About Spirit Child

I am a happily married woman with a beautiful family. I'm originally from New Zealand, living in West Yorkshire. Ive Been in the UK since 2001. I am the Baby of 7 kids. I am a Scorpio. I live to love and love to live. I feel blessed in many aspects of my life. I love to travel and am luckily to have married thee most spontaneous man in the world. He's taken me on many interesting adventures and I can't wait to have more.

How to Have Spirit Teach and Guide You.

I am asked all the time by people to teach them what I know.So they too can have the sort of Understanding from Spirit that I do and I just cant do it. As I have explained in my Why Can’t You Be Like Me and Others Like Me, my knowledge of Spirit is based on the experiences I’ve had in my life, the experiences with my gifts, and experiences i have had being Me.

But there ARE things you can do. You can start the process yourself if you follow TO THE LETTER what I say and have a full knowledge and understanding what what is going to happen once you Open Yourself up.

The best advice I can give anyone wanting to Be more Open is to Let Spirit Guide You. I know that sounds crazy but once you begin to Live with Spirit, you start to see the lessons, you begin to understand the paths they have you on and then the rose tinted glasses come off they show you get to see the world the way your meant to.

So what do you do?


Well Firstly you must have Faith. You must never EVER doubt what you see, hear or feel from the very first day of your new life. Everything you experience in life happens for a reason. Our lives are all about Lessons and whether it be good or bad, whatever happens in your life happens because it is meant to. That’s why you should never let yourself stress about the things you know you have no control over. Just put your head down and have Faith that everything will turn out the way it is meant to. I promise you, once you actually start to believe this is so, your life becomes so much easier to handle. I haven’t been stressed out or worried for years because I have learned that Good Or Bad it is meant to be. I know everything that happens in my life or my families life is for a reason and the only thing I can do is my best to deal with it when I need to. But if it is beyond my control then I just keep the faith that Spirit will take care of us while we go through it. And they do. They have Never let Me down yet. Honestly, that saying ‘Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff’ Is true. People are conditioned now to worry about every single thing in their lives. Including the things absolutely beyond their control.

Your gonna have shit stuff happen. Maybe have worrying medical tests done, maybe being made redundant, lost a loved one, had an accident. Something that changes your life for ever. But you can and MUST find The Silver Lining because if you don’t it invites more negative things into your life and that’s when things get REALLY messy. Don’t get me wrong, I get angry, I get concerned, I get bothered by things but I know how easy it is for The Negative stuff in my life to take hold and ruin life for me and my family.

Okay so when you lose your job, yes it might mean having to move, downsize, commute for a new job, or even declare Bankruptcy but you know what? There are far more worse things to happen than not being able to afford a house you couldn’t afford anyway. Why stress out about losing something the bank is going to make you pay more than 2 times it’s actual value to live in just so the first sign of trouble for your job they can take it from under you. Unless you have paid your house off completely you don’t own the house, the bank does. So let them have it. They are the ones left with trillions of Dollars worth of houses they now can’t sell. You get to start all over again. You get to hit the Reset Button and do it again but this time with the knowledge and lessons that go with it meaning you will never make the same mistakes.

Times might be tough but there are ways of surviving this until after the cleansing if you use your common sense. For Example if you have Children and you’ve fallen on hard times and you smoke, go to the gym, go out once a week with friends, get your nails done then you have to stop all of that so the extra money goes to providing for the family. Now this isn’t me saying YOU HAVE TO DO THIS AND THAT OR YOUR A BAD PERSON!!!! this is me using examples of what you can do to put a more positive spin on negative things that happen in your life.

As long as you know what is really important to you when things are tough, Spirit will ALWAYS have your back. They NEVER leave you to go through the hard times alone. They will even guide you into getting back on the Path. It is when we wallow and revel in self pity that the real trouble begins and remember the Tempters. They are the ones who put these things in your Path to test your Faith. The more you react to the bad stuff, the more bad stuff they bring into your life. So ALWAYS Have faith, that no matter what happens your gonna be in the best possible care.


Please please use common sense when dealing with Spirit. Not everything that goes Bump in the night is Spirit. Not every bad thing that happens in your life is The Devil. You have to use Common Sense when your embarking on a Spiritual Life. You can’t get carried away with anything and you can’t live life like everyone else. A Spiritual Person doesn’t spend money they don’t have on things they can’t afford because they know Money means nothing to Spirit. In the Spirit Realm they have no concept of money. Neither do beings on Other Planets (who are all connected to each other) Money isn’t something they have concepts of. So if anyone tells you that you HAVE to pay a large amount to talk to, get rid of or protect yourself from the Dead then chances are they aren’t genuine and are only in it for the money. Spirit don’t begrudge anyone who makes money. Their concerns is How the money is made and what you do with it once you have it. There is no point working all your life and squandering all your money to be the Riches Person in the Cemetery. Your life is about the lessons your being given NOW while your living it. The rest you can deal with after your dead but Life is for the Living. Enjoy it while you can. And if that includes making money then that is fine too. As long as you made the money Honestly and you do good things with it. Also if your feeling something, Spirit based but others tell you your wrong, trust YOUR instincts. No one knows your intuition better than you do. Don’t take on board anything that doesn’t feel right to you. This journey is yours and yours alone. You take from life what you need to. Just because someone says it is so doesn’t mean you have to believe it. Use your Common Sense at all times. Then no one or no thing can trick you, pull the wool over your eyes or lead you down the wrong path. Also please don’t encourage or teach what your learning to the wrong people. Not everyone will be able to handle what we are. That’s why it’s called a Gift otherwise it would be called the Sixth Sense in the truest sense of the word. So make sure you don’t encourage just everyone to do what you do. Some people just aren’t meant to know this stuff. Some people aren’t ready yet. It’s going to take a good few decades of people living in the New World before everyone on this Planet is Spiritual. Some people will die never knowing it. It will come to those when it is their time. There are going to be a few Billion people in shock and having to come to terms with the truth about the last 2000 years before you can plonk Dead People in their laps. There are people praying right now who in the next couple of years will know the truth about Religion and will never pray in a Church or to a Church ever again. Some will even be former Nuns and Preachers, Ministers and Priests. Ya know what I mean? So just have faith that The Light will come to Others when it is their time, when it is meant to.


Find what feels right for you. You might want to believe in God and Fairies. Or Rainbows and Frogs. But as long as it is YOUR faith and it makes YOU happy and it isn’t hurting anyone else then you just go right ahead and believe. The only thing you need to know is Your Faith is your right and just because it doesn’t make sense to anyone else doesn’t mean it is wrong. No one has the right to tell you what makes you Spiritual fulfilled and cleansed is wrong. My husband has a friends who’s Faith is based around The Principals of Fairy Tales and Nursery Rhymes. I know of someone who uses Science to make his major decisions for him. But the fact is, they are happy men and do wonderful things based on those Principles. And that is all that matters. As long as your happy and it isn’t breaking the common law of the Universe which of course is ‘I shall no by my own actions coz loss or harm to any living being’ then your fine. This is about you and your Faith. It is no one else’s business. It isn’t what you believe that makes you a better person. It is that you believe in the first place. You might lose friends or respect from some people because they won’t believe in what you believe in. If your Faith is like mine,aka Spirit Based then you have to be prepared for the fact your probably going to lose some people from your life.But Silver Lining and all that, if they walk away from your life because you chose to believe in the teachings of The Dead even though it has made you happier and a better person then they never cared about you and friendships/relationships aren’t based on Do as I do, Do as I say. So good riddance to them if they leave. They aren’t worth it. You’ll have the people in your life your meant to. It’s YOUR life. No one can tell you how to live it.


It really does help if you set up a bunch of principals for yourself to live by. It helps keep you on the straight and narrow. Mine include things like ‘Always Tell The Truth as it is better to be hurt by the truth than devastated by a lie’, Always put others before myself. If someone is in need of something and I have the means to give it to them, it doesn’t matter what I’m doing, I must always put them first. I never allow myself to get something done first so I can do what Spirit need me to do. I know how annoying they can be lol so I will drop everything to do whatever it is they need me to do. Now you must remember though if you weren’t what is called a Natural (which means you were born with the gift and have kept it your whole life like me) your not going to be expected to be perfect and live the life of a Nun or something. So bases your code of conduct around simple things. Common Sense things. The basic expectations of a Spiritual person. ie No Stealing, Lying, Giving to those who have less than you, that sort of thing. Then as your gift builds up and your understanding of the Spiritual grows you can add or change things to suit your new found knowledge. Do a baby Code of Conduct with things you know your can do. Don’t give yourself unobtainable codes. (Honesty with yourself as well ya know lol)


I’m the first one to warn people that Spirit can be as Subtle as a Brick when they want to get the message across to you. But they have so many ways of communicating to you. So again using common sense get to know the ways Spirit chose to communicate with you. They know what you can and can’t handle. They know what frightens and what terrifies you. They don’t want to hurt you. Quite the opposite as you now know if you’ve read any of my Blogs. They will mostly talk to you through your Dreams. It is the oldest form of Spirit Communication. But once you’ve had the Talk with them to say ‘Help me know you to help my life be more enriching’ they WILL ramp things up. So you’ll see things out of the corner of your eye, get smells, gut feelings, thoughts that produce results ie thinking of someone then they call, or thinking something like ‘that guy better watch or he is gonna crash’ and he does. Knowing what someone is going to say or do before they do etc….it ALL comes par and parcel with being Spiritual. And for the record Spiritual doesn’t Psychic. If your meant to open up your Psychic Ability then you will ad 99% of people who live a Spiritual Life will enhance or open gifts. It seems to be most people are in their late 20s-to mid 40’s when they choose to embrace Spirit and enhance any gifts you might have. So don’t worry that you won’t have the same level of gifts you will get there eventually. You have to understand I’ve had 41 years experience. If your starting your Path in your 30’s or 50’s your going to need about 20 years to master it. So be patient. Just let Spirit show you the way. If your meant to learn fast your in for a really life lol Just let Spirit take you on the journey you need to go on. Don’t rush anything. ALL good things take time.


Before you do any of this you need to sit and have THE TALK with Spirit. You need to salt your door way and you need to sit down and tell Spirit your ready for them to enter your life. Tell them on no uncertain terms you will ONLY embrace The Love and Light. That your not Interested in any trouble from any Spirits who don’t come with Utter Love and Light. Your terms, your rules. Always have respect for Spirit. Never invite them in. Leave the door open but only send out invitations to Spirits of Love and Light. You will NOT tolerate any trouble. But seriously, tell Spirit why your wanting to embrace their teachings. Tell them how your feeling and what your wanting to have out of the relationship. You must trust them as they trust you. You will see how wonderful your life is going to be once you have established your connection to Spirit. You need to tell them what you want but also be realistic. If your thinking of doing this so you can be rich or famous then it’s never gonna happen. Remember, Spirit KNOW everything about you and they will know if your intentions are genuine or not. So if after 10 years of pretending to GET Spirit, your still not seeing them, and your still broke then you’ll know why lol Luckily for you, I know your genuine. That is why I’m sharing all of this with you.


In 41 years of being what I am I can safely say I can never assume to know what Spirit are talking about. I’ve done readings for people where I am utterly convinced I know the man/person/situation Spirit are talking about but I’m never allowed to say ‘Your husband/sister/friend/boss etc….because there are 100 different scenarios that can happen in one day in your life and just because it looks and feels like the situation is related to you and your boss doesn’t mean it will be unless Spirit specifically say YOUR BOSS!!!!! So never assume to know what they are talking about until it’s happened. Also you might be going about your business and you turn around and see a Spirit standing there as true as the day is long. This will be because this is the best way Spirit have chosen to show you Them basically. So be prepared for anything. They might start moving stuff in front of you. They might switch your Psychic on over night ad you wake up suddenly being able to read peoples thoughts and predicting and seeing and so on, DON’T freak out. Just have Faith that THIS is how Spirit have decided your ready. So just take it, learn from it and move on. Spirit don’t want to hurt you. They want you to love them and embrace your new life. They have so much to teach you. So let them teach you. Be Calm, and Have Faith. Just be prepared for anything though. lol But how you react to it will determine how quickly you move on to the next level of your ‘training’. Just always stay focused and use your common sense. Your cold breeze and chills might be an open window. But when it’s Spirit, lol You know lol


Now,…………remember the Common Sense thing I keep going over and over? Well when it comes to The Dark Side, or Negative Energy your gonna need it. Ergo don’t do Seances on the 3rd week of our training just because you saw one Spirit out of the corner of your eye in the kitchen. We all see Spirits. It doesn’t mean your Psychic and ready to do Readings and stuff. Before and IF your destined to do readings you will get permission from what I call The Counsel before you do. So you can try as hard as you like but if you haven’t gotten permission or clearance to do such things there is nothing you can do. So be aware that the Dark Side will be waiting for you to stuff it up. They will be waiting in the wings waiting for you to do something silly or foolish so they can come in and start to get you all discombobulated and disconnected with Spirit. All they need is for you to do something like a Seance without proper Protection,or for you to react badly to something for them to come into your life. Hence why you must always ALWAYS find a silver lining. See? Aaaahhhh there IS method in my madness lol I do actually know something lol

The Golden Rules for keeping yourself protected is this. Be In Control at all times. Never let your guard down. You must walk around with a feeling of a shield of armor around you at all times. Don’t let your guard down.They will try to trick you any way they can. A Child Spirit might not be a child at all. The sounds of a woman crying might be a trap. So trust your instincts and before you do anything Protect Yourself. Every night before you go to bed you ask for Protection from Spirit and your Ancestors. Don’t forget to ask for Protection for your home, the people in your home and all the people who will enter your home. Do that every night and your always protected BUT should you have dealings with any Non Living Entity be it good or negative, you ask to be protected by the White Light. Everything you do must come with protection. It is just common sense. And don’t allow yourself to be fooled. The truth of the matter is The Dark Side don’t like people turning to the Light. The more people who are happy, genuine, kind, loving souls of the Light the less they can corrupt and rule us. They have had a bigger hand in our lives than most people realize as they are in every form of Government, Business, Entertainment etc….anything that gets your money, gets your power, gets your self control or common sense. Anything that can do to distract you from being a Spiritual Person they will do it. And remember the old Adage ‘The Devil comes in many forms’. Now I don’t believe in the Devil or Demons because I know we create them. We manifest them from our own fears and darkness. But There Can’t be Light without Dark. They come hand in hand. One helps you keep away from the other. Without pure evil will you know pure love. So just because it isn’t a Red Hoofed Man with a tail and pitch fork doesn’t mean your not safe from Negative and Dark Energy. So never let your guard down. And when you know you have something around you that isn’t of the light, you get angry. You get defensive and you tell them where to go. You tell them they have no power over you and never will. Then ignore them. Once they know your serious, then they stop trying. They really are quite pathetic. It is YOUR power. YOUR life. YOUR in control. So keep yourself protected at all times. The Knowing your protected, protects you. It’s that simple.


You can never read up and study and watch too much when it comes to Spirit and The Paranormal. Educate yourself. This way you learn everything you need to know that feels right for you. What is meant for you to follow, what is meant for you to believe, it will stick. The rest will pass right over you. Finding your Faith is time consuming and requires a lot of hard work and effort lol So get your hands on as such material as you can find, then practice. You might take your Faith from 20 different sources. But whats right for you will be. Try to know a little about every field of the Paranormal. The more you know, the more you can help. With great power comes great responsibility never forget that. Even if your Learning is solely for the purposes of just living a happier contented, enlightened life, your going to be able to use your knowledge to help someone. Albeit teaching your friends or children about the dangers of using Ouija Boards, or helping someone who is grieving understand the truth about the Beautiful Journey their deceased loved one is on now they are free. If your just doing this for yourself, without a want to read for people or anything, your going to be called on by Spirit at some point to impart your wisdoms. So learn about Ouija Boards, Seances,Scrying (all that form of making Spirit contact), The Occult, Witch Craft, Mediums,Psychics etc….learn the lot. And also on a personal note I recommend Learning about the Aramaic Scrolls and what it says about Religion and The Bible. It will blow your mind considering it was written something like 100 years before the bible. It will blow your mind. Also and I don’t want to be Political or Preachy or anything but learn about the Conspiracy stuff too. There is a lot of truth behind some of them.But don’t just read an article, fact find, cross reference. Don’t read the Government stuff, get the Scientific stuff, independent surveys, victim/patient/parent/witness testimony and educate yourself. So when you need to help someone you have facts and figures, and you know both sides.

Learning is Knowledge, Knowledge is Wisdom, Wisdom is Power. And what you will be striving for after starting this journey is the understanding of all 4.


Spirit know your limits better than you. Let things happen as fast or as slow as they need to happen. But don’t push yourself because you have to understand, if your being blessed with a certain level of Spiritual and Universal Understanding that no one else has, you being gifted with something only a handful of thousands of people are going to have. Whether you choose to read or guide for people or just so you can go out and help people, your going to have vulnerable people who trust you with every fiber of their beings. They will put their Souls in your hand. You will help people decide whether to fight on or give up, to live or die, to have strength or have fear. Don’t EVER take that for granted. Don’t EVER forget this gift is on loan and if you mistreat it, you will lose it. Don’t do more than your capable of. And don’t try anything you don’t fully understand because you will put peoples lives in danger. Don’t abuse the power. Don’t make things happen before they are meant to and know that at any time if you abuse the privilege (and it is a privilege) it WILL end. Let Spirit guide you. It will happen when and how it is meant to. So please take one day at a time.

Your experiences will be completely different to mine or any one else you know who will be going through the same thing. It will all be based on the things that happen in your life and how you react to them.

My Teacher Pauline Braddon imparted many great wisdoms on me. All of which I will never forget and I will share a couple with you as you begin your Wonderful Life Changing Journey.

Love Hard and Honest. Nothing brings you closer to Your Universal Creator Than Love. It is something we all feel. And it’s not just about loving your Lover, or Spouse. I’m talking Love EVERYONE. Have that love for everyone,no matter their religion, creed, colour, intelligence. We all breath, eat, laugh, love, feel pain etc….No one is greater than the other. We were all created and we all share this planet. Your Arab Neighbour might have saved a life, your Black Boss might of donated a kidney to a child, your Asian School Teacher may have lost every member of her family to a disease she will get herself one day. Your Indian Grocer might have had his wife and children killed in his native land because of their religion and he managed to escape with the baby to America/Britain where he has felt safe for the first time in his life and he’s not being racially abused by those that come into his store. That Gay Man who serves you in your favourite Restaurant might save your life one day when you choke on our food. My point is, No One Person is better than anyone else. We all are One People on One Earth. We need to look after each other. Without Love we have no hope, without hope we have no future. So love every one and every day. Having said that Give respect where you get it. Your not forced to love people. Just make sure when you don’t love someone it is for a VALID reason and Racism, Bigotry, Sexism etc…isn’t a Valid Reason. Nothing will get you in trouble quicker on the other side than The Disrespecting and Hating, Hurting and Belittling of anyone on this planet. Love Makes the World Go Round.

Also Remain Humble at all times. When your Ego gets in the way of your life it is the ugliest thing people will see in you.

Let People See your true feelings. If your hurting, cry. If you don’t agree with someone, say So. People are so used to Fakes and Phony people always out to take your money and pretend to care when they want to take from you the least you can do is be yourself around them. It’s better they don’t like the real you than love the fake you.

And Lastly if your going to end up doing Readings for money, always make it about the Client. They have chosen you to give their hard earned money to. Give them as much room as they need to trust you. If your genuine they will know within seconds of talking to you. The occasional person won’t like you no matter what, they will have made up their minds about you before they got there but that’s their business not yours. It’s not for you to worry. As long as your honest and humble you have nothing to fear. Your true clients won’t care.

And lastly Enjoy every minute of your learning and journey. It’s going to be the start of your new life. Your life will never be the same again. It shouldn’t be hard. If it’s hard then it isn’t for you and your being told to Stop. Otherwise your about to learn more about yourself and your life now than at any other point in your life previous combined.

And remember if at any time you need help or advice, you know where I am.

The Kiwi Psychic and Midwest Ghost Episode 7

Here is our latest Episode. Sorry for the Delays.

This Episode with my husband the Graphics Expert is looking at some famous and not so famous ‘Ghost Photos’ and whether they are real or not. Expert Analysis so to speak.

Some of our Followers very kindly sent in photos and videos for us to look at. Unfortunately some of them haven’t been possible to post here because I don’t know how to re-post Facebook Videos onto my Blog lol if someone knows how to do it please let me know. I tried to embed the video but it just kept coming out as a photo. Maybe The Poster:Jannel Dunn might be kind enough to email me the footage instead? Anyway, enjoy.

Here are some of the ones we did discuss though.






GHOST MONKEY/ CHILD? (the head peeking around the door by girl on the lefts shoulder)

Ghost Girls

EVEN SPIRITS LOVE A GOOD PARTY: (is it a trick of the light of the Mum of one of the girls at the party?)
Ghost party

I’ve just been taught a valuable lesson.

Today, I found out, I can no longer be friends with my clients. I discovered that no matter how hard I work, I will never be enough for some people and I’ve been left feeling confused, upset and sad.

A few weeks ago I got contacted by someone wanting a reading. Who seemingly was so pleased with what I was offering they wanted their husband read and then her best friend. I started feeling like I’d met a kindred soul. They were so much like my husband and I but they had all this untapped potential.There was something there with the both of them and when they asked me to Mentor them I was shocked and nervous, scared and excited. Were these people going to be the first to learn everything I had been taught. Sure I’d helped people in the past but never had I wanted to sit and teach someone to ‘Hear the Universe’ as much as I wanted to teach this couple. I agreed to Mentor them and we had our first session last week. They were like sponges. I felt like ‘If anyone was going to really listen to what was being said it was these two’ then 4 days ago I was approached by a young man who has such a strong gift he is almost hounded by the Spirits who surround him and he asked me to mentor him also. I took this as a sign maybe this was the time I start teaching because my teacher always said I would end up teaching. Now I didn’t see any harm in this because it was A Couple Who wanted to bring out and enhance anything they had there and or laying dormant for the purposes of guiding and healing others verses a young man who wants to understand how not to be afraid of his gifts and learning to ‘Read’ for people so he can help them and guide them using pure Psychic ability, like I do.

Well apparently I offended my couple by saying this when I did the survey on ‘Would any be interested in taking classes and was it a good idea?’ because I then wake up this morning to a request from PayPal to return all the money they paid and a torrent of abuse and cruel remarks.

Upon trying to ascertain what I had done wrong I was told a few things which I would like to address publicly for the purposes of anyone else who is curious about me and what I do.

One of the things she kept saying was ‘I am a liar’ that what I say about them on my Blog is different to what I say in Private’. Well what did I say? I said they had no gifts per se but I’m charging them to enhance their gifts’ so I’m lying because she has gifts and her gifts are just as strong as her husbands and I don’t know what I’m talking about because she’s been seeing Spirits since she was a kid which I never mentioned.’ Okay so lets address this ‘She told me in one of her first emails, she was a Gypsy. Gypsies are psychic,it’s a known fact.I live in the UK where her Gypsy family are from, they run all the Psychic booths and shops and stalls. it’s a known fact. I had no need to mention it. When I said ‘they have no gifts per se’ I simply meant compared to my young man in Nevada who wants to be a professional Psychic and do readings for people,this couple were going to work together, one in a sort of healing role and the other in a more Spiritual, Emotional Guidance kind of way. Two very different roles, one requiring completely different skills and understanding that the other. They didn’t want to be trained to be a Psychic, they wanted to be trained to enhance the gifts they had which were for him Healing and Natural Telepathy and for her using her gift to Offer Spiritual Counseling or Offering Spiritual Guidance which is like a Therapist but using Spirits Guidance rather than a medical degree. So that’s what I meant.

The gifts that the couple have are for a different purpose than the young mans. Therefore requiring different lessons.

She said I am Ego driven and have no gift. I’m obsessed. All I do is talk about myself.

Well when you ask someone to teach you what YOU know, how can I not? I can’t teach you how I learned stuff without talking about how I learned them and how I used them. I don’t like New Age Spirituality, everyone knows this. I don’t like they can charge some poor soul the earth for a crystal when a rock from your garden does the same thing. It’s not the followers I get pissed off with, but those in the Industry who profit from it.

Everyone knows this. I swear,  rant and I get annoyed. But she had lead me to believe we were becoming friends and I in my ‘Switched off’ mode tried to share my life with her as she had me’. Apparently I am not allowed to share stories of myself when trying to teach someone and befriend them.

As for the Ego thing, well it might be because I said I want to make enough money so my husband doesn’t have to work. So I can pay for Christmas myself and feel like I contributed something.

Let me explain: My husband suffers from crippling depression. It has taken a big strong beautiful man and turned him into someone I don’t recognize. Yet every day he gets up and goes to work to put a roof over out head. Not once complaining. I stopped work to look after him and then we had our boys. I am used to always taking care of myself. I’ve never been a big money earner. It’s not what I’m interested in. But I would like my husband to stay home and paint and take over as a Housewife so he can sleep in, and not worry about the bills for once. His depression was ‘Event based’ Which means it was an event that happened to him that triggered the depression. He becomes obsessed at times, pushing himself to the limit to earn so he knows at the end of the month he is covered. It breaks my heart. So yes I would like to make a decent enough of a living to let him give up and take care of himself emotionally and Spiritually. If we wanted to, we could both work and make so much money we could have savings and buy a house and that in our opinion would mean we were ‘Rich’ lol because having savings and buying a house seems to be The Dream every married could aspire to. I’ve never wanted fame, I could of, I’ve been asked to do stuff for TV and Magazines, but I’m shy, I’m nervous, self critical and can get defensive. It’s not nice, so I keep away. I don’t want to be rich, I just would like to make a living. I want to be able to contribute at Christmas and Birthdays because, well sometimes as a wife and Mother society doesn’t always think your contributing anything and your lazy and get to sit on your ass and shop. So I felt like I was doing well taking the pressure off my husband who always starts to tense up come Oct. Does that make me a bad person?

In essence what this woman did was go out for a meal, ask for seconds, then thirds, and then had a dessert and decided 8 days later she wanted her money back because the meal you gave her wasn’t up to her standards.

She didn’t like the fact that I said her husbands gift was stronger than hers. He has an incredible energy and could do wonders for people and animals especially. He is the one who I felt would get the most work because doing Healing is less scary to people than being read. Even people who don’t believe in the Paranormal will have Reiki and healing. Plus people know now that there is a connection between man and beast and if this man could tell clients what is wrong with their Dog etc…then people would pay for that.

She said she couldn’t understand how learning to read if a card is red or black would teach her to open her gift. Well if you’ve read my blog you know it is the first thing I do with anyone who is wanting to know how to focus on Spirits because guessing the colour is the first step in teaching you how to focus, tune in to your surroundings and also eventually fine tune your Telepathy skills.Telepathy is how Spirit talk to us. She had a week of lessons and was really looking forward to the lesson on Monday when all of a sudden she changed her mind.

She said she had something to teach me and I had lost my gift and was on the edge of darkness and I never responded to all her emails.

Well she did teach me something. She taught me, Never will I teach what I know to just anyone. It had never felt right until they asked me to. It made me so excited that while I wasn’t sure I had anything to teach I realized that I did indeed have a lot to teach. I had always doubted this since my teacher told me and when my young man asked me the other day I took that as a sign. Also I now will have to send a disclaimer with every reading I do so my clients know I won’t be able to enter into any sort of friendship with the people I read because it hurts when they stab you in the back. I know people will say ‘Didn’t you see it coming’ and I will say ‘Kind of but I didn’t think in  a million years it would come from them’.

I feel dirty. I feel my need to want to be in a position to take the strain off my husband has given people the wrong impression of me. To be clear, I’m working casual/part time. You might pay $60 which is more than enough I think, but by the time that is converted into pounds it’s around £32. For 5 days work. I had told this couple that all services I provide from now on (Once they started being mentored) would be free. I said to make a donation on what you thought the services were worth. She paid, She got 7 days worth of services for less than £20 a day. Yes I would like to make more, but not at the expense of being away from my boys. Their education comes first so unless one of us is home for them and their schooling then I will never be working full time. However having said that I still work about 60 hours a week. Just not all for a fee. If I was earning what these Celebrity Psychics earned I would work for free. It’s a shame but I do have to charge a small fee for what I do.

She then added insult to injury by accusing me of being a Scam Artist and ‘I could be a Nigerian Scammer for all she knew’. She is one of only 3 clients to see my face, so she knows this isn’t the case. She said I was ‘probably trying to steal her identity as we speak’. So for every time I sat up emailing her to really late, I sat up to past midnight mentoring her and her husband, for every email she sent and I replied to before replying to even family members, what I was, to her wasn’t enough. She wanted in on my life but didn’t want to know about my life. She wanted to learn from me and what I knew but didn’t want practice the way I was taught. With the cards. And if any of you reading this have been one of the ones I’ve taught this technique to, you’ll know what I mean buy ‘It teaches you focus before it teaches you to communicate to Spirit. She said she knew everything I had taught her. So why ask for more lessons? She said She could learn what I taught her from any good web search. Why come to me then? I don’t get any of it.

I don’t get it.I don’t get any of it. Some have suggested maybe this was her intention from the start. But I hope not. I refuse to believe there are such horrible people out there who sit and pray on other peoples kindness. BUT it proves my point when I say ‘Everyone wants to learn what I know and do what I do but no one wants to do the work needed to learn it and the work needed is so easy but impossible for anyone not on a true path’. And if your intentions for this life aren’t honorable then I guess it’s not for you to learn.

I’m sorry, I’m sad and I’m angry. I’m sorry she misread my intentions and decided it was something it wasn’t, I’m sad I now am too afraid to want to Mentor anyone and I’m angry that after over 24 years of doing readings for people the way I have, I have to now change the way I do it. So now I have to put in conditions to my readings.

I should point out this woman asked for her month back 4 weeks after receiving her readings. She paid for three. All of which she got weeks ago. The last email I got from her was to say She was’ excited about her next lesson as she had so many questions and she might have to make an extra donation’. Even though I had told her ‘No more paying for anything, she was a student now and it was beyond paying for things’. 4 hours later she is complaining to PayPal.

Today is a sad day indeed. I am honestly broken. It might be a while before I write again. I think maybe I should go back to Beauty Therapy.

The Kiwi Psychic and Midwest Ghost Episode 6

Today is about O.B.Es. Explained and how to deal with them.

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