Your Playing if fire if you don’t listen.

Over the last 3 weeks I have been inundated with people wanting my help then they don’t listen when I give them my advice. After begging me for help, they went against my advice and then had to come back to me when it went tits up.

I’m not an arrogant person, or cocky and I absolutely would never tell anyone they are wrong for trusting their own judgement BUT you have to understand something.

I work, I have two boys under 6, a very messy husband under the age of 40 and I home school. I spend around 80 hours a week working doing my readings and answering emails/comments etc…..99% of the time, for free.

I have no complaints about that either. I love what I do so much. I really do have the best calling I get to have as a job.

BUT……….if I tell you ‘Do NOT threaten to leave him and pack your bags to scare him into showing you attention’ and then you do it anyway and he changes the locks and doesn’t reply to your texts,  then I won’t help you any more. I can’t. It’s not fair.

I won’t sit for 3 hours any more for 3 hours at night in the cold giving you advice that you asked for that you turned out you weren’t even listening to and leave me alone not knowing if your even in the same building you started out in because you just decide to go look at Cars mid conversation then get upset when I don’t answer because I don’t know where you are. I won’t drop everything to help you any more like I used to. You too get one chance. (you know who you are).

I am spending my time sometimes staying up till 3-4am trying to help you. Giving you free advice and taking the time to listen to you. All this week I have spent dealing with people who don’t listen and it has pushed me over the edge.

I gave clear instructions on what you needed to do to protect your children and your home from the trouble that as been caused by not listening and you skim past the important stuff and rush through the process then wonder why it didn’t work.

Well I’m sorry but I’ve had enough. It is unfair to Spirit and to those of my clients and followers who actually listen and appreciate the time I spend helping them.

I will help anyone who comes to me. I turn no one away and if I can’t help (if it turns out it isn’t Spirit related or because I’m not in your area) I find people for you who can. I take what I do very seriously and you all need to start doing the same thing. Apart from not taking the advice your given and causing more trouble than you started with, your pushing away the one person who is taking the time to help you for free.

I’ve now had 4 people, 4, FOUR people go against my instructions in order to get ‘Proof’ their house is Haunted. Every single one of them then went and made things worse.

All bar one person is now back asking for my help to fix what they broke.

I am what I am for a reason. You know nothing of my gift, my connection to Spirit, my extensive knowledge after 42 years of doing actual experiments with my gift (on myself) and you know nothing of my Ability or Culture.

You might have paid Psychics and Mediums to tell you what you want to hear but when a Maori person tells you DON’T Fuck with a Tapu, Don’t FUCK with the Tapu. Your people might have been stone cold accurate but they aren’t Maori. They have no experience or knowledge of a Tapu and now my Kaumatua have forbidden me to help. I have been told by my Elders to step away.

I know your hurting, I know your grieving, I know your soul has been broken in two. I saw what happened. I feel the pain of you and your children. I know your questioning me and my expertise. Your grief stricken in the highest way and all I want to do is hold you. But I was asking questions trying to get everything together, all the information together so I could find you some Kaumatua in your area so they could help you lift the Tapu. Then I get accused of being a fake. So I can’t help you any more and I won’t. I have protected your children but when you mess with Maori things and you do it using rage and anger you make it 100 times worse. Your Mediums put poison in the soul of your family. The very core of your family is now cursed basically, it’s the only way to say it and moving house and country wouldn’t fix it. I had to beg my Elders to even discuss it with me that is how bad a Tapu is. To be so arrogant as to accuse someone who has spent countless hours helping you for free of being a fraud because you didn’t like the questions she was asking is not only arrogant but ignorant as well because I can promise you this.

I will have been the only Maori person who was offering to help you take this Curse if the curse was has been placed on your family as well as deal with the Trickster.

You take the word of 120000 people on Facebook over that of someone who’s job it is to use graphics and art in photography and on Computers every single day of his life is just well….stupid and I’ll tell you why. He has the software to touch up your images and bring out the images you think you were seeing. He would of been the one to help you take the photos properly so you were without doubt of seeing Spirit. But because 120000 people gave in to what is called Brain Pattern Recognition which make up for about 95% of ‘Ghost Photography’ you take their word over the one you sought the truth from. But let me ask you this. If your Mediums are so good, the ones who put you in this predicament in the first place, if you trust them so much why did you come to me?

Now because of your anger and frustration you have driven away the one person who can actually help. Short of going to his family, or on the rare chance a Maori person agreed to help you (which would never happen by chance) your stuck with this activity.

The questions I asked you weren’t in judgement but to have all the questions ready for when I went to these people in Queensland I had been told to go to. They are Maori, they live in Queensland and they would of been able to tell you if it was a Tapu on the home or your family. They would of been able to help me make my diagnoses and they would of helped you deal with the Tapu bringing Utu. But because you didn’t like the questions I asked (to make a formal diagnoses of opinion) you now have no one.

Tapus are real. Tapus can take lives. They can make you deathly ill, infertile, bankrupt, homeless or insane. They can tear families apart and a lot of those who have them placed on them end up substances abusers or locked away (be it prison or psych ward). Mention the word Tapu to a Maori person and watch then recoil and refuse to get involved.

So you can make fun of me, you can call me fake or not real or whatever it was you said, but remember this.

You have children. It will get them too. And you just flipped the bird at the one person who was willing to help. FOR FREE.

So after a couple of weeks of being treated like this by so many people I am making this Declaration on Behalf of Spirit and Myself.

‘If you come to us for help and you don’t take my advice and do it your way which your entitled to do of course. Do NOT come back to me if or when it goes wrong as I will not help you unless I’m told it’s necessary by Spirit. I will no longer reply to your emails if after all the time I spend helping you, you don’t listen. They will be deleted and left unread once I know you’ve wasted my time because I can’t help anyone who doesn’t help themselves. So you get one chance and if you don’t listen I won’t help any more. I can’t. It is wasting hundreds of hours a month of my time better spent actually helping the ones who need it most and I won’t allow it any more.’

By going against expert advise you run many risks which again is your right but if it fails I won’t be there to pick up the pieces. That is all I’m saying.

When my time can be best spent helping someone deal with cancer, or helping someone deal with the Trickster in their home. Those who genuinely listen. Those who genuinely need and want the help. These are the people I will work with. It is not okay for you to come into my life, ask or beg for my help then do the complete opposite of what I told you to do. I sit for hours typing your replies, putting other people including my own children some times aside to help you, skipping meals, going without sleep and all for free and it is not okay that you show up, ask for my help, don’t listen then expect me to fix it for you. I will no longer be doing that any more. Two of you did just that this week and STILL didn’t take my advice the second chance I gave you. Well I’m sorry but I only help those who want to be helped. Your all just lucky I didn’t charge you for the help because everyone else would of done. The fact that none of you care about the time and commitment I put into helping you means your being Selfish and thoughtless and for the sake of my Paying Clients and Clients I help for free who genuinely listen and care about Spirit I have to put my foot down.

I know this might seem cruel but I have sat up 3 nights in a row now with someone who begged for my help and I sat until nearly 4am twice and 12am the last night watching her do the opposite of everything thing I said and now her man has left her because she pushed him too far like I told her she would if she didn’t leave it alone. Now she is wrought with despair having lost her boyfriend. That was time I could of spent well, sleeping for a start, or with my husband snuggled in bed all warm or helping someone else who has had to wait in line for so long. So I have decided I have to put everyone else first.

Oh and one last thing before I go. Please do NOT email me asking me for The Lottery Numbers. If it is NOT in your future to win the Lottery I can’t give you the numbers. If I had the ability to make everyone Multi Millionaires if wasn’t in their destiny every homeless person and every person down on their luck would all be rich.

If it isn’t in your future, I can’t see it and I won’t make up numbers just to please you. If you want the money that bad manifest it yourself. You only manifest the things you truly want so if you really want to win it, manifest the win.

I understand we are all going through desperate times but some of you are starting to ask weekly. I can’t give you what isn’t there. I’m sorry. I wish I could but I can’t. But asking me every week isn’t going to get you anywhere.

I’m sorry I have to be harsh but I’ve been pushed to the edge and tipped over after having to deal with this stuff every day for over 3 weeks now and I have to put those who actually need my help first. I’m not saying you have to agree with what I tell you to do. I’m not expecting you to even like what I have to say but what I am saying is ‘Don’t go against what I say then come back to me when your way made it worse’. Because I won’t give you the same courtesy I gave you when you first came to me. Your not respecting me, yourself, Spirit or my clients when you do it.

Helping people next to having my kids is my greatest joy. Please don’t ruin it for others, you hurt everyone when you hurt me and it’s not fair to them. I won’t allow anyone else to pay for your impatient, impetuous behavior.


Let Your Life Guide Not Define You.

I’ve recently had the pleasure of meeting and reading for a handful of people who’s lives are in turmoil.

They’re reaching out for me to help them, guide them, inspire them and I can’t. I can’t do it. Spirit have told me it isn’t possible. I can’t fix your life. Just because I fixed mine doesn’t mean I can fix yours. There is a big difference between me and all these staggeringly beautiful lost souls and that difference is ‘I have faith’…..’I found faith’…….’I got faith’

At some point in my life, after being sexually abused my men my Dad was in charge of in the Army at the age of about 6, being raped by Police Men in Australia when I turned to them for help, after being kicked out of School at the age of 14 because they felt they could know longer offer me an education, after marrying a man who loved me for being  way out of his mundane life who then proceeded to suffocate me and smoother what I was, after sleeping with too many men to count (none of them married to my knowledge) after taking drugs and drinking every night (it was fun, I can’t lie) I have drunk Russian Sailors under the table, the New Zealand Army twice, and Glaswegians 4 times, lets just say ‘The girl can drink’. I never once got myself into anything I couldn’t get myself out of. After all of it…………I grew myself some faith.

After crying many many nights for someone to save me and not getting anything back. Me……..the lady who talks to the dead, couldn’t hear anything when it came to me. So who was I to turn to if I couldn’t rely on Spirit?

Well the truth is, You. When the chips are down YOU are the one YOU can rely on. You can have 100 accurate readings, but none of them really answer the questions you seek. You can buy the Self Help Books, go to seminars, take prescription medication, drink a bit, search the internet for forums etc……looking for that someone and something to trigger an answer for you but none of it matters if you don’t have faith.

If you have Faith. You don’t question what happens. You can be angry and confused but in the end you don’t question it. Because you know that when something happens, it’s not going to be forever. It might change things, it might break things up, it might bring more than you can carry even, but you know that if you can’t control what is going on, your not meant to so leave it alone, get your head down and ride out the storm. That is all you can do and putting all of that effort in to finding someone with the magic word or wand is just wasting time and energy on nothing. Your better off being honest with yourself, being realistic and admitting ‘If my problem isn’t fixed now  then it’s obviously nothing, outside of me that I can do to fix it’

No one can change your life but you. And the Faith you grew from trusting and listening to YOU is what opens up the lines of communication with Spirit.

Faith involves no Church, or Minister, Priest or Rabbi. Faith is stronger than religion.

People blindly follow religion without any real clue why they’re doing it they just know they supposed to have a religion.

But few have true Faith.

Faith is knowing that regardless the situation, like being raped by Police Officers

, I’m getting out alive and nothing will stop me from living my life to the best of my ability. Where I got out alive of any situation I got myself into was me growing a bit more faith in myself and my abilities to take care of me which grew more faith in the fact I knew someone had my back every single time.

Being kicked out of school lead me to becoming the youngest people ever to get my Degree in Beauty Therapy and Massage. Turns out I wasn’t trouble in school. I was bored. I’m on of these people who excel at the things I’m interested in. I was A’s in English and History but not Maths and Science. But I got IQ tested, something my school should of done. It changed my life. I went and got degrees in loads of things. Tried my hand at many things, all of which gave me life experience which gave me faith in myself which grew me some more in Spirit because they were opening my world right up. That was at 18 and that is when I decided to ‘trust my gut and just do the things in life I want to do, I have gotten myself this far with the faith thing, why not put it to the test.’ Saying that simple sentence changed my life forever and I will be eternally grateful.

Now I know ‘Just because I don’t get the things I want doesn’t mean they aren’t listening to me. It means what I wanted wasn’t meant for me and I was just wasting time wishing for something I knew I might ever get. You have to be realistic about these things. Know the difference between what you Want and what you Need from your life and if your putting all that time and angst into getting something then chances are it isn’t something you even need. Your faith teaches you the difference.

Everything that happened in my life has happened for a reason and those reasons were to give me the faith I have now which is why I regret nothing that has ever happened to me.

My life has been about adventures and getting the things I need into my life. I knew I needed love and family and I needed to help people. I tried  many forms of those things but nothing came close until I met my husband Mr.

See, get the faith in you first. Take all the things that have happened to you in your life and use it to push you along.

When shit happens, just say ‘Fuck it….I can’t control it so I’ll just move on’. Don’t let the fear of living destroy your life,  let the life your living destroy your fears.

It’s that simple. If you don’t like your life, do something about changing it, then you can’t blame anyone if it goes wrong and you’ll learn so much more about yourself and your faith by doing it which money can’t buy and no Psychic will tell you this for free because it means you don’t need her as much.

You can blame the world for your life going wrong  or take from the  lessons you learned and you can demand action in yourself and bring about the changes yourself., but if you do nothing to take action, and nothing changes and Spirit still don’t talk to you then you have a choice, do nothing or Grow some faith.

The choice can only be yours. I can’t do it for you no more than you could of for me.

But it’s there, and it’s for everyone.

P.S I don’t  want any sympathy  for my life. My past doesn’t define me, and my  future..

Want to know how to open yourself up?

I’m inundated with people asking me to help them ‘open themselves up’ to Spirit.

If you’ve read my Blogs at all you’ll know my answer to this off by heart lol BUT here is some advice on how you can open yourself up to Spirit.Tips and Advice to set you on your path. Then instead of repeating myself in emails I can just refer people here.

Now…… the last 12 months I have been giving people the Card test. Where you get a deck of cards and shuffle them and then you have to guess whether the card is a red or black card. Then when your 80% right, you then try and guess the suit ie hearts,clubs,spades, then once your at 80% you guess the entire card ie 8 of Hearts etc…Someone I got to do this test once spat at me ‘How does using these fucking cards teach you to be psychic’ and my reply to her and to you all is this.

‘The Card test isn’t to help you BE psychic, the card test is to help you tune in your frequency to Spirit AND to test your resolve and determination.’ If you give up doing the card test then your not ever going to be Psychic. Because the truth of the matter is, this is feckin hard work and you have to put in at least 10 years of hard work and dedication to draw out, open up and master your gift. That is if your not a Natural. Even then,no one who is Psychic will be allowed to BE psychic for others without passing the test from The Council. Any Psychic or Medium I know of especially in my Society had ‘The Meeting’ with the Council Introduced to them by their Teacher and if your an honest person who uses their gift the right way I won’t even need to go on any further. You’ll KNOW what I’m talking about. The Council are as old as time and historic text is littered with talks of these Guardians of The Spirit World. If you know what I’m talking about you’ll know. I won’t need to say another world. Not any people see them. But most will know them by name alone. The Egyptians spent centuries trying to understand and gain favour with them, the Greeks were terrified of them as were the Goths and Romans. All of whom were desperate to have an inside view of The Spirit World.

As I have explained before, I am what is called an Ancient. Everything I do is based around tens of thousands of years of practice and learning and anything I tell you is based on these practices. And you know I’m only ever going to be honest with you. Brutally honest. And it starts with me saying this:

To open yourself up, you don’t need drums, incense, meditation, courses, books, crystals, Gurus or any of it. Your relationship with Spirit is yours for the taking.Spirit have been waiting multiple millennia for us all to say ‘I want to know you’. So what you need to do to have them in your life is so simple. The question is. Are you prepared in the years of hard work and dedication to achieve it?

So first thing you need to do is what I call ‘Have The Talk’.

When your ready you need to sit and say to Spirit I’m ready to receive you into my life if you think I’m ready. I promise to listen and follow you and to never judge what your teaching me. I will have faith in all that you do and I will work hard to be a good student. I will never doubt myself and everything I do I will do with the absolute best of intentions using my gift and connection to you ONLY to help others where you see fit and never to gain, fame or power. I ask that you always protect me and to teach me what you decide when you think I’m ready.’

or something like that lol


You need to Pay ATTENTION: learn what is and isn’t Spirit. Just because you get scratched doesn’t mean it is a negative Spirit. 99.9% of the time it is a Spirit trying to show you how they died and they don’t realize you don’t understand this. Don’t let religion or even someone like me sway you. Go with what feels right for you but know what your talking about. You are a student of Death. So you HAVE to know it inside and out. Know what it feels like to die, (you won’t actually have a choice to be honest, I’ve felt death 100 different ways but in order to know death you must know what it is to die). You can’t know Spirit without knowing how they died. But just because you get goosebumps, or your hair stands up on end or get scratched of pushed it doesn’t mean it is negative. If the only energy the Spirit can muster is to show you how they died, then it means it is important to them that you know how they died. It is up to you to them figure it out and help them. It really pisses me off that people think they’re under attack from ‘dark unseen forces’ because it scratched you. And I don’t blame them. I blame the media and these shows who portray Spirit in a totally unrealistic way. Dead Resident for example. like what? you go to 100 houses and EVERY SINGLE ONE has a demon? I never knew they were so busy lol   Use logic,science, common sense and psychic ability please I beg you. All that is cold is NOT Spirit. All that growls is NOT a Demon. Spirit will try and communicate in a million different ways and it is up to you to know when it is genuine, when it is wishful thinking or when it is environmental.  You need to educate yourself on the many forms of communication and trust me, once you have ‘ The Talk’ things will happen quick and fast. So know your Dead. It’s not going to be just the ones you’ve loved and lost.Once Spirit know your open for business you will have them coming from all angles. So educate yourself. Lucky for you I did all the hard work for you and have listed all the different types of Spirits and their forms of communication lol

Thirdly: Know your boundaries and set them with Spirit:

Sometimes Spirit can pop in at the wrong time, or put you in a position your not comfortable with. I’ve been in restaurants and even just recently at a car boot when Spirit have wanted me to pass on a message to someone. They have to understand what your prepared to  do.  While Spirit know what you can and can’t handle they don’t always understand not everyone is actively Psychic and can’t just go talking to all and sundry about their deceased loved ones. So don’t put yourself through anything that makes you uncomfortable. Your the one who has to live with it not Spirit do set boundaries. For example, my sisters know that they are NOT allowed to bother my sons while they are asleep. If they come to me it’s fine but they are to leave the boys out of it. Also they know when I’m sick or exhausted I need quiet time. They are only to come to me when it is urgent. Also they are never to ‘Pop in’ when I’m doing something that requires my concentration to the fullest. Like using sharp knives, driving (if I drove lol but you know what I mean) you get my drift. They are welcome to talk to me Telepathically but Visuals and Time Slips etc…are for when I’m not trying to put nails in to line up a painting or something lol they can give you a fright if they come to you without warning.Your not always going to get the hum, buzz or anything to warn you they are there and if your concentrating on something then turn around or hear them in their own voice you can jump 100 feet in the air lol Even Psychics can get a fright lol Once you set the boundaries it doesn’t take them long to realize and learn. It happens to me very very rarely now. It’s usually if it’s urgent.


Don’t run before you can walk. Just because your starting to see them doesn’t mean your ready to go sending them over, or doing readings. Some of you may never be able to predict. if The Council don’t give you the Test and Approval then your never going to be the Clairvoyant kind of Psychic. You may just be the sort that knows they are there  but that doesn’t mean your no good or anything. You will still have the incredible responsibility of being Psychic. Some people are happy just having their own personal connection to Spirit, some people might have enough of the gift to be able to let people know their loved ones are around but being Psychic doesn’t mean you’ll automatically start seeing into the future, or Time Slipping. All of this will be determined on your intentions and your understanding of your ability. But even the most basic Psychic ability can mean many wonderful things like the ability to cross Spirits over and assuring scared or grieving people their loved one is at Peace. You can counsel people using even the most basic of ability. But as I said it will be The Council that decide your fate. You will have to practice everything you preach and if you go doing stupid things like Seances, Ouijas, Ghost Hunts and Provoking Spirits etc…..and you have only been Openly Psychic for 2 weeks then your going to have to be prepared to get nothing but trouble. So please be smart and responsible enough to know what your capable of. If you misuse your connection and gift Spirit WILL remove it. You have to prove to them you deserve the right to have this gift. If you misuse it, you won’t have it for long. It is called a Gift for that very reason. So don’t take on more than your prepared to handle. If you call on Spirits because you asked them to follow you then you have to be prepared to literally face your demons. You created it, you fix it. Which is a nice seg-way into


Never, EVER take Spirit with you. Don’t let a child Spirit, lonely woman, sad man or crying baby fool you into thinking it needs to come with you. the WORST thing you can do is invite Spirit to follow you or communicate through you. If you don’t know what your doing you can bring a reign of terror down on yourself and your home. So ANY TIME your going into a situation involving Spirit, Protect yourself and leave what is there……THERE.


Make a code of conduct. I talk about this all the time and having one really does make you a better Spiritual person. Your not expected to be perfect but you are expected to be honest. Making a code of conduct  always reminds you of why our doing what your doing.I was recently taught by my now deceased teacher the Spiritual Laws of Judgement. As a White Lighter I’m not allowed to judge. Being human first, sometimes I have caught myself doing it.The night my beautiful teacher passed away she came to be with my ‘File in hand’ and told me I needed to work on Judgement. I thought she meant I was too judgmental but then an incident happened on Facebook where I was accused of being non Spiritual because I judged Kim Kardashian and Angelina Jolie based on their fame coming about because of sex and how they were appalling examples of the wrong type of ‘Role Models’ to young girls. When you hire yourself out for personal appearances for money your a Call Girl. When you take money for work because you released a sex tape, your a Porn Star, when you abuse the sanctity of marriage because you were told it would nice to have a TV wedding your not someone I want to have in my home or around my children. Having money doesn’t give you class or automatic status as a Role Model. This is when I realized actually I am allowed to judge others based on their behaviour, how they make their money and how I choose to have them in my life especially with having young kids. What I am not allowed to do is judge why someone drinks, or takes drugs, no one is perfect. I especially am far from perfect.I’ve done things in my past I would like to change but I am smart enough to know my mistakes didn’t hurt anyone else but me and they happened so I can learn from them and better myself. Being Spiritual doesn’t mean your expected to be perfect. But you are expected to be honest. And sometimes the truth will hurt. After I was abused and called all sorts of names on Facebook by people who call themselves Spiritual who weren’t even smart enough to counter argue my point (which said to me they knew I was right) Spirit said to me ‘Being Spiritual means you often have to speak the truth to ears that don’t want to listen’. And that is so true. So create a code of conduct. It will be your guiding light in every single part of your life. Mine involves things like Always being honest,putting others before myself, giving to those who have less etc….Yours can be anything you want it to be if it makes you a better person. Your going to make mistakes but it is whether you correct them and learn from them that matter to Spirit. Spirit don’t begrudge anyone making money but what they care about is how you make your money and what you do with it once you have it. If I was ever lucky enough to have millions in the bank my readings would be free. I’ve said that many times before and I mean ever bit of it. I know one day if I’m going to work full time I may have to charge a bit more but my readings will never go past $100. If I have anything to do with it, the more money I made the cheaper it would get lol if that makes sense lol


Educate yourself. Get to know every aspect of Spirituality. From the Theological point of view to the Religious aspects. Know what your living and preaching. You can’t go helping people understand the true nature of Spirit if you yourself don’t understand it or practice it. Never tell anyone anything you yourself don’t believe and never do anything or get anyone to do anything you yourself wouldn’t do. Because then your not a leader your a dictator. Read up, talk to people,ask questions, watch movies, documentaries, practice. Educate yourself. Your going to have people listen to everything you say so make sure your telling them the right thing. Common sense, logic,psychic ability and science. Right?………Right. Remember Learning is Knowledge, Knowledge is Wisdom and Wisdom is Power. Having the Power over yourself and your gift is thee most invaluable most precious gift you could ever be given next to having children. No one person, no amount of money, no single experience can ever teach or give you what Spirit are going to give you for free. So make sure you give yourself and Spirit the respect of knowing what your talking about. Never will you regret it ever. In fact it gives you a sense of peace and comfort not only to yourself and to others when you have the answers. Even the most basic a of Psychic or Spiritual ability will be called upon at times to help someone else or yourself.


Document everything especially for the first couple of years. Your dreams, your experiences, the lessons you’ve learned,  visions, visitations. Get a big journal and write it all down. Date stamp it and never throw it out. You’ll be surprised how helpful it will become later on. I have one for dreams that I write all my ‘premonitions’ in and one for my experiences and lessons. Both started when I was around 15-16yrs old and I still get them out to read them. I’ve been able to tick my premonitions off and understand things that didn’t make sense when they happened but do now. It does help honestly.


Know you are privileged. if you end up a Path Walker which is what you will become if you put all I’m teaching you into practice your going to be privy to the entire universe and it’s secrets. Your going to live a life dabbling in Scientific theories and principles even Science is just starting to understand and unravel. Your going to be in a position of great power over the sad,lonely, scared, vulnerable and grieving. With your knowledge and ability your going to be the final answer in a lot of peoples lives. If you get it wrong, or abuse the privilege you will not only destroy your life but theirs as well. I have had over a dozen people on the brink of suicide come to me this year alone relying on me to give them the answers. If I put my ego in the way in any way, none of them would be alive today. It doesn’t matter what your principles are, or your religious views or what your views are on anything in their life. You take of your own principles and keep it away from everyone else unless your asked to. But when it comes to the grieving, the scared, fed up and lost they must ALWAYS come first. you do whatever you have to do to comfort them and give them the solace they seek so they choose life. If your only playing at being Psychic, if you think its fun and cool and a bit sexy to be playing at psychic and then you psychically read someone wrong, or read them the wrong way you could be responsible for them dying instead of living. You can think your cool and righteous Meditating and Namasteing everyone, burning incense so you can transcend space and time but if you don’t understand how important your role is or your just playing at being Spiritual you could commit Spiritual Murder. When your Spiritual, I mean truly Spiritual, you don’t become Spiritual for yourself, you become Spiritual for everyone else and the entire Universe. There is no room for Yourself or your Ego in the world of Spirituality.


Know the words you speak. One of the things that drives me barmy more than anything is watching people misuse or use a term incorrectly. For example to be an Empath do NOT mean to be Psychic. It means to feel Empathy with your fellow man and the Universe on a very high and emotional level. If someone calls themselves an Empath and they mean Psychic, please walk away. They don’t know what they are talking about. I do not have a problem with New Age or Modern Spirituality but I do have a problem with how many of these places and people are teaching others the wrong thing and putting peoples lives in danger. In going over my books for the year for tax reason it was drawn to my attention that I received in 2014 from January 17th until the 3rd December 211 emails from people who had been told or read something from a New Age practitioner or Shop they were a White Lighter or an Empath  who should be doing this and that who spent a fortune buying the things they needed or to have the readings that ended up causing them financial, emotional or Spiritual hardship. One of them is actually being sued. I have no problem  what you choose to believe. It’s your faith, your beat, you march to it, what I do have a problem with is people wearing the Uniform but not knowing the job. If you think your a White Lighter because someone said you were and then you can’t control someone suffering from depression or someone who is erratic with fear then your going to bring so much trouble on you, possibly even litigious actions or physical harm. Because it is one thing to do it yourself but when you involve other people it is a whole different story and probably a good 60% of what I do is fixing other peoples ignorant mistakes. I’m not having a go at anyone who is New Age, I wish no one ill will or bad feeling. I love and respect anyone who takes on the hard task of being Spiritual. I have New Age followers and friends all of whom I know would NEVER abuse their life style. I know they would never dream of putting anyone’s life in danger because of their own ego. But I’m being dramatic with you so you understand the seriousness of being Spiritual and Psychic. I would never lie to you. My goal and dream is to have everyone on the planet having a level of Spirituality in their lives that makes them happy and stops them being afraid of Death and the Dead. How they do it is up to them but when your dealing with other peoples lives you need to understand the importance and serious nature of the business. And that is, if you don’t know what your doing or do it for the wrong reasons, you won’t last long and Spirit will shut you down. With great Power comes Great responsibility. So know the words you speak. A sensitive is someone who feels Spirit but doesn’t want to be called Psychic. The word Psychic can be seen as a dirty word but what else are you to call the ability? Someone who drives for a living is called a Driver, someone who nurses is a Nurse etc…someone who can communicate with the dead using psychic ability is called a Psychic. Call it what it is. Also a White Lighter is someone who lives their life under the guidance of Spirit for the purpose of helping others is called a White Lighter. All these terms have been around for centuries, don’t let anyone teach you otherwise. The strength of your gift will be based on the level of your understanding. The more you know the more you learn. The more you learn the more you can teach. The more you teach the more others learn, the more people learn the better our world will be.

Everything I have told you is all things I have done myself. You can have no ability or have a small amount of ability but if you do all of these thing you WILL have the ability to see and communicate with the dead. Some people in my society were in there 60s when they became Open to Spirit. But as I said in the beginning, just because you have the gift doesn’t mean your going to be allowed to BE a Psychic.Some of you I know will just want to have a better understanding of what your ability is all about. Some of you will want to help others, some of you will want to make a living from it. It is your gift to do with it what you want. But ultimately it will be Spirit who decide if you get to use it on others and how you get to use it.

Be honest, be pure of heart, have the best of intentions and never do it for the money. Spirit will give you the life they see you working hard to have, you will never make yourself be rich and famous if it isn’t in your destiny. But you will be rewarded all the time for your selfless acts and good deeds. The rewards are better than any lottery win I promise you that. When someone you took from the darkest place in their life and showed them the light at the end of their tunnel so they could walk through it and see the light for themselves no amount of money of earth is better than that feeling of knowing you got to watch them come out the other end saved and at peace.

You will never worry about money, Spirit will ALWAYS have your back and your Faith will be stronger than anything else in your life. They will never lie to you or let you down. The path they walk you down is littered with love and abundance, opportunity and friendship, loyalty and respect, admiration and understanding. People will respect you and fear you, love you or hate you, but for those that matter you will be their light. These are the reason it is called a Gift. This is why it is a privilege and why I am so fierce to protect it. Having a gift is an honour not a right.

If you spend the next 10 years working on all of these things once you have The Talk, you will be rich beyond your wildest dreams. I wake up every day wondering how I got to be so luck to have the life,Followers and Clients that I have. Such loyalty is truly humbling to me.

You can have that too if you follow my teachings. Honest, easy and free. But if you don’t get past the card test, your either never going to have the patience to master your craft or your going to take decades to get past the first level. You will need patience, dedication and humility. Spirit will teach you at the pace they know your capable of. Remember to protect yourself at every connection, protect yourself every night at bed time and make sure you protect those around you too. you might be the only one practicing your ability but if your in a house with others they WILL get caught up in it at some point. You must remember, Spirit will have been waiting for you to have The talk since the day you were born if it is i your destiny to have this ability opened up. They will come thick and fast. Even the Negative ones. You WILL get tested many times before you get the go ahead to use your gift out in the world should that be the plan and even if it isn’t your going to be tested many many times.The Light side goes par and parcel with the Darkside at first. So just remember what I have taught in this blog about it and you’ll be fine. Be firm, protect yourself and don’t give in to the fear. Remember they need your fear to survive so don’t give it to them. Starve them of the fear. They will be whatever your most afraid of and use it  against you. Don’t give in to it. get angry, get protective and tell them where to get off then turn your back on them. However, it is just a test.Always remember Spirit have your back. If you keep yourself honest and  only use your gift the right way then the Darkside or anything negative won’t really be interested in you if your not doing anything you shouldn’t be. The Dark Side don’t worry about people who just want to open up to understand or have a better connection to Spirit. It’s if you want to use your gift for a greater humanitarian purpose they will have a problem with. But they are weak pussy bitches who need to frighten you in order to exist. So tell them where to go and shut it all down before it takes off okay? Also when you start this journey remember to forget everything you knew before because the way Spirit choose to do it for you doesn’t necessarily mean it will be done the way you think it should be done or even how. You will be the Student and the Teacher for the rest of your life.

I have had this Post sitting in my Drafts folder for months but my WordPress got hacked. One of my loyal followers was also hacked and it created a whole heap of trouble for the both of us. They took this post and littered it with foul language and abuse of my followers and I lost some followers because of it.Luckily for me after I was able to track them down and resolve the situation with them I got them back. But if you know me, if your a true follower, you’ll of known that person that was portrayed in that Post wasn’t me or part of my character. So Thank you for your trust and faith in me in knowing my character. I am honest, I am forthright and blunt but I’m not cruel or abusive. I just want to help people. Not hurt them.Those that know me and my style know this about me. I’m True Blue.

Happy New Year and I love you all

Love and Light



Got Psychic Kids? Here are some Tips to help them.

If you are a follower of mine and you have been blessed with the patience to sit and read all of my Posts, then not only are you gifted with Patience but you will know I am what is called A Natural Born Psychic. Which means I can trace my Psychic Ability back through many generations of my family as far back as my Ancient Egyptian Ancestry. While my Parents weren’t open about their gifts they talked openly to us kids. I grew up still at a time when you simply didn’t talk to strangers about your ability to see the dead. I’m blessed not to have grown up in a Racist country but it was a very Christian country and being a Catholic Psychic Family was virtually punishable by death of your reputation and social standing. I was a giant, over weight kid who questioned authority if I thought it was wrong, I didn’t need to be a further out cast lol

However, talking about the Spirits we had seen, discussing premonitions etc…around the dinner table was second nature to us. My parents didn’t understand their own gifts but they never ever stopped us from understanding ours.

I was lucky enough to be the only member of my family my Mum asked a reading from. Before she died. That if you knew my Mum was a huge honour for me. After her reading she told me ‘It was quite extraordinary’ and she couldn’t stop asking me questions about what I knew ad understood.

THIS readers is what every parent should be like. I understand more than most what your kids are going through and as a parent of Psychic kids I know how complicated it can be to explain what is happen to your children.

It doesn’t matter if your children are too young to talk or have a limited vocabulary. If they are seeing things you’ll know it. If you know your children are seeing Spirits I have some tips to help you deal with it a lot better so you not only find answers your seeking but you will also help your children to have the same relationship with Spirit as I do which I have to be honest and say ‘Is the best relationship your child will ever have in their entire life’. So here are some Tips and Hints on the things you can do to help your child embrace, understand and keep their gifts.

Now, please remember just because it is a Black Shadow doesn’t mean it is an evil or demonic Spirit. It just means the Spirit hasn’t got enough energy to draw on to manifest.

Okay so here we go.

1) if your child is afraid to sleep in their room at night it is important to give them back the power. I gave my son as I was given, a torch to keep on for as long as they want.

The most important thing about the Spirits that are in the room at night is they aren’t there to frighten your children. They are drawn to their light. All children ca see Spirit up to the age of about 8. It is important they understand that it is perfectly normal to see Dead people and they are only there to get help or to protect your children. The younger the child the closer they are to being Spirit themselves. So newborns are considered Spirits until they can see ad hear and watch. Then they are immortal beings. But they all have that light. Psychic ability comes with a light only the dead and some intuitive people can see. But it is the light that draws the Spirit. By giving your child a torch or lamp your changing the type of light Spirit see. It seems to calm them down. Or tone them down might be the better term. They become less scary to the child.

2) It is VERY important that your child see’s your not afraid and have it all under control. They need their parents and Guardians to be strong so they learn to be strong too. Everything your child is going to learn is through watching you. So it is important that you never show fear. You can be as scared as you like inside but to your children you must look in complete least to your child. If all your dealing with is your average every day Spirits then you have nothing to fear. That I promise you. When your child goes to bed it is important you do this ritual every night. As they grow more confident and aware they will end up doing it themselves. Okay so the Ritual…….

Tuck your child in bed with their security blankets, binkys or toy they love most. Snuggle them in,give them a kiss and say ‘Sweet dreams Baby, and remember we aren’t going to let the Spirits make us afraid are we? Because Mummy/Daddy.Granny etc…. won’t let anyone or anything scare my Baby. Do you hear that Spirits, we know your here and we know your trying to communicate but your scaring my baby/child. Mummy/Daddy/Granny etc…will come and tell you off and put you on the naughty step (basically whatever it is you do to reprimand your child when naughty). Your not allowed to come and play at night. Night is for sleeping and (childs name) needs their sleep because they are only little. You have to listen to me because if you don’t respect what I am saying then I will have to send you away. Day time or in dreams is fine but your not allowed here at night okay?’

Your child will trust that your taking their fear or concern seriously. They will feel safe and confident that you can help them and it means they won’t hesitate to come to you in the future to tell them what is bothering them. My son talks to me about any concern he has now including big worrying ones. When your child knows you always have their back and you will always protect them, they trust you more to talk openly about their visions, concerns and worries. It is actually quite a bonding experience. You can of course use your own words to the same effect but you basically just want your child to hear you saying to the Spirits they see ‘We know your here but scaring them isn’t allowed. So you play by the same rules or you will have to leave.’ This will give your child confidence and make them feel protected. Plus you bond with them. My son and I fight like Cats and Dogs but he told his Dad ‘The only thing I’m scared of is Mum when she yells but she is the only one who makes me not afraid of Spirits and she’s my best Fwend’ (he can’t say his R’s with some words lol).

3) Always encourage your child to talk to you about what they see.Even with a limited vocabulary you know what your child is saying or gesturing. Start as young as you can. Use whatever language you have to in order to get them to open up. Every time they see something, encourage them to talk to you. The reason being is if your child is seeing Spirits, they will be seeing some in their Death State and even being shown things that will happen in the future. You need to get them talking to you so you can help them understand what it is they are seeing. If they are seeing things you can”t explain come to me and I will help you. Especially if your child is like my youngest and comes out with things like ‘Mum a Spirit showed me an explosion in a train tunnel’ and then 2 weeks later a train in Switzerland catches fire. But it can and probably will happen at some point. But trust me, some of them can be scary and confusing so you need them to be able to talk to you any time. It really does help to get it off your chest as a kid even if you don’t want to dealing with any of it. But it is true that a Problem shared is a Problem Halved. I promise you with every fiber of my being, if you can’t figure out what they are being shown come to me and I will help you try to understand it.

4) While your child has been given a special gift that no amount of money can buy,always teach them to be proud, humble and honest about their gift. If your child is allowed to show off and be condescending as a child Spirit will remove their gifts by the time they are adults. But in the same breath don’t let them hide what they are. You can absolutely raise your children to be humble with their craft while confident as well. Some people will react in a completely ignorant and stupid manner,some will embrace everything your child says. But you will have occasions when out in public when your child will say something like ‘Mum that waitresses Dad is standing with her and he wants me to tell her Happy Birthday and I love you’. Now… should never make your child feel anything other than relaxed about what they have seen. But what you do next matters. What I would do is write it down on a piece of paper and hand it to them as we are walking out. But my point is, you should always encourage them to use their gift and not to be ashamed of it but at the same time to be socially conscious of the fact that not everyone can handle being around the dead.

Your children aren’t different to other kids, they are just more special. lol I taught my son to look at any kid who doesn’t like him and tries to bully him as ‘they only do it because they are afraid of your light’. It makes him feel sorry for them because they don’t have the Special Light.

5) Encourage them to ask the Spirit questions when they are old enough. It will teach them to interact with them better and when they see Spirits; human side it makes them less afraid. At some point you realize they are someones Mum, Dad, Brother, Sister, Grandparent, Husband, Wife, Sibling, grandchild etc…and they either just want to be acknowledged or they might have a message. If your child can let his/her Teacher, Neighbour, Friend etc..that their loved one has sent a message your child will be bringing Peace to the receiver. So the more information your child can get from the Spirit the more they have to give to the receiver who then can’t deny the message. There are many ways to approach this kind of situation but I find an email,or letter is still the best way to go about it. Write it on our child’s behalf and end it with a ‘If you would like to know more please don’t hesitate to ask’. Then it leaves it open to communication should the receiver want it. But this teaches your child about being responsible with their gift as well.


If you follow these key things not only will you help your child understand without fear what their gifts are and how natural being around Spirit can be but it is a beautiful way to keep a bond with your child because I will never forget what my parents did for me when I was a kid and love them more for the experience. So I guarantee your your children will feel the same way too.

I’m in the process of writing a Children’s book on this very topic.My husband is Illustrating it.When it is done I will be offering it for sale for a very small fee. It will be available for Andriod and Ebook format as well eventually in Paper Book form.  I just need to find the time to complete it lol



My Gift Has Changed. I Appear to Time Slip during Readings now

It seems to be now when I’m doing a reading I am able to Time Slip during the reading. I have found in the last 8 readings I have done not only could I Appear beside the Client while I’m watching them like a Spirit going about something I’m predicting in a reading but I am also able to Time Slip to their Past Life events as well.

I know this sounds crazy because it’s so different to an Actual Time Slip.

I don’t get the Hum or Buzzing like I do a Time Slip in Public. This is while I’m Psychically reading for the client.

Let me explain as best I can.

Before when I read for someone it was like a movie playing out in my mind. I would get images and glimpses often in quick succession and Spirit will fill in the blanks. But recently I’ve been basically transported to the space and time of a particular imagine in the reading where I can not only see everything as though I am actually there but I can smell the smells, feel the weather on my skin and describe what I’m seeing in great detail.

I did it just tonight with a client. I saw him standing outside a building taking a phone call. Instantly I felt the cold air hit my face, (Still do actually) I could feel the snow hitting my face and my face IS cold. I could smell his cologne, I could feel my feet crunching on the gravel. I could describe where he was standing in such great detail he knew exactly where I was talking about. I can touch objects and retain the feel of their fabric. It’s remarkable.

I’ve had two clients who were shown past life issues where I was right there, watching them go about their business in their last life. I could smell the blood, the heat, the screams of the men dying in battle. I could feel the metal of the saw as it cut limbs off. The feel of the cotton cloth she was using to wipe the blood off her face. She was in the heat of battle during the American Civil War. I can describe it in vivid detail because I was there.

The trouble is, I’m never prepared for it so I can’t make sure I take a tablet for the pain it gives me when I come out of it.

As with Time Slips the common thing is my eyes start to go blurry and my real life seems over lapped with the image from the reading. And when I come out of it I am WIPED out. Seriously WIPED out. I can barely move. The Nausea is oh my god…..I can’t even begin to describe it. Nothing takes it away either.

I will sleep like the dead tonight (no pun intended). It has taken over 2 hours for my eye sight to almost repair itself.

There is a down side though.

One of the Clients I read for lost his Mother when he was 9 years old. His Mother was murdered and no one knew to this day what happened and who. I was transported to the room. I witnessed in great detail this poor woman being beaten about the head and strangled. I felt her thinking about her son as she took her last breath. I was able to describe who killed her. I’ve seen death many times before but not like that. I will never forget it. The freakiest part about it all is I swear to God, she saw me. I swear she knew I was there.

I don’t know what is happening to me. I am letting Spirit guide me the way they feel I need it. I accept any experience they give me as being part of my Greater Plan. And I know I can’t interfere with anything I see and I never would but the incredible thing about it all is It isn’t just in a reading now that I can do it. It’s Past Life Readings and Future experiences I’m travelling too. So my Time Slips are without Time.

Ever The Student