My Gift Has Changed. I Appear to Time Slip during Readings now

It seems to be now when I’m doing a reading I am able to Time Slip during the reading. I have found in the last 8 readings I have done not only could I Appear beside the Client while I’m watching them like a Spirit going about something I’m predicting in a reading but I am also able to Time Slip to their Past Life events as well.

I know this sounds crazy because it’s so different to an Actual Time Slip.

I don’t get the Hum or Buzzing like I do a Time Slip in Public. This is while I’m Psychically reading for the client.

Let me explain as best I can.

Before when I read for someone it was like a movie playing out in my mind. I would get images and glimpses often in quick succession and Spirit will fill in the blanks. But recently I’ve been basically transported to the space and time of a particular imagine in the reading where I can not only see everything as though I am actually there but I can smell the smells, feel the weather on my skin and describe what I’m seeing in great detail.

I did it just tonight with a client. I saw him standing outside a building taking a phone call. Instantly I felt the cold air hit my face, (Still do actually) I could feel the snow hitting my face and my face IS cold. I could smell his cologne, I could feel my feet crunching on the gravel. I could describe where he was standing in such great detail he knew exactly where I was talking about. I can touch objects and retain the feel of their fabric. It’s remarkable.

I’ve had two clients who were shown past life issues where I was right there, watching them go about their business in their last life. I could smell the blood, the heat, the screams of the men dying in battle. I could feel the metal of the saw as it cut limbs off. The feel of the cotton cloth she was using to wipe the blood off her face. She was in the heat of battle during the American Civil War. I can describe it in vivid detail because I was there.

The trouble is, I’m never prepared for it so I can’t make sure I take a tablet for the pain it gives me when I come out of it.

As with Time Slips the common thing is my eyes start to go blurry and my real life seems over lapped with the image from the reading. And when I come out of it I am WIPED out. Seriously WIPED out. I can barely move. The Nausea is oh my god…..I can’t even begin to describe it. Nothing takes it away either.

I will sleep like the dead tonight (no pun intended). It has taken over 2 hours for my eye sight to almost repair itself.

There is a down side though.

One of the Clients I read for lost his Mother when he was 9 years old. His Mother was murdered and no one knew to this day what happened and who. I was transported to the room. I witnessed in great detail this poor woman being beaten about the head and strangled. I felt her thinking about her son as she took her last breath. I was able to describe who killed her. I’ve seen death many times before but not like that. I will never forget it. The freakiest part about it all is I swear to God, she saw me. I swear she knew I was there.

I don’t know what is happening to me. I am letting Spirit guide me the way they feel I need it. I accept any experience they give me as being part of my Greater Plan. And I know I can’t interfere with anything I see and I never would but the incredible thing about it all is It isn’t just in a reading now that I can do it. It’s Past Life Readings and Future experiences I’m travelling too. So my Time Slips are without Time.

Ever The Student

xoxox

 

 

 

I have some messages: Odd Sock Club

I’m being taken over today lol Spirits every which way I look. I can only tell you what I’m being told. Please contact me if your one who these messages are for: I can’t promise I’m going to make sense but I will try as I literally have multiple Spirits trying to talk to me and I can feel myself going. I more than likely won’t remember any of this so please forgive me if anything I say is offensive or upsets anyone. This is not my intention. I’m simply passing on messages. I love you all so much. You all mean the world to me. Please know I’m doing this knowing it is going to take days off me lol But your about to experience me in action lol But I am NOT a Medium. I only do it when Spirit step forward. And my God have they stepped forward.

Okay firstly to Amanda: I have Grandad, he pushed through first. He was like a little bulldog pushing his way through. This man had a job where he was boss lol He may have had a Military back ground or a background of leading men. He is authoritative but so loving. He’s the sort of Grandad that went all out at Christmas for his grand children. He was always full of love and he passed with some sort of stomach or gut issue. I feel like he got something like Cancer in his stomach or Pancreas then it went to his lungs or something. But the gut/stomach is where it started and it spreading is what took his life. He was sick for about 8 months, less than a year and he keeps saying over and over ‘I need to speak to my Manda’. This is his message. ‘You can’t do more than your capable of. You have tried to mend the pieces of a broken family but you have done all you can do. You need to focus on you now and let the rest of them sort it out. You are allowing yourself to be drained by those around you who are negative. Your creative energy is being drained because someone around you is draining you. Your giving so much of yourself to mending others, your forgetting to look after the most important person which is you. Your going to suffer an illness because of this if your not careful and you have things you need to be doing next year. Big things. Your telling yourself it’s because your tired, it’s because your busy your the way your feeling right now is because those around you are draining you. You need to step back and let the world around you fix itself. You need all your energy for next year. He wants you to know he loves you and he has your dog with him. He said you’ve always the apple of his eye. He definitely said Manda. He said Manda before he said anything else. So if your Manda or Amanda or you know who this message is for please can you pass on this message. I feel like this person REALLY needs to hear this message right now.

Next I have a Woman here, she is saying Daphne. She is dressed in Older clothes, from like the 1900’s but what she is saying is really important. She wants whoever it is to know she is getting bring to bring Mum/Grandma over. You know this person is terminally ill so its not a surprise. This woman who is being watched over buy her Mother would be in her 70’s 80s herself. But this Spirit woman looks like she wold barely be 50 if not late 40s. So this terminally ill woman’s Mother died in her 40’s maybe early 50s at least 60 years ago.The ill woman I don’t think had her Mother in her life for very long. But I don’t know if Daphne or Delphine is her name, or the name of her daughters. But the ill lady needs to know that Mum is with her and she is making sure she isn’t scared. She said she is going to be with her every step of the way. I keep wanting to say Mmmm for a name. Mary, Marion, Margret, etc…the daughters name might start with M. This woman is showing me a photo of herself when she was about to be married that still exists and she is wearing a White Blouse with a high neck. Long pencil thin skirt that sits high on the waist. With black boots and she has her hair tied back in a bun. She looks about 18. She said ‘I could of been an actress, I acted in Community Theater but I wanted a family more than I wanted to act.’ She wants her  children and grandchildren to know that Nana/Mum will not be in pain or alone in her final hours and she will be free from pain. Wisconsin means something to this woman and also she is saying ‘Don’t paint with that yellow colour, it isn’t going to look very nice. You’ll regret it as soon as it’s done. It is NOT the colour for you.’

 

Then I have Michael, my poor Michael who has been with me for Months. I’ve asked numerous clients and Facebook and Tweeted about this poor man. He STILL stands by my bedroom door. All I can tell you is he was in his 30’s, he either had a brain aneurysm and bleed into his brain while he was at home.I think he lived in a Caravan type of house. But it was because of his work.Michael worked outside I THINK in the Lumber Industry. There are machines in his yard. He may have been a Lumber Jack or worked in the Industry but he worked on site or often slept in the company Office which is on site. Because he shows me going in side to make lunch or have a break and next thing he gets this pain in his head and he is on the ground. He keeps talking about blood and his head so I don’t know if he was hit on the head or like I said had an aneurysm but his death was because of his head. He said he was found alive, but died when no one was around. He was moved while alive (I think he is saying he was taken by ambulance alive and died in hospital). His message is so important because he is desperate. This poor man has been standing in my bedroom every night for about 5 months now and I need to find his family. He is desperate for his sister to know he has her baby with him and he is looking after it. I don’t know if she lost a baby or is wanting a baby but he is saying ‘It’s okay sis, I have your baby.’. He wants his parents to sell his stuff. He has no need for his stuff but he wants Dad to have his truck. Coz ‘Dad loves it’. He wants his family to know ‘He didn’t feel a thing. The last he remembers he was feeling tired and took and early break, then he was with Grandpa and (I think) he said Uncle Richard’. Michael is about 6’2 inches tall, not slim, maybe athletic build with muscles. He had soft hands even though he worked with Lumber. He had brown eyes, and he asked me to talk about the scar on his face by his right eye. He played guitar, ‘self taught thank you very much’ lol and he is a gentleman. He has been in my room for months and hardly makes a sound. Please if Michale belongs to you or sound familiar to someone you know please get in touch or pass his messages on. It would mean so much to me.

I also have little Sarah. Sarah is about 10-12 years old.One son says 10 one son says 12, I think she looks about 9-10. But the one thing that confuses us is she sometimes has almost blonde hair and sometimes it is a light brown. But her eyes are brown. She is wearing blue jeans and a pink top with My Little Pony on the top, she also sometimes wears green pajamas with her hair tied back.

I feel she had some sort of stomach disease, because I don’t see any injury but the boys say she was stabbed. Please bear in mind my boys are 4 and 5 and they are still learning to deal with their gifts. They aren’t afraid of Spirit. But sometimes they get so caught up in what is going on they forget to listen or ask questions. But this is what I’m currently teaching them. She may have told them Stabbing pains and at 4 and 5 they took it to mean she got stabbed. OR she may have been stabbed. But I’ve not seen any blood. I just know it’s her stomach that caused her death. She wants her Mummy to know she knows about her baby brother and sister and was with them when they were waiting to be born and she wants her Mum to stop feeling guilty about her passing. There was nothing anyone could do and it wasn’t her fault. But she wants Mum to be happy and she doesn’t want Mum feeling guilty for moving on with her life. She hears her cries and feels Mummy’s broken heart but ‘Mum I died a few years ago (I feel she died somewhere between 10-15yrs ago judging by the way she is dressed). You need to just move on now and look after my brothers and sisters. Your an awesome Mum and you weren’t replacing me. I’m so happy here because I have all these animals to play with and they don’t hurt me.It’s so cool and I still have my Barbie you gave me Mum and I have responsibilities with the animals and I get to hold babies too. I love you all so much but I don’t even get to miss you because I see you every day. If I feel you crying for me I just think of you and I’m right there with you. So please remember, all you have to do is think of me, and I’m right there. I think the blonde hair, brown hair thing is she was blonde as a toddler but went brown as she got older. This might be to help me help establish who she is to her family. She loved My Little Pony when she was little and for some reason she keeps switching from being a toddler to being about 10. But to me I feel it means she first got sick as a toddler. That whatever caused her death started to affect her when she was a little girl around about 4 yrs old. She used to sit on my stairs but she now talks to my boys. She isn’t from this house. This house is only 26yrs old. She sits on my stairs but likes to sit in my boys bedrooms. My youngest said she sometimes sings to him because she loved to sing. It sounded like a Backstreet boys song to me. Does Sarah belong to you?

If you know any of these Spirit Family members,please pass their messages on or contact me on debbiedakiwi@gmail.com

Also there is someone who reads my Blog who is hiding their sexuality to their friends and family. Your being told ‘Everyone knows, your the one who isn’t admitting it. Come out, be out and proud and your life will be happier than it’s ever been, No More Secrets. Your not going to get the drama your expecting.’

Also there is a man with a J name. I think it’s Jeff (he is saying the names, Timothy, Henry, Helen,  but someone who comes into this Blog who has a husband who is suffering emotional issues since he lost the business/job and house. He needs to change his perspective and it will give him ideas and focus. He needs to know that he is not any less of a man because of these things. They are just bits of wood the bank owned because you didn’t own them out right. BUT they are someone elses problem now. You lost a house that needed so much doing to it. It was going to take years to fix and tens of thousands of dollars/pounds. You didn’t even like the house.Now your free to travel the world if you want and you could stay away as long as you wanted because your not being held back by a mortgage or business. You were unhappy in your business. Why be upset about losing a job you were so miserable in? remember you used to dream of being able to start again. Your job and sticks of wood don’t define who you are as a human being.It doesn’t make you the husband and Father you are, nor does it make you any less of a Husband,Son or Brother. You put so much worth into things you can’t take with you when you die so why allow yourself to be stressed over something you never wanted anyway?Use this time to have that new career you always dream about. You won’t even remember being Bankrupt in a few years. You have to see this for the blessing it is. You now don’t have the pressure of paying for a house you couldn’t afford to fix or move out of because it wouldn’t sell in that condition. That pressure is gone. It is no longer your problem. You could just up sticks and move county, or country if you want and nothing is holding you back. You always wanted to see The Pacific and Asia. Save up and go. Put your savings in your wife’s maiden name or something and save for a trip. I say Save up because I do feel you have a job or your just about to start your new job.). But you had a dream for a new career. Go back to school, go to school at night or do online courses. You have dreams, but you were so busy working to pay for your big house which needed repairs, and keeping your job/business a float when you were being ripped off anyway. Now those hurdles have been removed and your free to do all those things you ever wanted to do. Your going to change your job, it will be a better one and will suit your schooling hours. Your just one of these people who has to have certain hurdles removed from their life so they can start all over again with a clean slate. Most people don’t get second chances at life and your being given one. no amount of money or celebrity in the world can get what your about to be given so you need to take the Bull by the Horns and take this new beginning as an incredible blessing because it is a blessing. Soon you won#t be working to survive, you’ll be surviving to work because your going to LOVE your new calling. I keep seeing a Ambulance, so maybe he might have dreams of being in the Medical field. Paramedic, Nurse, Doctor or something like that. But he is the only one holding himself back. His fears are letting him down. He hasn’t lost the love or respect of one single person since everything went wrong which means they loved you for you and not what you had or what job you did. Your legacy isn’t your failings but your triumphs. You have so much more to be proud of and nothing to be ashamed of. Your a victim of the economic times. Your not the first and sadly you won’t be the last. This is this mans Father talking. I wonder if it was a family business that went under. If it is, Dad clearly doesn’t care.

If you know Jeff, or you are Jeff, John, Jimmy, J name, please listen. You have the love of the Universe guiding you. Hold your head up high. Your a good man. You were in the wrong business. You now have the chance to be in the right business. You are loved so much.

I hope all of these messages find who they are intended for. Contact me if they belong to you to see if there are more messages.

Thank you for your time

Love and Light

xoxox

I would like to Invite You to a Question and Answer Session:

I would like to invite my Readers and Followers to ask me any questions they have. Judging by some of the Search Engine Questions you have a few questions and also some of you are having Dreams they want help to interpret.

Feel Free to Submit your questions and Dreams here and I will answer them ALL for Free. Don’t be afraid. I don’t bite much. You can be Anonymous if you wish.

Also if you have any suggestions for Post Topics. Have I not covered something you would like me to talk about?

Please don’t be afraid to contact me. I do NOT Charge for any of this stuff. Only Readings. Also I’m talking about Questions to do with the Paranormal. Anything you want to know, want to understand, dream interpretation, not of a Predicting nature. I would go against my Confidentiality Agreement. But of you want to know what’s happening in your house or office? Having strange dreams? Ask away.

Can’t wait to hear from you all.

 

Farewell my Teacher Pauline Wardel Braddon

It is with a heavy heart that I announce the passing of my Teacher Pauline Wardel Braddon.

Pauline passed away today 13th Oct 2014 at 2.10am Queensland, Australia time.

I received an email when I woke this morning. informing me she was in the final stages of passing over and then a following one to say She had pass away.

Pauline, I know you can hear me Teacher but you were the Biggest Influence in my entire life. You made me not fear my gift and oh you poor poor patient woman. How you sat and answered my 1000 questions. I used to exhaust you with my questions. But your answers never felt wrong to me. It was like you could see into my soul. I will never forget how we met. Me sitting by the pool in that Hotel in Surfers. You and Janette took me in and you proceeded to tell me that my Dad had come to you while you were on the toilet lol hahahaha Then began my journey.

You were such a teeny tiny lady. I used to joke and call you Yoda. You never let me talk myself out of things, even when you threw me in the middle of things I wasn’t ready to do, like ‘talking to and reading for your friend in Canada without notice’. You told me once ‘You will have a student and he will be younger than you and you’ll be harder on him than I ever was on you’ with her little round pure white face lol Well…………your wrong, I think I’m a positive delight (although Brandon might not agree) hahahahahaha

Pauline, please come and see me. You must be done meeting and greeting everyone by now. You told me the night before you left my house that ‘I would be your last student but you felt I would be your most successful because I was a natural and you would never worry about me because you had faith in my ability’. Well Yoda, I still need you. I have so many questions now only you can answer. Please come and visit me. Your Padewan awaits.

Rest in Peace now my Dearest Pauline. I can still smell that damn fried Tofu,Tomatoes and Onions.

 

How to Have Spirit Teach and Guide You.

I am asked all the time by people to teach them what I know.So they too can have the sort of Understanding from Spirit that I do and I just cant do it. As I have explained in my Why Can’t You Be Like Me and Others Like Me, my knowledge of Spirit is based on the experiences I’ve had in my life, the experiences with my gifts, and experiences i have had being Me.

But there ARE things you can do. You can start the process yourself if you follow TO THE LETTER what I say and have a full knowledge and understanding what what is going to happen once you Open Yourself up.

The best advice I can give anyone wanting to Be more Open is to Let Spirit Guide You. I know that sounds crazy but once you begin to Live with Spirit, you start to see the lessons, you begin to understand the paths they have you on and then the rose tinted glasses come off they show you get to see the world the way your meant to.

So what do you do?

NUMBER 1: FAITH

Well Firstly you must have Faith. You must never EVER doubt what you see, hear or feel from the very first day of your new life. Everything you experience in life happens for a reason. Our lives are all about Lessons and whether it be good or bad, whatever happens in your life happens because it is meant to. That’s why you should never let yourself stress about the things you know you have no control over. Just put your head down and have Faith that everything will turn out the way it is meant to. I promise you, once you actually start to believe this is so, your life becomes so much easier to handle. I haven’t been stressed out or worried for years because I have learned that Good Or Bad it is meant to be. I know everything that happens in my life or my families life is for a reason and the only thing I can do is my best to deal with it when I need to. But if it is beyond my control then I just keep the faith that Spirit will take care of us while we go through it. And they do. They have Never let Me down yet. Honestly, that saying ‘Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff’ Is true. People are conditioned now to worry about every single thing in their lives. Including the things absolutely beyond their control.

Your gonna have shit stuff happen. Maybe have worrying medical tests done, maybe being made redundant, lost a loved one, had an accident. Something that changes your life for ever. But you can and MUST find The Silver Lining because if you don’t it invites more negative things into your life and that’s when things get REALLY messy. Don’t get me wrong, I get angry, I get concerned, I get bothered by things but I know how easy it is for The Negative stuff in my life to take hold and ruin life for me and my family.

Okay so when you lose your job, yes it might mean having to move, downsize, commute for a new job, or even declare Bankruptcy but you know what? There are far more worse things to happen than not being able to afford a house you couldn’t afford anyway. Why stress out about losing something the bank is going to make you pay more than 2 times it’s actual value to live in just so the first sign of trouble for your job they can take it from under you. Unless you have paid your house off completely you don’t own the house, the bank does. So let them have it. They are the ones left with trillions of Dollars worth of houses they now can’t sell. You get to start all over again. You get to hit the Reset Button and do it again but this time with the knowledge and lessons that go with it meaning you will never make the same mistakes.

Times might be tough but there are ways of surviving this until after the cleansing if you use your common sense. For Example if you have Children and you’ve fallen on hard times and you smoke, go to the gym, go out once a week with friends, get your nails done then you have to stop all of that so the extra money goes to providing for the family. Now this isn’t me saying YOU HAVE TO DO THIS AND THAT OR YOUR A BAD PERSON!!!! this is me using examples of what you can do to put a more positive spin on negative things that happen in your life.

As long as you know what is really important to you when things are tough, Spirit will ALWAYS have your back. They NEVER leave you to go through the hard times alone. They will even guide you into getting back on the Path. It is when we wallow and revel in self pity that the real trouble begins and remember the Tempters. They are the ones who put these things in your Path to test your Faith. The more you react to the bad stuff, the more bad stuff they bring into your life. So ALWAYS Have faith, that no matter what happens your gonna be in the best possible care.

NUMBER 2: COMMON SENSE

Please please use common sense when dealing with Spirit. Not everything that goes Bump in the night is Spirit. Not every bad thing that happens in your life is The Devil. You have to use Common Sense when your embarking on a Spiritual Life. You can’t get carried away with anything and you can’t live life like everyone else. A Spiritual Person doesn’t spend money they don’t have on things they can’t afford because they know Money means nothing to Spirit. In the Spirit Realm they have no concept of money. Neither do beings on Other Planets (who are all connected to each other) Money isn’t something they have concepts of. So if anyone tells you that you HAVE to pay a large amount to talk to, get rid of or protect yourself from the Dead then chances are they aren’t genuine and are only in it for the money. Spirit don’t begrudge anyone who makes money. Their concerns is How the money is made and what you do with it once you have it. There is no point working all your life and squandering all your money to be the Riches Person in the Cemetery. Your life is about the lessons your being given NOW while your living it. The rest you can deal with after your dead but Life is for the Living. Enjoy it while you can. And if that includes making money then that is fine too. As long as you made the money Honestly and you do good things with it. Also if your feeling something, Spirit based but others tell you your wrong, trust YOUR instincts. No one knows your intuition better than you do. Don’t take on board anything that doesn’t feel right to you. This journey is yours and yours alone. You take from life what you need to. Just because someone says it is so doesn’t mean you have to believe it. Use your Common Sense at all times. Then no one or no thing can trick you, pull the wool over your eyes or lead you down the wrong path. Also please don’t encourage or teach what your learning to the wrong people. Not everyone will be able to handle what we are. That’s why it’s called a Gift otherwise it would be called the Sixth Sense in the truest sense of the word. So make sure you don’t encourage just everyone to do what you do. Some people just aren’t meant to know this stuff. Some people aren’t ready yet. It’s going to take a good few decades of people living in the New World before everyone on this Planet is Spiritual. Some people will die never knowing it. It will come to those when it is their time. There are going to be a few Billion people in shock and having to come to terms with the truth about the last 2000 years before you can plonk Dead People in their laps. There are people praying right now who in the next couple of years will know the truth about Religion and will never pray in a Church or to a Church ever again. Some will even be former Nuns and Preachers, Ministers and Priests. Ya know what I mean? So just have faith that The Light will come to Others when it is their time, when it is meant to.

NUMBER 3: MARCH TO THE BEAT OF YOUR OWN DRUM

Find what feels right for you. You might want to believe in God and Fairies. Or Rainbows and Frogs. But as long as it is YOUR faith and it makes YOU happy and it isn’t hurting anyone else then you just go right ahead and believe. The only thing you need to know is Your Faith is your right and just because it doesn’t make sense to anyone else doesn’t mean it is wrong. No one has the right to tell you what makes you Spiritual fulfilled and cleansed is wrong. My husband has a friends who’s Faith is based around The Principals of Fairy Tales and Nursery Rhymes. I know of someone who uses Science to make his major decisions for him. But the fact is, they are happy men and do wonderful things based on those Principles. And that is all that matters. As long as your happy and it isn’t breaking the common law of the Universe which of course is ‘I shall no by my own actions coz loss or harm to any living being’ then your fine. This is about you and your Faith. It is no one else’s business. It isn’t what you believe that makes you a better person. It is that you believe in the first place. You might lose friends or respect from some people because they won’t believe in what you believe in. If your Faith is like mine,aka Spirit Based then you have to be prepared for the fact your probably going to lose some people from your life.But Silver Lining and all that, if they walk away from your life because you chose to believe in the teachings of The Dead even though it has made you happier and a better person then they never cared about you and friendships/relationships aren’t based on Do as I do, Do as I say. So good riddance to them if they leave. They aren’t worth it. You’ll have the people in your life your meant to. It’s YOUR life. No one can tell you how to live it.

NUMBER 4: GET A CODE OF CONDUCT FOR YOURSELF

It really does help if you set up a bunch of principals for yourself to live by. It helps keep you on the straight and narrow. Mine include things like ‘Always Tell The Truth as it is better to be hurt by the truth than devastated by a lie’, Always put others before myself. If someone is in need of something and I have the means to give it to them, it doesn’t matter what I’m doing, I must always put them first. I never allow myself to get something done first so I can do what Spirit need me to do. I know how annoying they can be lol so I will drop everything to do whatever it is they need me to do. Now you must remember though if you weren’t what is called a Natural (which means you were born with the gift and have kept it your whole life like me) your not going to be expected to be perfect and live the life of a Nun or something. So bases your code of conduct around simple things. Common Sense things. The basic expectations of a Spiritual person. ie No Stealing, Lying, Giving to those who have less than you, that sort of thing. Then as your gift builds up and your understanding of the Spiritual grows you can add or change things to suit your new found knowledge. Do a baby Code of Conduct with things you know your can do. Don’t give yourself unobtainable codes. (Honesty with yourself as well ya know lol)

NUMBER 5: PAY ATTENTION AT ALL TIMES

I’m the first one to warn people that Spirit can be as Subtle as a Brick when they want to get the message across to you. But they have so many ways of communicating to you. So again using common sense get to know the ways Spirit chose to communicate with you. They know what you can and can’t handle. They know what frightens and what terrifies you. They don’t want to hurt you. Quite the opposite as you now know if you’ve read any of my Blogs. They will mostly talk to you through your Dreams. It is the oldest form of Spirit Communication. But once you’ve had the Talk with them to say ‘Help me know you to help my life be more enriching’ they WILL ramp things up. So you’ll see things out of the corner of your eye, get smells, gut feelings, thoughts that produce results ie thinking of someone then they call, or thinking something like ‘that guy better watch or he is gonna crash’ and he does. Knowing what someone is going to say or do before they do etc….it ALL comes par and parcel with being Spiritual. And for the record Spiritual doesn’t Psychic. If your meant to open up your Psychic Ability then you will ad 99% of people who live a Spiritual Life will enhance or open gifts. It seems to be most people are in their late 20s-to mid 40’s when they choose to embrace Spirit and enhance any gifts you might have. So don’t worry that you won’t have the same level of gifts you will get there eventually. You have to understand I’ve had 41 years experience. If your starting your Path in your 30’s or 50’s your going to need about 20 years to master it. So be patient. Just let Spirit show you the way. If your meant to learn fast your in for a really life lol Just let Spirit take you on the journey you need to go on. Don’t rush anything. ALL good things take time.

NUMBER 6: HAVE THE TALK WITH SPIRIT.

Before you do any of this you need to sit and have THE TALK with Spirit. You need to salt your door way and you need to sit down and tell Spirit your ready for them to enter your life. Tell them on no uncertain terms you will ONLY embrace The Love and Light. That your not Interested in any trouble from any Spirits who don’t come with Utter Love and Light. Your terms, your rules. Always have respect for Spirit. Never invite them in. Leave the door open but only send out invitations to Spirits of Love and Light. You will NOT tolerate any trouble. But seriously, tell Spirit why your wanting to embrace their teachings. Tell them how your feeling and what your wanting to have out of the relationship. You must trust them as they trust you. You will see how wonderful your life is going to be once you have established your connection to Spirit. You need to tell them what you want but also be realistic. If your thinking of doing this so you can be rich or famous then it’s never gonna happen. Remember, Spirit KNOW everything about you and they will know if your intentions are genuine or not. So if after 10 years of pretending to GET Spirit, your still not seeing them, and your still broke then you’ll know why lol Luckily for you, I know your genuine. That is why I’m sharing all of this with you.

NUMBER 7: BE PREPARED FOR ANYTHING

In 41 years of being what I am I can safely say I can never assume to know what Spirit are talking about. I’ve done readings for people where I am utterly convinced I know the man/person/situation Spirit are talking about but I’m never allowed to say ‘Your husband/sister/friend/boss etc….because there are 100 different scenarios that can happen in one day in your life and just because it looks and feels like the situation is related to you and your boss doesn’t mean it will be unless Spirit specifically say YOUR BOSS!!!!! So never assume to know what they are talking about until it’s happened. Also you might be going about your business and you turn around and see a Spirit standing there as true as the day is long. This will be because this is the best way Spirit have chosen to show you Them basically. So be prepared for anything. They might start moving stuff in front of you. They might switch your Psychic on over night ad you wake up suddenly being able to read peoples thoughts and predicting and seeing and so on, DON’T freak out. Just have Faith that THIS is how Spirit have decided your ready. So just take it, learn from it and move on. Spirit don’t want to hurt you. They want you to love them and embrace your new life. They have so much to teach you. So let them teach you. Be Calm, and Have Faith. Just be prepared for anything though. lol But how you react to it will determine how quickly you move on to the next level of your ‘training’. Just always stay focused and use your common sense. Your cold breeze and chills might be an open window. But when it’s Spirit, lol You know lol

NUMBER 8: ALWAYS KEEP YOURSELF AND YOUR HOME PROTECTED.

Now,…………remember the Common Sense thing I keep going over and over? Well when it comes to The Dark Side, or Negative Energy your gonna need it. Ergo don’t do Seances on the 3rd week of our training just because you saw one Spirit out of the corner of your eye in the kitchen. We all see Spirits. It doesn’t mean your Psychic and ready to do Readings and stuff. Before and IF your destined to do readings you will get permission from what I call The Counsel before you do. So you can try as hard as you like but if you haven’t gotten permission or clearance to do such things there is nothing you can do. So be aware that the Dark Side will be waiting for you to stuff it up. They will be waiting in the wings waiting for you to do something silly or foolish so they can come in and start to get you all discombobulated and disconnected with Spirit. All they need is for you to do something like a Seance without proper Protection,or for you to react badly to something for them to come into your life. Hence why you must always ALWAYS find a silver lining. See? Aaaahhhh there IS method in my madness lol I do actually know something lol

The Golden Rules for keeping yourself protected is this. Be In Control at all times. Never let your guard down. You must walk around with a feeling of a shield of armor around you at all times. Don’t let your guard down.They will try to trick you any way they can. A Child Spirit might not be a child at all. The sounds of a woman crying might be a trap. So trust your instincts and before you do anything Protect Yourself. Every night before you go to bed you ask for Protection from Spirit and your Ancestors. Don’t forget to ask for Protection for your home, the people in your home and all the people who will enter your home. Do that every night and your always protected BUT should you have dealings with any Non Living Entity be it good or negative, you ask to be protected by the White Light. Everything you do must come with protection. It is just common sense. And don’t allow yourself to be fooled. The truth of the matter is The Dark Side don’t like people turning to the Light. The more people who are happy, genuine, kind, loving souls of the Light the less they can corrupt and rule us. They have had a bigger hand in our lives than most people realize as they are in every form of Government, Business, Entertainment etc….anything that gets your money, gets your power, gets your self control or common sense. Anything that can do to distract you from being a Spiritual Person they will do it. And remember the old Adage ‘The Devil comes in many forms’. Now I don’t believe in the Devil or Demons because I know we create them. We manifest them from our own fears and darkness. But There Can’t be Light without Dark. They come hand in hand. One helps you keep away from the other. Without pure evil will you know pure love. So just because it isn’t a Red Hoofed Man with a tail and pitch fork doesn’t mean your not safe from Negative and Dark Energy. So never let your guard down. And when you know you have something around you that isn’t of the light, you get angry. You get defensive and you tell them where to go. You tell them they have no power over you and never will. Then ignore them. Once they know your serious, then they stop trying. They really are quite pathetic. It is YOUR power. YOUR life. YOUR in control. So keep yourself protected at all times. The Knowing your protected, protects you. It’s that simple.

NUMBER 9: LEARN AS MUCH AS YOU CAN

You can never read up and study and watch too much when it comes to Spirit and The Paranormal. Educate yourself. This way you learn everything you need to know that feels right for you. What is meant for you to follow, what is meant for you to believe, it will stick. The rest will pass right over you. Finding your Faith is time consuming and requires a lot of hard work and effort lol So get your hands on as such material as you can find, then practice. You might take your Faith from 20 different sources. But whats right for you will be. Try to know a little about every field of the Paranormal. The more you know, the more you can help. With great power comes great responsibility never forget that. Even if your Learning is solely for the purposes of just living a happier contented, enlightened life, your going to be able to use your knowledge to help someone. Albeit teaching your friends or children about the dangers of using Ouija Boards, or helping someone who is grieving understand the truth about the Beautiful Journey their deceased loved one is on now they are free. If your just doing this for yourself, without a want to read for people or anything, your going to be called on by Spirit at some point to impart your wisdoms. So learn about Ouija Boards, Seances,Scrying (all that form of making Spirit contact), The Occult, Witch Craft, Mediums,Psychics etc….learn the lot. And also on a personal note I recommend Learning about the Aramaic Scrolls and what it says about Religion and The Bible. It will blow your mind considering it was written something like 100 years before the bible. It will blow your mind. Also and I don’t want to be Political or Preachy or anything but learn about the Conspiracy stuff too. There is a lot of truth behind some of them.But don’t just read an article, fact find, cross reference. Don’t read the Government stuff, get the Scientific stuff, independent surveys, victim/patient/parent/witness testimony and educate yourself. So when you need to help someone you have facts and figures, and you know both sides.

Learning is Knowledge, Knowledge is Wisdom, Wisdom is Power. And what you will be striving for after starting this journey is the understanding of all 4.

NUMBER 10: Remember ALL GOOD THINGS TAKE TIME:

Spirit know your limits better than you. Let things happen as fast or as slow as they need to happen. But don’t push yourself because you have to understand, if your being blessed with a certain level of Spiritual and Universal Understanding that no one else has, you being gifted with something only a handful of thousands of people are going to have. Whether you choose to read or guide for people or just so you can go out and help people, your going to have vulnerable people who trust you with every fiber of their beings. They will put their Souls in your hand. You will help people decide whether to fight on or give up, to live or die, to have strength or have fear. Don’t EVER take that for granted. Don’t EVER forget this gift is on loan and if you mistreat it, you will lose it. Don’t do more than your capable of. And don’t try anything you don’t fully understand because you will put peoples lives in danger. Don’t abuse the power. Don’t make things happen before they are meant to and know that at any time if you abuse the privilege (and it is a privilege) it WILL end. Let Spirit guide you. It will happen when and how it is meant to. So please take one day at a time.

Your experiences will be completely different to mine or any one else you know who will be going through the same thing. It will all be based on the things that happen in your life and how you react to them.

My Teacher Pauline Braddon imparted many great wisdoms on me. All of which I will never forget and I will share a couple with you as you begin your Wonderful Life Changing Journey.

Love Hard and Honest. Nothing brings you closer to Your Universal Creator Than Love. It is something we all feel. And it’s not just about loving your Lover, or Spouse. I’m talking Love EVERYONE. Have that love for everyone,no matter their religion, creed, colour, intelligence. We all breath, eat, laugh, love, feel pain etc….No one is greater than the other. We were all created and we all share this planet. Your Arab Neighbour might have saved a life, your Black Boss might of donated a kidney to a child, your Asian School Teacher may have lost every member of her family to a disease she will get herself one day. Your Indian Grocer might have had his wife and children killed in his native land because of their religion and he managed to escape with the baby to America/Britain where he has felt safe for the first time in his life and he’s not being racially abused by those that come into his store. That Gay Man who serves you in your favourite Restaurant might save your life one day when you choke on our food. My point is, No One Person is better than anyone else. We all are One People on One Earth. We need to look after each other. Without Love we have no hope, without hope we have no future. So love every one and every day. Having said that Give respect where you get it. Your not forced to love people. Just make sure when you don’t love someone it is for a VALID reason and Racism, Bigotry, Sexism etc…isn’t a Valid Reason. Nothing will get you in trouble quicker on the other side than The Disrespecting and Hating, Hurting and Belittling of anyone on this planet. Love Makes the World Go Round.

Also Remain Humble at all times. When your Ego gets in the way of your life it is the ugliest thing people will see in you.

Let People See your true feelings. If your hurting, cry. If you don’t agree with someone, say So. People are so used to Fakes and Phony people always out to take your money and pretend to care when they want to take from you the least you can do is be yourself around them. It’s better they don’t like the real you than love the fake you.

And Lastly if your going to end up doing Readings for money, always make it about the Client. They have chosen you to give their hard earned money to. Give them as much room as they need to trust you. If your genuine they will know within seconds of talking to you. The occasional person won’t like you no matter what, they will have made up their minds about you before they got there but that’s their business not yours. It’s not for you to worry. As long as your honest and humble you have nothing to fear. Your true clients won’t care.

And lastly Enjoy every minute of your learning and journey. It’s going to be the start of your new life. Your life will never be the same again. It shouldn’t be hard. If it’s hard then it isn’t for you and your being told to Stop. Otherwise your about to learn more about yourself and your life now than at any other point in your life previous combined.

And remember if at any time you need help or advice, you know where I am.