Most people, when they think of Spirits think of Ghostbusters, Most Haunted, Ghost Whisperer
or Medium. All popular and all completely inaccurate. What drives me mad is how people
assume all Spirits are Ghosts and all Bad.
The truth is most Spirits are here of their own free will and half of them don’t even know we
exist. And we forget they used to live, love, eat, sleep, cry like us. We……will one day be dead.
Death is not final. Spirit are just us……only dead.
In order to explain myself I will categorize them with an explanation so it makes it easier to
Often referred to in the biz as the Stone Tape theory this is when a person’s emotions are
recorded in the very fabric of the building or surroundings. Always made of natural materials
like stone, concrete, rock, wood, pottery, water, dirt etc.
Most commonly an Imprinted Image of person is captured at the most joyous or saddest time of
that person’s life. And usually before that person’s own life ends. A time of suffering, anguish,
pain, joy, celebration. Any sort of pure and raw emotion.
It is the Grey Lady who is seen sitting at the window desperate for news that her husband is
returning from war. Her cries, her pacing of the floor can be heard on a regular basis. She doesn’t
know your there. She is locked eternally in your own anguish. She is no more than a recording in
the ether like a photograph, a snap shot in time.
It is the sound of laughter and music in a hall. When upon opening the door, it ceases. It’s a party
of a great celebration.
One thing I am starting to look in to is the theory I am starting to have is that Imprinted images
are in fact us seeing stepping in time to their past. Seeing someone as they were living their life
as though we were standing there with them as they did it in their time.
Since my Time Travel incidences, I’m starting to see things a lot clearer from Spirits point of
view and because I am being taken to their time as though I was living it with them I’m starting
to wonder if some Spirit encounters are in fact us going back in time to see them living as though
we were there with them in that time.
I have some reservations about this research I am conducting because of the fact the stone tape
theory suggests it is just one moment in time on repeat. However, there are documented cases of
people seeing this image beyond a repeat.
So, it’s not just always the grey lady standing at the window, some people will see her then walk
through a door. Or even turn to look at them confused.
There are plenty of reported incidences of so called Imprinted Images turning to respond to the
person in this time as if they were seeing a Ghost themselves as well.
So, in theory the Spirit isn’t the Spirit, in essence you are. They are seeing in the future and
I’m reading of a few cases where so called Spirits have responded to the living in a way that
would suggest to me it isn’t a case of us stumbling upon them roaming the rooms like a Ghost in
limbo but actually US going back in time to their life and them seeing us as the Ghost or
For that reason, I might soon be adding a 4th category to this post soon if my findings suggest
sometimes Spirits are the living and we are the one being projected in time to the past to see
them in their life and where they see us as the thing to fear.
I’m close to figuring out all this Death, Spirit and time being imperative to Paranormal Haunting
and Time Travel, Death and communication. It’s all so important and my time trips are
unlocking so much.
So be prepared for me to be altering this post soon because I’m close to an answer.
is a Spirit who has died, who more often than not know they have died (but some don’t know)
and choose to stay around. They may have loved the house or building so much they couldn’t
They may have stayed to try to stay connected to the people in it, or to protect the place. It could
be love or regret that keeps them there but they should really be moved on. These are the ones
most commonly called Ghosts. I hate that term. Any Spirit, Ghost or free roaming is a higher
evolved Spiritual being and they deserve the respect. Ghost is so cheap and tawdry. It conjures
up images of women with scarves on their heads holding crystal balls saying things like ‘Yes he
is here, he’s saying G, like G, grass, gold, good? golf? He haunts you coz he wants his G…..?
A Resident Spirit will be the ones you hear coming up the stairs, and sitting on your bed, or
tucking you in, or cooking, singing etc. They go about their business. For the ones that know
they have passed on, they know your there and just go about their business and try to get
involved with the living when they feel the need or want. But they generally are too busy going
about their business and sometimes the two worlds collide. Some people will report feeling
someone hopping into bed with them.
It’s nothing personal. It may just be where they also had their bed. For those that don’t know
they have passed and have stayed on, they don’t know your there and more often than not the
two worlds collide a lot. Again, this is where I am questioning whether this isn’t more a case of
us being in their time more than them being in ours.
But neither mean any harm. In the rare occasion, you might have a bit of a naughty Spirit and
they are trying to cause bother so you will leave all you need to do is stand your ground and say
to them ‘Oi!!!!! this is my house now, bugger off if you can’t live with me, your dead’
I say this is jest but the truth of the matter is, they always deserve your respect unless they are
They know what you can and can’t handle and the naughty ones will try to push you so you must
stand your ground. I tell people you treat them like you’re scolding a small child. Firm but fear
and with love. Always with Love. By naughty I mean the ones who might try to frighten you for
fun or move stuff to annoy you. It doesn’t happen often like manifestations they are rare but they
do happen. You know when they are being naughty or genuinely trying to get your attention.
They give off different energy.
They can come and go as they please, know they have passed over and communicate with those
they know they can. Most people don’t know they can though which leads to interesting
encounters lol Spirit will always communicate in ways they know the person can handle it. But
most people put that movement out the corner of their eye or cold breeze in a warm room or
touch or sound they hear that is out-of- place down to their imagination or down to being tired
etc. But in actual fact, it is Spirit. It always is and will be. If you don’t listen that’s when they
move stuff, turn things on, call your name, spook the cat for fun. But they are just trying to get
your attention. All people need to do is say ‘Okay I hear you now leave me alone’ and it stops.
Or then they move on to telling you stuff or appearing in dreams to get messages across (hence
why your here lol)
Free Roaming Spirits also are the ones who died in tragic ways who can’t move on till they get
help. They need to be moved on also. You hear a lot about these poor men who died in wars who
will roam the fields looking for help, or will come into your home trying to get your attention.
They all just need to be moved on. It’s not nice to have them linger in eternal suffering like that.
Imagine that was someone you loved being treated like they were harmful and scary. Spirit
deserve our absolute respect people.
They are so much more than something to shine a light on and take a photo of.
Some Spirits will stick around just so they can let someone who can hear them know they didn’t
kill themselves, they were murdered. Once they have made that contact they feel free and can
move on. Most of the Free Roaming Spirits will divide their time (I use that term loosely)
between this world and the next.
I call them Spirit, even if they are my parents, sibling or lost children. They are all, of a higher
standing than me, as they are beings of pure light and energy. They are free of earthly restraints
of emotion and frailties, so I give them the respect they deserve and call them Spirit. They guide me in every aspect of mine and my husband’s life. I live by them and love by them. I trust them
above all others and without them my life would be a disaster.
It is my faith in Spirit guiding me that has helped me through some of the most traumatic times
of my life. I will defend them to anyone and have. Through them I live by a very strict code. In
return, they take care of me and my family.
I am what is called a White Lighter. I started out as a Pathwalker. A Pathwalker is someone who
spends their life learning, teaching and living by your guidance from Spirit. It is personal and
time-consuming work but it gives you rewards not of this earth.
A White lighter is someone who lives their life based on what Spirit tells them to do. Your sent
to help those that need it and you do it without question. You take the knocks thrown at you and
get back up with a smile because you know that there is a lesson to be learned to make you a
better person and they never give you a lesson without a reward. All sacrifices come with
If they ask something of you and you do it then your rewards are great. I make it sound like it’s
all about the rewards but the rewards aren’t always material or financial. They never ask
anything of you, you can’t give. They never expect you to do anything you can’t handle. The
strength and control you end up in your life is priceless. You see the world differently.
The Rose-Tinted Glasses come off and suddenly everything and everyone is clear to you. You
just ‘Know’ that person can be trusted even though they look dodgy. You just ‘Know’ that if
your asked by Spirit to give that man your last £3 Spirit will give you 20 back. You walk on a
Leap of Faith every day.
Everyday your walking blind. Not knowing how your day will end. But it can be so exciting and
fulfilling. The life of a White lighter is hard and sometimes thankless. So much is expected of
you but you don’t even question it. I have been blessed with so many gifts. I can’t not use them
to help people. I live to serve Spirit and in return they take care of me.
There is more to having a gift than just being able to see the dead. There are so many aspects to
it. Clairaudient (hearing Spirit) Clairsentient (smell) telekinetic (moving or manipulating objects
with your mind) Telepathic (Communicating with your mind) but really it all means the same
thing. If you can feel Spirit, you will see them, and can communicate with them if you call
yourself Psychic or Clair/whatever or Medium.
It’s all the same thing really. It’s just different names for the same science basically.
My husband and my oldest son are Telepathic and we often talk to each other when apart and
without our voices. Our oldest child has often finished our sentences of the conversations we are
having in our heads. Natural Telepathy is the gift of being able to communicate with nature and
animals. It is my favourite gift.
Like Dr Doolittle, but for trees and plants as well as animals. The clouds will often tell me when
there is about to be a natural disaster or conflict. Psychometry is using pendulums or tools of
divining to read the energy of natural objects. For example. Most people don’t realize we
shouldn’t just be buying crystals and picking up stones and shells off the beach because we are
‘in to them’ or think they are pretty. Everything on this planet works on its own vibration and not
all vibrations go together.
It can be the difference between playing a beautiful G cord on the guitar and scraping your
fingernails down a blackboard if you have anything around you that is negative to your vibration.
Before you bring anything like a crystal, rock, stone, shell, wood or anything made of all 100%
natural materials as it was created you MUST!!! have it checked to see if it matches your
vibration I promise you. If your walking around with a shell necklace around your neck and
crystals on your window sill and a bit of drift wood adorning your fire-place and you haven’t
checked it and it turns out to be an opposite energy, it can make a huge difference to how your
life is going. If your always feeling tired and drained and nothing seems to be going right and
you just can’t seem to catch a break in life, check your house for crystals and rocks etc.
We’ve all done it. We have all walked along the beach and seen a gorgeous shell we have to take
home. It could be turning all your energy of your home off kilter. You need to free that energy. If
you imagine your life as a series of cogs and someone puts a stick in one of the cogs and it stops
all the cogs from turning properly. Some stop all together, some rattle, some skip back and forth,
back and forth stuck wanting to be free.
This is what your life can be like when you have opposing vibrations in your energy field. You
need to use Psychometry to fix it. I use a pendulum made from glass but in truth you can use a
ring on a strand of your hair or cotton. As long, as it is natural and long enough to swing. Hold
the pendulum out and ask it which way it wants to swing for yes and for no. It will tell you which
way it prefers to swing.
You then place the pendulum over the object and ask; ‘Is this ‘name the object’ positive for me?
It will swing yes or not. It could be up and down for yes and side to side for no. Or in circles for
no and on a diagonal for yes. But it will decide when you ask it. And it will tell you when you
use it. If it swings Yes, you’re okay to keep it, but if it swings No, then it must be removed
immediately. If you can’t find someone who the energy is positive with then it needs to be put
back or buried.
Unfortunately, girls this is also true of gems and gold, silver, bronze etc. Diamonds and Rubies
etc., so before you let your man buy you a ring get him to check it first. It could mean the
difference between a long and happy relationship and a bitter divorce. I kid you not.
The most important thing to remember when your deal with the Paranormal is instinct and
intuition. When you’re talking to yourself in your head you’re talking to Spirit. When you ask a
question in your head and answer yourself, that is Spirit.
When you have a nagging feeling, it is Spirit. When you have second thoughts about doing
something and it turns out to have been a good thing you didn’t have second thoughts, that is
Spirit telling you something isn’t right, think again.
That is more specifically, your Spirit Elder. You might know them as Guardians, or Angels,
Guardian Angels, etc.
We all have them. We are given them from the second we are conceived to the second we die.
We have a main Spirit Elder and then well…….maybe the best way to describe it is by saying.
Imagine yourself as a house. God (or whatever you believe in) owns the house. Your Spirit Elder
is the Butler. They take care of the running of the house. They control every member of staff in
the house. Then your Elders are your cooks, cleaners, drivers etc.
Your Spirit Elder controls everything concerned with life and death. They are the ones that stop
you from crossing that road because you at the last second changed your mind then a truck
comes around the corner and just missed hitting you. They are the ones that walk you to your
loved ones when you pass away.
They guide you to the person who will give you your children. Anything to do with the biggest
aspects of your life, that is your Spirit Elder helping you get there. Not all are from decades or
hundreds of years ago. I know of a friend, of my husbands, whose wife was pregnant at the time
she was being visited by a Spirit. She was so frightened and ask for my help. It was just her
unborn Babies Spirit Elder introducing herself to the mother to be and she had only passed a few
I can still see her standing at my bed all apologetic for scaring a pregnant lady. Once it was
explained to this woman who her son was being protected and by someone who has family that
is still grieving over her passing, she felt very comforted and blessed.
The Elders will guide you on everything from money, love, business etc. each Elder is the
Manager of each thing.
I have Leelee, she is love and money. She is the one who stops me from wanting to hit my
husband with a bat when he is pissing me off lol. She led me to him and made me love him like I
do. She made me not fear giving up my life and traveling 17,000 to be with a man I had only met
once for a month.
Then I have Head of the Eagle. He is a young Native America boy who governs my health, both
mental and physical health. He always comes to be when I’m grieving or sick. Or if I’m having a
My husband has a career Spirit. I don’t. Basically Spirit are my career so….
You might have a love Spirit and if it is in your life to travel a Travel Elder. But they only have
your best interests at heart and serve only you. They are all yours and your alone. Even twins won’t have the same elder.
Unusually, my husbands, Spirit Elder is an Old man who at the time of his introduction had
Spirit children with him that were golden. As his path has progressed the children have gone
away. We are pretty sure the siblings are our boys. We didn’t know it then but looking back now
we think he was showing our boys their parents.
Because Spirit work on frequencies different to ours, when they come into contact with you, it
can be like an electric shock to your soul. It is why your hair stands on end and you shiver. It is
why you walk into a building or room and you get an almost flat, quiet, still feeling.
That is a sign your picking up on Spirit. It’s like when you’re in a library and you make a sound
and you can feel all eyes on you and it gives you that rush of blood in your chest. That’s when
you’re in contact with Spirit. It’s an electrical charge or impulse. Your blood pumps faster, you
go hot or cold (depending on how much energy they have used up).
They like to play games to get your attention. But they only show themselves to those they want
to. You could be in a room with 50 people and you’re the only one who sees the vase move.
But you must remember they can’t physically touch stuff. It is done by making it move through
telepathic telekinetic energy. It does, actually move, you do, actually get scratched but they can’t
do it physically. They make you think it happens so it actually happens. They gather a great deal
of energy and use you as the charge, so to speak. They can’t physically touch things as they are
just energy on a different frequency.
Depending on the frequency depends on whether they can move or talk to you. Understand?
So, enough energy turned to one frequency will have enough power to move objects.
Enough of the other frequency and you can hear them talk. Telepathy is talking using the power
of the mind and Telekinesis is moving objects using the power of the mind.
Teenagers are the best at this power as their brains run on a whole different frequency all
together and it is in a permanent state of their WiFi being on they can create untold seemingly
paranormal experiences like Poltergeist activity and Demonic Possession type activity all just
because they were having a bad day. It really is remarkable. I’d love to do a study on it.
My nephew was very powerful at using telekinesis when he was a kid. But it seems in my family it can only be used when we are angry or frustrated. One time when he was about 4 he was fed up with his Mother telling him to sit still while she did a reading for us at the table. After about the 10th time of getting told off for fidgeting he grumpily looked at a teaspoon that was sitting on the table, arms all crossed in a puff and the spoon just ‘popped’ up and bent in half, lol. It was astounding. I must ask him if he can still do it.
I, myself, can only do it when I’m really angry. Like punch a wall angry and I’m never that angry in my everyday life but I have thrown things out of cupboards and down hallways or slammed doors shut before. Luckily for me the last time I used it was over a decade ago. I have
been told I am never allowed to use it. Because I can only use it through negative means it could invite negative entities in while I have my guard down.
There are many types of people like me. They go by many names but how can you tell the ones who are genuine from the ones who are fake?
ORBS: People mistake these for being Spirit but in actual fact only a small percentage of orbs are Spirit. The rest are balls of energy or time traps. The energy ones are manifested from stress, anger, depression and the time traps are pockets of moment trapped in time. The rest are dust.
How you can tell which ones are Spirit are because you’ll see colour or faces in them often resembling photos taken f loved ones but you can see the faces as plain as day.
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