had me worried lol

  10. So I have 2 roommates and a friend that always comes over. We all have had funny things happen to us. We hear keys movement in the kitchen. I get woken up it feels like I’m up but I’m asleep and when I wake up it feels like I was up trying to fight myself because it seems I get stuck I can’t move or yell when I’m trying to and when I finally wake up I’m so scared and can’t go back to bed. It’s has happened to me before but now at this new apartment it’s happening so much and it’s not only at night but threw out the day .. I want to know but at the same time I’m scared could this be something or can it be my nerves

    • Honey your having an OBE. Sleep paralysis is perfectly natural. Your simply waking up before your Spirit is back in your body. Your safe as long as you relax and don’t fight waking up naturally. I’ve done a post about it to explain it. As for hearing keys, without knowing more it could be a time bend or spirit but I don’t know enough to say yet. But the sleep paralysis is natural. It happens to all of us. It helps if you don’t sleep on your back. Your perfectly safe. You just need to relax because the fear of what you think it might be is detracting from the logic of what it actually is which is probably a time bend of someone coming home from work at the same time as your in bed or going about your business. Both exist at the same time, neither of you dead. It’s just a wibbly wobbly timey wimey thing. Pretty cool really lol

  11. Yesterday I was crocheting a baby blanket in front of my computer. I was in a very bad position and my back was hurting like crazy. In that moment I thought “ugh, my back hurts” and the very next moment I felt a hand on my back. It was like a gentle “pat” that run down my back. In that moment I just thought that was strange but I didn’t question it because I was not afraid at all. At first I thought that something had fell from my chair, but there was nothing there and I was completely alone in my room.
    After that “touch” I started paying attention to my posture when I crochet.
    I actually feel like there’s a gentle spirit here that wanted to help me and at the same time make me aknowlege him. After I read this, I immediately thanked him for communicating with me and for helping me, but that I might not be comfortable with him/her touching me. I hope the Spirit understands, but I actually don’t like to be touched at all, even by living creatures. I want to build a good relationship wth this spirit but I’m still not sure it’s a good idea. I haven’t had any problem with my sleep and/or things moving or vanishing like magic, so, this is actually the very fist “Spirit experience” that I had.

  12. I was sitting in my room on my bed doing some paperwork, my fiance was playing his video games an all of a sudden it felt like a warm, large hand pressed against my lower left back above my hip, an no one else was in the room. It felt like someone had put their arm around my waist. It lasted for about a minute or two, once it was gone I put my hand in the same spot an didn’t feel anything, it was cold like the rest of my skin as if it never happened. I can’t seem to get this out of my mind. I’m not really sure what to make of it. Do you happen to have any advice on what it could mean.

    • Would it scare you to be told it was Spirit and you should embrace the experience? Are you needing the comfort right now? What was your mental and emotional state in the run up to this experience?

      • No ma’am it wouldn’t scare me I would love to embrace it, what is the best way to do that?
        I’ve had experiences with spirits for as long as I can remember. When I was younger I was able to sense them an there were alot of times when I could see white lights and/or dark shadows an hear voices when no one was around but it seems the older I got the less I could see or hear them but I could still sense their presents or emotions even to this day I can tell when ones around me or in the same room as me.
        But for some reason this time seemed different I felt the touch but couldn’t sense anything or anyone.
        At the time this experience happened I was really stressed out and wasn’t feeling to well.

      • You need to put it out into the universe that you need a teacher. Tell Spirit your ready to learn. Then start educating yourself, do the card test as I’ve demonstrated in my YouTube video and let the rest unfold as it’s meant to. It will be the best thing you ever do.

  13. I would really love and appreciate the opportunity to speak with you directly. I have had “mysterious” things happen my entire life, but as of recent, something or someone is with out a doubt trying to contact me, and I’m ready but I’m also scared. I don’t know how to feel! I see things out of the corner of my eye all the time. I get this overwehlming feeling of uhmm… I guess I’d explain it as pure joy and love for life. I’ve never felt so calm pr such happiness. I randomly tear up. I’ve been hearing things too but most importlantly, I feel it. When I was younger I was told I was clairvoyant by a spirit, that I of course didn’t believe at the time. And my roommate says she’s been seeing me in dreamworld, so I think I may be projecting without even knowing… does internet work like that? Ive only projected once that I can remember. But I do lucid dream, and I’ve had encounters before asa child. I just feel something very strong, an awakening of some kind, and I need guidance.

    • Hi Elle, sounds like you are ready to find your teacher. You need to ask the Universe to bring them to you so you can find the answers to the questions you’ll need to seek. You can always email me at

  14. couple of days back i saw a dream.. i was in my terrace with my mom and dad they were talking abt some usual things i walk into them and suddenly they saw a paranormal activity above the building they told me not to look there and go to sleep.. i didnt looked there and was trying to sleep on terrace but i thought lets take a little look what is this really look like as i was curious to know abt it…i saw someone was floting above the building.. i took my blanket, wore it, then suddenly i felt that someone was in my blanket my body got heavy, i couldnt move my hand and i saw two hands touching to my stomach and coming towards my chest.. i was trying to scream but my voice was not coming out.. i was shock when i got
    up in the morning this is the 1st tym i had exprience something like thi..

    • To dream of Spirits in the context you dreamt them if you didn’t know them means deception, or deceitful people being revealed. The other experience is classic OBE or out of body experience or sleep paralysis or night terrors. The hands you saw it felt would be your Spirit Elder resorting to scare tactics in order to wake you up quicker as you were in danger of waking up before you were ready to. The quickest way to wake you up is through a fight. Your perfectly safe. Just try not to sleep on your back. Your perfectly safe…….well as long as you are woken up before your Soul is back in your body that is.

  15. well just wanted to ask a question, i just recently moved back to my home town back in Ontario, ive been living in BC, and i havnt had these “being pushed or visited by this figure” for a while now (4 years), but now that im back in ontario its happening again, waking up with cuts on my right arm not deep but notice able, being pushed awake, and this figure that has a hood and when it comes close to my face its like smokey waves, but it knows im not afraid, it whispers like a bunch of people whispering all at once, its hard to make it out sometimes, we had a few encounters, one time i could swear it showed its face under the bed in my dreams it was white, black eyes and a straight face, no expression, when i looked under the bed it was black and then it just came real quick into view, face to face and im not kidding, it was waiting for me to freak out or wake up but i smiled and said im not scared of you, and then i was warped into a different dream, ive had dreams where i fell asleep in a dream to wake up in another, ive done this 6 times all in one dream, to be woke in the dreams to finally into reality, the one dream i had that still burns is, looking up in a room, and no roof just stars and space, when i got out of it i thought i would fall into nothingness, but there was a floor, and these white lines that showed our solar system connected to other systems and old Greek symbols, once i looked up i seen this 7 spiral galaxy, in perfect sync it was huge but to me it was just in a perfect view to see it all, and then suddenly i was at one side of it and blasted to the other side of it, then i was awoken by my friend. i wish i could finish that dream but maybe its just my thought of wonder of things that manifested it self into these dreams? or could it mean something?

  16. Hello, I would love your feedback! I am 28 and about 10 years ago I had quite a lot experiences at my moms house, things moving, voices I even ended up seeing a spirit one time during that. The odd thing is it lasted for about two years but started at the end of August and went through till about November than everything stopped. The following year it started around the same time and got so bad I begged for it to leave me alone. It was very scary and it didn’t seem pleasant. However, I had one positive experience in the hospital when my daughter was born (9 1/2 years ago) and nothing since till now. Starting again, a little later than August this time on September 25th. I woke up to use the restroom and heard a women’s voice Say a name but I couldn’t make it out. Then, this past Sunday I thought I heard my daughter in her room talking (when she was at her dads for the weekend) and all I could make out was a sentence and at the end of it I heard “mom and dad” I got up and looked all around upstairs thinking my daughter was there And nobody was there. I don’t feel like this is as scary as it was years ago but it still creeps me out!


    • It sounds like your dealing with either stone tape theory or a time bend. Which basically means it’s not a dead Person but an impression of a living person caught in time and is playing back like a record or its where a living person from another time is living at the exact same time as you and your time and their time exist together. It’s not interactive so your not actually dealing with Spirit but a rip in time. How cool is that?

      • Even the stuff that happened years ago or just what’s going on now? Is there anything I can do? I’ve only been able to meditate once and when I did it I was so overwhelmed that I had a huge rush of emotional and happiness I couldn’t stop crying. Really strange and I still can’t explain it. Haven’t been able to since.

      • Meditation is only for people who can’t transcend into the Universe naturally and yes even back then too. It sounds like you just need a teacher my sweet. Seek and you shall find, ask and you shall receive 🙂

  17. While I was cutting veggies I heard a beep sound in my ear as if I m hearing another frequency and I felt something entering my ear then a voice screaming aaaaaaa and suddenly something leaving from my other ear. It felt something passed in between my ears and was trying to say something bt all I could hear was aaaaaaa…It didn’t made me scared bt a little startled wat it could be …Or m I going mad?

    • The beep would of been pineal gland activation. The Aaaaaaa would be the Spirit equivalent of “testing testing 1 2 3″…lol I’d say the dead are tuning you in my Sweet just go with it and see where it takes you .

      • Maybe the dead is trying to speak bt how do I know wat and whether it is good or bad spirit?
        Thanks for answering 😊

      • Because bad spirits only come if you create them or invite them in. They don’t mill about waiting for an innocent victim. Trouble comes when you invite it or create it.

      • Can I get your name please? Yes that’s true bt could it be a bad spirit sent by someone or a maybe a guide spirit? Watever it is I still didn’t get the message wat it wanted to convey. Also, are u sure it was a spirit trying to contact ? Many thanks for being so helpful.

      • Debbie, honey, 1000 bad Spirits could be sent by 2000 people, but none of it matters if you don’t let it in. There is a fundamental rule in the universe all life must adhere to. And even the darkness has to live by those rules. The rules for them are “no innocent” ie kids and never go where your not invited. Unless your doing things you shouldn’t and being a fair balanced person the dark side can’t come anywhere near you. I know a lot about this. Trust me. If the dark side want you and get in you couldn’t function. They would drain you of EVERYTHING.

  18. My daughter seems to be sensitive to spirits. She has one that I have noticed around her since she was born. She has always noticed this energy. Most of the time this spirit is quiet. Every now and then she gets creeped out. She will hear voices or cold touches or the feeling someone is watching her. I have spoke with “him” and told “him” to leave my daughter alone. I have told her to tell “him” then same thing. Always respectful. Lately though it’s been a bit more intense. The power fuse for only her bedroom went off and she is hearing more & feeling more. When I feel this feeling I usually say hello or not to bother me. But I am an adult and she is a teen. How should I advise her and “him”?

  19. My cat got out of my car and though I put tuna out for her the thorny bush she went beneath made it impossible for me to reach her. She was freaked out so I stepped away to let her come out but fell asleep to wake up to this guy outside on my window asking me if I had heard all the commotion of fighting. I hadn’t and a bit later I heard a LOUD horrible moan/meow unlike I had ever heard. I assumed she ran across the street but that guy told me the raccoons we’re going after the cats. after that I never saw or heard from my baby though I was calling out and casing the area.

    I don’t know if she is alive or passed but it pains me. Last night after reading the entries I was awaken by scratching sound. I don’t know if it was a random spirit, another cat from my past or her.

    What are you able to tap into with your readings?

  20. Hey,

    I just went through a terrible tragedy which result in losing my two years old sister. It has been almost three months, however I had a dream a week ago. I vividly remember seeing her in a bright light with beautiful curls of hers and she looked at me as I run up to her to hug her so tight. I cried in my sleep saying I will never let you go. Then my dad woke me up. That was it. It felt so warm to the core and I couldn’t shake that warm feeling. Also, when she died I could immediately see her every where but lately she has faded. Does that mean I’m ignoring her or she has went to the light? Or she’s ok?

    • Oh honey I’m so very very sorry for your loss. Just remember, the wisest Souls choose the shortest or hardest journey. Your sister was letting you know she is alive and well and just a different vibration of light now from the one she was before but that she’s safe and well and still connected to you loving you no matter what. How beautiful is that? Your experience was living proof that life does indeed go on after death. I guarantee you that you’ll have many more visits from her and that you’ll remember that first experience forever. I’m so sorry for your loss. Please pass my love on to your parents. Xoxo

      • Thank you so much for saying this, I find it comforting! I will pass the message to my parents. I forgot to mention that when I closed my eyes and be calm, I would be able to see her vividly with her dress on. She seems to be waiting for me to pick her up and bring her to the white tall door. She opened it for me before but I couldn’t go in. I tried but all I could do is watch her go in by herself into beam of light. Is this way of grieving or could be something else? Everyday I would see at least one butterfly too I’m trying to figure out everything at once.

      • No baby she showed you she crossed over into the light. She showed you she’s gone to a good place. Heaven or afterlife, whatever you want to call it. That’s where she is
        She’s not trapped, alone, afraid or anything. She’s on the other side happy as a lamb. She was showing you this so you wouldn’t worry. How beautiful is that? Your very lucky to of had this experience. If only we all had them like that. Our grief would be less painful to handle otherwise.

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