I am 43 years old. I have been seeing Spirit ever since I was a small child. Everybody is born with the gift but most of us grow out of it by the time we get to the age where society becomes more important. So around the age of 8 we start to lose the gift.
I am blessed because my entire family is gifted. I am from a long line of people with gifts going back hundreds and hundreds of years. It is in my culture to have respect for the dead and to know what to do when you are around them. So in essence seeing dead people was part of my families daily conversation. My first teacher was my big sister. She helped me discover how I was going to do my readings. How to tell the difference between Good and Bad Energy and how to deal with them. I had grown up watching her do some of the most fascinating Spiritual work I have ever seen. I wanted to be just like her. Little did I know I would be just like her and it would come with good and bad consequences.
When I was growing up, it was a bad word to be gifted. You did readings on the sly, word of mouth. You didn’t shout out to the world what you did because people fear us. People fear what they don’t understand. People feared what they thought I might know about them. I have had clients come to me with life changing choices to make where what I told them meant whether they lived or died.
I’ve had clients come to me and decided not to leave their wife for the mistress and it saved a family from certain disaster.
My point is, there is so much pressure on one like myself to do what I do right because it can literally destroy a life.
Yet nowadays everyone is Psychic. Everyone can do what has taken me 40 years to master. You can take 3 month classes to learn to do what I do and it’s frankly terrifying.
Having a gift isn’t just that you can see the dead and pass on a message to Mary that’ Bob is still watching you do the garden’. It is such a serious thing we do and yet there are people who are doing this (and charging A LOT of money) because people are desperate to understand their grief or situation. It’s not just about getting the initial of their name. After 26 goes you’ll get it right eventually. It’s about dealing with the clients psyche and helping them understand that death isn’t final.
And now there are dozens of shows on TV about glamorous women solving complex mysteries in teeny tiny towns that must have more Ghosts in it than the whole of Europe.
We are expected to believe that Spirit will physically stand next to the loved one getting the message and we can see them like we would any living person and they make us cold and can physically touch us and hang around for hours at a time and not lose energy. I mean does anyone actually believe how that is with Spirit?
We are talking about someones deceased loved ones. It doesn’t matter if they lived 1 month ago or 600 hundreds years ago. Once…..these people were loved. How can we be allowed to disrespect Spirit like that?
Firstly, if anyone tells you ‘He is standing next to you touching you’ they are lying. The truth is, as good as it makes you feel to think Dad or Son are standing next to us touching our shoulder it’s not physically possible for a Spirit to touch us without them needing a huge amount of energy to do so. If they are standing there touching you, you would feel it too. Trust me. You feel the dead around you, psychic or not.
If a Spirit has to drain a camera and phone in order to get enough energy just to make you cold can you imagine how much energy would be required to manifest, touch you and change the temperature of the surrounding area?
When a person with a TRUE gift ‘see’s’ Spirit, it is in the mind’s eye. You see them standing next to you with their hand on your shoulder in your mind. It is like if I was to tell you to remember what you did at breakfast this morning you could instantly recall in your head what you did in detail. That is how it works. Manifestations are extremely rare.
And what they say is just as important. Spirit in effect cannot communicate the way we do. It is all done telepathically. Only occasionally they will talk in their own voice because it would startle you too much and shut you down. It requires huge amounts of energy for talking, but it can happen occasionally and when it does it can give you a fright. Even someone who see’s can get a fright lol
But can I please ask you what your name is and what you did on your last birthday………………………………………………….in your head with your voice you would have answered that. That is how Spirit talk to us. In our voice and in images. You would have said your name in your head and remembered your last birthday. When Spirit communicate, they do it in (for me) like watching a movie in slides. It is one image after the other and just how I know what my name is I just know that they are telling me they still watch Mary in the garden. He will show me a garden and Mary pottering about in it. It might not be her actual garden but the garden I am shown is symbolic.
Spirit draw on your energy to come through also, so your always exhausted after communication. Especially if you’ve been reading for people. It is exhausting. You can’t just then meet and greet your public for two hours, sign autographs and then drive 200 miles home like I’ve seen some psychics do on TV.
You will often get a headache or feel a bit sick or if your lucky just feel so tired you could sleep for a week.
They show you images and you have to relay them as you see them and never try to figure it out. If you see a red Porsche, it doesn’t mean it is a red Porsche the client is going to get. It could just mean the client will have connection to a fast car like a Porsche that is red. But you tell the client ‘I’m seeing a red Porsche, so you must be getting a car like that’ It is up to the client to draw their own conclusion because while you’re trying to figure it all out, Spirit have shown you 20 other images since then.
Once the reading is done you must always ask the client if they have any questions. Because often they are so overwhelmed with emotion that everything is going ten to the dozen. I’ve never seen anyone do that on the TV.
In all honesty, the only Paranormal show that does it the right way, that doesn’t do it in a disrespectful way, who actually takes the time to understand what is going on and draw a conclusion to it is Ghost Adventurers. Three guys, with cameras. No camera crew.
My husband has banned me from watching shows like Medium and Ghost Whisperer because I kept screaming at the TV. Even Psychic Kids drives me mad but only because no one sits and explains to the frightened kids what is happening and why. It’s pretty much ‘You have a gift, now enter this haunted building, see you did it now don’t be afraid’ For me as a kid, it would have just left me with more questions. The thing that shocks me about that show is how belittling and unsupportive some of the parents can be. One mother put her child in a mental institution. I know people fear what they don’t understand but just when that poor girl needed love and understanding, the one person who should have been there for her above all was her Mum.
It is such a serious thing to deal with and yet so many people seem to be able to do what I do. There is someone on Yahoo Answers who is going about interpreting dreams and being so wrong I worry for the people she is reading for. That Post I put about the Guy dreaming about having a small penis and cutting it off, she is swanning around telling him he has psychological issues about his penis size and he should get mental help because and I quote ‘Only people like me with my gifts can truly understand what this means’ and the poor guy is now terrified. The truth of the matter is, I then often have to spend my time making sure these people don’t panic or get scared.
I once did a reading for someone who decided that because she had been given a couple of readings from me that she could do what I do. Within 3 months of her doing readings, I had an influx of terrified people coming to me for clarification because she had been telling them I had taught her how to read. She told one poor Mum that this Spirit man who her daughter had seen in my house was evil and she needed to pay her to get rid of the Spirit from her (the clients) house because he would haunt this kid and bring bad luck.
This poor Mum then rang me and I had to sit and talk to the girl and ask her what she saw. It turns out it was my Father. My dad always shows himself in Uniform to those around me who never met him because he had been a proud soldier for over 30 years. I had no long moved to the UK from New Zealand and was going through some very traumatic times in my personal life (yes i did know they were coming and knew how it was going to end) and he was simply lending me some support. When I explained the Spirit man wasn’t bad and wouldn’t follow them home, the girl was fine with it. I showed her pictures of me and my Dad so she could put a life to the Spirit and she went away happy.
The worst thing you can do is mix Spirit with is religion. The two don’t mix. Spirit have zero interest in religion. It is a man-made thing that has no business in the Spirit realm and it drives them insane when they see people in churches praying and quoting palms then ‘communicating’ with Spirit. The advice is never Spiritual, it is personal.
Spirit in truth don’t believe in religion. I know this might upset a lot of religious people but religion holds no purpose in the Spiritual. Spirit believe religion is an earth creation and is used only to control the masses. It is not about religion, it is about faith. They don’t care what you believe in or how you do it, just that you believe. It’s not about how often you go to church or how much of your hard-working money you give as an offering, it is whether you were honest and helped people less fortunate than yourself. Your not expected to be perfect in prayer. Just be the best person you can be. Help those less fortunate than yourself. Be honest, be selfless, put others before yourself. If you have more than you need give to those who have less.
Be faithful and loyal and respect other people’s opinions. You don’t have to like someone’s views or lifestyle. Just respect them. Every single thing on this planet has a right to be here and has a reason to be there so leave it all alone.
This in essence is what a true ‘Christian’ is. But you don’t need to worship your god or deity in a church. Your heart is your temple. Worship him there. I’m pretty sure if your God, or Allah, Buddha, or Jesus came down now and saw some of these churches and how much money comes in and out of them they would be mortified.
A bit of smiting wouldn’t go a miss. I think the conversation would go something like this ‘So you took 300 billion pounds of people’s money and bought priceless art and hand-made gold robes and let people kiss your feet and yet the people who come to you are starving and having children they can’t afford and aren’t getting the medical treatment they need to save them and you did it all in MY NAME? BLAM!!!! lol
If you’re a man of God, it shouldn’t cost a penny. If you’re doing his work, the money you get will be going to the people who need it. Do you think there would be starving Africans and Homeless American Families on the street if God or Jesus knew that their so-called Voices or representatives on earth were netting in hundreds of millions of pounds in ‘donations?’
So for that reason and many others, religion must be kept away from Spiritual and Paranormal teachings and practices.
If you’re having trouble understanding what is happening to you, I can help you. It terrifies me that some people are being put on antidepressants or worse because they don’t know how to listen to their intuition.
Your intuition is your first voice with Spirit. We must all follow our intuition. In my next blog I will be talking about how to know when you’re talking to Spirit and what types of Spirits there are. But if you need me. just ask.
I have sat back for too long and let people take the piss out of what the genuine do. I don’t make a profit from what I do. In fact the internet has helped me be able to do what I do for free. When I do a reading I ask only for a donation. My readings are private, confidential and recorded on digital format if you want, or done via email so you get to keep it for always.
I only read for a select few clients because with young children my time isn’t my own just now. I don’t do what I do for financial reward. I only charge if I charge when I charge (for private readings) to stop people taking me for granted.Some people will take it for granted I worked 3 days to do their reading and will only pay $5 which converted to pounds is less than £2.50 which isn’t fair really so it is a faith and trust based thing.
I’ve had a lot of trouble in my life of people trying to be my friend because they think it will get them free readings. They then stop liking me after I refuse to give in.
When I do a reading it is for at least 2 years in advance. I will not do a reading for anyone twice in less than 6 months. The bigger picture doesn’t change, just a few more details will be added. So some clients who have tried to be friends have tried to have a reading every month. But by charging a donation I stop it from happening.
I certainly can’t go buying BMWs and Million Pound Houses on what I earn. It’s not because I’m not good. It’s just because I put my kids first and do so many readings for free. 90% of my readings are done via email now.
Please understand I am not saying all Psychics and Mediums are fakes. There are a lot of Psychics and Mediums out there doing fantastic work. Especially the ones who work with the Police. I have nothing but love and respect for.
But I know you will know the ones I mean.
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