The Epiphany of Me:

As my time as a Student of Spirit and The Universe comes to an end. I am having the most incredible discussions with my Friends and Teachers of the last nearly 43 years.

And I’ve connected so much with my past. It’s helped me understand so much more about my life, my purpose. Our Lives and Our Purposes.

Anything they teach me is to help me to teach and guide anyone who needs it. That’s the whole reason why I’ve been pissing some people off lately.

The thing that makes me what I am is my honesty. It’s why people pay their hard earned money to hear my predictions and observations of their lives. It’s why people trust me. Because brutal or not it is the truth. And as I have been saying lately ‘The truth while bitter and a lie sweet when first told in time become different over time. So eventually the true will be sweet and the lie bitter.’

We ALL have to start seeing our truths. We need to own who we are. Because it all matters. It all happens to teach you about you. Your existence. Your path. Your journey from beginning to end.

Oh My God……if everyone on the planet could have this experience we would finally be the human race we are meant to be.

The truth is, if we don’t get our shit together we are doomed. As a planet we will be destroyed and not just by the bad people in the world. Not just the Bankers and Leader and Greedy and Powerful. This planet will be destroyed and we will die out as a species.

Rich or poor we will die out. Or we can finally get the bigger picture and evolve into what we are meant to be which is Space Travellers.

They have all the technology to be rich and famous and lazy and taken care of but when we get lazy we stop developing. We stop dreaming and hoping and creating and designing and it is a select few who get to shine. But that person who shines has their own story to tell none of which would be made possible without the people they had in their lives.

This is why I can’t answer emails you all keep sending me to ask me how to have a connection to Spirit like mine.

But my connection came about because of my life and all the wonderful things that have happened as well as all the shitty things that have happened.

You have to be brave and you have to have unquestioning faith. I can not give you faith. Faith is what you have when you remove ALL the middle men. You don’t need to pay someone to have a connection to God. Whoever that God may be. It’s there all the time.

It makes you brave, and it brings you home at night and it never leaves you even when your angry at it for hurting you. But eventually you realize it’s not God who took your sister at age 28 just a few weeks after having her daughter, it was her wish to live a short life. God simple gave her the one she needed until it was her time to leave. He made sure when she was taking her last breathes on the Friday, the Thursday night before hand her little sister was remembering all she had to to keep her memory alive for her dying sisters new baby daughter.

God surrounded her with her loved ones on her last day and gave us all plenty of arms to be held by when you needed a hug. God left her the children to always remind you she wasn’t a figment of your imagination.

Whoever God is to you, it doesn’t matter as long as it makes you happy. But being happy is so much more important next to finding God. Because you find that he is where ever your happiest.

I’m finally cracking the code to all my visions of my past and feelings of being in the presence of complete strangers lives.

I can’t explain it but I keep getting flashes of peoples lives. Just random strangers. I can see the colours, and smell the same air they breathe, I can hear the birds and the elements be it wind or rain, sun or snow.

And they have no idea as they collect their paper and read their coffee of whatever that I’m there, watching them. I could watch them all day.

Their lives are so interesting to me. So much more exciting. When I see them connect with someone they love, I have that love for them too. I feel their desires and fears to say ‘I like you’ to the one who doesn’t notice them, or ‘I love you’ to the one who does but it afraid you won’t say it back.

I feel it all. The excitement, the fear, the joy, the worry, some of these people I see their lives flash before my eyes. I want to know it ends well for these people.

Their lives seem so exciting. More so than mine and this is coming the person who gets to see all these peoples lives play out like a movie.

I see random funerals too. I talk to the Spirits of the deceased while they watch themselves be remembered and mourned. For the most part it’s always lovely but some of them have a real moan lol Hate what they were put in, pissed off because now it means the woman’s rival is going to make a play for her man etc….but none of them are interested in going back.

Of all the Spirits who talk to me when I see these things they are always wanting to tell me their story.

They all say the same thing.

  1. Don’t do anything for less than love. You deserve to know true love. Everyone does. Don’t settle for stable or good enough. Do it because you can’t breathe without the other person next to you. Your only going to love one person for the rest of your life if your not anticipating a tragedy. So before you find that love go out and have some great sex. Be safe of course and it goes without saying that it should be with anyone where it would break up a family or another persons heart unless you can’t stop breathing for each other. Adultery is not on. Not even in Spirit. IF you told someone you loved them and want to make a life with them then you do what you have to, to live up to your end of the bargain. Too many people marry for the wrong reasons. They think because they have great chemistry and your friends, and the sex was good, and you knew you’d have a stable life with them. But if you don’t love them your not with them for the right reasons.

So what is love then? According to Spirit from what I’ve just learned. True Love is when you find the one person who makes everything stop. You hold your breathe whenever your near them. You have an electric current run through your body every time they touch you. You feed off each others words. You have this connection that no matter what you know the trust is always there. They are the first person you go to when something good happens to you and the one who runs to you when it’s something bad.

They know just what to say when they want to hurt you most. The words no person wants to hear come out of their loves mouth. The words that cut deep in the heat of an argument. It hurts like fuck and you want to die. You never want to hear words that hurt so badly. But you couldn’t take them from anyone else. The truth hurts and yes it was said to hurt you but it’s always better to be hurt by the truth than devastated by a lie and who better to tell you the truth than the one you love. Right?

Sometimes my husband has done something in public which not only cut me to the bone but embarrassed me as well. He’s done it twice when he accused me of doing something I didn’t do. I saw a side to him I didn’t like because usually he is the first one to defend me but he was actually the first one to accuse me and instead of helping me rectify the understanding he made it worse. In those two moments I could of walked away and never looked back. I hated him so much for thinking so little of me. He sometimes has this way of making me think he thinks so little of me. He’s not a romantic. I am. I want the big romantic gestures. He is very self centered, he’s an artist and a Libra so everything is always about him. He creates drama where ever he goes because people don’t get him. He’s a procrastinator and a hedonist. He is kind to a fault. He has been manipulated and cheated by so many people he called friend or family. But he looks like butter wouldn’t melt in his mouth. And when you need an ally he is the one you can rely on to cut the conversation with quick wit and humor. He’s up for anything. He’s not afraid to be different. He embraces his individuality and is proud of it. He is a brilliant man. Quite frankly one of thee most if not thee most intelligent man I’ve ever met.

He needs no explaining. He’s an incredible motivator, and is inspiring. He has this way of helping you find your thing and then helps you understand why your thing is your thing. Be it to a Kebab Delivery Man who also feels the same draw of attraction that I do lol to a man he buys a burger for on the street lol My husband a gift of people just being able to pour their hearts out to him. And he goes on and on and on about how much he hates people. He’s a cantankerous, grumpy old man who has the heart of an Angel. He makes out he’s all grumpy so he won’t get hurt by people but any one of you could go to him and he’d do what he could to help you. He’s impulsive and embarrassing, he’s mean and heartless sometimes. But when he reaches for me when I hop into bed and holds me into him, when he brings me a cup of tea and toast at night when I’m working away on a reading, when he sits and listens to every word of my latest Psychic experience so thoughtfully and immediately launches into a tirade of questions instead of mocking me, when he tells me what a good mother I am, when he tells me I’m a good cook, they are his big gestures of love. It might not be the big one you dream of one day but it is to him and that means something. He’s not a touchy feely guy anymore and that’s because of the people who hurt him in the past. But he is to his Best Friend, Uncle Andy. And he is with his sons and his Dad and his Step Mum and he is with me, and that’s okay. It matters to him. And that’s why I can’t breathe until he is in the same room as me. He’s the first person I call when I need someone I trust. He is the first person to come to my side when something happens that isn’t nice. Even if it’s just me being my usual quirky Empath self who is crying over photos of a friends dog being put to sleep.

He’s there and he embraces my crazy and understands it. He never makes me feel like I need to explain myself. When he holds me I go weak. No man on this planet makes me so weak and giggly and there is no day that goes by where I’m not grateful he chose me.

So do yourself a favour and LOVE the one your with. Choose the one who makes you hold your breathe and who cares what anyone else thinks. If my husband and I didn’t fight for our love my boys wouldn’t be here today. I know the day I met my husband and agreed to put up with his madness that I ticked a box in my ‘Destiny Fulfilled’ box.

Each one being so important you know they can’t of been anything less than ‘Destiny’ Being able to tick one of those suckers means your not only starting to Understand the reason for your existence but your getting control over it too. That in itself is a huge break through.

If your going to commit your life to one Soul then let it be for the one who makes you hold your breathe. The one who makes you straighten your hair and push up your boobs for (or puffs out your chest for if your a man). They make you want to appear smarter. They make you throw caution to the wind just to get another glimpse of them.

That love doesn’t go away when you marry them and have kids and get old along side each other. When you have that love in the start, you never find reasons to stop loving them. Good or bad. You married your best friend and when you marry the right reasons it never goes away. It makes you work harder when things go wrong. You never worry about if they will leave. You know you have a warrior by your side. Someone who will take up arms with you not against you. If you married or are with someone because they are good looking, well…all I can say is ‘looks fade and one day when you’re old and wrinkly you better hope and pray they grew nice personalities somewhere along the line’.

Looks fade, unless you have millions to pay for surgeries lol But my point is If your not with someone who gets you. If you love them even after they hurt you and embarrassed you, if you love every day because they are in your life, if you hold your breathe when they touch you and you hurt when you don’t hear from them and they aren’t with you, then you need to tell them.

You only get one life loving that person. Please……tell them. EVEN if they don’t feel the same way. Give yourself the respect of admitting it. And you just never know. Maybe when you tell them, they will say it back. But you’ll never know if you don’t try. You owe it to yourself to find out. You might eye each other up when you collect your mail coz you live in the same Apartment building. Maybe she’s a customer who lingers a little too much longer than the others and who makes you smile the second she walks in the door. If they have been delivering to your house for years and they have been helping you out a little since you lost your partner. Whatever it is. Whoever it is. DO IT!!!! Because to be loved is even better than loving someone.

You get one life so (this takes me nicely into Number 2.

2) Get rid of all your regrets now while your alive because your life becomes so much sweeter when your lighten your load. As you know from recent posts I’ve put up things have been a bit dramatic recently but I’ve gotten to a point in my life where I’m learning to self govern my behavior. I’m dealing with my Karma now so it doesn’t happen in the next life. (If you read my Blog about Karma and what I think it means you’ll know what I’m talking about lol).

So instead of learning in the next life I was a bitch in the way I handled the first problem I had on here with SJ and Granddads funeral I immediately had Spirit on my case and my inner self was feeling like shit and as soon as I fixed the problem my life felt incredible again. I learned so much more about my Self worth and my limits. I learned I have a responsibility over anyone who reads my blog and reaches out to me. I learned it’s not about me any more. It’s about you the reader, follower, client etc…..etc……it’s while been dealing with all the regrets in my life that I’ve had the most epiphanies. The most awe inspiring epiphany’s one can have about ones own life, gift and purpose all came about because I was dealing with all my regrets.

Regrets aren’t a bad thing to have if your man enough to admit to them. Being seen as anything less than perfect nowadays seems to a mental Illness or some thing. Don’t laugh at someone who is brave enough to fix their mistakes or who takes life by the balls.

Make sure your regrets are never bad ones. So don’t do anything so bad and so horrible they haunt you. I know this is true of many Spirits who took a life in their life time. Not being able to make amends to the people they killed and such, it’s a heavy load to bear. Not everyone kills in anger. Some times people get caught up in bad situations and do everything they can to make up for what they did. These are the examples of some Spirits I’ve talked with who have been helping me over the last part of my journey.

They all have stories to tell and I ask them all the same questions. Not every one who takes a life is a bad person. They were just in a bad situation. The victims usually end up being Teaching Souls who chose short lives or dramatic deaths because of the lessons that come from it for those involved. I’m not condoning Violence or Murder. What I’m saying is no one is going to judge a man worse than an innocent one who knows he did a bad thing. But what is ‘a bad thing’ in your eyes?

Because I don’t think if a person takes a life in self defense or the defense of others they have anything to be ashamed about do you?

But if your holding on to things that are hurting you, or your not doing something you yearn for then your going to die with regrets and trust me when I say ‘Regrets are important to Spirit’. So your reading this which means you know from this day on you have the power to get the most of your life to make it the best life ever to prepare you for death. So instead of laying there wasting time on going through all your regrets, you can use the time to remember the good things, and make memories for those left behind.

Write the book that’s inside you. Get it out. Release it on a Kindle or tell no one. But get it out.

If you have a hobby or a love of something, go and do it. It’s your life. You only get one chance to live it as you. When your dead and gone what do you want people to remember you by?

People can say I’m bat shit crazy, people can accuse me of being a fraud, NO ONE can say I didn’t do what I didn’t want to do. I have achieved everything in my life I’ve set out to do. And now that I’ve dealt with my regrets and stuff my life is only just about to get to the good bit.

I implore you to pick up that paint brush, sit at that type writer, put on that dress and heels young man and find your inner Queen.

Put that gorgeous dress on Mama and make a man feel alive. Do what feeds your soul. Everyone has their thing. If your with someone who doesn’t let you have your thing your not with the Love of your Life. Because your Forever Love would not just let you have your thing, they will pay for you to have more of it and even occasionally join in, just for you, because they love you.

Don’t be afraid of pursuing all those things you always wanted to do. If your partner doesn’t want to do learn to Salsa, take a friend. Maybe you’ll start to walk with a pep in your step, maybe he notices. A little jealousy is a good thing if it’s not done on purpose and with the intention of hurting someone. Playful innocent jealousy is cute but anything more than that is cruel and not coming from a good place.

But my point is, instead of saving all your money for your kids after your dead, put some aside for your funeral and spend the lot on holidays ad cruises. It’s your money your earning for while your alive for when your dead. Do you know how nuts that sounds?

Why not just make sure you have enough to pay for your funeral. Let the kids have the insurances but take the money you have and spend the lot of making memories for yourself while your alive. It’s what you worked for. You worked hard for your retirement but it doesn’t mean your retirement has to be spent you waiting for death. Go dancing. Go on a cruise. Get your partner and you a nice new wardrobe and hit the clubs. Play Bingo once in a while sure but play it on a cruise for Seniors or Widows. Go with your lover and have a romantic unplanned weekend in Paris.

Take some cooking classes and cook for your love and family etc….live your life now while your living it. Because you can’t take any of it back when your looking back on your life.

There is only one thing worse than living with fear and that is dying with it. (Obviously I’m not talking about physical fear. I mean emotional fear).

So many people are unhappy. And it’s spreading like a disease. We live these long hard lives because we are in debt and we need to buy stuff and a job is better than no job and your no one if your not on the property ladder.

FUCK the property ladder. Shall I tell you why?

Because your killing your Soul dead just so the bank can take all of your money for you not to own a piece of wood and concrete until you make the last payment.

If it all caught fire right now and you were stuck in the middle what would you save and what would you tell those you loved the most if you had the chance.

If the one your with isn’t the one you love, if the one you love is sitting right next to you, if the one you love is just a message away then do something now that tells them it’s them you chose. Never regret telling those you love that you love them. Make sure they all have no doubts about your love.

If it all went up in smoke would you really be that sad if you knew you had insurance and all the important stuff was out would you really be bothered? I think not. I know of quite a few people that have said ‘When we assessed the damage and moved on with a new flat and charity shop stuff and things people gave us, until our insurance money came through it was kind of just so nice not having crap to worry about any more. There was no more worries about the lawns being too long and the neighbours judging my every step etc…..and once it was all removed I just became so much happier.’

I’m yet to find one who went on to buy another house. They all just paid off debt and traveled or started businesses etc……

A house is just stuff. How much stuff do you need? You can’t take it with you and your not a Pharaoh who is going into a huge chamber. You can’t take any of it with you when you go. It’s all stuff your loved ones are going to have to rifle through after your dead. Most of it will get fought over, donated or sold for £1.

Your belongings will go to other people and if your blessed a lot of people will have nicer food and clothes once your money becomes theirs. Seriously?

Is that what your breaking your back for? So your ‘LOVED ONES’ can feast on your earnings when your dead?

I like what my parents did. They said we were to use our money to ‘Make memories for them’. Which is what I do. Everything I do now I do for Mum and Dad. Stuff they can’t do I now do for them.

If your going to leave a lot of money for your friends and family, make sure you know they will appreciate the sentiment and not use it as an excuse to ‘doss about for a bit’.

which brings us to Number 3 of what Spirit have taught me to teach others.

3) Plan your funeral NOW.

Never leave anyone guessing about what you would want. Write it down. Make it YOUR way. My husband and I have this great idea of setting up a CD of music to hand out to everyone at the funeral and the songs on the CD will be chosen by us that represent our best memories.

IE When our son was born in Ninewells, Dundee Hospital, the song ‘Real Gone Kid’ by Scottish band Deacon Blue was playing on the radio.

Don’t you forget about me by Simple Minds was playing when our youngest son, Train was born. So they would be on our CDs.

Plus any songs we have attached to our best memories and then everyone can take the CD home and remember us when they hear those songs.

I want a cardboard coffin and I want everyone to write messages, sign it, poems and little notes and drawings on it. So when I’m food for the worms and grass grows and maybe one day trees will grow where I’m buried all of those messages of love and support will become a part of the very ground that feeds birds and worms and hence give life. Their words will give life.

But it is common knowledge on this Blog that Spirit ALWAYS go to their Funerals or Wakes or whatever it is we do to remember and send off our loved ones. And if they don’t like it, they WILL find someone to have a moan about it to.

So don’t be afraid to ask your loved ones. ‘When you die, how do you want to be buried. How do you want to be remembered. If they say don’t be so morbid, don’t talk like that etc………say to them ‘I read an article by this Psychic lady who said Spirit gave her a list of rules she is to live by and if it helps others tell them too because it’s for everyone to know these rules. If you live by them will you not only have a happier life but your death will be sweeter too.

Tell them what you want when you die. What you want to wear, what you want played etc….One of my rules is it’s not to be called a Funeral but a ‘Bon Voyage’ party. I’m off on a trip of a life time but we will see each other soon kind of party.

No hymns or church or anything. I’m gonna have a Tangi where everyone tells stories and sings songs and has a laugh and a cry and they draw on my cardboard casket. Then I want my Unveiling to be one HUGE Party. I want everyone to drink and have a laugh and just love each other with good food and drink and stories.

But my husband knows to put me in my nicest pjs and to take everything but my wedding ring off. He knows where everything is to go and I’m an organ donor too so…hopefully I get to save lives too. They get everything but my heart. My heart goes home to New Zealand. In our Memorial war of our Family Cemetery in Bulls, New Zealand. So that regardless of what part of the world has my body, my heart goes home to New Zealand.

Get it all written down. If someone is terminally ill, ask them, what they want. They appreciate it after they die my Babies, I promise. It really does mean a lot to them they way they are sent out. They like to know they mattered to someone.

I have however seen funerals where no one but the Minister and cemetery staff and if you put the ‘Debbie’ glasses on you’d see the thousands who are there in Spirit. So no one EVER dies and is buried alone. So we can all rest a little easier now knowing even the homeless get a good send off. Coz that always bothered me until recently.

When your preparing to bury someone, you have a billion and one things will be going through your mind. You’ll be so busy trying to make sure you got everything right, you don’t have time to mourn your loss?

It always happens, especially for the Oldest couple of siblings. But what if it was already decided and all you had to do was hand over the clothes they requested and have a date and time to tell people? So then all you had to do was be with your family and remember/honor their memory. Isn’t that so much nicer?

Also don’t be afraid to had some humor into your send off. Don’t do all that organ music bullocks. Put your favourites up there. The music you loved to love when you were alive. So when everyone there hears those songs from that day on they remember you and your memory. That is after all what a funeral is supposed to be. A Service to say Goodbye to a loved one.

Remembering your dead is the highest honour you can give them. Their memory is everything to them because it’s letting them know they did a good job. They left an imprint in the fabric of time and it mattered to someone. That’s why they do it. It’s why they keep coming back to live life after life. Because no other existence has the same experience as the human experience. We are inspirational. We are Creative, We are Enduring, and we embrace enlightenment. Without us, if we die out we will never join them up there and we won’t save our planet and all that we are will be lost forever.

They up there, need our inspiration and our need to observe and discover and invent and create, and understand so we can ALL advance as a Higher Beings. When we advance as higher beings it means death will no longer exist and we will exist together in the one time. All species, all, galaxies, all planets etc….as well as all the dead.

So people like me have been sent to give every one the lessons they need to do their bit to making sure that in a couple of hundred years we don’t all just die out.

Stop wasting time. We waste so much time. We are humans being not humans doing. When your doing your experiencing and learning and absorbing the world around you. Go out there and make someones breathing stop for a second when you walk in the room.

There is love out there for everyone. You just have to look for it. Not everyone is lucky enough to have their love come to their door but just because they don’t come to yours doesn’t mean you can’t go to theirs.

If it’s love it’s so worth looking for. And as long as nothing you breaks the Law of the Universe ‘I shall not by my own actions cause loss or harm to any other living soul’ then get off your ass and start to live your life and love every minute of it.

I’m greedy now, I’m asking the Universe for everything now. I want to travel the world and I want to meet people. I want to not be afraid to hide my gift in the outside world any more. I am going to tell the world ‘I’m an internationally renowned Psychic’.

I’ve worked hard for that title. I deserve to use it just like I did when I took my husbands named and got to sign it Mrs. I’ve put in my time on the battle field and earned my scars. So I’m gonna wear that badge with honour.

I still have one regret I’m yet to fulfill and that is Relearn Guitar. One of my wonderful friends made one of my other dreams come true the other day and bought me a Massage Table for my Birthday. I’ve already used it hahahaha I’m such a lucky duck. I got to cross a regret off my list and it felt fantastic.

This last Epiphany came to me today. As I watched Two Documentaries I watched on Netflix.

One was Back in Time, about the making of Back to the Future and it’s Cult following, and First Comes Love.

First Comes love is a movie documentary about a 41yr old Movie maker who decided to have a baby without a Father present. No Husband. Just being a Single Mum. As I watched this woman Nina grieve for her Beloved Mother and then question her own existence I started to have flash backs of this woman’s life. Her Mothers life caught hold of me and I realized things I was seeing months ago were images of this woman’s life months ago but I didn’t know who she was.

This womans Mother was showing me her life, months before I ever saw the movie. Suddenly memories of flashes I’d been having over the months make sense to me.

Then I got my notebook out in my head about previous conversations with Spirit and I started talking to them and this is how I think I have finally cracked the meaning of life and I don’t mind saying ‘I’m pretty Blown away’. Let me know what you think.

The last stage of my training has been introspective as you know. I’ve been made to pay attention to everything they are shown me and being the perfect Teachers they are I have finally cracked their code.

I know eventually the stuff they show me will make sense. So I knew these images I was seeing of these peoples pasts would make sense one day. Little did I know what t would lead to.

Stay with me………….So obviously when I’ve been seeing these things I’ve been having contact with Spirits teaching me the significance of making memories.

I’ve been seeing memories of my childhood, and other peoples. Slowly the cogs have been turning.

Upon watching this Nina bury her Mother in First Comes Love, I said to Spirit as I’m balling my eyes out ‘Why do we do it, grieving hurts so much, why do we put ourselves through the experience?’

And they said (get how perfect this is, I had to sit down when they said this bit)

They said ‘Because to know grieve is to know true love’.

Get it? Only when we know the pain of losing someone we love do we know what LOVE IS.

You can love your cars, your money and your job but losing any of it doesn’t hurt like losing someone you love.

Stay with me, I’m getting to my point.

Then it started dawning on me. That’s what they are trying to teach us. The Meaning of Life.

We chose a life where we have to be born fighting, we have to fight to find our place in society as kids, we have to fight to find our identity as teens, then fight to find your place as an adult then to find love and start a family and have an experience then grow old and die.

And then we stand there and say as Spirits ‘Hmm…..yeah I was a good Mum but I want to learn to love a little more. I never loved my kids the way they should of been loved, I want to go back and know love’.

So off they go and they fight to be born and they we have to fight to find our place in society as kids, we have to fight to find our identity as teens, then fight to find your place as an adult then to find love and start a family and have an experience then grow old and die.

Then they come back and they say ‘I loved my kid perfectly but I think I want to know a life that teaches instead of learns’ so they go off and they fight to be born and they die as a teenager……etc……..get it?

Why? Well if you’ve paid attention to my last few posts you’ll know it’s because of the Human Experience.

Why a Back to the Future Documentary? Because that film created a human experience for billions of people.

They ‘LOOK UP’ told me No one creates like we do, no one takes ideas and makes them something that transcends all time like humans do.

Our human experience is incredible and it’s personal and it means something to everyone having one.

To choose a life of pain and suffering makes you the wisest souls. Your nearly at the top. You chose a harder life for the lessons for yourself and those around you.

No Other species knows the experience like that of the humans. We are creative and inventive and supportive and embracing and free thinking and we LOVE movies and TV shows and they inspire others to have and create their own human experience.

This is why the keep saying ‘Remember me, don’t mourn me’. ‘Honour my memory’.

Because when you remember them it makes them know their human experience meant something AND it means when we remember we travel back in memory with the person who has no gone.

To Mourn them and feel that pain, is what life is. Life is Love and love hurts but there is nothing like it in this universe.

The love of a movie that inspired generations of people to become inspiring themselves.

The love of a child you create and nurture.

The love of a parent,

The love of Nina’s best friend, what an incredible woman her friend is. I know these woman that I’ve never met because Ninas mother showed me months ago. I wish I could tell Nina her Mother is so proud of her. Being a Mother brought Nina’s Mother life and I wish I could tell her that.

Her memory of her Mother keeps her memory alive and then what happens is her boy Jasper will grow up seeing the footage of his Grandma and he’ll have his own thoughts about her and put her in his memory and there her Spirit lives with her Grandson.

See how it works? So that is the Mothers Spirit living on inside the grandkids and anyone who watches the film who thinks about the Mother and their own loved ones etc….and it brings the Spirits right there.

The Human Experience lives on. The Meaning of Life.

Having the human experience so you can make memories and keep your Spirit alive in those who remember you.

Be it a loved one or a stranger, it doesn’t matter. Its the fact to that Spirit of Nina’s Mother (Davenport was her name) her memory is kept alive because someone chose to remember her.

And when your watching someones Mother in a coffin in a documentary you can’t help it. It’s a sadness you feel if you’ve ever had to bury a beloved Mother, parent, sibling or loved one. Grief hurts.

BUT!!! Death is only painful for the living. Spirit are trying to teach us to make memories. Have the human experience. Go out and do and see. Make the memories, not just for you but for everyone around you.

Because one day you’ll be dead and you’ll want to know that your experience meant something.

To the Dead and those living elsewhere there is no death. We live in each others memories. We see each other just by thought alone.

Now I’ve learned to just jump to where I need to go, in a reading or by thought, I can walk around random streets and read out street signs and addresses and describe houses and even peoples lives and funerals etc…….at will.

If we could all get like my level of ability death would no longer exist. We would no longer grieve because our loved ones would exist in my memories and in my dreams and by pure thought alone I can have them by my side.

And they have taught me more in the last 5 months than I’ve learned in the last 42.

Make memories people. Stop wanting money, stop buying houses you don’t can’t take with you, stop wishing to be with someone to love, go out there and find it.

Go put your stuff in storage and travel, write that book, kiss that girl in your class, take those dance lessons. Who cares what people think.

Who cares what people think. We worry so much about what people might think and yet who are these people to judge us for wanting to be happy? Fuck them.

It’s not their life it’s yours.

Don’t go to College if you don’t really want to. Being happy is more important than a decade of being a debt slave.

Write that screen play. I know someone who is writing a book……’s taking a while Dr Who lol

We spend all our time listening to stories on the news and in the media about when the end of the world comes.

People are obsessed with the end of the world. No one wants to hear what I see because it’s not a future ruled by Media, and Banks and Hollywood and Big Business and Pharmaceutical companies where people have been indoctrinated to buy more stuff and be a star and find fame any way you can, and any emotion other than Happy is a mental illness. God forbid you have a real emotion, quick get them on meds for ADHD and tell people they have Bi Polar because suddenly if your happy and then life gets a bit shit your bi polar.

Wake up people. We have human lives. Lives get hard some times. But just because your too lazy to do something to fix it doesn’t mean you should be letting the Government medicate your emotions away. Oh My God!!!

I’m saying this because I’ve had 20 emails this WEEk about people saying they have ADHD because they get moody some times.

Well…..your supposed to get moody. Life gets hard, stuff gets awesome, a twat breaks your heart and a skank steals your money. It happens. Its life.

Stop blaming it on ‘mental disorders’ and deal with your life. If you don’t like the life your experiencing change it. You have the right to change all the things you don’t like in your life.

THAT is why Spirit are saying over and over and over to my clients. Stop worrying about what ifs and just do it. Worrying about possible out comes is far more hassle than just doing it and seeing what happens.

But Good or bad it’s all part of the human experience. And it all takes you down the paths you need to go but you have total control. You can always change the things you don’t like.

Your life is like a Sat Nav. You can’t change the destinations but you can sure as hell decide what roads you want to go down to get there.

So get out there and live your life to the best of your potential. Stop hiding behind fear and mental illness and make your life a human experience for all of us who will remember you.

Then your life lives on forever. To Remember is to be Psychic if you are able to remember the way I have learned to. It’s n incredible feeling to know the lives and childhoods of people who come to me in Spirit.

Then we all just meet up in our dreams and have fun.

I’m utterly exhausted now. I think I’ll sleep for a month.

I need to be Teaching I think. I need to be maybe writing a book. If I could I would give talks but I wouldn’t know where to begin. I also would like to put in out there to anyone reading my Blogs who works in the Science Industry. I want to study myself under a scientific environment to see if I can understand these Time Slips I’m having. Is it a Chemical reaction to something or is it a seizure? is it a hormonal thing or is a part of my brain active?

I’d love to find out.

Anyway, just something for you all to think about. I’m exhausted now lol

I hope this inspires you to start living. Stop allowing this world to stop you from having an incredible human experience.

Because when a Soul gets to the point where it is no longer remembered they stop having human lives and opt be Elders and stuff. Which is sad. But you have to remember, this is why they all flock to us. No one lives like we do. No other planet in the Universe has the same lives as us.

And we fuck it up with wars, The Kardashians and Pocket Dogs.

I mean…..if that’s your experience then have fun with that but stop trying to push it onto us. No everyone wants to be famous because of making a porn. Some people actually have talent and are too poor or too worried with not being bombed to care if KeyWest or whatever their names are having a boy or a girl.

I’d be more impressed if they did a show where she gave away all her wealth. She is married to Yeesuz after all. Wouldn’t he be wanting the poor to prosper.

I’m telling you now America, if that man becomes the next President of the United States your screwed and you’ll have no one to blame but yourself.

STOP WORSHIPPING Celebrities. Raise your children to know about our War Heroes, raise them to have an interest in Science. There are men and women in Science and Medicine and Music and Art and Literature who deserve to be worshiped more than someone who kicks a ball for a Million a week and still can’t get their team to win a Final.

Stop trying to find someone to give you the answers. look for it yourself. Don’t try to be a McPsychic. Be a Gourmet one instead. Sure it takes longer but you’ll enjoy it so much more and you’ll appreciate the efforts that went into making it.

Stop being a Human Being and be a Human Doing.

Enjoy the experiences. Sleep under the stars, get a little stoned, go sing Karaoke, dance with a stranger, hold someones hand, buy a stranger lunch, if you can pay for someones shopping you know looks like they need the help. Some of us have such wonderful experiences we have Forever Loves and Soul mates who want to enjoy the experience with us. They simply chose a different role to play in your life every time there but that’s why a FL or SM are soooo special. Because they share your experience with you in this life and the next and previous etc….They are so so rare. That’s why the connection goes deeper than just loving someone. There is a need to be in each others lives. That is an incredible human experience to have. But it’s why we do it. It’s why we must always do it for the love.

The love of Art, Music, a Human, an Animal, a Movie, a Game, a Genre of something, architecture, history, whatever it is, have it. Know it. Try new foods, open up your world to new experiences. Each one you have will change your life to how it was before. The more you experience the more you want to experience the more you’ll understand. Trust me. Go out and do it. Whatever it is.

Adopt a puppy or cat no one wants and love it with ever fiber of your soul. Offer to help a neighbour, help if you see a need. I promise you, it changes your entire perspective on life when you start to have a more human experience.

Start living people. And I am putting a challenge out to every single one of you. If you come back to me with a story about something you did this week that pushed you out of your comfort zone to enjoy a human experience or about how you went and did something you’ve always wanted to do I’ll grant you a free question. I’ll know if your telling the truth remember lol so don’t make it up.

I want you all to start taking notice of your thoughts and memories and start documenting how many are based around a deceased loved one. I want to see how often you think of them randomly or on purpose.

Your my guinea pigs. And please….I don’t want stories about things you have already done. I only want to hear things you’ve done because I asked you to do it. Just remember the one rule of the Universe.

I shall not by my own actions cause loss or harm to any living soul.

And you’ll be fine.

Love and Light


Join My Forum for discussions out side of the Blog.

I’ve created a Forum for people who want to go in and discuss the paranormal. I will be joining discussions and enjoying open live chats.

Please try and have respect for the forum. I will delete any Messages that are inappropriate, aggressive, bullish, or disrespectful.

This Forum for people who would like to discuss the Paranormal where they aren’t stuck in the confusing Comments sections.

You can discuss what you like, just remember the rules. It is all about Love and Light.

I’m so excited.

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How to Have Spirit Teach and Guide You.

I am asked all the time by people to teach them what I know.So they too can have the sort of Understanding from Spirit that I do and I just cant do it. As I have explained in my Why Can’t You Be Like Me and Others Like Me, my knowledge of Spirit is based on the experiences I’ve had in my life, the experiences with my gifts, and experiences i have had being Me.

But there ARE things you can do. You can start the process yourself if you follow TO THE LETTER what I say and have a full knowledge and understanding what what is going to happen once you Open Yourself up.

The best advice I can give anyone wanting to Be more Open is to Let Spirit Guide You. I know that sounds crazy but once you begin to Live with Spirit, you start to see the lessons, you begin to understand the paths they have you on and then the rose tinted glasses come off they show you get to see the world the way your meant to.

So what do you do?


Well Firstly you must have Faith. You must never EVER doubt what you see, hear or feel from the very first day of your new life. Everything you experience in life happens for a reason. Our lives are all about Lessons and whether it be good or bad, whatever happens in your life happens because it is meant to. That’s why you should never let yourself stress about the things you know you have no control over. Just put your head down and have Faith that everything will turn out the way it is meant to. I promise you, once you actually start to believe this is so, your life becomes so much easier to handle. I haven’t been stressed out or worried for years because I have learned that Good Or Bad it is meant to be. I know everything that happens in my life or my families life is for a reason and the only thing I can do is my best to deal with it when I need to. But if it is beyond my control then I just keep the faith that Spirit will take care of us while we go through it. And they do. They have Never let Me down yet. Honestly, that saying ‘Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff’ Is true. People are conditioned now to worry about every single thing in their lives. Including the things absolutely beyond their control.

Your gonna have shit stuff happen. Maybe have worrying medical tests done, maybe being made redundant, lost a loved one, had an accident. Something that changes your life for ever. But you can and MUST find The Silver Lining because if you don’t it invites more negative things into your life and that’s when things get REALLY messy. Don’t get me wrong, I get angry, I get concerned, I get bothered by things but I know how easy it is for The Negative stuff in my life to take hold and ruin life for me and my family.

Okay so when you lose your job, yes it might mean having to move, downsize, commute for a new job, or even declare Bankruptcy but you know what? There are far more worse things to happen than not being able to afford a house you couldn’t afford anyway. Why stress out about losing something the bank is going to make you pay more than 2 times it’s actual value to live in just so the first sign of trouble for your job they can take it from under you. Unless you have paid your house off completely you don’t own the house, the bank does. So let them have it. They are the ones left with trillions of Dollars worth of houses they now can’t sell. You get to start all over again. You get to hit the Reset Button and do it again but this time with the knowledge and lessons that go with it meaning you will never make the same mistakes.

Times might be tough but there are ways of surviving this until after the cleansing if you use your common sense. For Example if you have Children and you’ve fallen on hard times and you smoke, go to the gym, go out once a week with friends, get your nails done then you have to stop all of that so the extra money goes to providing for the family. Now this isn’t me saying YOU HAVE TO DO THIS AND THAT OR YOUR A BAD PERSON!!!! this is me using examples of what you can do to put a more positive spin on negative things that happen in your life.

As long as you know what is really important to you when things are tough, Spirit will ALWAYS have your back. They NEVER leave you to go through the hard times alone. They will even guide you into getting back on the Path. It is when we wallow and revel in self pity that the real trouble begins and remember the Tempters. They are the ones who put these things in your Path to test your Faith. The more you react to the bad stuff, the more bad stuff they bring into your life. So ALWAYS Have faith, that no matter what happens your gonna be in the best possible care.


Please please use common sense when dealing with Spirit. Not everything that goes Bump in the night is Spirit. Not every bad thing that happens in your life is The Devil. You have to use Common Sense when your embarking on a Spiritual Life. You can’t get carried away with anything and you can’t live life like everyone else. A Spiritual Person doesn’t spend money they don’t have on things they can’t afford because they know Money means nothing to Spirit. In the Spirit Realm they have no concept of money. Neither do beings on Other Planets (who are all connected to each other) Money isn’t something they have concepts of. So if anyone tells you that you HAVE to pay a large amount to talk to, get rid of or protect yourself from the Dead then chances are they aren’t genuine and are only in it for the money. Spirit don’t begrudge anyone who makes money. Their concerns is How the money is made and what you do with it once you have it. There is no point working all your life and squandering all your money to be the Riches Person in the Cemetery. Your life is about the lessons your being given NOW while your living it. The rest you can deal with after your dead but Life is for the Living. Enjoy it while you can. And if that includes making money then that is fine too. As long as you made the money Honestly and you do good things with it. Also if your feeling something, Spirit based but others tell you your wrong, trust YOUR instincts. No one knows your intuition better than you do. Don’t take on board anything that doesn’t feel right to you. This journey is yours and yours alone. You take from life what you need to. Just because someone says it is so doesn’t mean you have to believe it. Use your Common Sense at all times. Then no one or no thing can trick you, pull the wool over your eyes or lead you down the wrong path. Also please don’t encourage or teach what your learning to the wrong people. Not everyone will be able to handle what we are. That’s why it’s called a Gift otherwise it would be called the Sixth Sense in the truest sense of the word. So make sure you don’t encourage just everyone to do what you do. Some people just aren’t meant to know this stuff. Some people aren’t ready yet. It’s going to take a good few decades of people living in the New World before everyone on this Planet is Spiritual. Some people will die never knowing it. It will come to those when it is their time. There are going to be a few Billion people in shock and having to come to terms with the truth about the last 2000 years before you can plonk Dead People in their laps. There are people praying right now who in the next couple of years will know the truth about Religion and will never pray in a Church or to a Church ever again. Some will even be former Nuns and Preachers, Ministers and Priests. Ya know what I mean? So just have faith that The Light will come to Others when it is their time, when it is meant to.


Find what feels right for you. You might want to believe in God and Fairies. Or Rainbows and Frogs. But as long as it is YOUR faith and it makes YOU happy and it isn’t hurting anyone else then you just go right ahead and believe. The only thing you need to know is Your Faith is your right and just because it doesn’t make sense to anyone else doesn’t mean it is wrong. No one has the right to tell you what makes you Spiritual fulfilled and cleansed is wrong. My husband has a friends who’s Faith is based around The Principals of Fairy Tales and Nursery Rhymes. I know of someone who uses Science to make his major decisions for him. But the fact is, they are happy men and do wonderful things based on those Principles. And that is all that matters. As long as your happy and it isn’t breaking the common law of the Universe which of course is ‘I shall no by my own actions coz loss or harm to any living being’ then your fine. This is about you and your Faith. It is no one else’s business. It isn’t what you believe that makes you a better person. It is that you believe in the first place. You might lose friends or respect from some people because they won’t believe in what you believe in. If your Faith is like mine,aka Spirit Based then you have to be prepared for the fact your probably going to lose some people from your life.But Silver Lining and all that, if they walk away from your life because you chose to believe in the teachings of The Dead even though it has made you happier and a better person then they never cared about you and friendships/relationships aren’t based on Do as I do, Do as I say. So good riddance to them if they leave. They aren’t worth it. You’ll have the people in your life your meant to. It’s YOUR life. No one can tell you how to live it.


It really does help if you set up a bunch of principals for yourself to live by. It helps keep you on the straight and narrow. Mine include things like ‘Always Tell The Truth as it is better to be hurt by the truth than devastated by a lie’, Always put others before myself. If someone is in need of something and I have the means to give it to them, it doesn’t matter what I’m doing, I must always put them first. I never allow myself to get something done first so I can do what Spirit need me to do. I know how annoying they can be lol so I will drop everything to do whatever it is they need me to do. Now you must remember though if you weren’t what is called a Natural (which means you were born with the gift and have kept it your whole life like me) your not going to be expected to be perfect and live the life of a Nun or something. So bases your code of conduct around simple things. Common Sense things. The basic expectations of a Spiritual person. ie No Stealing, Lying, Giving to those who have less than you, that sort of thing. Then as your gift builds up and your understanding of the Spiritual grows you can add or change things to suit your new found knowledge. Do a baby Code of Conduct with things you know your can do. Don’t give yourself unobtainable codes. (Honesty with yourself as well ya know lol)


I’m the first one to warn people that Spirit can be as Subtle as a Brick when they want to get the message across to you. But they have so many ways of communicating to you. So again using common sense get to know the ways Spirit chose to communicate with you. They know what you can and can’t handle. They know what frightens and what terrifies you. They don’t want to hurt you. Quite the opposite as you now know if you’ve read any of my Blogs. They will mostly talk to you through your Dreams. It is the oldest form of Spirit Communication. But once you’ve had the Talk with them to say ‘Help me know you to help my life be more enriching’ they WILL ramp things up. So you’ll see things out of the corner of your eye, get smells, gut feelings, thoughts that produce results ie thinking of someone then they call, or thinking something like ‘that guy better watch or he is gonna crash’ and he does. Knowing what someone is going to say or do before they do etc….it ALL comes par and parcel with being Spiritual. And for the record Spiritual doesn’t Psychic. If your meant to open up your Psychic Ability then you will ad 99% of people who live a Spiritual Life will enhance or open gifts. It seems to be most people are in their late 20s-to mid 40’s when they choose to embrace Spirit and enhance any gifts you might have. So don’t worry that you won’t have the same level of gifts you will get there eventually. You have to understand I’ve had 41 years experience. If your starting your Path in your 30’s or 50’s your going to need about 20 years to master it. So be patient. Just let Spirit show you the way. If your meant to learn fast your in for a really life lol Just let Spirit take you on the journey you need to go on. Don’t rush anything. ALL good things take time.


Before you do any of this you need to sit and have THE TALK with Spirit. You need to salt your door way and you need to sit down and tell Spirit your ready for them to enter your life. Tell them on no uncertain terms you will ONLY embrace The Love and Light. That your not Interested in any trouble from any Spirits who don’t come with Utter Love and Light. Your terms, your rules. Always have respect for Spirit. Never invite them in. Leave the door open but only send out invitations to Spirits of Love and Light. You will NOT tolerate any trouble. But seriously, tell Spirit why your wanting to embrace their teachings. Tell them how your feeling and what your wanting to have out of the relationship. You must trust them as they trust you. You will see how wonderful your life is going to be once you have established your connection to Spirit. You need to tell them what you want but also be realistic. If your thinking of doing this so you can be rich or famous then it’s never gonna happen. Remember, Spirit KNOW everything about you and they will know if your intentions are genuine or not. So if after 10 years of pretending to GET Spirit, your still not seeing them, and your still broke then you’ll know why lol Luckily for you, I know your genuine. That is why I’m sharing all of this with you.


In 41 years of being what I am I can safely say I can never assume to know what Spirit are talking about. I’ve done readings for people where I am utterly convinced I know the man/person/situation Spirit are talking about but I’m never allowed to say ‘Your husband/sister/friend/boss etc….because there are 100 different scenarios that can happen in one day in your life and just because it looks and feels like the situation is related to you and your boss doesn’t mean it will be unless Spirit specifically say YOUR BOSS!!!!! So never assume to know what they are talking about until it’s happened. Also you might be going about your business and you turn around and see a Spirit standing there as true as the day is long. This will be because this is the best way Spirit have chosen to show you Them basically. So be prepared for anything. They might start moving stuff in front of you. They might switch your Psychic on over night ad you wake up suddenly being able to read peoples thoughts and predicting and seeing and so on, DON’T freak out. Just have Faith that THIS is how Spirit have decided your ready. So just take it, learn from it and move on. Spirit don’t want to hurt you. They want you to love them and embrace your new life. They have so much to teach you. So let them teach you. Be Calm, and Have Faith. Just be prepared for anything though. lol But how you react to it will determine how quickly you move on to the next level of your ‘training’. Just always stay focused and use your common sense. Your cold breeze and chills might be an open window. But when it’s Spirit, lol You know lol


Now,…………remember the Common Sense thing I keep going over and over? Well when it comes to The Dark Side, or Negative Energy your gonna need it. Ergo don’t do Seances on the 3rd week of our training just because you saw one Spirit out of the corner of your eye in the kitchen. We all see Spirits. It doesn’t mean your Psychic and ready to do Readings and stuff. Before and IF your destined to do readings you will get permission from what I call The Counsel before you do. So you can try as hard as you like but if you haven’t gotten permission or clearance to do such things there is nothing you can do. So be aware that the Dark Side will be waiting for you to stuff it up. They will be waiting in the wings waiting for you to do something silly or foolish so they can come in and start to get you all discombobulated and disconnected with Spirit. All they need is for you to do something like a Seance without proper Protection,or for you to react badly to something for them to come into your life. Hence why you must always ALWAYS find a silver lining. See? Aaaahhhh there IS method in my madness lol I do actually know something lol

The Golden Rules for keeping yourself protected is this. Be In Control at all times. Never let your guard down. You must walk around with a feeling of a shield of armor around you at all times. Don’t let your guard down.They will try to trick you any way they can. A Child Spirit might not be a child at all. The sounds of a woman crying might be a trap. So trust your instincts and before you do anything Protect Yourself. Every night before you go to bed you ask for Protection from Spirit and your Ancestors. Don’t forget to ask for Protection for your home, the people in your home and all the people who will enter your home. Do that every night and your always protected BUT should you have dealings with any Non Living Entity be it good or negative, you ask to be protected by the White Light. Everything you do must come with protection. It is just common sense. And don’t allow yourself to be fooled. The truth of the matter is The Dark Side don’t like people turning to the Light. The more people who are happy, genuine, kind, loving souls of the Light the less they can corrupt and rule us. They have had a bigger hand in our lives than most people realize as they are in every form of Government, Business, Entertainment etc….anything that gets your money, gets your power, gets your self control or common sense. Anything that can do to distract you from being a Spiritual Person they will do it. And remember the old Adage ‘The Devil comes in many forms’. Now I don’t believe in the Devil or Demons because I know we create them. We manifest them from our own fears and darkness. But There Can’t be Light without Dark. They come hand in hand. One helps you keep away from the other. Without pure evil will you know pure love. So just because it isn’t a Red Hoofed Man with a tail and pitch fork doesn’t mean your not safe from Negative and Dark Energy. So never let your guard down. And when you know you have something around you that isn’t of the light, you get angry. You get defensive and you tell them where to go. You tell them they have no power over you and never will. Then ignore them. Once they know your serious, then they stop trying. They really are quite pathetic. It is YOUR power. YOUR life. YOUR in control. So keep yourself protected at all times. The Knowing your protected, protects you. It’s that simple.


You can never read up and study and watch too much when it comes to Spirit and The Paranormal. Educate yourself. This way you learn everything you need to know that feels right for you. What is meant for you to follow, what is meant for you to believe, it will stick. The rest will pass right over you. Finding your Faith is time consuming and requires a lot of hard work and effort lol So get your hands on as such material as you can find, then practice. You might take your Faith from 20 different sources. But whats right for you will be. Try to know a little about every field of the Paranormal. The more you know, the more you can help. With great power comes great responsibility never forget that. Even if your Learning is solely for the purposes of just living a happier contented, enlightened life, your going to be able to use your knowledge to help someone. Albeit teaching your friends or children about the dangers of using Ouija Boards, or helping someone who is grieving understand the truth about the Beautiful Journey their deceased loved one is on now they are free. If your just doing this for yourself, without a want to read for people or anything, your going to be called on by Spirit at some point to impart your wisdoms. So learn about Ouija Boards, Seances,Scrying (all that form of making Spirit contact), The Occult, Witch Craft, Mediums,Psychics etc….learn the lot. And also on a personal note I recommend Learning about the Aramaic Scrolls and what it says about Religion and The Bible. It will blow your mind considering it was written something like 100 years before the bible. It will blow your mind. Also and I don’t want to be Political or Preachy or anything but learn about the Conspiracy stuff too. There is a lot of truth behind some of them.But don’t just read an article, fact find, cross reference. Don’t read the Government stuff, get the Scientific stuff, independent surveys, victim/patient/parent/witness testimony and educate yourself. So when you need to help someone you have facts and figures, and you know both sides.

Learning is Knowledge, Knowledge is Wisdom, Wisdom is Power. And what you will be striving for after starting this journey is the understanding of all 4.


Spirit know your limits better than you. Let things happen as fast or as slow as they need to happen. But don’t push yourself because you have to understand, if your being blessed with a certain level of Spiritual and Universal Understanding that no one else has, you being gifted with something only a handful of thousands of people are going to have. Whether you choose to read or guide for people or just so you can go out and help people, your going to have vulnerable people who trust you with every fiber of their beings. They will put their Souls in your hand. You will help people decide whether to fight on or give up, to live or die, to have strength or have fear. Don’t EVER take that for granted. Don’t EVER forget this gift is on loan and if you mistreat it, you will lose it. Don’t do more than your capable of. And don’t try anything you don’t fully understand because you will put peoples lives in danger. Don’t abuse the power. Don’t make things happen before they are meant to and know that at any time if you abuse the privilege (and it is a privilege) it WILL end. Let Spirit guide you. It will happen when and how it is meant to. So please take one day at a time.

Your experiences will be completely different to mine or any one else you know who will be going through the same thing. It will all be based on the things that happen in your life and how you react to them.

My Teacher Pauline Braddon imparted many great wisdoms on me. All of which I will never forget and I will share a couple with you as you begin your Wonderful Life Changing Journey.

Love Hard and Honest. Nothing brings you closer to Your Universal Creator Than Love. It is something we all feel. And it’s not just about loving your Lover, or Spouse. I’m talking Love EVERYONE. Have that love for everyone,no matter their religion, creed, colour, intelligence. We all breath, eat, laugh, love, feel pain etc….No one is greater than the other. We were all created and we all share this planet. Your Arab Neighbour might have saved a life, your Black Boss might of donated a kidney to a child, your Asian School Teacher may have lost every member of her family to a disease she will get herself one day. Your Indian Grocer might have had his wife and children killed in his native land because of their religion and he managed to escape with the baby to America/Britain where he has felt safe for the first time in his life and he’s not being racially abused by those that come into his store. That Gay Man who serves you in your favourite Restaurant might save your life one day when you choke on our food. My point is, No One Person is better than anyone else. We all are One People on One Earth. We need to look after each other. Without Love we have no hope, without hope we have no future. So love every one and every day. Having said that Give respect where you get it. Your not forced to love people. Just make sure when you don’t love someone it is for a VALID reason and Racism, Bigotry, Sexism etc…isn’t a Valid Reason. Nothing will get you in trouble quicker on the other side than The Disrespecting and Hating, Hurting and Belittling of anyone on this planet. Love Makes the World Go Round.

Also Remain Humble at all times. When your Ego gets in the way of your life it is the ugliest thing people will see in you.

Let People See your true feelings. If your hurting, cry. If you don’t agree with someone, say So. People are so used to Fakes and Phony people always out to take your money and pretend to care when they want to take from you the least you can do is be yourself around them. It’s better they don’t like the real you than love the fake you.

And Lastly if your going to end up doing Readings for money, always make it about the Client. They have chosen you to give their hard earned money to. Give them as much room as they need to trust you. If your genuine they will know within seconds of talking to you. The occasional person won’t like you no matter what, they will have made up their minds about you before they got there but that’s their business not yours. It’s not for you to worry. As long as your honest and humble you have nothing to fear. Your true clients won’t care.

And lastly Enjoy every minute of your learning and journey. It’s going to be the start of your new life. Your life will never be the same again. It shouldn’t be hard. If it’s hard then it isn’t for you and your being told to Stop. Otherwise your about to learn more about yourself and your life now than at any other point in your life previous combined.

And remember if at any time you need help or advice, you know where I am.

The Kiwi Psychic and Midwest Ghost Episode 7

Here is our latest Episode. Sorry for the Delays.

This Episode with my husband the Graphics Expert is looking at some famous and not so famous ‘Ghost Photos’ and whether they are real or not. Expert Analysis so to speak.

Some of our Followers very kindly sent in photos and videos for us to look at. Unfortunately some of them haven’t been possible to post here because I don’t know how to re-post Facebook Videos onto my Blog lol if someone knows how to do it please let me know. I tried to embed the video but it just kept coming out as a photo. Maybe The Poster:Jannel Dunn might be kind enough to email me the footage instead? Anyway, enjoy.

Here are some of the ones we did discuss though.





GHOST MONKEY/ CHILD? (the head peeking around the door by girl on the lefts shoulder)

Ghost Girls

EVEN SPIRITS LOVE A GOOD PARTY: (is it a trick of the light of the Mum of one of the girls at the party?)
Ghost party

The Kiwi Psychic and Midwest Ghost Episode 6

Today is about O.B.Es. Explained and how to deal with them.

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