About spiritchild1972

I am a happily married woman with a beautiful family. I'm originally from New Zealand, living in West Yorkshire. Ive Been in the UK since 2001. I am the Baby of 7 kids. I am a Scorpio. I live to love and love to live. I feel blessed in many aspects of my life. I love to travel and am luckily to have married thee most spontaneous man in the world. He's taken me on many interesting adventures and I can't wait to have more.

Got Psychic Kids? Here are some Tips to help them.

If you are a follower of mine and you have been blessed with the patience to sit and read all of my Posts, then not only are you gifted with Patience but you will know I am what is called A Natural Born Psychic. Which means I can trace my Psychic Ability back through many generations of my family as far back as my Ancient Egyptian Ancestry. While my Parents weren’t open about their gifts they talked openly to us kids. I grew up still at a time when you simply didn’t talk to strangers about your ability to see the dead. I’m blessed not to have grown up in a Racist country but it was a very Christian country and being a Catholic Psychic Family was virtually punishable by death of your reputation and social standing. I was a giant, over weight kid who questioned authority if I thought it was wrong, I didn’t need to be a further out cast lol

However, talking about the Spirits we had seen, discussing premonitions etc…around the dinner table was second nature to us. My parents didn’t understand their own gifts but they never ever stopped us from understanding ours.

I was lucky enough to be the only member of my family my Mum asked a reading from. Before she died. That if you knew my Mum was a huge honour for me. After her reading she told me ‘It was quite extraordinary’ and she couldn’t stop asking me questions about what I knew ad understood.

THIS readers is what every parent should be like. I understand more than most what your kids are going through and as a parent of Psychic kids I know how complicated it can be to explain what is happen to your children.

It doesn’t matter if your children are too young to talk or have a limited vocabulary. If they are seeing things you’ll know it. If you know your children are seeing Spirits I have some tips to help you deal with it a lot better so you not only find answers your seeking but you will also help your children to have the same relationship with Spirit as I do which I have to be honest and say ‘Is the best relationship your child will ever have in their entire life’. So here are some Tips and Hints on the things you can do to help your child embrace, understand and keep their gifts.

Now, please remember just because it is a Black Shadow doesn’t mean it is an evil or demonic Spirit. It just means the Spirit hasn’t got enough energy to draw on to manifest.

Okay so here we go.

1) if your child is afraid to sleep in their room at night it is important to give them back the power. I gave my son as I was given, a torch to keep on for as long as they want.

The most important thing about the Spirits that are in the room at night is they aren’t there to frighten your children. They are drawn to their light. All children ca see Spirit up to the age of about 8. It is important they understand that it is perfectly normal to see Dead people and they are only there to get help or to protect your children. The younger the child the closer they are to being Spirit themselves. So newborns are considered Spirits until they can see ad hear and watch. Then they are immortal beings. But they all have that light. Psychic ability comes with a light only the dead and some intuitive people can see. But it is the light that draws the Spirit. By giving your child a torch or lamp your changing the type of light Spirit see. It seems to calm them down. Or tone them down might be the better term. They become less scary to the child.

2) It is VERY important that your child see’s your not afraid and have it all under control. They need their parents and Guardians to be strong so they learn to be strong too. Everything your child is going to learn is through watching you. So it is important that you never show fear. You can be as scared as you like inside but to your children you must look in complete control.at least to your child. If all your dealing with is your average every day Spirits then you have nothing to fear. That I promise you. When your child goes to bed it is important you do this ritual every night. As they grow more confident and aware they will end up doing it themselves. Okay so the Ritual…….

Tuck your child in bed with their security blankets, binkys or toy they love most. Snuggle them in,give them a kiss and say ‘Sweet dreams Baby, and remember we aren’t going to let the Spirits make us afraid are we? Because Mummy/Daddy.Granny etc…. won’t let anyone or anything scare my Baby. Do you hear that Spirits, we know your here and we know your trying to communicate but your scaring my baby/child. Mummy/Daddy/Granny etc…will come and tell you off and put you on the naughty step (basically whatever it is you do to reprimand your child when naughty). Your not allowed to come and play at night. Night is for sleeping and (childs name) needs their sleep because they are only little. You have to listen to me because if you don’t respect what I am saying then I will have to send you away. Day time or in dreams is fine but your not allowed here at night okay?’

Your child will trust that your taking their fear or concern seriously. They will feel safe and confident that you can help them and it means they won’t hesitate to come to you in the future to tell them what is bothering them. My son talks to me about any concern he has now including big worrying ones. When your child knows you always have their back and you will always protect them, they trust you more to talk openly about their visions, concerns and worries. It is actually quite a bonding experience. You can of course use your own words to the same effect but you basically just want your child to hear you saying to the Spirits they see ‘We know your here but scaring them isn’t allowed. So you play by the same rules or you will have to leave.’ This will give your child confidence and make them feel protected. Plus you bond with them. My son and I fight like Cats and Dogs but he told his Dad ‘The only thing I’m scared of is Mum when she yells but she is the only one who makes me not afraid of Spirits and she’s my best Fwend’ (he can’t say his R’s with some words lol).

3) Always encourage your child to talk to you about what they see.Even with a limited vocabulary you know what your child is saying or gesturing. Start as young as you can. Use whatever language you have to in order to get them to open up. Every time they see something, encourage them to talk to you. The reason being is if your child is seeing Spirits, they will be seeing some in their Death State and even being shown things that will happen in the future. You need to get them talking to you so you can help them understand what it is they are seeing. If they are seeing things you can”t explain come to me and I will help you. Especially if your child is like my youngest and comes out with things like ‘Mum a Spirit showed me an explosion in a train tunnel’ and then 2 weeks later a train in Switzerland catches fire. But it can and probably will happen at some point. But trust me, some of them can be scary and confusing so you need them to be able to talk to you any time. It really does help to get it off your chest as a kid even if you don’t want to dealing with any of it. But it is true that a Problem shared is a Problem Halved. I promise you with every fiber of my being, if you can’t figure out what they are being shown come to me and I will help you try to understand it.

4) While your child has been given a special gift that no amount of money can buy,always teach them to be proud, humble and honest about their gift. If your child is allowed to show off and be condescending as a child Spirit will remove their gifts by the time they are adults. But in the same breath don’t let them hide what they are. You can absolutely raise your children to be humble with their craft while confident as well. Some people will react in a completely ignorant and stupid manner,some will embrace everything your child says. But you will have occasions when out in public when your child will say something like ‘Mum that waitresses Dad is standing with her and he wants me to tell her Happy Birthday and I love you’. Now…..you should never make your child feel anything other than relaxed about what they have seen. But what you do next matters. What I would do is write it down on a piece of paper and hand it to them as we are walking out. But my point is, you should always encourage them to use their gift and not to be ashamed of it but at the same time to be socially conscious of the fact that not everyone can handle being around the dead.

Your children aren’t different to other kids, they are just more special. lol I taught my son to look at any kid who doesn’t like him and tries to bully him as ‘they only do it because they are afraid of your light’. It makes him feel sorry for them because they don’t have the Special Light.

5) Encourage them to ask the Spirit questions when they are old enough. It will teach them to interact with them better and when they see Spirits; human side it makes them less afraid. At some point you realize they are someones Mum, Dad, Brother, Sister, Grandparent, Husband, Wife, Sibling, grandchild etc…and they either just want to be acknowledged or they might have a message. If your child can let his/her Teacher, Neighbour, Friend etc..that their loved one has sent a message your child will be bringing Peace to the receiver. So the more information your child can get from the Spirit the more they have to give to the receiver who then can’t deny the message. There are many ways to approach this kind of situation but I find an email,or letter is still the best way to go about it. Write it on our child’s behalf and end it with a ‘If you would like to know more please don’t hesitate to ask’. Then it leaves it open to communication should the receiver want it. But this teaches your child about being responsible with their gift as well.


If you follow these key things not only will you help your child understand without fear what their gifts are and how natural being around Spirit can be but it is a beautiful way to keep a bond with your child because I will never forget what my parents did for me when I was a kid and love them more for the experience. So I guarantee your your children will feel the same way too.

I’m in the process of writing a Children’s book on this very topic.My husband is Illustrating it.When it is done I will be offering it for sale for a very small fee. It will be available for Andriod and Ebook format as well eventually in Paper Book form.  I just need to find the time to complete it lol



My Gift Has Changed. I Appear to Time Slip during Readings now

It seems to be now when I’m doing a reading I am able to Time Slip during the reading. I have found in the last 8 readings I have done not only could I Appear beside the Client while I’m watching them like a Spirit going about something I’m predicting in a reading but I am also able to Time Slip to their Past Life events as well.

I know this sounds crazy because it’s so different to an Actual Time Slip.

I don’t get the Hum or Buzzing like I do a Time Slip in Public. This is while I’m Psychically reading for the client.

Let me explain as best I can.

Before when I read for someone it was like a movie playing out in my mind. I would get images and glimpses often in quick succession and Spirit will fill in the blanks. But recently I’ve been basically transported to the space and time of a particular imagine in the reading where I can not only see everything as though I am actually there but I can smell the smells, feel the weather on my skin and describe what I’m seeing in great detail.

I did it just tonight with a client. I saw him standing outside a building taking a phone call. Instantly I felt the cold air hit my face, (Still do actually) I could feel the snow hitting my face and my face IS cold. I could smell his cologne, I could feel my feet crunching on the gravel. I could describe where he was standing in such great detail he knew exactly where I was talking about. I can touch objects and retain the feel of their fabric. It’s remarkable.

I’ve had two clients who were shown past life issues where I was right there, watching them go about their business in their last life. I could smell the blood, the heat, the screams of the men dying in battle. I could feel the metal of the saw as it cut limbs off. The feel of the cotton cloth she was using to wipe the blood off her face. She was in the heat of battle during the American Civil War. I can describe it in vivid detail because I was there.

The trouble is, I’m never prepared for it so I can’t make sure I take a tablet for the pain it gives me when I come out of it.

As with Time Slips the common thing is my eyes start to go blurry and my real life seems over lapped with the image from the reading. And when I come out of it I am WIPED out. Seriously WIPED out. I can barely move. The Nausea is oh my god…..I can’t even begin to describe it. Nothing takes it away either.

I will sleep like the dead tonight (no pun intended). It has taken over 2 hours for my eye sight to almost repair itself.

There is a down side though.

One of the Clients I read for lost his Mother when he was 9 years old. His Mother was murdered and no one knew to this day what happened and who. I was transported to the room. I witnessed in great detail this poor woman being beaten about the head and strangled. I felt her thinking about her son as she took her last breath. I was able to describe who killed her. I’ve seen death many times before but not like that. I will never forget it. The freakiest part about it all is I swear to God, she saw me. I swear she knew I was there.

I don’t know what is happening to me. I am letting Spirit guide me the way they feel I need it. I accept any experience they give me as being part of my Greater Plan. And I know I can’t interfere with anything I see and I never would but the incredible thing about it all is It isn’t just in a reading now that I can do it. It’s Past Life Readings and Future experiences I’m travelling too. So my Time Slips are without Time.

Ever The Student





I have some messages: Odd Sock Club

I’m being taken over today lol Spirits every which way I look. I can only tell you what I’m being told. Please contact me if your one who these messages are for: I can’t promise I’m going to make sense but I will try as I literally have multiple Spirits trying to talk to me and I can feel myself going. I more than likely won’t remember any of this so please forgive me if anything I say is offensive or upsets anyone. This is not my intention. I’m simply passing on messages. I love you all so much. You all mean the world to me. Please know I’m doing this knowing it is going to take days off me lol But your about to experience me in action lol But I am NOT a Medium. I only do it when Spirit step forward. And my God have they stepped forward.

Okay firstly to Amanda: I have Grandad, he pushed through first. He was like a little bulldog pushing his way through. This man had a job where he was boss lol He may have had a Military back ground or a background of leading men. He is authoritative but so loving. He’s the sort of Grandad that went all out at Christmas for his grand children. He was always full of love and he passed with some sort of stomach or gut issue. I feel like he got something like Cancer in his stomach or Pancreas then it went to his lungs or something. But the gut/stomach is where it started and it spreading is what took his life. He was sick for about 8 months, less than a year and he keeps saying over and over ‘I need to speak to my Manda’. This is his message. ‘You can’t do more than your capable of. You have tried to mend the pieces of a broken family but you have done all you can do. You need to focus on you now and let the rest of them sort it out. You are allowing yourself to be drained by those around you who are negative. Your creative energy is being drained because someone around you is draining you. Your giving so much of yourself to mending others, your forgetting to look after the most important person which is you. Your going to suffer an illness because of this if your not careful and you have things you need to be doing next year. Big things. Your telling yourself it’s because your tired, it’s because your busy your the way your feeling right now is because those around you are draining you. You need to step back and let the world around you fix itself. You need all your energy for next year. He wants you to know he loves you and he has your dog with him. He said you’ve always the apple of his eye. He definitely said Manda. He said Manda before he said anything else. So if your Manda or Amanda or you know who this message is for please can you pass on this message. I feel like this person REALLY needs to hear this message right now.

Next I have a Woman here, she is saying Daphne. She is dressed in Older clothes, from like the 1900’s but what she is saying is really important. She wants whoever it is to know she is getting bring to bring Mum/Grandma over. You know this person is terminally ill so its not a surprise. This woman who is being watched over buy her Mother would be in her 70’s 80s herself. But this Spirit woman looks like she wold barely be 50 if not late 40s. So this terminally ill woman’s Mother died in her 40’s maybe early 50s at least 60 years ago.The ill woman I don’t think had her Mother in her life for very long. But I don’t know if Daphne or Delphine is her name, or the name of her daughters. But the ill lady needs to know that Mum is with her and she is making sure she isn’t scared. She said she is going to be with her every step of the way. I keep wanting to say Mmmm for a name. Mary, Marion, Margret, etc…the daughters name might start with M. This woman is showing me a photo of herself when she was about to be married that still exists and she is wearing a White Blouse with a high neck. Long pencil thin skirt that sits high on the waist. With black boots and she has her hair tied back in a bun. She looks about 18. She said ‘I could of been an actress, I acted in Community Theater but I wanted a family more than I wanted to act.’ She wants her  children and grandchildren to know that Nana/Mum will not be in pain or alone in her final hours and she will be free from pain. Wisconsin means something to this woman and also she is saying ‘Don’t paint with that yellow colour, it isn’t going to look very nice. You’ll regret it as soon as it’s done. It is NOT the colour for you.’


Then I have Michael, my poor Michael who has been with me for Months. I’ve asked numerous clients and Facebook and Tweeted about this poor man. He STILL stands by my bedroom door. All I can tell you is he was in his 30’s, he either had a brain aneurysm and bleed into his brain while he was at home.I think he lived in a Caravan type of house. But it was because of his work.Michael worked outside I THINK in the Lumber Industry. There are machines in his yard. He may have been a Lumber Jack or worked in the Industry but he worked on site or often slept in the company Office which is on site. Because he shows me going in side to make lunch or have a break and next thing he gets this pain in his head and he is on the ground. He keeps talking about blood and his head so I don’t know if he was hit on the head or like I said had an aneurysm but his death was because of his head. He said he was found alive, but died when no one was around. He was moved while alive (I think he is saying he was taken by ambulance alive and died in hospital). His message is so important because he is desperate. This poor man has been standing in my bedroom every night for about 5 months now and I need to find his family. He is desperate for his sister to know he has her baby with him and he is looking after it. I don’t know if she lost a baby or is wanting a baby but he is saying ‘It’s okay sis, I have your baby.’. He wants his parents to sell his stuff. He has no need for his stuff but he wants Dad to have his truck. Coz ‘Dad loves it’. He wants his family to know ‘He didn’t feel a thing. The last he remembers he was feeling tired and took and early break, then he was with Grandpa and (I think) he said Uncle Richard’. Michael is about 6’2 inches tall, not slim, maybe athletic build with muscles. He had soft hands even though he worked with Lumber. He had brown eyes, and he asked me to talk about the scar on his face by his right eye. He played guitar, ‘self taught thank you very much’ lol and he is a gentleman. He has been in my room for months and hardly makes a sound. Please if Michale belongs to you or sound familiar to someone you know please get in touch or pass his messages on. It would mean so much to me.

I also have little Sarah. Sarah is about 10-12 years old.One son says 10 one son says 12, I think she looks about 9-10. But the one thing that confuses us is she sometimes has almost blonde hair and sometimes it is a light brown. But her eyes are brown. She is wearing blue jeans and a pink top with My Little Pony on the top, she also sometimes wears green pajamas with her hair tied back.

I feel she had some sort of stomach disease, because I don’t see any injury but the boys say she was stabbed. Please bear in mind my boys are 4 and 5 and they are still learning to deal with their gifts. They aren’t afraid of Spirit. But sometimes they get so caught up in what is going on they forget to listen or ask questions. But this is what I’m currently teaching them. She may have told them Stabbing pains and at 4 and 5 they took it to mean she got stabbed. OR she may have been stabbed. But I’ve not seen any blood. I just know it’s her stomach that caused her death. She wants her Mummy to know she knows about her baby brother and sister and was with them when they were waiting to be born and she wants her Mum to stop feeling guilty about her passing. There was nothing anyone could do and it wasn’t her fault. But she wants Mum to be happy and she doesn’t want Mum feeling guilty for moving on with her life. She hears her cries and feels Mummy’s broken heart but ‘Mum I died a few years ago (I feel she died somewhere between 10-15yrs ago judging by the way she is dressed). You need to just move on now and look after my brothers and sisters. Your an awesome Mum and you weren’t replacing me. I’m so happy here because I have all these animals to play with and they don’t hurt me.It’s so cool and I still have my Barbie you gave me Mum and I have responsibilities with the animals and I get to hold babies too. I love you all so much but I don’t even get to miss you because I see you every day. If I feel you crying for me I just think of you and I’m right there with you. So please remember, all you have to do is think of me, and I’m right there. I think the blonde hair, brown hair thing is she was blonde as a toddler but went brown as she got older. This might be to help me help establish who she is to her family. She loved My Little Pony when she was little and for some reason she keeps switching from being a toddler to being about 10. But to me I feel it means she first got sick as a toddler. That whatever caused her death started to affect her when she was a little girl around about 4 yrs old. She used to sit on my stairs but she now talks to my boys. She isn’t from this house. This house is only 26yrs old. She sits on my stairs but likes to sit in my boys bedrooms. My youngest said she sometimes sings to him because she loved to sing. It sounded like a Backstreet boys song to me. Does Sarah belong to you?

If you know any of these Spirit Family members,please pass their messages on or contact me on debbiedakiwi@gmail.com

Also there is someone who reads my Blog who is hiding their sexuality to their friends and family. Your being told ‘Everyone knows, your the one who isn’t admitting it. Come out, be out and proud and your life will be happier than it’s ever been, No More Secrets. Your not going to get the drama your expecting.’

Also there is a man with a J name. I think it’s Jeff (he is saying the names, Timothy, Henry, Helen,  but someone who comes into this Blog who has a husband who is suffering emotional issues since he lost the business/job and house. He needs to change his perspective and it will give him ideas and focus. He needs to know that he is not any less of a man because of these things. They are just bits of wood the bank owned because you didn’t own them out right. BUT they are someone elses problem now. You lost a house that needed so much doing to it. It was going to take years to fix and tens of thousands of dollars/pounds. You didn’t even like the house.Now your free to travel the world if you want and you could stay away as long as you wanted because your not being held back by a mortgage or business. You were unhappy in your business. Why be upset about losing a job you were so miserable in? remember you used to dream of being able to start again. Your job and sticks of wood don’t define who you are as a human being.It doesn’t make you the husband and Father you are, nor does it make you any less of a Husband,Son or Brother. You put so much worth into things you can’t take with you when you die so why allow yourself to be stressed over something you never wanted anyway?Use this time to have that new career you always dream about. You won’t even remember being Bankrupt in a few years. You have to see this for the blessing it is. You now don’t have the pressure of paying for a house you couldn’t afford to fix or move out of because it wouldn’t sell in that condition. That pressure is gone. It is no longer your problem. You could just up sticks and move county, or country if you want and nothing is holding you back. You always wanted to see The Pacific and Asia. Save up and go. Put your savings in your wife’s maiden name or something and save for a trip. I say Save up because I do feel you have a job or your just about to start your new job.). But you had a dream for a new career. Go back to school, go to school at night or do online courses. You have dreams, but you were so busy working to pay for your big house which needed repairs, and keeping your job/business a float when you were being ripped off anyway. Now those hurdles have been removed and your free to do all those things you ever wanted to do. Your going to change your job, it will be a better one and will suit your schooling hours. Your just one of these people who has to have certain hurdles removed from their life so they can start all over again with a clean slate. Most people don’t get second chances at life and your being given one. no amount of money or celebrity in the world can get what your about to be given so you need to take the Bull by the Horns and take this new beginning as an incredible blessing because it is a blessing. Soon you won#t be working to survive, you’ll be surviving to work because your going to LOVE your new calling. I keep seeing a Ambulance, so maybe he might have dreams of being in the Medical field. Paramedic, Nurse, Doctor or something like that. But he is the only one holding himself back. His fears are letting him down. He hasn’t lost the love or respect of one single person since everything went wrong which means they loved you for you and not what you had or what job you did. Your legacy isn’t your failings but your triumphs. You have so much more to be proud of and nothing to be ashamed of. Your a victim of the economic times. Your not the first and sadly you won’t be the last. This is this mans Father talking. I wonder if it was a family business that went under. If it is, Dad clearly doesn’t care.

If you know Jeff, or you are Jeff, John, Jimmy, J name, please listen. You have the love of the Universe guiding you. Hold your head up high. Your a good man. You were in the wrong business. You now have the chance to be in the right business. You are loved so much.

I hope all of these messages find who they are intended for. Contact me if they belong to you to see if there are more messages.

Thank you for your time

Love and Light


I would like to Invite You to a Question and Answer Session:

I would like to invite my Readers and Followers to ask me any questions they have. Judging by some of the Search Engine Questions you have a few questions and also some of you are having Dreams they want help to interpret.

Feel Free to Submit your questions and Dreams here and I will answer them ALL for Free. Don’t be afraid. I don’t bite much. You can be Anonymous if you wish.

Also if you have any suggestions for Post Topics. Have I not covered something you would like me to talk about?

Please don’t be afraid to contact me. I do NOT Charge for any of this stuff. Only Readings. Also I’m talking about Questions to do with the Paranormal. Anything you want to know, want to understand, dream interpretation, not of a Predicting nature. I would go against my Confidentiality Agreement. But of you want to know what’s happening in your house or office? Having strange dreams? Ask away.

Can’t wait to hear from you all.