Coming from a looooooong line of people with gifts there are things that really bother me about what people think when it comes to Spirit. As a Person Of The Light I take my faith in Spirit and the Light very seriously and I know it bothers them too because I’m the one getting yelled at when they see something happening on the TV that is inaccurate or plain untrue. Hence why my husband has banned me from watching certain shows. So here is a list of some of the things that aren’t true that if your told by a Psychic are true, you know they aren’t expert in all things Spirit and Paranormal based (and if you take money for your gift then you are classed as an expert). You MUST be honest in this field. And I’m not going to start lying to please people who believe otherwise. Education is the key to understanding Spirit.
Okay so Myth
1) SPIRIT DON’T HAUNT CEMETERIES:
They don’t wander grave yards waiting for someone to pass by. They simply appear when they know someone who can see or feel them is there. Most commonly it is Spirits who have been moved from their family or their headstone have been moved that will stay around the longest. It can be the reason why they don’t cross over. But once you assure them they are better off on the other side they seem happy to go join their family. It seems to be graves and headstones of people died before about 1950 that hold on to the headstone and grave issues. I personally feel it is because they fear being forgotten. But either way, it isn’t hard to pass them on. I do believe all Spirits who don’t come and go of their own accord should be passed on.
Myth 2) THEY DON’T EAT OR DRINK ON THE OTHER SIDE:
I’ve seen way too many readings being done on TV and in person where the Psychic or Medium, Intuitive clairvoyant will say ‘Oh he still drinks his beer on the other side’ or ‘She still knits’………………………? Really? highly evolved Spiritual beings who are so far beyond needing a physical body still drink Lion Red? ( a New Zealand Beer). Not true at all. It is purely symbolic. They might come through holding knitting needles as a way to identify themselves to the person being read. My father was a die-hard Soldier for the New Zealand Army, so he always comes through to my sons as a soldier. That’s how I know it’s him. Well that and my son says he has a round face and no hair in his head too lol
Myth 3) JUST BECAUSE THEY COME THROUGH IN A SCARY OR GROWLING VOICE DOESN’T MEAN THEY ARE EVIL OR BAD:
You have to understand how hard it is for a Spirit to be able to communicate in the first place. If they simply want to appear as an Orb of light they have to absorb so much around them, including the energy of the people in the room at the time. Can you imagine how much energy it takes to come through vocally?
Manifestations are maybe 5% of Spiritual contact. They are extremely rare and that is full body, 3D manifestations. To get a voice that matches the same vibration as the recorder or your ear is more so than a manifestation and a talking manifestation is the rarest of the lot. But if this Spirit has been dead and come back in vocal form for the first time since death, do you think the first few times they come through they are going to sound all normal and clear of throat?
We perceive it to me evil or bad but it isn’t. It could be nothing more than them clearing their throat. Most people don’t stick around long enough for them to finally come through clearly. You have to use logic and common sense.
Don’t just take a place to be a bad place just because you heard it is. Make your own judgements based on how YOU react to it and give the Spirits a chance to come through without being given a 30 minute window.
They might have a lot to say. We only see a 1 hour window of investigation on what will be a full night investigation on shows like Ghost Hunters etc….but they are basically coming into Spirits space and saying ‘Right……….talk’, but you know they’ve only got half an hour because they have to move on to the next place.
Myth 4) THEY DON’T JUST HAUNT AT NIGHT:
I’ve mentioned this before. They don’t just haunt at night, you can do day time investigations and often come up with more activity because we are busier and more stuff happens in our lives during the day so you can pick up on a lot of daily activity if you do a day time investigation it is just that night-time investigations are easier to control. It is quieter at night and your more able to control contact from the real world, ie phones ringing, unexpected visitors etc…if you can make sure your free from outside distractions like in former prisons, schools, hospitals, sanitariums etc…your more likely to get more stuff happen because those sort of places were hustling bustling places in the day time. Some of the most genuine stuff to happen on Most Haunted happened during the day when they weren’t expecting it (or making it happen lol). But it makes more sense to try to do day time investigations because of the fact it is our busiest time. At night prisons had lock down and hospitals patients were sedated at night etc….so while you will get some activity, you will get more in the day time. Give it a try.
Myth 5) NOT ALL CHILD SPIRITS ARE GOOD SPIRITS:
One of the biggest misconceptions I’ve seen during some investigations is when it comes to child Spirits. Don’t be fooled into thinking ALL child spirits are poor souls ripped away from life in the prime of their youth. One of the most commonly used forms of communication by a Dark and Negative Spirit is through pretending to be a child. When it comes to a Child Spirit nothing about them should feel sinister or uncomfortable. Unless they were sinister in life but they lucky are few and far between and they get sent to the last rung of the ladder too. But genuine Child Spirits usually crave contact and want to play and also hold hands, hold your jacket, you’ll hear them laughing and running about, singing and playing with objects. They are pure beings and nothing about them will be suspicious. You will often get emotional because no one likes to think a child has died. So our natural instinct is to nurture them and play, stay with them and let them know we are there. Some, will even invite the child Spirit to follow them WHICH YOU NEVER DO EVER!!!! WITH ANY SPIRIT. I learn that the hard way when I was 7 years old. My big sister had to teach me to send it over. I felt so bad, She was really angry but realized I was still learning. But The worst Spirits are the ones that will come across on a recording as a child, they sound exactly like grown ups pretending to sound like child. It’s very dark. It gives you the heebee jeebees. But I have seen waaaaaay too many people talk to them and interact as though they are children and then they will get scratched or locked in rooms etc….there is only one way to deal with them and that is ‘In the name of the white light, be gone’ You just keep insisting they go away and make way for the genuine Spirits.
You can’t allow yourself to be tricked. You’ll know by how you feel if they are genuine. real children have a light about them, their energy is pure and they are playful. The pretenders usually try to get one investigator on their own, try to separate the team or group to attach themselves to the one most open to being attached to. They are out to cause trouble. So before any investigation you must protect yourself and even after one and make sure your mind is open but your energy isn’t. Make it clear before you start that your protected by your ancestors and will not allowed anything negative to enter into you or any member of the group.
Myth 6) SPIRIT HAVE NO INTEREST IN SEX OR SEXUAL CONTACT:
I do find these claims to be the most intriguing and in the case of the woman they made into the movie The Entity I think even they concluded it wasn’t a Spirit who sexually abused that lady but rather it was a collecting of energy coming from elsewhere. Most probably from a living person, more likely male.
But so much can happen when energies collide. You can’t even begin to imagine how powerful our minds are. We are very powerful human beings who unlock parts of our brain without even knowing it. But just because you feel someone touch you in bed when you know your alone doesn’t mean it is a Spirit wanting to have sex with you.
It could be an imprinted image playing back while you happen to be in bed. It could be a trick of the mind. Our pores on our skin can give false feelings of being touched or even being bitten too.
But Spirit, our loved ones who die (and then come to visit every now and then), have zero interest in seeing us naked and it is mostly crossed connections if we see a Spirit in the bathroom while we are taking a shower. I once had an experience of a Spirit in my house who used to love to play tricks on me when I was in the shower but never once did I feel like they were being pervy (creepy in a sexual way).
It was actually quite funny because it was at a very stressful time in my life and they were trying to get my attention but they would do things that made me laugh like put buckets on toilet seats when I’m the only one home but in the shower etc…that isn’t to say there aren’t times when a person hasn’t been in the bath or having sex when they feel or see Spirit out the corner of their eye but what I am saying is, to Spirit it isn’t sexual. They aren’t there BECAUSE your having sex or naked.
But they just happen to be passing through while your naked or having sex. But they get stigmas attached to them and it’s just wrong. As I keep reminding you all Spirit are us only dead. That’s someones Dad or brother or son your calling a perv. They were once grieved over and now because they were in the wrong place at the wrong time as a Spirit they get called a pervy Spirit or worse Negative.
A Spirit who comes and goes as it pleases and offers guidance and support has absolutely no interest in sex or sexual activity. And it upsets me that sex is even brought into something as serious as the Paranormal. Lets not forget as well, we can very easily manipulate the energy around us and not even know it. It may be us who are making the energy react in such a way.
Myth 7) JUST BECAUSE A PERSON WAS BAD IN LIFE DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE IN DEATH:
This is probably going to be the most controversial thing I ever say but I have to be honest. Remember I have described our passing as being ‘Judged, healed and sent to our next mission so to speak’ and depending on how we lived our lives depends on how far down the ladder we go? I know from first hand experience of people who have actually died and said this, ‘Hell’ (or the Spiritual perception of it) is not being allowed into the Light until we have learned our lessons.
We will be made to relive 1000 times over the hell we caused people on earth. Then we make amends with the big guy and we get sent back down to learn all over again, hopefully making amends to the world we hurt before. But just because you were something bad and hate filled in this life doesn’t mean your going to be a haunting, evil, nasty Spirit in the next.
Most bad people hang around because they fear what is going to happen to them but The Almighty turns no one away, he just makes sure his Door Staff don’t let any old riff raff in without the proper checks so to speak. If you’re wearing the wrong energy your sent away until you are wearing the right energy. But you can’t assume that Ted Bundy isn’t now some sweet little girl who has a loving family who will grow up to be a spectacular woman. It’s controversial but true. It’s all based on the lessons you learn on the other side and what each energy did to earn their steps up the ladder.
Our perceptions of what happens after we die is so far from the truth. Only we could assume if they were evil, they are evil for eternity. But that is what the indoctrination of religion is I guess.
I have had and heard of hundreds of cases of where someone who was horrible, I mean just horrible to the point they traumatized their entire family (and also soldiers most recently for me too,) when they were alive and were brutal and savage and nasty and they come through humbled and can’t apologize enough for the way they were.
In the grand scheme of things we are a learning creature and everything we are as humans and as Spiritual beings involves us constantly learning. So everything on this planet, good or bad, is here or has been here to teach us something. I truly believe we will get to such a point where as beings we will learn all there is to learn and we will become such a higher Spiritually evolved being death won’t exist, neither will illness and we will be able to wander the universe just like our loved ones who have died. But this is a long way off from where we are, if we are still ready to believe the Boston Bombings were done by two Chechen Brothers.
But Spirit have infinite patience and they know our purpose before we live this life and after we live this life and there hasn’t been one thing in history that has happened that hasn’t taught us something as a whole. Good or bad. So don’t assume that a man who beat his wife and kids and killed his daughter in life, will be hanging around to do the same in death. He would have been sent to ‘purgatory for a bit to suffer his fate until he was allowed to start working his way back up the ladder. They usually come down as a victim of abuse, or help people who are abused, but people like this don’t get a choice about whether they come back or not and I do know of a couple of cases where even though the horrible deeds happened decades ago, they are STILL in purgatory or hell or whatever you want to call it. Your not given an easy time of it like a lovely Mum who has died of Cancer or a teenager who died in a horrible accident. But no one gets turned away. It’s why I am trying to hardest to make sure I get it right this time because I just can’t be arsed having to do it all again. It’s been too hard this time round lol In saying that, I’m going to stick around as long as I can lol I will be hounding my kids long into their adult years yet so I’m getting my share of life and then hopefully this is be my last life lol
Myth 8) BAD THINGS BEING SAID ON VOICE RECORDERS AREN’T ALWAYS BAD THINGS BEING SAID:
We all know ow easy it is to misinterpret something being said on tape but like Ouija Boards and Seances please bear in mind if something threatening is coming across the recording directed to someone in the group, it could be because you’re wanting something to come through so you manifest it. If you have been able to use telepathy and telekinesis you will understand what I mean when I say it is easy to manipulate such things. The power of the mind is a virtually unexplored science. But if you are like me and my family it is a part of life and if I can tell my ex husband to make me a cup of tea using nothing but my mind, I can easily make a Spirit say something to peak your interest during an investigation. It can also be something being said in a past conversation, a trick or just a naughty Spirit trying to have a bit of fun.
But again, you’ll know if you have something to worry about based on your honest reaction. Dark and evil comes with sulfur smells and pain and fear like your going to die, you simply couldn’t stick around and could also be in danger of bringing it home with you. But considering dark and evil is based around our manifestation and our OWN perception of what we fear the most, you only have yourself to fear but YOUR worst fears. Your basically being frightened by the darkest side of yourself. None of these energies including Spirit, have an ownership on you.
So if you want something gone that is hurting your energy and your Spirit either in life or in an investigation you have to treat any negative energy the same way you would treat a real living person who was trying to hurt or upset you. You tell them to go away. You demand they leave and ask for protection from the white light or your ancestors. Anything dark and negative is only as strong as your fear allows them to be. SO get angry, when your angry you’re not afraid. It shuts your energy down and you demand they leave you alone, send them to the light if you have to. You let them know ‘You have no power over me’. When you claim your space back they lose power over you and move on. But it is best to ask Spirit to send them to the light because you never know, next time they might attach themselves to someone less able to handle it. But that isn’t to say all recordings are mistaken.
I have had some doozies in my time and that I have seen on investigations and TV. But the best way to tell, if a Spirit is actually communicating with you or if it is a recording of an imprinted stone theory type thing is to ask irrelevant questions. If it is genuine, it will answer you. But ask questions no one in the group could know. What is the name of my dog I had when I was a child etc…if you don’t get a reply, chances are it’s an imprint or misinterpreted. But when it is genuine and they really do want to make contact with you, they will know everything about you more than anyone so don’t be afraid to ask it stuff like ‘What am I allergic to?’ or ‘What did I have for breakfast’ It is a very emotional process when you’re talking to someone who knows you so intimately but they have been dead for years.
Myth 9) WE ARE ALL BORN WITH THIS GIFT:
But it doesn’t mean we should ALL use it. We all know of someone whether it be on TV or in real life who has claimed to be psychic. They are all over the top and dramatic often pretending to even be taken over by a Spirit. They used to flounce around in robes and head bands with pencil thin eye brows in my day but now they dress slightly Gothic with trench coats and some sort of ethnic necklace, or they try to come across as ‘just like you’ with their £500 shoes on. We only see the edited version, not the bits where they get it wrong or they cold read. You know the sort. The ‘Is there someone in your family whose name starts with a G’ ‘No but there is a C’? ‘Oh yes C or G I knew it ended in E’, or they tell a lady who is clearly in her 70’s ‘Your Mother has passed over hasn’t she? or ‘You have a mother figure in Spirit’.
It’s so easy to do and make a good living from it. I used to be not envious but slightly longing to have the sort of work and love Sally Morgan has, she takes care of her family, she’s so good’ People paying their hard-earned money to hear what she had to say. And even though I don’t do mediumship, she read for people like Princess Diana, I wished to have her leave of success and love. My husband used to say ‘Babe your better than that, she’s fake and you wouldn’t rip people off’ but he’s my husband, he’s supposed to say that right? Then slowly things started appearing on the internet about how people were at her shows and happened to be in the nose bleeding seats and overheard men talking through headphones, which seconds later Sally would then repeat. When they and a few other people in the audience noticed this voice, and an open widow and started discussing it among themselves, a stage manager happened by and saw the window was open and ran back to the back to where the men were with the headphones and slowly shut the window.
People were complaining on the radio and on websites. Then a friend of mine went to her show and said most of the people in the audience walked out mid show because she was so bad. So there is hope for me yet lol Or the people who claim to be psychic because they use Tarot cards lol Give me a break.
That’s like thinking you’re the next Da Vinci because you once drew a stick figure on a note pad. Just because you have an interest in the Paranormal, just because the idea of predicting the future and seeing Spirits doesn’t mean you should work in the Paranormal field. It takes a special type of person to be able to do what I do.
You need to have a strong work ethic, you need to have a strong stomach, patience, you need to understand any situation a client can go through so you can empathize, you need to often give up doing something because your being called to help someone by Spirit, you can’t go anywhere without it coming with you, you have to get rid of any concept of religion or faith, your world as you know it will turn upside down, it can happen at the worst possible time, you need to be a leader so you can take control of any situation if needs be ie: someone messing up big time while using a Ouija Board, You have to put up with being hounded, abused, insulted, assaulted, stalked and interrupted and worshipped just for being born this way.
People will want to hurt you or kidnap you to be their own live in Intuitive clairvoyant. It can lose you friends or potential friends and it can keep you up for days on end. You can often be told by Spirit ‘Don’t charge that person’ even though you yourself are on your last £10, it terrifies you as a child until you learn not to be, it takes your entire life to understand and master.
You can’t be selfish, you must put your client and Spirit first, you will often know things you don’t want to, you can’t have any sort of prejudice or bigotry, you have to spend a lot of time educating yourself, and it can freak people out.
It’s not the sexy life style TV makes it to be. I’ve worked from 6am-2am non stop for weeks on end not having a holiday, never seeing my family because I get so busy.
But I love my job more than any job there is in the entire of the world. Oh the stories and lives I have been a part of. If I wrote a book people would think it was a work of Fiction lol
Luckily now I work in my own time because I have my kids and I want to spend time with them while they are little before I go back to work full-time. But in saying that I’m still doing internet based readings and cleansings etc…..6-8 times a week.
And I work hard, I work bloody hard. Spirit are as much a part of me as my own children. And if I need to sound mean and brutally honest I would say not everyone deserves or has the right to be a White Lighter. I think most of us are too caught up on wanting, having and getting, and gadgets and wouldn’t stay in all weekend to help someone you don’t know from a bar of soap because Spirit told you to.
We all have the ability, we are all born with it but there is a reason why most of us grow out of it. In the wrong hands you could do a lot of damage not just to themselves but innocent people. My only saving grace is I also know if you misuse or mistreat your gift it is all taken away from you in an instant and I honestly don’t know how I could live without Spirit. It’s all I know to be. They have been in my life my entire life so I wouldn’t dare to anything to risk losing my gift. But it must be hard for someone to have it all as a world-renowned Psychic and then take it for granted and lose everything. Sylvia Brown, Sally Morgan…..and there are only way too many people out there happy to wait for you to stuff up and tear you down. Some things are just best left to the professionals lol
MYTH 10) THREE SCRATCH MARKS DOWN THE BACK OR ON THE BODY IS NOT THE MOCKING OF THE HOLY TRINITY:
As I have explained before, Spirit can’t physically touch you. They can only make you think your being touched. So assuming they wanted to hurt you (and you have to understand, Spirit need energy to come through, when they build up energy it all has to go somewhere and so you can get marks, get bumped, glass breaks, cups move etc…) and if your going to touch someone your going to do it the way any one would do it. If you tried to scratch someone, because your three middle fingers, your ring, pointer and index finger are longer than your thumb and little finger. The little finger and thumb won’t touch the skin unless you flatten your hand. So it’s not because it was a mockery of the Holy Trinity, it’s because it’s the only three fingers to touch the skin. Do it now.
Make out like your going to scratch the screen to your pc or laptop. It’s your three fingers that touch the screen, three, not five. And this is why you need to use a bit of science, common sense, logic and reason along with any gifts you have, when investigating and understanding Spirit and the Paranormal.
Just some things to think about. Your not expected to agree with what I have said. But educating yourself to alternative points of view is always a good thing. I know what I know because of decades of paying attention and learning, educating and experimenting, plus my faith indestructible so I believe what my Spirits tell me. I can be hard to take sometimes though because a lot of people are not ready to hear the truth about a lot of things. The Paranormal has only started being accepted in the last few years, it was something you never saw in multiple forms on TV or in the media before the late 1990 early 00s. Shows like Most Haunted have a lot to thanked and blamed for. It introduced the world to Spirit but at the same time taught people some very bad habits. Which is why I like Ghost Adventures. Three guys and some cameras. I don’t like it when they get ‘celebrities or guests’ on the show though, it detracts from the importance of an investigation.