Your Playing if fire if you don’t listen.

Over the last 3 weeks I have been inundated with people wanting my help then they don’t listen when I give them my advice. After begging me for help, they went against my advice and then had to come back to me when it went tits up.

I’m not an arrogant person, or cocky and I absolutely would never tell anyone they are wrong for trusting their own judgement BUT you have to understand something.

I work, I have two boys under 6, a very messy husband under the age of 40 and I home school. I spend around 80 hours a week working doing my readings and answering emails/comments etc…..99% of the time, for free.

I have no complaints about that either. I love what I do so much. I really do have the best calling I get to have as a job.

BUT……….if I tell you ‘Do NOT threaten to leave him and pack your bags to scare him into showing you attention’ and then you do it anyway and he changes the locks and doesn’t reply to your texts,  then I won’t help you any more. I can’t. It’s not fair.

I won’t sit for 3 hours any more for 3 hours at night in the cold giving you advice that you asked for that you turned out you weren’t even listening to and leave me alone not knowing if your even in the same building you started out in because you just decide to go look at Cars mid conversation then get upset when I don’t answer because I don’t know where you are. I won’t drop everything to help you any more like I used to. You too get one chance. (you know who you are).

I am spending my time sometimes staying up till 3-4am trying to help you. Giving you free advice and taking the time to listen to you. All this week I have spent dealing with people who don’t listen and it has pushed me over the edge.

I gave clear instructions on what you needed to do to protect your children and your home from the trouble that as been caused by not listening and you skim past the important stuff and rush through the process then wonder why it didn’t work.

Well I’m sorry but I’ve had enough. It is unfair to Spirit and to those of my clients and followers who actually listen and appreciate the time I spend helping them.

I will help anyone who comes to me. I turn no one away and if I can’t help (if it turns out it isn’t Spirit related or because I’m not in your area) I find people for you who can. I take what I do very seriously and you all need to start doing the same thing. Apart from not taking the advice your given and causing more trouble than you started with, your pushing away the one person who is taking the time to help you for free.

I’ve now had 4 people, 4, FOUR people go against my instructions in order to get ‘Proof’ their house is Haunted. Every single one of them then went and made things worse.

All bar one person is now back asking for my help to fix what they broke.

I am what I am for a reason. You know nothing of my gift, my connection to Spirit, my extensive knowledge after 42 years of doing actual experiments with my gift (on myself) and you know nothing of my Ability or Culture.

You might have paid Psychics and Mediums to tell you what you want to hear but when a Maori person tells you DON’T Fuck with a Tapu, Don’t FUCK with the Tapu. Your people might have been stone cold accurate but they aren’t Maori. They have no experience or knowledge of a Tapu and now my Kaumatua have forbidden me to help. I have been told by my Elders to step away.

I know your hurting, I know your grieving, I know your soul has been broken in two. I saw what happened. I feel the pain of you and your children. I know your questioning me and my expertise. Your grief stricken in the highest way and all I want to do is hold you. But I was asking questions trying to get everything together, all the information together so I could find you some Kaumatua in your area so they could help you lift the Tapu. Then I get accused of being a fake. So I can’t help you any more and I won’t. I have protected your children but when you mess with Maori things and you do it using rage and anger you make it 100 times worse. Your Mediums put poison in the soul of your family. The very core of your family is now cursed basically, it’s the only way to say it and moving house and country wouldn’t fix it. I had to beg my Elders to even discuss it with me that is how bad a Tapu is. To be so arrogant as to accuse someone who has spent countless hours helping you for free of being a fraud because you didn’t like the questions she was asking is not only arrogant but ignorant as well because I can promise you this.

I will have been the only Maori person who was offering to help you take this Curse if the curse was has been placed on your family as well as deal with the Trickster.

You take the word of 120000 people on Facebook over that of someone who’s job it is to use graphics and art in photography and on Computers every single day of his life is just well….stupid and I’ll tell you why. He has the software to touch up your images and bring out the images you think you were seeing. He would of been the one to help you take the photos properly so you were without doubt of seeing Spirit. But because 120000 people gave in to what is called Brain Pattern Recognition which make up for about 95% of ‘Ghost Photography’ you take their word over the one you sought the truth from. But let me ask you this. If your Mediums are so good, the ones who put you in this predicament in the first place, if you trust them so much why did you come to me?

Now because of your anger and frustration you have driven away the one person who can actually help. Short of going to his family, or on the rare chance a Maori person agreed to help you (which would never happen by chance) your stuck with this activity.

The questions I asked you weren’t in judgement but to have all the questions ready for when I went to these people in Queensland I had been told to go to. They are Maori, they live in Queensland and they would of been able to tell you if it was a Tapu on the home or your family. They would of been able to help me make my diagnoses and they would of helped you deal with the Tapu bringing Utu. But because you didn’t like the questions I asked (to make a formal diagnoses of opinion) you now have no one.

Tapus are real. Tapus can take lives. They can make you deathly ill, infertile, bankrupt, homeless or insane. They can tear families apart and a lot of those who have them placed on them end up substances abusers or locked away (be it prison or psych ward). Mention the word Tapu to a Maori person and watch then recoil and refuse to get involved.

So you can make fun of me, you can call me fake or not real or whatever it was you said, but remember this.

You have children. It will get them too. And you just flipped the bird at the one person who was willing to help. FOR FREE.

So after a couple of weeks of being treated like this by so many people I am making this Declaration on Behalf of Spirit and Myself.

‘If you come to us for help and you don’t take my advice and do it your way which your entitled to do of course. Do NOT come back to me if or when it goes wrong as I will not help you unless I’m told it’s necessary by Spirit. I will no longer reply to your emails if after all the time I spend helping you, you don’t listen. They will be deleted and left unread once I know you’ve wasted my time because I can’t help anyone who doesn’t help themselves. So you get one chance and if you don’t listen I won’t help any more. I can’t. It is wasting hundreds of hours a month of my time better spent actually helping the ones who need it most and I won’t allow it any more.’

By going against expert advise you run many risks which again is your right but if it fails I won’t be there to pick up the pieces. That is all I’m saying.

When my time can be best spent helping someone deal with cancer, or helping someone deal with the Trickster in their home. Those who genuinely listen. Those who genuinely need and want the help. These are the people I will work with. It is not okay for you to come into my life, ask or beg for my help then do the complete opposite of what I told you to do. I sit for hours typing your replies, putting other people including my own children some times aside to help you, skipping meals, going without sleep and all for free and it is not okay that you show up, ask for my help, don’t listen then expect me to fix it for you. I will no longer be doing that any more. Two of you did just that this week and STILL didn’t take my advice the second chance I gave you. Well I’m sorry but I only help those who want to be helped. Your all just lucky I didn’t charge you for the help because everyone else would of done. The fact that none of you care about the time and commitment I put into helping you means your being Selfish and thoughtless and for the sake of my Paying Clients and Clients I help for free who genuinely listen and care about Spirit I have to put my foot down.

I know this might seem cruel but I have sat up 3 nights in a row now with someone who begged for my help and I sat until nearly 4am twice and 12am the last night watching her do the opposite of everything thing I said and now her man has left her because she pushed him too far like I told her she would if she didn’t leave it alone. Now she is wrought with despair having lost her boyfriend. That was time I could of spent well, sleeping for a start, or with my husband snuggled in bed all warm or helping someone else who has had to wait in line for so long. So I have decided I have to put everyone else first.

Oh and one last thing before I go. Please do NOT email me asking me for The Lottery Numbers. If it is NOT in your future to win the Lottery I can’t give you the numbers. If I had the ability to make everyone Multi Millionaires if wasn’t in their destiny every homeless person and every person down on their luck would all be rich.

If it isn’t in your future, I can’t see it and I won’t make up numbers just to please you. If you want the money that bad manifest it yourself. You only manifest the things you truly want so if you really want to win it, manifest the win.

I understand we are all going through desperate times but some of you are starting to ask weekly. I can’t give you what isn’t there. I’m sorry. I wish I could but I can’t. But asking me every week isn’t going to get you anywhere.

I’m sorry I have to be harsh but I’ve been pushed to the edge and tipped over after having to deal with this stuff every day for over 3 weeks now and I have to put those who actually need my help first. I’m not saying you have to agree with what I tell you to do. I’m not expecting you to even like what I have to say but what I am saying is ‘Don’t go against what I say then come back to me when your way made it worse’. Because I won’t give you the same courtesy I gave you when you first came to me. Your not respecting me, yourself, Spirit or my clients when you do it.

Helping people next to having my kids is my greatest joy. Please don’t ruin it for others, you hurt everyone when you hurt me and it’s not fair to them. I won’t allow anyone else to pay for your impatient, impetuous behavior.

 

The Kiwi Psychic and Midwest Ghost Episode 6

Today is about O.B.Es. Explained and how to deal with them.

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The Kiwi Psychic and Midwest Ghost Episode 5

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Discussions with Thomas Spychalski and myself Debbie Black. Answering questions from our listeners and discussions about our surprise guest Donald Carpenter.

NOTE: I stated in the show Lexi, Jeff, Kevin and Blake were from Chicago but I made a mistake. The were from New Brunswick, Ohio. I apologize for the mistake. It is Thomas who is from Chicago.

Kiwi Psychic and Midwest Ghost Week 1 Episode 1

Here it is folks. Our first Episode of The Kiwi Psychic and Midwest Ghost. Enjoy and don’t forget to contact us for the show. Questions, Dreams, Tweets, Queries and Suggestions to us.

 

http://newsfromthespiritworld.com/2014/05/23/weekly-weird-news-week-one/

 

Next Week: Cemetery Photography, and an Interview with the Highly Regarded Paranormal Investigator Patrick Keller from http://www.thebigseance.com as he talks about Adopting Graves and Cases he has worked on. You will know him from my Posts as Dotd. My Producer and MC Thomas Spychalski and I are huge fans.